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Moneyboyz:
I gave a girl 200k for something she claimed she really wanted my help for, 2 days she didn't text to say thanks or check up on me.
3rd day she texted by 1pm asking if everything is okay. I broke up with her right there and all she can say is ALRIGHT.

After like a week when her mouth dry, she texted me saying I just shenk her like that leaving her broke. I was furious, she started playing games to make come back but I no gree.

Na their way naw Fvcking Entitled Bictchees.

You Men are the Main Cause of this Menace.

Why would you just dash A grown adult with functioning all part of bodies money because you both engage in a Sexual Exercise?

If it's for other Reasonable Things like Emergencies, Shelter, Education, Or Life Threatening Issues. I don't mind.

200k that some Men wey dey Hustle night and day never see Put together at once. Mtcheeeew.

vickydevoka:
The message is for all the ladies in general

Give it to them personally and give them the 100k too. I am sure there are good women in need of 50k, you didn't give them, but you want to give me for my wedding pictures. That is how life is. I hope these women are learning.

vickydevoka:
My friend’s salary was 550k before he wed but lost his join two months after his wedding. Since 5 years he hasn’t gotten another job. So receiving big amount of money doesn’t guarantee steady flow of income anything can happen in as much as you don’t owe the company. That’s why a wise man will always go for a woman who has potential or a career woman

We are not saying your lady should not work but providing for your ff and wife is a not bad, it's cultural unless you are thinking otherwise

But what is even wrong with the guys on this platform?

It seems every single time you lot seek different ways to insult and make women look bad.

It really isn’t by force.
You can choose to be by yourself. Perhaps, until you find that understanding girl that won’t ask for a dime while you expect her to be the perfect fit for you or if you can’t find her, you pick up some clay and do the moulding

emmanuelewumi:
Yet when the children starts making money, it is the mother they will spend it on.


By that time the man won't have money and energy to hustle again.


And majority of the women would have manipulated the children against the man.


As a man, while hustling remember to invest for the future oooooo, e get why.

At old age the children give their mom money rather than their father because most times the mother is younger and have more strength to use the money to do something, and if the father is young we as the child belive that he can still hustle for himself
So we give our mothers the money because eventually she and her husband which is your father will still enjoy it but if you give your father he fit go use am drink beer


I send my step mom money rather than my father, because I belive my step mom needs it more for her children which is my siblings, and my dad can still hustle to make his own money

We men since ancient times has always been second class citizen when it comes to our home

Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

You forgot to include your dad also

Ajiswaggs:
I once did this before but I later regret it. As soon as she begin making dough, her behavior changes and feeling she has achieve her aim. But today she is back to zero after dem decieve her finish.

Is what I am saying if women start making their own man, the command you have as man will be challenged by her, the happen for Benin, women owns their house just as their husband, you can't abuse her anyhow na because say you be man

Evolutionlove:
Na their way naw Fvcking Entitled Bictchees.

You Men are the Main Cause of this Menace.

Why would you just dash A grown adult with functioning all part of bodies money because you both engage in a Sexual Exercise?

If it's for other Reasonable Things like Emergencies, Shelter, Education, Or Life Threatening Issues. I don't mind.

200k that some Men wey dey Hustle night and day never see Put together at once. Mtcheeeew.

Absolutely spot on!

Reason why I don't listen to all their foolish complains.

Honestly, I have no problem giving women money/gifts and the likes but sensibilities requires that she must have been vetted:

Common sense questions like:

Does she love you,
Have an interest in your future,
Plans with you,
Encourages you to be a best part of your self.
Interested in your financial growth.
Ready to walk through fire with you peradventure shit hits the fan.
And most importantly spends on you on her own resources (which in my own understanding is the ultimate test of a woman's love given how they are naturally stingy with money).

All these can be gauged by words and actions of closely observed.

But no, an average Nigerian man will take interest in a girl and start throwing money at her to gain her acceptance regardless of whether she likes him or not and tomorrow the same apes would come here to complain that Nigerian women are entitled.

That's how they keep opening threads about hook up when they encourage it.

Fools!

Y'all created your women.

Enjoy them in peace please.

Evolutionlove:
Lol and the PotBellied Ogas be Banging the Nonsense & Shiiits out of her goddamned body.

Lol, you Sabi wella.
I have potbelly too..

You aren't alone bro...I thought it was only me

E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks ;.. You aren't alone bro

Thebadpolitican:
At old age the children give their mom money rather than their father because most times the mother is younger and have more strength to use the money to do something, and if the father is young we as the child belive that he can still hustle for himself
So we give our mothers the money because eventually she and her husband which is your father will still enjoy it but if you give your father he fit go use am drink beer


I send my step mom money rather than my father, because I belive my step mom needs it more for her children which is my siblings, and my dad can still hustle to make his own money

We men since ancient times has always been second class citizen when it comes to our home

So you expect the man to hustle at over 60 years of age


The Koko be say as you are providing and paying bills, make sure you have Investments that will take care of you at old age.

E get why.


Women will always find their way

Karnice600:
Don’t forget your mum and sisters also fit into the group “women”.
Now have a rethink. I wanna believe this was a hasty remark.

It wasn't hasty, believe me, it will always end with what have you done for me, even if you kill yourself.

If you like give her your all, any day you stop, you will be tagged wicked and heartless.

your mum and sisters are family.

emmanuelewumi:
So you expect the man to hustle at over 60 years of age


The Koko be say as you are providing and paying bills, make sure you have Investments that will take care of you at old age.

E get why.


Women will always find their way

Like I said if the man is young, a 60yrs old man is not young, but regardless many 60yrs have business that they still control and fatch them money till they die. But it's not like that for women, and we as children know this so we tend to give money to them instead of pups

pocohantas:
Give it to them personally and give them the 100k too. I am sure there are good women in need of 50k, you didn't give them, but you want to give me for my wedding pictures. That is how life is. I hope these women are learning.

No worry when your girl they work and she nor dey obey your command again because she owns her money na you go still complain say them they rude
At that time you go they find the one you fit use money control

Come to benin to look for working class ladies
Who are educated, hope you can put up with their pride?

UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't even understand why women will go into a relationship with a man who's not ready for marriage. I can't wrap my head around it. They date these men for years and later on when they think they are ready, these same men will never still be ready. As a woman in her mid-20s, what business do you have dating a man for years? As an intentional woman, the least time you should spend dating a man is 6 months - 1 year (this is even an overkill). That is how you separate the weed from the chaff. Let them call you desperate, it’s okay. Except you aren’t very marriage-oriented and don’t mind dating for long, then disregard my advice.

Mr man, you are a time waster and I'll implore you to leave that woman alone for a man who is ready.

So all the men you’ve dated were ready for marriage? Right from secondary school down to where you are now?

Thebadpolitican:
Like I said if the man is young, a 60yrs old man is not young, but regardless many 60yrs have business that they still control and fatch them money till they die. But it's not like that for women, and we as children know this so we tend to give money to them instead of pups

What one needs at old age is investments that will bring passive income, how competitive can an old man be in business at over 60 years of age



The problem with the men who are not initiated is that they spend and invest everything they earned in their productive age on their children and wife, without anything for themselves to fall back on.


In that situation they will be at the mercy of their wives. Because at old age the mothers control the family and the children, due to the fact the man does not have the earning power which gave him the ability to provide hence the respect he enjoyed when he had regular cash flow

Thebadpolitican:
At old age the children give their mom money rather than their father because most times the mother is younger and have more strength to use the money to do something, and if the father is young we as the child belive that he can still hustle for himself
So we give our mothers the money because eventually she and her husband which is your father will still enjoy it but if you give your father he fit go use am drink beer


I send my step mom money rather than my father, because I belive my step mom needs it more for her children which is my siblings, and my dad can still hustle to make his own money

We men since ancient times has always been second class citizen when it comes to our home

U made no sense.

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

That's because she wants marriage. Wait till after marriage.

Ungodly:
So all the men you’ve dated were ready for marriage? Right from secondary school down to where you are now?

One time waster spotted.

If you understood the context of my message, this question wouldn’t have been asked. If you have younger sisters, you can tell them to date the men in their lives till Jesus comes. Who cares? Enough said.

vickydevoka:
Women emotions can never be hidden. This is their only weak point. You can tell.. I have 4 sisters plus cousins that I lived with while growing up. Just tell one of them your flat nyash and you will see them shuffling around the room with mirror right infront of them

The same way you tell a man he is 2 minutes man or his thing looks like centipede.
Better still he shoots empty. He will organise guys to rape you. Which one hits harder?
In some countries, nyash is not their thing. Asia to be specific. Hard to see an Asian going for butt surgery. Its not a beauty standard( excluding India for some reason though they are not butt enthusiasts). This nyash thing na Africa.

Thebadpolitican:
No worry when your girl they work and she nor dey obey your command again because she owns her money na you go still complain say them they rude
At that time you go they find the one you fit use money control

Come to benin to look for working class ladies
Who are educated, hope you can put up with their pride?

Who are you to command your girlfriend or even a wife?
Is your self esteem that low you have to ride on others to feel valued?
What I read here sometimes.

Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

How much dey ur account?
Dating a man no be charity work o. Hustle ur own money

descarado:
The same way you tell a man he is 2 minutes man or his thing looks like centipede.
Better still he shoots empty. He will organise guys to rape you. Which one hits harder?
In some countries, nyash is not their thing. Asia to be specific. Hard to see an Asian going for butt surgery. Its not a beauty standard( excluding India for some reason though they are not butt enthusiasts). This nyash thing na Africa.

Why are you stressing on this nyash thing. Ok!! I'm sorry it also hit you in the wrong place

pocohantas:
Give it to them personally and give them the 100k too. I am sure there are good women in need of 50k, you didn't give them, but you want to give me for my wedding pictures. That is how life is. I hope these women are learning.

As we all know Nairaland is a faceless forum, A platform where people connect together by giving their opinion on a particular subject matter. In as must we haven't seen each, we need evidence in everything we do. You wedding pics is just a proof for me to see you are married or better still your wedding card ( though people can manipulate this). By so doing I will be able to gift you a token of 100k and above as the case may be. But since you say your level is higher I will make it 300k for you to appreciate me a bit

UyaiIncomparabl:
She will still bill you. Even more than the urgent 2k will. Except she's just self-sufficient or trying to play the “good girl” card. It's delusional for you to think a working-class woman won't ask you for money. Not trying to sound condescending here, but it's the truth.

So, in essence, every woman - notably Nigerian women - always ask for money?
And the only exceptions are the only duo category you gave above?
And the self-sufficient ones are rapidly going into extinction!
When the females playing the 'good girl' card also have the end game of extorting and milking dry guys just like the Nigerian politicians stealing money meant for general good for personal use.
It appears Nigerian girls' greed and close-fisted stingiless are exceedingly difficult to understand.

vickydevoka:
As we all know Nairaland is a faceless forum, A platform where people connect together by giving their opinion on a particular subject matter. In as must we haven't seen each, we need evidence in everything we do. You wedding pics is just a proof for me to see you are married or better still your wedding card ( though people can manipulate this). By so doing I will be able to gift you a token of 100k and above as the case may be. But since you say your level is higher I will make it 300k for you to appreciate me a bit

I owe you no proof of my personal life. I expect you to have the sense to figure that out. If you like, go take a seat and sit at Ikoyi registry. Don't face your life and make something out of it. 300k indeed.

emmanuelewumi:
What one needs at old age is investments that will bring passive income, how competitive can an old man be in business at over 60 years of age



The problem with the men who are not initiated is that they spend and invest everything they earned in their productive age on their children and wife, without anything for themselves to fall back on.


In that situation they will be at the mercy of their wives. Because at old age the mothers control the family and the children, due to the fact the man does not have the earning power which gave him the ability to provide hence the respect he enjoyed when he had regular cash flow

Life I belive is balance that way, most times at that age our mothers are the ones taking care of our old fathers because they are younger and men at that age tend to fall ill faster than the women

At an old age the man are not bothered who controls the house anymore. They will leave everything for their wife. The children will still be tipping him some cash too for his own pocket

See in this world when it comes to family women are more favored, it's nothing we can fight even nature agrees to it, by men dying early than their wives

descarado:
Who are you to command your girlfriend or even a wife?
Is your self esteem that low you have to ride on others to feel valued?
What I read here sometimes.

If she doesn't take my command then she will pay her bills herself and also leave my house

Simple

ogbe88:
U made no sense.

Explain why you think so

Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

Hello dangote daughter!
U get money, why u dey look for men wey don made?

God gave all of two hands and two legs, why u wan dey leech on men to survive? Na poor girls dey loud pass for here.

If the saying that what a man can do, a woman can do beta. Be the next folunsho alakija na

MrAndre07:
So, in essence, every woman - notably Nigerian women - always ask for money?
And the only exceptions are the only duo category you gave above?
And the self-sufficient ones are rapidly going into extinction!
When the females playing the 'good girl' card also have the end game of extorting and milking dry guys just like the Nigerian politicians stealing money meant for general good for personal use.
It appears Nigerian girls' greed and close-fisted stingiless are exceedingly difficult to understand.

Na so we see am o!

So, pick your poison amongst them and live happily ever after. It rains everywhere.