Brokeloser:

Very true misery loves company.No matter what anyone says I'm never getting married.I don't have it in me to stomach bullshit and everyday drama. Whenever I say it people look at me like wtf you talking about bro

I'm getting married but not legally and we are not living together under the same roof , and if we are to live together ( under arrest circumstances) then I'm having another apartment somewhere else for my personal space and time

zenithgroup:
[color=#006600][/color][b][/b]Am considering marriage to have someone to have my back; what do you suggest is the best way to go about it if not marriage?

If you need someone who is going to have your back always, marriage is just not the way to go about it, let alone be the best way.
In ancient times, it might have been an option, if you chose your wife carefully and wisely.
In modern times, women do not grow up to have such mentality.
This world, for 99.99999999 percent of modern women, is about them (and maybe their kids) alone.
Of course, there is the 0.00000001 percent you could count on for such.
But in a world of 8 billion people, your chance of stumbling upon a unicorn is almost zero. You have a better chance of seeing an 80-year-old menstruate, that finding one of these unicorns.

If you need someone to have your back always, I'd start with this fact, no human being can be depended upon 100-per-cent.
A man who puts 100-per-cent trust in people is a man who has decided to cry in the future.
Some people can be very dependable, but never put 100-per-cent trust in any single human being.

That said, let's proceed:

1:
If you need someone to have your back always, start with your mother.
Some mothers can be very terrible, and if yours is, then this isn't for you.
Mothers are typically very emotional about their kids.
Their kids are the only reason women could risk burning in fire.
If you have a good mother and you treat her well, she might gladly lose her life just to protect you.
If you need someone to have your back always, start with your mother.

2:
If your father is the kind lacking in character, this isn't for you.
If your father is the kind who chases hedonistic pleasure his whole life, this isn't for you.
If your father is a blue-pilled man, this isn't for you.
If you have a good father, then he is another person you can depend on to a very larger extent.
History has seen countless cases of fathers running into burning fire, just to save their little girl or boy.
History has seen countless cases of fathers putting on rags, just to put their kids through school.
You can punch a man in the face, beat life of him, cut his hand off, and he still wouldn't cry. But put a man in a position where he can't adequately provide or protect his kids, and you might just see him break down in tears like a baby.
If you need someone to have your back always, be good to your father and cultivate a strong relationship with him.

Now, some would wonder why I placed the mother above the father in this case.
Here's the thing, the love a mother has for the child is a lot irrational than that of the father. If you do some really bad stuff, your father is likely to abandon you. We have countless cases of disciplined fathers disowning their kids.
Many women on the other hand are willing to forgive almost anything.

3:
If your parents produced multiple offspring, the next set of people to look at are your siblings.
However, never automatically count on all siblings.
Some siblings, even from the same mother, could literally be the ones plotting to kill you.
I am only referring to those who have proven to be truly dependable.
If you need someone to have your back always, be good to your true siblings and cultivate a strong relationship with them.
Never sacrifice or diminish relationships with your true siblings, over any woman. I see this happen a lot with blue-pilled men.

4:
People are not only united by family, people are also united by religions, ideologies, causes, missions, etc.
If you're part of a community of men with character and principles who are united by religions, ideologies, causes, missions, etc, your fellow comrades are people you might also be able to count on.
Just like in the case of siblings, never count on just any comrade. Count on comrades who have proven to be truly dependable.
Islam today is a much watered-down version of what is used to be at some point, so we don't see many examples of this today.
However, when Islam used to be undiluted, you dare not kill a Muslim brother, otherwise you'd find an army of Brothers-in-Faith at your doorstep.
We have also started to such examples in the manosphere, although to a lesser degree, men standing up for one another against the court and this gynocentric world.
If you need someone to have your back always, be good to your true comrades and cultivate a strong relationship with them.

If sanity returns back to this world, and women are put in their place, and women are once again brought up properly by strong, disciplined and redpilled father, marriage may probably then return to this list.

Dexter08:
Dear men,
I write after a long while to tell you this, that you are only love for your resources.

Just this week I lost my uncle. I dare say, his death was not as a result of his time coming to an end, his was as a result of losing the qualities that made him a man, husband and father.

Many years ago, he was what men were suppose to be or what men were groomed to be: a provider, a protector, a leader.

But one day things would go awry in 2005 I believe, as my uncle was shot almost 16 times by a gang of thieves on his way to the capital. How he survived all that to the year 2023 is a mystery in itself.

He might later become strong physically after that event, but mentally he never recovered. He lost his job. And losing his job meant he was no longer the provider, the protector, a leader and a beloved father.

This man that was loved by all, became something of a joke in his family. His wife disrespected him, his children cussed him out and sometimes they did not spare the rod on him which normally reverse should be the case.

I am definitely sure all of that frustration surely culminated to his death.

As I sat down thinking about the man, it hit me hard that as a man, you are only love for what you bring to the table. Nobody loves you for your hair, your bodily features.

You are only love for your resources. I dare say even your mothers are not left out.

I write to you today dear men, guard your resources judiciously, ruthlessly most especially when you get to the pinnacle of success.

They will call you stingy, wicked, even close the divide just underneath them. Dear men that shouldn't deter you from being frugal with your resources for should things go awry today, they won't hesitate to shame you and give you my uncle treatment as posted above.

Dear men, you are not love unconditionally, you are only for your resources!!!!

CC to those who assume their wives can be counted on.
Of course she smiles to you, calls you babe, buys you drugs when you have malaria.
But let the shit really hit the fan, your hearth would shatter, when you see how she changes towards you.
You'd try to cry, but then the tears wouldn't come.
You'd try to imagine to imagine how you didn't see her true nature, but then you'd remember this thread.

traware:

@Emboldened

On paper,this sounds all well and good but in reality,this leads to disastrous consequences for communities/societies and especially for the children involved.

All one has to do is to take a peek at the black american community where from the 1970s till present day 80% of them (yes 80%) were and are still being born in single parent households and just look at the sh.itshow that community has become.

What about the black south african community where single parenthood has sky rocketed for decades and look at how that community is hilariously collapsing on itself.

Even here in Nigeria,i have seen the damage and harm single parenthood/co-parenting has caused to children.

I totally admit the reality you stated above.
However, that isn't still a reason to get married.

You could put babies in women stomach, care for the mother and child, and still avoid setting yourself up for the psychological and financial pain that modern marriage brings.
What the child needs is care and for the father to be in their life. The child does not need marriage.
Marriage is for the benefit of women alone, not even the children.

If you plan on procreating, do so without the confines of the construct called marriage.
Even at that, extreme caution must be taken because your battle against the gynocentric world doesn't end there.

Nyascobar1414:


Sh!t is fvking with me mentally, been alone all these days.. Even when vvomen smile with me, when they want to talk to me, it ain't fun like back in the days all I see is deceit,vain things, manipulatiosn etc...

Truly Ignorance is bliss, sh!t will give you true happiness for now and Impending danger 2moro.

Redpill.Redpill,Redpill.. What have you done to a nigga.

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That means you're getting it wrong ,or assimilating wrong respill content , redpill have been a blessing to me and have understood how the world works on a whole bigger and interesting level ,I know what women to deal with,when not and how not to deal with women,I know live life at my own pace ,I don't do too much and I only talk to few girls that seems interested,it's a numbers game but i don't have to deal with hungry girls or gold diggers and leaches, I do the minimum possible and well respected for it now ,even women close by and even my girls comes to me for life advice ,the vibes ,the sex and the advantage to just ignore everyone when I feel like just staying on my own and pull them right back when it's time for fun gives me immense joy ,and you don't have to talk to all the girls on the street ,I'm constantly busy trying to upgrade my finances and standard of living

So I just went women on a daily level and just vibes on with my life and frame while I pick interest in some that I know it's not a public toilet or just want to have some fun while some pick interest in me ,at the end of the day I'm just left with few women who are really interested in me that's Redpill

If you're miserable you need then it's either you don't actually understand redpill or you have a miserable life as a whole ( no offense ) Redpill is not about hating women or demonizing women ,Redpill is about understanding women nature are realising it's not their fault but nature and how they were raised,the quality of her parenting and how you can avoid the scorn of women and enjoy the beat of women and what women can offer

Kaymicheal852:


When you finally get .married with kids for at least 5 years then you can talk about marriage I'd you have never been married before and says the no marriage gang are lost then maybe you're the one that needs to retrace your steps,

I disagree.

Red pill and Game should help you find a better way to enjoy marriage and make it work not to run away from it.

You despise single mothers but you go out of your own way to give different girls babies.

To be clear, you don't necessarily have to sign a document per se.

My point is on building a tight healthy family unit. If you want live with her without actually signing documents no p. Or if you prefer to stick with traditional marriage, no qualms

Point is, best to maintain a family unit with kids for as long as possible.

Miracood2:
I made a post last week about me finally seeing a girl that makes my heart beat very fast.

I was advised by someone here to man up and approach her. Well I didn't! I never had the intentions of asking her out, because I've always told myself that any girl that can make my heart skip a bit, can mess my life up in a second.

We stay in the same lodge (I'm in sch). Somehow we got close without me even spilling crap about love.. I get to handle her oranges at will and grab ass also at will, but she will never let me run my hands down in-between her legs. I'm confused on why it's so. Yesterday was the third time she declined.

The initial love I had done diminish small, my heart no longer beats hard when I see her.

I still like this girl. But I'm considering letting her be. I don't understand why u'll let a guy press you, but don't want him to fucc.

I need advice from experienced kings here.

Pukkalolo

You, my friend, are a simple man.

PETUK:
Don’t be the last guy

Hehehe

Meedon:


You, my friend, are a simple man.

Ok. Yet a fully grown man though. Early 20's. But how would u have treated this case if you were to be in my shoes.

💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always talks to you first.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always makes you smile.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who cracks silly jokes just to make you laugh.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always understands you.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who gives you her effort, that is loyal, committed, faithful and love you unconditionaly.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who is always sacrificing her sleep just to talk you for long hours.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who accepts your imperfections and flaws.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who cries when losing someone, especially you.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who always give her best just to make you stay.
💞𝗞𝗲𝗲𝗽 that woman who really loves you more that herself.

💞𝘉𝘌𝘊𝘈𝘜𝘚𝘌 𝘞𝘏𝘌𝘕 𝘛𝘏𝘈𝘛 WOMAN 𝘚𝘛𝘖𝘗𝘚 𝘈𝘕𝘋 𝘎𝘐𝘝𝘌𝘚 𝘠𝘖𝘜 𝘜𝘗, 𝘠𝘖𝘜'𝘓𝘓 𝘓𝘖𝘚𝘌 𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘏𝘈𝘓𝘍 𝘈𝘕𝘋 𝘐𝘔𝘗𝘖𝘙𝘛𝘈𝘕𝘛 𝘗𝘈𝘙𝘛 𝘖𝘍 𝘠𝘖𝘜𝘙 𝘓𝘐𝘍𝘌.... ✍️✍️

Miracood2:


Ok. Yet a fully grown man though. Early 20's. But how would u have treated this case if you were to be in my shoes.

I would just forget about her or I would give her the cold treatment.

Don't waste time, don't beat about the bush but be direct... And if the road to her is going to cost you a lot then abort mission.
King's don't Simp.

sajmark:
Don't waste time, don't beat about the bush but be direct... And if the road to her is going to cost you a lot then abort mission.
King's don't Simp.

Simple.

Nyascobar1414:


Sh!t is fvking with me mentally, been alone all these days.. Even when vvomen smile with me, when they want to talk to me, it ain't fun like back in the days all I see is deceit,vain things, manipulatiosn etc...

Truly Ignorance is bliss, sh!t will give you true happiness for now and Impending danger 2moro.

Redpill.Redpill,Redpill.. What have you done to a nigga.

Flee from it,just love women,love women bro,if they ask u for something, do it for Dem,joke with them, God created them for us bro,enjoy every moment with them,call them sweet names that will make them happy bro,women are angels. Redpill is ruining the brains of young boys and I feel bad and sorry,cus they don't know what they are involved in

sajmark:
Don't waste time, don't beat about the bush but be direct... And if the road to her is going to cost you a lot then abort mission.
King's don't Simp.

Looking at this picture from a ganjasious persceptive hits differently.

2special:
you're right, in RCCG you can't attain some positions if you're not married but the elective office in Nigeria, I learnt about the New Governor of Benue father is a Rev. Father.

Exceptions abound, but it doesn't nullify the majority.

Besides, the Reverend Father has displayed & still displaying leadership role in his present (private) area of specialization, which means he'll do well as a public office holder.

Israel Adesanya's ex-girlfriend DEMAND half of his wealth!!!


I am laughing in parentheses!!!

Omo... The leftovers are for Simps and they get that as a duty sex. They eat last

Lmao, my friend just told me this. No pity for simps

My reply ⬆️

You can’t pretend to be an alpha man.


No two ways abuh it!

Some peeps fake it online but are foolishly simpish offline; that is disgusting to say the least, who are you faking it for? Online clout or what

I read in Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male - Is the woman who applies make up everyday "being herself”?


Women will say things like: I don't make my hair, wear makeup and dress seductively for men, I appear that way just to feel comfortable in my skin


But that is a fat lie....they do all these things just to seek attention from men.

Most of us were fortunate enough to be born with the Blue pill until the RED pill eventually found us, we should be grateful we tasted the bitter side of women so as to appreciate the REDPILL movement.

Most guys will walk into a marriage thinking "Well I just did what I was always told to do... and I said I do. I was a stand up guy. But I don't understand why she was fucking her Boss."


Men, if you don't value this movement, you will regret it!!

Women are out to rip off men, they don't love without gaining anything, all they are after is how to live off your hard earned money...be wise or doomsday awaits you

REMEMBER - Men are born with nothing with which to buy. Women are born with something to sell

Learn game or PERISH!!

dhiqson:


Mehnnnnn

The second attached image reminds me of that dude, that wrote long response to a gal on why he can't date her.

The same people that were calling the dude out, will turn their blind eyes to this.


Hypocrites everywhere.

Meedon:


We can only be friends kill her there. See this ngbeke ooo

She's playing a (subtle) game, by keeping the guy around in case he 'blows'

Quite obvious with the way she listed his 'hardworking' qualities.

Dude's a potential retirement plan p.k.a husband.

Dexter08:
Dear men,
I write after a long while to tell you this, that you are only love for your resources.

Just this week I lost my uncle. I dare say, his death was not as a result of his time coming to an end, his was as a result of losing the qualities that made him a man, husband and father.

Many years ago, he was what men were suppose to be or what men were groomed to be: a provider, a protector, a leader.

But one day things would go awry in 2005 I believe, as my uncle was shot almost 16 times by a gang of thieves on his way to the capital. How he survived all that to the year 2023 is a mystery in itself.

He might later become strong physically after that event, but mentally he never recovered. He lost his job. And losing his job meant he was no longer the provider, the protector, a leader and a beloved father.

This man that was loved by all, became something of a joke in his family. His wife disrespected him, his children cussed him out and sometimes they did not spare the rod on him which normally reverse should be the case.

I am definitely sure all of that frustration surely culminated to his death.

As I sat down thinking about the man, it hit me hard that as a man, you are only love for what you bring to the table. Nobody loves you for your hair, your bodily features.

You are only love for your resources. I dare say even your mothers are not left out.

I write to you today dear men, guard your resources judiciously, ruthlessly most especially when you get to the pinnacle of success.

They will call you stingy, wicked, even close the divide just underneath them. Dear men that shouldn't deter you from being frugal with your resources for should things go awry today, they won't hesitate to shame you and give you my uncle treatment as posted above.

Dear men, you are not love unconditionally, you are only for your resources!!!!

As much as I can relate to this, some men need to work on their character too.

I've seen men fall from grace into the pit — not even grass;

•• Some of them are arrogant cos many people look up to them for handouts,

•• Some are uncouth & they talk rudely to anybody just because they're earning some coins,

•• Some deter their wives from working, or doing something to earn an income cos they want to lord over her as they like,

•• Some treat outsiders better than their immediate family and/or extended families

etc.


Regardless of what you earn OR who you are, work on your character

Same people you despise today while climbing up the success ladder🪜, you'll still come back to meet them when you slip off the ladder 🪜

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Miracood2:
I made a post last week about me finally seeing a girl that makes my heart beat very fast.

I was advised by someone here to man up and approach her. Well I didn't! I never had the intentions of asking her out, because I've always told myself that any girl that can make my heart skip a bit, can mess my life up in a second.

We stay in the same lodge (I'm in sch). Somehow we got close without me even spilling crap about love.. I get to handle her oranges at will and grab ass also at will, but she will never let me run my hands down in-between her legs. I'm confused on why it's so. Yesterday was the third time she declined.

The initial love I had done diminish small, my heart no longer beats hard when I see her.

I still like this girl. But I'm considering letting her be. I don't understand why u'll let a guy press you, but don't want him to fucc.

I need advice from experienced kings here.

Pukkalolo

Remove your attention

Simple.

AlphaNugget:
You can’t pretend to be an alpha man.


No two ways abuh it!

Some peeps fake it online but are foolishly simpish offline; that is disgusting to say the least, who are you faking it for? Online clout or what

Theory is easy, but action (the practical aspect) seems hard.

Karlifate:


She's playing a (subtle) game, by keeping the guy around in case he 'blows'

Quite obvious with the way she listed his 'hardworking' qualities.

Dude's a potential retirement plan p.k.a husband.

I pray the guy wise up and not commit to her when she hits the wall.

Kaymicheal852:


I'm getting married but not legally and we are not living together under the same roof , and if we are to live together ( under arrest circumstances) then I'm having another apartment somewhere else for my personal space and time

you will get married nd u will not leave under thesame roof with her? and you think u r a smart redpiller? oga she will easily cheat on you

Miracood2:
I made a post last week about me finally seeing a girl that makes my heart beat very fast.

I was advised by someone here to man up and approach her. Well I didn't! I never had the intentions of asking her out, because I've always told myself that any girl that can make my heart skip a bit, can mess my life up in a second.

We stay in the same lodge (I'm in sch). Somehow we got close without me even spilling crap about love.. I get to handle her oranges at will and grab ass also at will, but she will never let me run my hands down in-between her legs. I'm confused on why it's so. Yesterday was the third time she declined.

The initial love I had done diminish small, my heart no longer beats hard when I see her.

I still like this girl. But I'm considering letting her be. I don't understand why u'll let a guy press you, but don't want him to fucc.

I need advice from experienced kings here.

Pukkalolo

chaiii mr miracood2 u can lie

odenkirk:
you will get married nd u will not leave under thesame roof with her? and you think u r a smart redpiller? oga she will easily cheat on you

Cheat on me ,dey play ,so you think a women won't cheat when you live under the same roof lol 😂

You better stop being a troll ,lower your ego and learn ,you might later learn the hard way