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Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves....

Karleb:
I'm telling to shut up because your claim is baseless and have no stance in Christianity.

David Oyedpo courted his wife for 6 years for instance and their marriage is one of the most celebrated in Nigeria Christianity.

As long as you don't break the rules, the number of years in courtship is inconsequential.

The fact that your pastor doesn't like it is you and your pastors problem. So please, SHUT THE FUCCK UP!

Ken4Christ:
You are entitled to your opinion. Bishop David Oyedebo is not the yardstick for standard

doggedfighter:
Keep quiet,there !

Senseless talk.

See how you allowed them rob a young man like you ability to think and reason.

From your posts I can see your learning pastoring business.

Rubbish !

Karleb:
You people are kids sha.

POS has been for more than 5 years and people used it very well.

I remember how popular it was in school then and I graduated in 2018.

Karleb:
You are also entitled to your own opinion too.

Bring out Bible verses that condemn long courtship or forever hold your peace.

Femisol:
This person no kill us with laughter

It is so common amongst people in rural areas

Blessed4sure:
Okay, our elder Sir,

I graduated in 2016 from OAU, in Osun State, and never used POS throughout.

I wouldn't know if it was popular in places like Lagos though.

Ken4Christ:
If you like, court for 20 years. It's purely your business.

Karleb:
Bro, is 2016 5 years ago? You need to grow up.

POS was popular in AAUA especially in 2018. Even student did it as the business was very fast.

Just shut it with your bad belle and get a life.

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

xpressionx:
I have already detected a lie in this story.

Lemme observe and you others who will


Was POS popular six years ago?

OP suffery dey lie

Blessed4sure:
Bad belle?, because it adds anything to my pocket, right?

Granted I made a mistake with the duration, but it's not your business to tell me to grow up. And there's no assurance your life is in any way better than mine.

My first comment was not even to disprove the guy's assertion. I only pointed out that the business started at least five years ago.

And I gave allowance in my first comment to you, by saying it's possible POS business could have started in Lagos by then. I was even throwing banters with you.

It's a pity many Nigerians can't have decent and intelligent conversations without being abusive. Please stay off my mentions and get a life too.

Nobody must question anything. Asking simple questions must be bad belle.
No wonder the country is like this. One begins to wonder whether na low IQ things ,or the frustrating economic situation.

Karleb:
I don’t care whether your life is better than mine. But I hate it when people look for loop holes in stories especially when the owner of the story when is worried and needs support.

Na you dey shout low IQ and Buhari economy but you forgot were dissing him by calling 2016 five or six years ago. No lele now.

Anyway, 2016 graduate no be pikin again, no dey behave like teenagers for serious online space interactions.

Blessed4sure:
Never mind, dude. You have won.

But don't spend all your life on Nairaland, try to check out forums like quora and see what people's mentality is, who are not Nigerians. Perhaps you'll be able to see that asking simple questions doesn't correlate to bad belle and finding loopholes. My first comment was just to correct someone else's mistake, not even the OP's. Until you carried it on your head like gala.

I initially thought it was someone I could exchange words with, in a decent conversation.

Knowing how to calculate 2023 - 2016 is now the definition of maturity.

Oshey, calculator, wey no dey make mistake.

Karleb:
Baba, no vex.

Na that Ken4Christtt guy provoke me, na why I probably transfer the aggression.

Ken4Christ, you sef no vex.

Make una two follow me abeg.

xpressionx:
I have already detected a lie in this story.

Lemme observe and you others who will


Was POS popular six years ago?

OP suffery dey lie

xpressionx:
I have already detected a lie in this story.

Lemme observe and you others who will


Was POS popular six years ago?

OP suffery dey lie

sharpwriter:
You see your last phrase, "false hope givers" is very correct.... They are liars propagating non existent faith.

Saviola86:
So today I had to call my resident pastor to order.

I am a 30yrs old guy and in a relationship with a lovely lady of 25. It's been 6 good years together building and improving ourselves.

I come from a family where nobody mounts pressure on anybody especially on marriage issue. My parents are so liberal that they trust our judgements and allow us to marry from anywhere we find love despite fact that we are igbos.

I and my fiancee have been through different stages of life because she was 19 when we met, I was a dead broke ass graduate then without a job and still going from one interview to the other. I was so broke that my young fiancee then was the one giving me money to go for the interviews (she was running her mom's store then). Aside that she would bring food and sometimes get me clothes. When I say I was broke, I mean totally broke

God did it I secured a job of 60k a month and a year later got a more improved job of 100k. I don't drink and don't spend recklessly, I was able to save and began a POS business which my fiancee 20yrs as at then was running for me in her mom's store while I was working. To Cut long story short, my fiancee is in her 300L now in school while I have ventured into other business and I can say I make about 500k monthly combined.

On reason why I caution my pastor, in church I am one of the youth leaders and a key figure and most of my friends or mate in the ministry are married and my resident pastor took it upon herself to always use me for jokes or call my name from the alter to go and marry.

You'd here bro sososo go and marry and the congregation will laugh, during meeting you will hear word like don't be like bro sososo who wants to become a grandpa bachelor.

Once any member marries you will hear bro sososo we are waiting ooooo.

Like I don't find that funny, she is mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I don't like. Will she be the one to take care of my family?

Sometimes she goes as far as introducing a sister in the church to me.

So today I had enough, called her after service and told her my mind. I know she will feel disappointed but for my mental health I needed to put a stop to that rubbish.

My friends in church are married and to be sincere they look like shadow of themselves.

My fiancee is in school, she was there with me during tough times, she built and grew with me and even in school she is also learning a trade and preparing for life after school. We agreed to marry immediately after she graduates (next year) and so far everything is going as planned

SimpleGuy001:
You married now? Abi you still posting the innocent girl