Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Man! Tell yourself the truth. Deep down inside you, here is the truth... You have zero chance of cheating on her! Men hardly think twice, in fact if you had the chance, even if your wife is giving you everyday, you will still prefer to do outside. It's not cheap to cheat on your wife considering how much you're gonna spend on that girl and the cost of using a hotel. Girl of nowadays are after money, if you like, fine like oyinbo, you must have money before you taste that honey. My advice is this. Divorce your wife or take in another wife because your sex life can never be the same.

seguno2:


Things that she can’t discuss with her husband of six years and who she has two children with

Are you kidding us?

Not kidding you at all..If you were not there you won't understand me.

taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill

😨😳😱

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Take this advice to the bank, women fear and respect erratic men, unpredictable men.....women loves adventurers. You lack all those qualities.

Dyfynezz12:
Someone else is hitting the shit better than u

No really........maybe he is repeating same thing over and over. Women get bored easily.

Maybe you get body odour or halitosis

Sonnobax15:

Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

So the wife that wants to scatter her marriage by starting on not fulfilling one of her marital roles is the good one huh?
Orishirishi

Karemarealty288:


No really........maybe he is repeating same thing over and over. Women get bored easily.

Or may b she didn't love him from onset or may b she was and is still in love with her ex but agreed to marry him because he was readily available 4 marriage

Michaelota:
Check her very well , she is either dating someone else and finding you not good enough as a result of an issue which she also refuse to tell you. I discovered my wife was sleeping around after 9 years and 2 kids just because of a little issue she could have told me. Fear ladies of this days most especially Yoruba ladies they are worse than dogs. She will even be sending nudes to guys old lovers. Check her phone you be surprised.

Ur advice can give man high BP. Is that how you used to check your wife’s phone? My brother no die young ooo.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

In this write up, you have not told us what she said or complained about when you brought up the dwindling sex to her.

If your sex life was fine for 5yrs plus and she suddenly stopped, you would agree that there must be a reason (note I have not laid any blame on you yet because we do not know why).

It could be you offended her, she doesn't find you attractive, she is not satisfied with your performance sexually, she has hormonal issues, she just wanted sex for kids, she is battling some personal issues, she has a lover outside, she has some hangups about sex, she is seeing religion in a different light, she is too knackered from chores and childcare etc.

Let us know her 'why' then we can determine the next steps.

ehay:
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You dey lie Abeg.

Please all these people advising you to go and cheat do not know what they are saying. Let them tell you from experience whether it solved the problem or not.
The reason your wife may be denying you sex can be emotional, physical, or spiritual problem.

Emotional.
Are you two friends? Are you fighting? Are you rude or stubborn? Is there something she is complaining about? Are you not noticing her needs without her telling you, like hair, clothes, etc? Do you complement her? Do you call her sweet names? Do you lie? Do you have a vice she hates?

Physical:
Are you dirty? Do you dress well and cut your hair? Do you smoke or drink? Is she cheating? Is she sick? Is she sick down there? Are you doing your job well down there? Are your kids a handful to manage? Is she spending to much time taking care of the house and kids?

Spiritual:
Is there a devil fighting your home? Is she or you from a broken home and events wants to repeat itself? Is there a ex someone fighting your home? Are your inlaws at peace with you and vice versa?

These questions you need to answer.

God be with you

Exceed15:
U don't value what u have until you loose it. I don't know why most married women are so foolish.

Very foolish for that matter.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Learn to play with your wife in the process you will find your self doing it and don't be demanding it from her.

taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill

Lolz... guy u are a criminal.
Ur sense of humor is dangerous.
But shey na d God wey create me create person like u? Where u witness 8people wey konji kil

SINGLE MOTHER EVERY CORNER OF NIGERIA

taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill

😁😁😁😁😁

Have you tried to find out why she's denying you sex? Women sexual urge decreases with age and responsibilities. Something is wrong somewhere and believe me, cheating on her won't be the solution. You will just be exposing yourself and your family to more troubles.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Well, if you provide materially and emotionally as an average man should, she's not ill physically and mentally and she's not performing her wifely duty, you have the right to return her to her parents jeje. Tell them you want a wife who can keep her own basic part of the bargain. Not too much to ask for, is it?

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Honest advice guy. Tell her you will be separating (not legal divorce) from her. You can leave the house for her because of your kids.
Strong your heart. Be away for like a month or two until she gives a solemn pledge to change.
You must take serious decisions before this thing that looks simple complicate your life.
If you go cheat, u may get disease or get a bastard child and this is the beginning of a complicated life. There have even been cases were concubines plan and kill the wife and the legal children.
Just be a man and separate first before cheating

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Twice a month is not ėnough . Try discussing it with her, find ways to make it more interesting and spark up ur sex lives .

At least 6times a month, is manageable.
But not less if u want more, don’t cheat oh scatter ya marriage with juju Obasi Austin Edochie mistress, try buy sex doll and sex gadgets Make u Dey enjoy pleasure 100times a month if u so desire , without going outside.

.

thinkmoney:

Honest advice guy. Tell her you will be separating (not legal divorce) from her. You can leave the house for her because of your kids.
Strong your heart. Be away for like a month or two until she gives a solemn pledge to change.
You must take serious decisions before this thing that looks simple complicate your life.
If you go cheat, u may get disease or get a bastard child and this is the beginning of a complicated life. There have even been cases were concubines plan and kill the wife and the legal children.
Just be a man and separate first before cheating

Concubines these days ánd juju and kanyanmatta and false prophets na 5 & 6! Wow juju Austin Yul

Write to Yul Edochie for advice
Simp
So, you dont know you should marry another wife.
So, you dont know that the contract is over with her, when she has two kids?
De there de mumu
Unless she is the one feeding and taking care of you
If not, go and marry another

Beebah321:
I wonder why married women no dey gree knack after them born.

Even my wife dose the same thing.

Write to Yul Edochie for advice
Simp
So, you dont know you should marry another wife.
So, you dont know that the contract is over with her, when she has two kids?
De there de mumu
Unless she is the one feeding and taking care of you
If not, go and marry another
Stop shaming men

If you are christian, just pray to the holy spirit to help you quench your sexual urge for others and then give you the grace to self control till you overcome this issue with your wife. She might have low libido, so get fruits like help boost libido. Like all these hausa drinks you can make your self.

Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Sonnobax15:

Sexxx sexxx sexxx . What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? . The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination . Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

Oga, I want to learn from you o -
Have you experienced the pain of being denied intimacy by the only person that should legitimately give it to you before? How did you handle it? Please respond so we can drink from your wealth and well of wisdom.

PS... I do not support infidelity for any reason.

thinkmoney:

Lolz... guy u are a criminal.
Ur sense of humor is dangerous.
But shey na d God wey create me create person like u? Where u witness 8people wey konji kil

the guy want to kill me with laugh for here

Exceed15:
U don't value what u have until you loose it. I don't know why most married women are so foolish.

She doesnt find him sexually attractive no more.
It is not foolishness
She knows what she is doing
She prefers another

The feelings will be the next to disappear then you will be seeing as just an ordinary woman who live together with you.

sinola:
Maybe you get body odour or halitosis

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