bukatyne:


The favor I understand here is not sex related.

Old women get natural favour and help from the world. It is like she's 18 - 27 again.

Even Biblically, there is no emphasis on caring for widowers (who we assune would be older men) like there is for widows.

On this same NL and in the real world, men often complain how they are 'abandoned' in old age, not reaping the fruits of their labour while their wives are jetting from country to country doing omugwo.

Women also tend to build emotional relationships they can leverage on in old age.

Okay. I have to agree with this that older women get more favours (unrelated to sex).

He pain am😂😂😂

ajakuai:









Educated illiterates who don't read to understand. Tueh!

Shame just leave you dey catch me for you.

Acidosis:



It's okay to say that women become less dependent as they age. I'll agree.

But to say that women look better as they age is flawed. No man will touch a 65 year-old woman with a long pole, except her husband and ritualists. Many simply retire to face their children.

Oh honey. You will be surprised. Hehehehe

That’s all I have to say

Acidosis:



Okay. I have to agree with this that older women get more favours (unrelated to sex).

Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

Three Reasons why STDs are on the Rise in Nursing Homes
Research by AARP over the past five years has revealed that roughly 80 percent of all Americans between 50 and 90 are sexually active. And these numbers hold equally true in nursing homes and assisted living facilities. Florida ranks among the top five states in the country for sexually transmitted diseases among older adults. This statistic may not be all that surprising, given that Florida is one of the top retirement destinations in the country. However, this presents unique challenges for seniors who reside long-term care facilities. One of the hardest things for researchers to determine is why so many seniors are contracting STDs in nursing homes. Here are just a few of the top theories.
Reason #1: The Safety Myth
One common problem in nursing homes and assisted living facilities is the myth that STDs are for the young. Many seniors grew up in a time when venereal diseases were very rare among the general population. Further, because STDs were far less prevalent in decades past, many seniors may simply not be as educated and informed about prevention measures and condom use. These create a scenario where seniors have a false sense of security when engaging in sexual relationships.
Reason #2: The Pregnancy Myth
Seniors who came of age 50 or 60 years ago lived in a culture that largely rewarded chastity, because promiscuity carried one common threat – pregnancy. Although STDs were not as common, pregnancy has forever been a natural consequence of sex. Therefore, a lot of seniors, especially women, may feel empowered following menopause. There is often a renewed sense of femininity and comfort knowing that pregnancy is no longer a possibility. Unfortunately, some seniors have fallen into a false sense of safety and therefore fail to consider practicing forms of safe sex.
Reason #3: Little Blue Pills
The invention of new medications like Cialis and Viagra has awakened the spirit and libidos of countless men around the globe. This is not limited to seniors living in the community. Every year more and more older adults residing in skilled nursing facilities receive prescriptions for Viagra and Cialis

djon78:



I have close family relatives that are in this age range you are saying.

A 65 years old woman is already a Granny
Where she get time for Love? Where?
They don't even have time for sex again

But a 75 years old man healthy can still be very Hot and still attract even younger women

I am not even talking of 65 years old men here

The secret for every man is to begin early to take proper care of his health and body

Latest from 30s they should start eating Clean
Excercise regularly
Do regular medical check up

Anyone that does this will still be balling in his 70s

I learnt this from my Dad
He will be 80 in 2 years time
But has been sound physically
Not on any medication
You can take him for a 65 years old
Because of good choices he made from early years
Never seen him taking alcohol
Very choosy in eating

Even so much stronger than my mum who is early 70s
Infact my Dad is the one that takes care of her
Because all of us have left home
Except the Nanny that comes within the week to clean and Cook for them

And you believe the 70 yrs old granny will not start early to take care of herself?
A 70 yrs old man isn't granny too?
Drs will advice a 60 something years old man to slow down if he is fortunate enough to be still pumping. Young girls that marry them know what they are after. Yet to hear an old woman die on top lovemaking. It's the other way round.

Simple answer, tired of this debate. Check out pictures of nollywood female and male actors from age 60 upwards.
Women most of the time suffer from pregnancy to childbirth complications that may affect them which is not their fault. Aside that, these ladies are balling. Both in and out of bed. Eg, look at Chris jenner and her young African American dude. I also read a lot about ita giwa.
It's still Nigerian boys that go abroad and marry these so called ancestors or don't they cuddle and make love?
Never compare. When you go forciuples seminars, you will hear what uou won't hear in public or stay near older women.

cococandy:


Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

The only time they agree is when it is negative. Then they will say these older women are fvking around like women always wanted to. I saw one say it is women's true nature to fck around. When it is men, they are polygamous and should be tolerated. But if na woman, naso them go use anger and frustration dey type because woman knack.

pocohantas:


The only time they agree is when it is negative. Then they will say these older women are fvking around like women always wanted to. I saw one say it is women's true nature to fck around. When it is men, they are polygamous and should be tolerated. But if na woman, naso them go use anger and frustration dey type because woman knack .

I don’t know why it’s upsetting to people. This has to be studied

pocohantas:


The only time they agree is when it is negative. Then they will say these older women are fvking around like women always wanted to. I saw one say it is women's true nature to fck around. When it is men, they are polygamous and should be tolerated. But if na woman, naso them go use anger and frustration dey type because woman knack.

I read this and I burst into laughter while imagining the look on your face and the kind of voice you will be using to say the bolded if you were facing them physically.

You know that kind face


Ordinary knacking ooo

cococandy:


Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

Truer words have never been spoken

aariwa:
she school for Edith, abi you know am as runs girl then?

which school is Edith? which state?

owunabastard:
this lady looks familiar. is she from ogidi Anambra state? and school in Esut?

Ogidi ? Yes. Amobi family

Esut ? no idea

cococandy:


I don’t know why it’s upsetting to people. This has to be studied

It is just like babies who feels they are the only ones entitled to cry, reason when most babies cry and you as an adult mimic crying, they would stop and stare at you with that face "who the heck gave you the right to cry".😂😂😂😂😂

owunabastard:
which school is Edith? which state?

sorry I meant ESUTH its all these autocorrect typos from phone

cococandy:


Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

Here, she will even get a relationship if she so desires.

These people are more sexually active than some of us. That's what I've been trying to tell Acidosis and his friends.
Infact, these people know how to enjoy life more than us.

descarado:

And you believe the 70 yrs old granny will not start early to take care of herself?
A 70 yrs old man isn't granny too?
Drs will advice a 60 something years old man to slow down if he is fortunate enough to be still pumping. Young girls that marry them know what they are after. Yet to hear an old woman die on top lovemaking. It's the other way round.

Simple answer, tired of this debate. Check out pictures of nollywood female and male actors from age 60 upwards.
Women most of the time suffer from pregnancy to childbirth complications that may affect them which is not their fault. Aside that, these ladies are balling. Both in and out of bed. Eg, look at Chris jenner and her young African American dude. I also read a lot about ita giwa.
It's still Nigerian boys that go abroad and marry these so called ancestors or don't they cuddle and make love?
Never compare. When you go forciuples seminars, you will hear what uou won't hear in public or stay near older women.

We are talking of reality here and you are bringing Hollywood celebrities like Kris Jenner who God knows have done plenty cosmetic surgeries. Even celebrity preacher like Joyce Meyer has done plenty plastic surgery

So those ones are just exception, they are wealthy, worth millions of dollars.

I am talking of 65 years old around me that I have observed, not celebrity or Hollywood celebrities who are just one in a million

As for all those old Mama's coming for our young men
It's boredom and loneliness that is disturbing them.
Most of them there relatives like children are all minding there business. So they go for young boys here who use them as transactional ticket to get papers and migrate.

I know how lonely abroad life can be, even my sister that relocated with her family to Canada via PR couldn't stay after some months the first time she went there
She came back with her kids couldn't bear the boredom and loneliness then went back after staying back here for a year to prepare herself. Later went back, now have gotten her citizenship and passport.

She complained the kind terrible loneliness that was over there when she came back first time.

So all those Grannies that come looking for our boys do so to curb loneliness.

cococandy:


Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

Most men don't care about sex lives of women like that, they're just scared of getting stuck with raising another man's kid. Tuface himself did it, his sons were almost grown before he went to claim them from the sucker cuckold who mistakenly thought he'd fathered them.

djon78:



We are talking of reality here and you are bringing Hollywood celebrities like Kris Jenner who God knows have done plenty cosmetic surgeries. Even celebrity preacher like Joyce Meyer has done plenty plastic surgery

So those ones are just exception, they are wealthy, worth millions of dollars.

I am talking of 65 years old around me that I have observed, not celebrity or Hollywood celebrities who are just one in a million

As for all those old Mama's coming for our young men
It's boredom and loneliness that is disturbing them.
Most of them there relatives like children are all minding there business. So they go for young boys here who use them as transactional ticket to get papers and migrate.

I know how lonely abroad life can be, even my sister that relocated with her family to Canada via PR couldn't stay after some months the first time she went there
She came back with her kids couldn't bear the boredom and loneliness then went back after staying back here for a year to prepare herself. Later went back, now have gotten her citizenship and passport.

She complained the kind terrible loneliness that was over there when she came back first time.

So all those Grannies that come looking for our boys do so to curb loneliness.

I talk about reality where I live and interact and yes, older women enjoy life more than older men both sexually and otherwise.
Men get erectile dysfunction as they age. Digest that. Unlike women. In Nigeria, culture and religion hold widows back. And the chain is breaking. She is not afraid of pregnancy or otherwise, just enjoying life.
Yep, life favours women as they age more than men. For those men who can still get it up in their 60s, kudos to them. The worst is this generation of concoction drinkers and smokers living aggressive lifestyle.
I think I've flogged this topic enough.

descarado:

I talk about reality where I live and interact and yes, older women enjoy life more than older men both sexually and otherwise.
Men get erectile dysfunction as they age. Digest that. Unlike women. In Nigeria, culture and religion hold widows back. And the chain is breaking. She is not afraid of pregnancy or otherwise, just enjoying life.
Yep, life favours women as they age more than men. For those men who can still get it up in their 60s, kudos to them. The worst is this generation of concoction drinkers and smokers living aggressive lifestyle.
I think I've flogged this topic enough.

Oh yeah you have really flogged it

To each his own

descarado:

Here, she will even get a relationship if she so desires.

These people are more sexually active than some of us. That's what I've been trying to tell Acidosis and his friends.
Infact, these people know how to enjoy life more than us.

Apparently there are western men who exclusively desire post menopausal women and they don’t hide it.

But a Nigerian guy even if that’s his preference will be shamed into denying it because they’ll call him names

cococandy:


Oh honey. You will be surprised. Hehehehe

That’s all I have to say

Hmmn..... A 65 year old woman is already a granny oo. But I think I get your point

cococandy:

Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…

https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

The report is insightful. I believe environment plays a huge role. You know in Naija, even the children want their parents to stay faithful to a deceased partner.

descarado:


Young girls that marry them know what they are after.

Money, Power, Protection, Fame

It's still Nigerian boys that go abroad and marry these so called ancestors or don't they cuddle and make love?

Green Card, Green Card, Green Card.

Acidosis:



The report is insightful. I believe environment plays a huge role. You know in Naija, even the children want their parents to stay faithful to a deceased partner.

Yes exactly. The environment is causing them hide their true selves. Not that the desire is non-existent

Acidosis:


Hmmn..... A 65 year old woman is already a granny oo. But I think I get your point

Granny means nothing. It just means your kids had their own kids. It doesn’t change how your body reacts to stimulus

cococandy:


Granny means nothing. It just means your kids had their own kids. It doesn’t change how your body reacts to stimulus

Granny means a lot oo Well, I can't speak for all men.

pocohantas:


The only time they agree is when it is negative. Then they will say these older women are fvking around like women always wanted to. I saw one say it is women's true nature to fck around. When it is men, they are polygamous and should be tolerated. But if na woman, naso them go use anger and frustration dey type because woman knack.

is that why the arteries on your face are coming out, it is what it is

IF 90% of women say there sexual cravings or fantasies out it will creep the shit out of there Men, the way most women like to be handled, carved and twisted are enough attestations ... whorse may sound like an insult but it is what it is.
IF you give cococandy 1billion in the next one year she might be like kii lo se, no be ur mate they give there side chick private jet, but give the same woman an orgasm .. 5yrs later she will still be internally grateful. As women grow older there libido rises the attention they get reduces therefore there main source of validation is getting more sex

Men just want to release But women want utmost connection & satisfaction .. both gender should just accept there nature

cococandy:


Female sexuality is really demonized in our society that’s why a lot of them never live their truth until they die. Just know that a 65 year old woman will get Dick if she wants. A relationship? Maybe not with a 25 year old man unless she’s a celebrity like Cher and co. But a relationship with another older divorced or widowed person is very very common.

But just plain no strings attached sex? Yes she can get it from a 25 year old boy if she wants.

We know all men are picky on the internet. But in real life…


https://www.millhorn.com/three-reasons-why-stds-are-on-the-rise-in-nursing-homes/

Despite being demonized is the level of immorality and paternity fraud reduced or running like ikeja estimated bill

Women are the gate keeper of there womb and sex, if a woman does not want any of the two to happen it won't so that is why the society is alway holding women accountable.

Men are the gate keepers of marriage, if oga no want make marriage happen e no go happen. pocohantas rest ijn

chidiokay:




is that why the arteries on your face are coming out, it is what it is

IF 90% of women say there sexual cravings or fantasies out it will creep the shit out of there Men, the way most women like to be handled, carved and twisted are enough attestations ... whorse may sound like an insult but it is what it is.
IF you give cococandy 1billion in the next one year she might be like kii lo se, no be ur mate they give there side chick private jet, but give the same woman an orgasm .. 5yrs later she will still be internally grateful. As women grow older there libido rises the attention they get reduces therefore there main source of validation is getting more sex

Men just want to release But women want utmost connection & satisfaction .. both gender should just accept there nature

Can you post links to research papers that established what I bolded because my Human Sexuality Professor back in school, taught me something different and I remember questions on the libido of older women was part of that trimester's exam.

ExclusiveBet:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/05/saint-obi-failed-marriage-led-to-his-death-zeb-ejiro/amp/

RIP to the dude…
But Nigerian MISOGYNISTS are now blaming a failed marriage for his death?! SMH
>

doggedfighter:


I read this and I burst into laughter while imagining the look on your face and the kind of voice you will be using to say the bolded if you were facing them physically.

You know that kind face


Ordinary knacking ooo

Normal look o. Women enjoyment too dey pain them. You needed to have seen them wailing on that thread. For a set that claim not to benefit from marriage, I am always shocked at how much they wail.

cococandy:


I don’t know why it’s upsetting to people. This has to be studied

Na only them fit tell us because the tears dey always shock me.

And you see that claim of men knacking up to 200yrs. If it is indeed true, why do they see Regina and Ned, then go on to ask if he can satisfy her? Shebi men can knack until they are fossils? Why bother about the sexual lives of young women married to ancestors. They tell too much lies to make themselves feel good.

pocohantas:

. They tell too much lies to make themselves feel good.

100%

Mindlog:


Can you post links to research papers that established what I bolded because my Human Sexuality Professor back in school, taught me something different and I remember questions on the libido of older women was part of that trimester's exam.

Bro somethings are best known from experience, women nature is not something you read in school But if you're intuitive and you live with women you will know them, men are not just humble if woman teach you sex
I don't know what your lecturer taught you in school tho, buh how about you do your own research,
Try interview a gurl that sleeps with older men and also try meet a guy that sleeps with older women ... i think those two are good source of hypothesis.