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Smartguyboy:
you are not a alone
Mine told me she will be 28 this year and she’s passing out from nysc next week.

stop dating ladies of 26yrs and above if you're not ready for marriage, I even blame those ladies dating you, look for girls of 18 to 23yrs of age, dating a matured lady that has plans for her life u think she wants money from you? Marriage is her only reason for being in any relationship

I didn't know the Nigeria constitution now grant clowns like you right to kill broke n wretched men, so because he's broke n wretched he can not share his experience or what precisely are you wailing about ?

Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since then Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

Same as marriage. You'll see a girl who is jobless with ziltch in her account wanting to get married.

To them it's poverty alleviation.

iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since then Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

I love the way you gave simps an assignment.

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

Oya now.

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

She go still ask you later, you just dey save the monies for her. Like men, every woman have something that is her target at a particular time. Your girls target for now is marriage then the money asking will come later.

badmuskamal:
I concur on this this
[Iquote author=frozen70 post=123181496]

There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him

Thanks dear

Nyascobar1414:
Marriage to vvomen was all about survival..

Women dont love men.

Only Fooools will disagree with this master piece.

Everybody eyes don dey Clear small small😂

No money no honey.. de play

PARADIZEPRIEST:
POVERTY IN AFRCA HAS MADE AFRICAN WOMAN OF TODAY SEE MEN AS SOLUTION TO ESCAPE THEIR POVERTY. THAT IS THE SADDEST REALITY OF TODAY,ESSPECiALLY IN MARRIAGES OF YOUTHS,THE MAN PAYS FOR EVERYTHING:HOUSE, FOOD, MEDS,BUYS CLOTHINGS FOR FAMILY,THE DAY HE IS BROKE,THE WOMAN WILL TOMENT HIM WITH MOCKERY AND INSULTS TILL HE REGAINS HIMSELF FINANCIALY.YET THEWOMAN CANT SPEND A PENNY WITHOUT ASKING FOR REFUND. Oyibo sees marriage as shared responsibility but Africa man(Nigerian man in particular) suffer alone Advice if you are a man in a young marriage make sure you hustle and pray well to remain financially up there,otherwise you will loss focus as the man in charge,especially if you were not born into riches.

Why wont women take from men? I know some women who supported their husbands with money and everything, only for the husband to take a second wife and start spending massively on her.

Entanglement:
in naija there's no difference in dating a girl or a woman!
Both of them are mentally deluded

You need to improve your sense of reasoning

E get why

Offwarp:
See matured answer from a matured girl. See, if u don't marry a loving caring husband that means there is no God. Aswear, ir ans is the best of best for the OP. Moreover, na ur type we dey always should 'good girls are scarce '

Thanks dear

Tayorshd87:
God bless you for this dear
That's such a woman i have a a wife now ..

Lol 😂

frozen70:
You need to improve your sense of reasoning

E get why

There is nothing to improve.

He just told you the bitter truth.

95% of Nigerian Female Gender are all the same.

OBTOREPA:
I would've loved to see your pic. You speak smart.

Lol 😂

fyzaila:
Please you guys shouldn't generalise, if the ones you've been encountering show similar traits of liking you because of your money, believe me there are still lots of them out there who will show you real love and not just for money. Just keep searching and don't write women off because of the few money lovers you encountered.

See this one still dey Drop 1800's Format😂

You better enter street go find Latest Update😂

Evolutionlove:
There is nothing to improve.

He just told you the bitter truth.

95% of Nigerian Female Gender are all the same.

Is alright
What about the male?

frozen70:
Is alright
What about the male?

I'll Cap it at 90%.

Evolutionlove:
I'll Cap it at 90%.

90% what

frozen70:
90% what

You should connect the dots.

I meant 90% of Nigerian Men are all the same.

riverbird:
But the truth is that am not even read for the settling down cos as a man there are alot things that needs to be taking care of before thinking about settling down .

She will soon leave you and move to the next guy who is ready for marriage.

Reminderz:
she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

Guy you don see that Gender finish😂

One tried to Rope me In then with this Format. But as a Sharp Street Machiavellian. I no fit loose Guard.

You will hardly see any Nigerian Lady from a Wealthy/Rich Background pestering an Average Man for a Marriage.

I can never take any lady who doesn't have Assets/Provide Values seriously. Them tell you say Na only Towtow i come this life con Fvck.

I am always One Million Steps ahead.

AKWATGOLD1:
Even the married woman too. If the husband did not put anything on the table, they will change it for the man.

Even married woman?. Na women wey the man marry when everything was smooth

Beolly:
She will soon leave you and move to the next guy who is ready for marriage.

I have no problems with that.

UyaiIncomparabl:
LMAO. . You been wan dey form good girl.

Jokes apart, it’s very orgasmic to have a man that understand your needs, is intuitive, knows when to do things without being asked , understands your pain points and provides optimally to the minutest, has no penchants for drama or its ilks, and is still committed. Tell me, Poco, what else can a woman ask for? Make I see woman wey wan snatch am na.

It’s why I resorted to leaving these dusty and young boys who do nothing but wail and complain everyday like a goat in labour. At least, the old ones won’t stress me. Had enough of these adolescents in adults bodies. The older the berry, the better. My fellow enjoyment woman, I sight you. 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

You go tey for your papa house... That man no go marry you... Enjoyment woman 🙄

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

how old is she? Their mentality changes if time don dey go

i thought a lady can never got this type of sense

frozen70:
There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him

pocohantas:
They don't know. I tasted both and I will pick my man anytime. Based on my previous experience of not collecting or having headache to collect, I was defensive when I started with him. He would offer and I would reject _ virtuous woman isonu!!! He called me up one day and asked how old I am. Then he asked who is the man here. He said, "allow me..."

Omo! Na that day I know say men get different classes!

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Kuku do movie, it as now gotten to the point you are trying so hard to confuse us daily you have a man ... that feeling of incomplete

taaní enyi nwaayï isonu

Gaggii:
how old is she? Their mentality changes if time don dey go

She's in her late twenties......27

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

olosho comot for market. Go marry that girl.

pocohantas:
🍻🍻🍻🍻🍻
🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂

Cheers nne. We no kill person and the man isn't complaining. 🥰🥰🥰

When he marries you, come back to this post.

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

Deferred expectations. Step by step. But definitely she loves you. Love is patient.