Drone95:
which one is struggle to raise kid at old age? If resources is readily available one can raise kids at 40 or even 50. My former principal in school is raising kids at 50 with no stress, he even killed cows on naming ceremonies.

Evolutionlove:


Lol you are taking what a Female Gender says seriously😂

You should know 95% of them are always Delusional. Their Lives revolves around FANTASIES.

nedekid:

She fit de collect the money from ogas at the top while she keeps you for marraige levels. If you know you know.

Moniya4Real:
Very spot on bro. I almost went bankrupt by giving my ex-girlfriend money I don’t even have. I sometimes went out of my way to satisfy her financially, but found out she considers my efforts not being good enough. I almost kicked myself that I should have stopped earlier altogether. Guess what? She still left me , saying that I should use the little I have to manage myself. Now, the money isn’t even coming in again at all

nedekid:

She fit de collect the money from ogas at the top while she keeps you for marraige levels. If you know you know.

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

frozen70:


🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You are very funny honestly

Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

Thebadpolitican:


The simple fact, and most guys live on the denial that they don't


They don't even ask themselves how the said babes that don't ask for money care for themselves

Thebadpolitican:


The simple fact, and most guys live on the denial that they don't. They don't even ask themselves how the said babes that don't ask for money care for themselves

Evolutionlove:


Come back here and give testimony in the next 5years

she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

Quality20:
Since u in relationship ,why not put her on monthly stipend or any financial poverty alleviation measure

lilyheaven:
Go and marry her ooo
Stop wasting her time.
If you don’t want to marry her, tell her now, let her go and settle down with a serious person,
Before your follow human beings will start calling her evening news paper.

Merch:
No reasonable eligible bachelor will date a midnight newspaper like you, stop whining you have no man

riverbird:


I already made it clear that am not yet ready any marriage, marriage is not child's play, right now am not qualified in terms of resources.

pocohantas:


They don't have sense na. Their women do not like money. She be virtuous woman.

If she doesn't have a provider somewhere, then deep down she is not happy. Isn't it the same women typing "God when" on IG when they see posts of men pampering their women? Some guys have just chosen to be stupid in their quest for a good woman. It is just like a woman saying her man doesn't like sex and food. She doesn't give him and he doesn't mind. Does that man exist?

Ajiswaggs:


I once did this before but I later regret it. As soon as she begin making dough, her behavior changes and feeling she has achieve her aim. But today she is back to zero after dem decieve her finish.

lilyheaven:
Na waoh!
So ladies don’t work again,
Or do business?
Lady ask for money, problem
She didn’t ask for money, problem.
Make una the calm down small, haba!

Goalnaldo:
have you proposed to her yet? Please do quickly. That one has sense. Some would still collect from you even after establishing her.

Thebadpolitican:


I give my babe money she is in school, I understand she can't work now

I can only reconsider not giving her money when she is out of school even when she lands a job I will still be doing my best to support her

Most guys are just afraid of spending and the end of the day the lady is not worth it...

I just providing for your gf is a manly responsibility, and the lady obeying your commands as a provider is her responsibility
My own take

zanshi:
I have said it and would say it again

If as a 20something you are expecting romance from your avg naij girl you are better using an Olosho to gum body because not only would these babes starve you of emotions, they would make you question a lot of things and waste your resources. They are serial consumerist buy, buy, buy splurge and waste resources just to show you can.

stevo123:


Me wey don propose sharp sharp, I don go collect list self... No Dulling ooooo

pocohantas:


But they are not afraid of knacking a woman that isn't worth it? Some people are just too illogical. You should do things within your limit. Nobody say make you go buy am house or car. Except buying a car is like buying a phone to you, because men like that dey kwa.

A man without a sense of responsibility is a man no woman is contented with. All these guys claiming their babe is this and that. They should change formula for a week and start being handy, buying her small small suya on his way back from work. Then come back and tell me the difference in her mood, their sex life and the respect she gives him.

Goalnaldo:
omo, may she remain and even improve more and not change after marriage like some of them do in jesus name. Wife material.

vickydevoka:

Lol. I am still waiting for your wedding pics. I promise you 100k anytime you are ready for your wedding whether traditional, court or church wedding

Charlieabc:


Man should be a voluntary giver. I chose to be a giver. God should continue blessing me, the lucky woman deserve anything worth giving. That's why God called me the head.

Laurene:
You go tey for your papa house... That man no go marry you... Enjoyment woman 🙄

Edipet:
you are right, I recently meet a lady that looks so innocent, she is not flaunting on social media as you said, but she looks so innocent and she is a church girl. We chatted for sometime on WhatsApp. I told her we should go for a date she refused she later agree and fix another day for us to meet, on reaching that day, something came up that I couldn't suspend to meet her, in the evening I chatted her up to explain why I couldn't come for the date. she opened her mouth to tell me that am giving excuses so that i won't buy food for her, next thing she Said was that she doesn't relate with people who are not beneficial to her. After like one week I discovered that she has blocked me.

Thebadpolitican:



I don't know why guys feel they are not the head anymore and not the provider.


If she is demanding beyond your means then na you go wetin pass your power then allow go, our African traditions man are the providers, women are helpers, but the men saying they don't want that anymore they want equity

Flawless18:
so I should be working for another human to glow while I wrinkle right 🤷 A man dies at 55yrs and his wife die at 95yrs enjoying all what the man toiled for and enjoy alone what the children brings later in life after the man must have paid school fees and all. E be like say werey Dey your brain. Anyways, as a man, if like work all your ass off to impress a woman shogbo, don’t enjoy your life with your money. E go clear for your eyes

pocohantas:


Heya. Despite not collecting money, still no marriage. Maybe vickydevoka that likes women who don't take money would marry her. If not, I bet she would learn life and men the hard way.

Thebadpolitican:


I know men who sponsored their girl friends in the university and still got married to them,

Most of this guys don't have longterm plans with their gfs because if they do they will try to fix them up. Spending on a lady shouldn't be a bad thing, unless she is demanding beyond what you can offer and as such you let her go