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| I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Nation1(op): 6:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
Hello people, Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about. This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to. I need your advise guys. 88 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by taylor89(m): 6:06pm On May 24, 2023*. Modified: 10:24pm On May 24, 2023 |
Konji go soon kill you God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill 614 Likes 48 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:17pm On May 24, 2023 |
as much as your wife is denying you sex, it doesnt mean you should go without it altogether. talk to her and let her know that:"due to your high libido and her constant excuses and denying you of sex, you will be looking for other ways to satisfy yourself sexually....EOD!" 107 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by donbachi(m): 6:42pm On May 24, 2023 |
Bro, wetin dem wear for hand,dem no dey take mirror look am . 139 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by primeredge: 6:43pm On May 24, 2023 |
Some men don't want to cheat, but some women, once they gave birth they started neglecting the man and hence give the men reasons to cheat and justify their actions 329 Likes 18 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Oluromantic: 6:53pm On May 24, 2023 |
Follow your heart bro 34 Likes |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by marlow1962(m): 6:56pm On May 24, 2023 |
Bro if you have the chance to cheat, nigga do it. This is rubbish, I'm married to you and both of us are sexually active, still you deny me kpekus, always giving out one stupid excuse or the other, meh is like you're mad. 186 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 6:59pm On May 24, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color][quote author=Nation1 post=123342978]Hello people, Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago,my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about. This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to. I need your advise guys [/quot Do not engage in any extra marital affair. Cancer causing HPV is on the increase, Condom does not protect against it. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Dyfynezz12(m): 7:11pm On May 24, 2023 |
Someone else is hitting the shit better than u 128 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MechanicMike: 7:12pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nation1:  1 Like |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MechanicMike: 7:13pm On May 24, 2023*. Modified: 1:51pm On May 25, 2023 |
Nation1: bro be nice & i will giv u one of my babe for free...i don't want am..she cant cook but can operate micro wave like expert chef. her name is Siofra from nairaland...U WANT?? ..(((((THANK ME LATER)))  58 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Beebah321(f): 7:27pm On May 24, 2023 |
I wonder why married women no dey gree knack after them born.  76 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Victor2707: 7:43pm On May 24, 2023 |
You got married thinking there will be unlimited sex. She want to use sex to control you to do her bidding because she knows you love sex. That's her weapon. Don't ever ask her for sex anymore. Marry another wife if you can finance it. A younger one to be precise. 322 Likes 25 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Sonnobax15(m): 7:57pm On May 24, 2023 |
 Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx. 53 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by kelspinall(m): 8:18pm On May 24, 2023 |
God help you 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Exceed15: 8:28pm On May 24, 2023 |
U don't value what u have until you loose it. I don't know why most married women are so foolish. 119 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Risingblue008(m): 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
Hyr |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Caramia2020(m): 9:06pm On May 24, 2023*. Modified: 9:44pm On May 24, 2023 |
Twice or thrice a month is not bad but what do I know, our libido are not the same. Taking care of family might have taken a toll on your wife. Please settle this issue by applying dialogue. Is it that monotonous activity has led to boredom? Some women also act like men, they don't like staying with one partner for long, it becomes boring to them. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Sept16: 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
Take it easy anyway |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by NwaNimo1(m): 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
.......it should be obvious your next move. https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/crg.gif ....follow your 48 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by DrBrainstorm(m): 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
Omo this one wey na marital issues dey hit front page back to back so, Aje shey we go marry so  45 Likes 4 Shares
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| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by eventainment(m): 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
How's the sex event been? Boring? Same styles? No pre-intimacy? Quick ejaculation? Is she happy in the marriage? Do you down-talk her withany opportunity given? Are you maltreating her? Is she over worked? 30 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by SultanOfAbia: 9:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
God created side chicks for a reason God created women to pleasure man After God created Adam first Then saw that Adam was bored So he created pussy for Adam to fvck and enjoy. That's why God made pussy so sweet He created woman because He noticed that Adam konji was getting out of hand. Adam was doing soapy every night alone and lonely. That's the only reason God created woman. To satisfy Adam. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by bestman09(m): 9:07pm On May 24, 2023 |
Getting a good side chick is expensive o. Do your best to come together and enjoy your sexual life as before 14 Likes |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by oluwaseyi0: 9:07pm On May 24, 2023 |
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| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Vinnie2000(m): 9:07pm On May 24, 2023 |
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| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Nobody: 9:07pm On May 24, 2023 |
You have to sit her down and have a heart-to-heart talk with her. One thing I know about women is that their acceptance or refusal of sexual advances is usually emotionally triggered. Are there ways you might be insensitive to her needs? Do you guys actually have a bonding time or is it only when you wanna do the do that you get close to madam? Do you fight her and yell at her over simple things? Does she find sex with you painful or enjoyable? If it's no to all the above, then it might be for deeper reasons but having a conversation with her would go a long way. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by whippersnapper(m): 9:08pm On May 24, 2023*. Modified: 11:18am On May 25, 2023 |
its beginning to seem like we came to this world only to have sex. Not to sound tongue tied if my wife denies me sex i will have to force my way in there. like i fucking paid for that shit 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by simfrost90210: 9:08pm On May 24, 2023*. Modified: 10:36pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nairaland is gradually becoming boring where situations not worth bringing out to the front page is brought out when it's personal 4 Likes 2 Shares |
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