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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Xaviell(m): 9:33pm On May 24, 2023
What will that woman want to do with his perkus she want to sell it or she want to use it as house helper, the day your husband collect cetificate of fu*k is the day your pekus dont have respect again with that your husband evendo he want to put hand or leg he is free (pls woman consider it cause it get as it want be)
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ModCaller: 9:36pm On May 24, 2023
The best things you can do for your marriage is to get a side chick
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Carlylepneuma: 9:37pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Alhamdulillah for Islam, u can be legally polygamous.. Isn't dt beautiful?
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by coputa(m): 9:38pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
A wise woman build her own household but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.proverbs 14 V1.

Sex is to marriage as sugar is to tea.Without sex, marriage is as good as dead expecially young couples.

Because there's no longer that affection for one another,it will now look like a wine without taste.

Was she denying you sex before you had the two kids,if yes,then she's not a wife material but if it started after having the kids,then,she is telling you something but you are not listening to her

Try to befriend her once again and find out what she's saying,women are like children.never joke with it, she's protesting.make her your friend once again.

Buy her things she love,pamper her,she will open up to you.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by duro4chang(m): 9:38pm On May 24, 2023
taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill
kiss
Dey play
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by SAMUEL1947: 9:38pm On May 24, 2023
Trust no woman......might be having sex outside.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Caramia2020(m): 9:39pm On May 24, 2023
Uniqueness789:
calm down read well

Married for 6 years with 2 kids

Not 6 children
Thanks
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Microwhy: 9:39pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Women are too selfish and very insensitive.
They're very unstable. Why should you struggle with your wife before having sex.
Sometime they make men loose their pride, ego and self confidence.
If those stupid species do somethings to you, you will look at yourself and say "Na me be dis".

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by AlphaHakimi: 9:40pm On May 24, 2023
SenecaTheYonger:


Make her feel young, take her on dates, cook for her sometimes, tell her to rest while you take care of the kids. She’ll be more happy to have sex when she feels pampered. After having sex, take some chores from her on that day or the next, that way you’re training her mind that when she gives you sex, you’ll take some chores from her. She’ll be more inclined.


I swear some of you only get married so you can turn your wife to sex machine.


Bad advice. This will make her weaponize sex. Op pls don't follow this advice. You can help your wife out without demanding sex from her. Infact, help her do some house chores happily in the morning, then during the evenings please go out and satisfy your urge and come home with a smiling face. Reduce the attention you give her, reduce the money you give her. Smile while chatting with your phone for no reason. Become picky with her food. Invest more time with your children. Spend more of your free evenings outside the house. Don't ever give her slightest reason to see you as a sad man or to know that her denying you sex is affecting you. Be happy going to work. Begin to dress well. Buy a new cologne, cut your hair every two weeks. You don't need to buy new cloths, just make sure your current cloths are always neat and sparkling. Do this consecutively for 5 months. Your wife will get the message that her position in your house is greatly threatened. She will adjust. There is power in action. Forget too much talk and take charge of your life.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by adubam(m): 9:41pm On May 24, 2023
Caramia2020:
6 children, let's assume u guys might have been married for roughly 15 years plus n u might be in your late forties or early fifties, at this stage with 6 children n the increase in taking care of a home, twice or thrice a month is not bad but what do I know, our libido are not the same. Taking care of such a large family might have taken a toll on your wife. Please settle this issue by applying dialogue.
I'm sure you got F9 in WAEC
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Rybnyk(m): 9:41pm On May 24, 2023
Caramia2020:
6 children, let's assume u guys might have been married for roughly 15 years plus n u might be in your late forties or early fifties, at this stage with 6 children n the increase in taking care of a home, twice or thrice a month is not bad but what do I know, our libido are not the same. Taking care of such a large family might have taken a toll on your wife. Please settle this issue by applying dialogue.

He said he has been married for 6 years with two children...
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Birminghamvirgo(m): 9:41pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

I'd advised you take a second wife!

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Pat081: 9:41pm On May 24, 2023
MechanicMike:



bro be nice & i will giv u one of my babe for free....she can cook but can use micro wave. her name is Siofra...U WANT?? ..(((((THANK ME LATER))) smiley
Give me one, please 🙏
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Pat081: 9:42pm On May 24, 2023
MechanicMike:



bro be nice & i will giv u one of my babe for free....she can cook but can use micro wave. her name is Siofra...U WANT?? ..(((((THANK ME LATER))) smiley
Give me one, please 🙏 shocked
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by coputa(m): 9:42pm On May 24, 2023
ModCaller:
The best things you can do for your marriage is to get a side chick
getting a side chicken sorry chick is like pouring fuel inside a fire🔥
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Starz825(m): 9:43pm On May 24, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

oga siddon....dey talk nonsense

life become even more frustrating in this kind of economy when a man doesn't get regular sex as appropriate from his wife to relieve his stress

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by BeardedmeatR(m): 9:45pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Extra-marital affairs is a two edged sword, just be careful out there.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 9:45pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
what's wrong with you people, marry as much wife you can takecare of. It's a serious crime for a woman to deny her husband sex, if my wife try that today, I will send her packing tomorrow. Because she has a mission to destroy me be that
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by TheBTCinvestor: 9:46pm On May 24, 2023
taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill
kiss

You sound like an imbec!le.. undecided
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by alizma: 9:46pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.
A full fledged, healthy man has erection every morning, imagine being married and only allowed access to puna twice in a month, that means you have to role from one side of the bed to the other for the rest 28 days, wasting precious time that you should channel towards the success of the family on asking God different useless questions while the answer lies besides you. Poverty is knocking at your doctor if you don't sit her down and talk Sense into her and thereafter, take decisive decision.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Lol, gradually you are growing up to know why your firefighters acted the way they did. Quote this message in the next 3yrs and tell me if you have fully align or not
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by isabi2lof: 9:47pm On May 24, 2023
Na wa o na so so konji news dey hit front page back to back .

But you guys are saying you can actually do without sex , God wey create woman give man , una think say Him no no wetin He dey do .

You men should learn how to treat your women nicely.
On behalf of online in-laws, divorce her and get married to her junior sister.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by jaxxy(m): 9:48pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

when ur wife changes in attitude for whatever reason do u guys talk about it or just act like nothing happened and keep pretending to each other like everything is ok?

1 thing I don't know how to do is pretend. I will tell her every ridiculous thing to her face untill we settle the matter.

when u allow thing to fester and prolong they either get resolved naturally if one person knows what to do or they grow into bigger issues by building up negative space.

In marriages or relationship avoid creating and prolonging negative space. Work out the issue don't leave them to grow.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by BeardedmeatR(m): 9:48pm On May 24, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.
Guy, do you have a functional penis?
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Caramia2020(m): 9:48pm On May 24, 2023
adubam:

I'm sure you got F9 in WAEC
Thanks
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Mikekan30: 9:49pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.


It's quite unfortunate that you are going through this issue but one thing I have understood about woman is that they all have their love language, have you identified your wife's own?

For me, my wife loves affirmation, tell her sweet things like Baby you look so beautiful today, when you back from work I can wait to penetrate you! Or I like saying your legs are straight and fine and boom... I will make love to her,
Another thing you should realise it's that men & women are wired differently, a man maybe willing to have sex anytime but a woman's mind works with emotions, love words, gifts, surprises.....

So bro, find out what makes her turned on?

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Israel07: 9:49pm On May 24, 2023
SenecaTheYonger:


Make her feel young, take her on dates, cook for her sometimes, tell her to rest while you take care of the kids. She’ll be more happy to have sex when she feels pampered. After having sex, take some chores from her on that day or the next, that way you’re training her mind that when she gives you sex, you’ll take some chores from her. She’ll be more inclined.


I swear some of you only get married so you can turn your wife to sex machine.

Bro y? What kinda advice is this. This simping is in on another level. C'mon man y does a nigga have to do house chores cos he was offered some tilapia smelling fairly used pussy. Damn! Wtf!
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Caramia2020(m): 9:49pm On May 24, 2023
Rybnyk:


He said he has been married for 6 years with two children...
It's been modified, thanks.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MechanicMike: 9:50pm On May 24, 2023
Pat081:
Give me one, please 🙏 shocked


Ok bro let me speak to siofra today.....she date.anytin!!!(((THANK ME LATER))) smiley
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Lamanii22(f): 9:52pm On May 24, 2023
Why would a lady just decide to deny her husband sex… ko right now… life’s short have more sex, no sex in heaven it’s an earthly pleasure

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Vintage9999: 9:52pm On May 24, 2023
She might be cheating on you
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Melagros(m): 9:53pm On May 24, 2023
taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill
kiss
Bad man, evil man grin grin grin
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by isabi2lof: 9:53pm On May 24, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
God created side chicks for a reason
God created women to pleasure man

After God created Adam first
Then saw that Adam was bored
So he created pussy for Adam to fvck and enjoy.

That's why God made pussy so sweet
He created woman because He noticed that Adam konji was getting out of hand.
Adam was doing soapy every night alone and lonely.

That's the only reason God created woman. To satisfy Adam.


God created side chicks yen yen yen but you guys will still be the ones bashing side chicks and names calling . hyprocrisy won't do us anything good .

When I said men are slave to pussy , they thought it was a joke , we can do without women, oya make una dey do 😅😅😅😅

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