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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Tzar(m): 10:29pm On May 24, 2023 |
If you do below and she still doesn’t want to give you sex, go z& find a side chic. Some women need to know other women find you sexually attractive for them to be turned on. 1. She clearly does not enjoy sex with you. I think you are disappointing her in bed. 2 Don’t just go in demanding for sex, this is clearly a turn off for women. 3. Since she is taking care of 2kids, try to help her with chores around the house when you can. ,4. Take her & the children out. 5. Take the mother alone on a date. 6.. Compliment her genuinely for her looks, good features/character. 7. Be romantic & gentle with your conversation with her, 8. FUCKING FLIRT WITH YOUR WIFE BEFORE SEX DAMN IT! 9. Show appreciation for her efforts & sacrifice to take care of the home & the kids. 10. Next time leave your urge aside & ensure you do a lot of fore-play with her. 11. Use a lubricant if you notice she dries up easily. Sex may be painful to her. 12. After sex, cuddle her all night & let her know how much you enjoy sex with her and love her. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by GoodCane: 10:33pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nation1: Oga which kind Simp you be? A woman you married, paid her bride price, brought her to your home, you're feeding and taking care of her is denying you sex and you're coming here to lament when there are so many girls outside waiting to get laid? Dude, you're not serious about knacking yet because when you're serious u will send that girl out of your house or better still get a girl outside and bang, take her to an hotel and have fun. You better start getting prepared and get rid of that woman you call your wife. I hate when I see men lamenting about their wives denying them sex when there are plenty girls outside there. Pussy ass niggars everywhere 1 Like |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by WAPINATION: 10:36pm On May 24, 2023 |
OP your woman is either into masturbation or she is seeing someone under your nose. once they start rejecting sex from their spouse check am well e no deh far from this two factors and they will hardly open up when you confront. Just sit her down and let her know the possible implication of her actions. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by WelcomeToBiafra: 10:36pm On May 24, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia: Abeg how old was oga Adam that year...? |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by NLKing01: 10:36pm On May 24, 2023 |
Call her and discuss it, let her know how you feel.... Communication can solve every problem in marriage Nation1: |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by foleskay(m): 10:39pm On May 24, 2023 |
[quote author=simfrost90210 post=123346820]Nairaland is gradually becoming boring where situations not worth bringing out to the front page is brought out when it's personal Its not a must u too should open boring threads and comment. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by optimusprime2(m): 10:40pm On May 24, 2023 |
Caramia2020: Oga it's bad... especially for a young couple. It means in a year, they knack between 24 & 36 times. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by simfrost90210: 10:40pm On May 24, 2023 |
[quote author=foleskay post=123348364][/quote] I wonder oo |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by WelcomeToBiafra: 10:44pm On May 24, 2023 |
Don't you know that you can't sleep with a woman for three weeks after their monthly period/MS to avoid producing children every year? Do family plan with her nah. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by foleskay(m): 10:46pm On May 24, 2023 |
MadamOk:Madam E shock u too. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by AngelicBeing: 10:47pm On May 24, 2023 |
OH Nooooooooolll, not again, l am tired of all this sex, sex, sex matters on nairaland.com, where is sukkot, oya come and carry these guy to England to go and work for Prince Charles 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 11:05pm On May 24, 2023 |
[color=#006600][/color] OKOATA: Oga that one does not work on HPV ooohhh. Even the vaccine gardasil, and ceverex are not 100% effective. Do what you want. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 11:06pm On May 24, 2023 |
SaLongs1: Ok, just so you know, HPV causes anal cancer, throat cancer, cervical cancer, prostrate cancer,neck cancer, mouth cancer, nail cancer, anal cancer. You do not need to engage in anal sex to have it. Only cervical cancer can be prevented through leep surgical excision, ie if the lady goes for her pap smear yearly and it is detected at the precancer stage known as CIN1, 2 and 3. HPV test always comes back nill for men, only ladies can be tested with certainty. The two vaccines used in Nigeria only cover two strains that are responsible for 70% of cancers. The high resolution anoscopy for treating anal precancer or AIN1, 2,and 3, is not done in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by NameInUse(f): 11:22pm On May 24, 2023 |
Sonnobax15: What if that's his only problem which shouldn't even be a problem in the first place. And it's even enough to be a problem in marriage. So it's not just sex it's SEX. And too much of sex shouldn't be as bad as twice a month. I don't support him getting another woman but i think counselors should add better sex life to marriage counseling oh. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Ubdavis(m): 11:23pm On May 24, 2023 |
Sonnobax15: Ur not aware that sexual incompatible has the capability to wreck the marriage?? |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by davillian(m): 11:23pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nation1:Remember how the relationship started and start doing things you were doing before she off pant for you. Take her out , buy things she likes on your way from work, text her, call her .... If she drinks that would make your job easier.... No be say u go just come back from work bath eat and your penis don rise.... Make her happy take she and the kids out If this works for you come back and give testimony.... |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by mono26: 11:26pm On May 24, 2023 |
Not always s reason. Some women hormones change s when they start giving birth. I am experiencing one here now. Dyfynezz12: |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Ubdavis(m): 11:26pm On May 24, 2023 |
If it becomes apparent that u are just denying me sex for no good reason, I will never in my life ask for it again. I go dey collect elsewhere |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Unrated900(m): 11:28pm On May 24, 2023 |
What advice do you need,you said u do not want to cheat on her,then seat with her naA Cos which advice do we wana give that wont asked u to cheat on her,so be loyal and face your life. I come in peace Nation1: |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Unrated900(m): 11:28pm On May 24, 2023 |
A mugu will forever be a mugu |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by zakkxx: 11:31pm On May 24, 2023 |
My brother na devil de use your wife to push you to fornicate. Don’t allow that. Be prayerful, and God will restore your home. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Karemarealty288(m): 11:31pm On May 24, 2023 |
Dyfynezz12: Ofcourse.......he can still salvage the situation by playing a blank card. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Princessdainty(m): 11:32pm On May 24, 2023 |
Even if you marry anyother woman, na same thing. They get bored after a while. Get you a masculine man bruh |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by dchamp234(m): 11:32pm On May 24, 2023 |
You're a big fool for posting this nonsense, bring her to my house let me sleep with her for you since you need advice, when you married her did you come here to seek advice? A wife you were bold enough to marry is denying you her marital rites and you don't know what to do, bring her to me since your looking for advice. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Azularis: 11:33pm On May 24, 2023 |
Bros, I feel your pain. Women are like that. My wife is doing the same thing. My decision is never to ask her again. I intend moving out and live my life for God. Go on evangelism and do God's work. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by callmealways: 11:42pm On May 24, 2023 |
Lemme tell you a little experience I gathered from this kinda scenario, 1. If it happens that your wife's income is more than yours at the moment then expect more of this to come. 2, If perhaps she passed through severe pains during the birth of the Last child she had this could sometimes cause lack of Sex, she may not get much interest and her libido will be down all the time, this could be remedied any ways. 3, Look out man, if she is always glued to her phone, like morning till night just take am say there's an unfriendly friend at the other side trying to sweet talk her away from you and I bet you man this battle go hard because you don't even know how far they have gone in term of communication, video and photos exchange via WhatsApp and Facebook.. 4, It might even be a physical friend she's learning from whenever you are not around, giving her all sorts of lies just to make her hate you and everything about you..... So, Bros watch out for these signs. If per adventure she's suffering from low sex drive, low libido, weakness of the body when it comes to sex or on your own part you are always not satisfying her well pushing all the buttons you're suppose to. Bros I dey here to give you quick remedies and lasting solutions |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MechanicMike: 11:42pm On May 24, 2023 |
Pat081: Good news bro...pay me only 50k (50,000 naira..cash) & I will help u organice siofra for free...I juss spoke to her!!(THANK ME LATER) |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by babzlim(m): 11:45pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nation1: ============/============ if she isn't cheating on you then something is definitely wrong with her, try talking with her asking her what the problem is or you try taking her out more, take her too the movies or beach, try to recanddle the love you guys once shared. Trust me she will come around. |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by grandstar(m): 11:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
Victor2707: Nation1 If you want to die, follow this advise! |
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by EthanSly: 11:54pm On May 24, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by emekajacobogbon(m): 11:54pm On May 24, 2023 |
MechanicMike: I patronized her yesterday |
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