1Sharon:


I'm supposed to be a daughter of eve, yet you want to pm me. You're all hypocrites.
Just move.

lol so you took it at heart?
Sorry dear. I apologize

zed7:
It's lazy people who complain of the economy everytime. Why would a man in his mid 30's live at home? Such a man has no ambition.

Go and rent a room in a face me house, go and be a bus conductor or any other manial job. It's much more dignified than to be a free loader crying about the economy.

Too many men have become weak and lazy. I see them all around, even online begging for 2k. Weak and lazy set of people.

It's better to earn 20k a month than not earn at all. Even if you earn 20k, get two of such jobs. Foolish people everywhere. Except you have a health challenge or deformity, there's no excuse for you.

My brother God bless you

What is more important is the plan that the person has for his life. Is he there so he can save towards getting his own place or to start a business? Is it due to an entitlement mentality like those who hope to inherit their father's house?

In these hard times, it's not unusual. All that is required is to work on a solid plan for the future.

RTID:
you de find excuse

Okay

Paramount01:



Tell him to find something to do
If i tell you what i do for living many youth will say thet cant do it.

I use the work to start building,bjy car,buy manchine,marrry,feed wife

Say it, what's it you do

braine:
So far he is single, has a job and is responsible for some house bills, why not?

Living alone these days is not for the faint hearted.

Case Closed.

youngrhosy:
Absolutely wrong

Oponu😂

SufferHead😂

zed7:
It's lazy people who complain of the economy everytime. Why would a man in his mid 30's live at home? Such a man has no ambition.

Go and rent a room in a face me house, go and be a bus conductor or any other manial job. It's much more dignified than to be a free loader crying about the economy.

Too many men have become weak and lazy. I see them all around, even online begging for 2k. Weak and lazy set of people.

It's better to earn 20k a month than not earn at all. Even if you earn 20k, get two of such jobs. Foolish people everywhere. Except you have a health challenge or deformity, there's no excuse for you.

Hooeloreeburukuh Alainilakaye.

You don reach here again😂

nokspos:
we leave our parent home too early in africa but for the wrong reason, there's nothing bad living with your parent as long as he's working and can afford an apartment.

You are one of the very Few Reasonable Beings on here.

Welldone👍

Poisonousman:


Imagine what a grown up man is typing.. so they should sleep in the streets because life is not smiling at them..
Even as some of us have a job that pays .. don't make us any better... Stop this rubbish talk because you have a job or business.. when things turn... Body go tell you.. Get sense Mr man

That Person you quoted na Hoeloreeburukuh Useless Sombory.

Don't waste your Precious time on the Bvstard.

JILF:
Is it ok for a guy to be living at home where he grew up or with his parents between age 32-39? if you are a lady, will you find such men as someone who is serious with life or someone who is unserious?

I understand the economy has not be smiling for many and also understand that some men cannot afford to pay rent due to unemployment.

First and foremost. You must understand Life is not the same for everybody.

Nigeria is Hell if you are from Poor/Average background. Many people from this Background were severally Involved in heavy Crime, Manipulation, Deception just to mention few before they could break the Poverty Cycle. Don't let them deceive you.

Only Few People are an Exceptions. Most Human Beings "Men Exclusively" are Hardened Criminals by default thus making Life very hard for their fellow Men.

90% of Nigerians who were from Poor/Average Backgrounds but are Okay/Rich/Wealthy today will never give you "Full Disclosure" how they truly made their fortune. Me sef no fit tell you the Absolute Truth, Na Whining we go dey Whine ourselves😂

Humans "Nigerians Exclusively" will tell you all useless manners of LIES if they notice you are still Gullible and Ignorant😂

So back to your Question.

1.There is nothing wrong in living with your Parents most especially if they own the House and you have your own Personal Apartment.

2.Make sure you have a job/business/something going on for you.

3.Make sure you are feeding yourself and paying part of the domestic bills in the house.

4.You can get married but Make sure you don't give birth in their House. Personally I don't support this.

5.Last but not the least. Start making Solid preparation to move out of the House before you clock 40year old Max.

Add Ons:The only way I would partially support anyone to stay in their parents house is if The Parents Are Dead. But still as an Achiever, Someone should Strive to build his/her House too.

I personally have guys who are in this situation and they are doing fine. One is even currently building his personal house. One just bought Car early this year.

Anything apart from these things I listed up here. My Hand no dey.

Thank You.

Paramount01:



I pack refuse, bacause that is what i find to do as at then,now i can boast of the above mentioned

Whatever you hands findeth to do,do it unto the lord.just do somthing

There's no shame in that after all," shit money no dey smell".

I guess you are now a supervisor in control of boys who do the packing. May God continue to bless the works of your hands.

Acidosis:


Will you ever be bothered if Otedola's daughters (Cuppy, Teni, etc) tell you that they live in one of their parents' homes in London, Abuja, etc?


The things poor people talk and worry about are some of the reasons they hardly make significant progress.

Bukola94:
Apart from rent been expensive, some landlords are trouble some & may set u up. People you rent houses to also may Bleep you up. We have been seeing cases and hearing of cases

You too get Sense.

You are not like most stupid nigerians who thinks in only one direction.

Gentlesoul2021:


Comments has been moderate on this post... Wetin Nigeria do us eh ... No body sud go carry load wey heavy pass him oo

Lol I noticed that Too. Unlike before when so many people will crucify you because one is still staying in his Owned Parents House.

Buharii don Humble the Average/Poor

geezyk:
He say "Even if you earn 20k monthly,get 2 jobs" like the first job that he resumes 7am and closes 7pm will allow him the time to even think of eating, not to talk of getting another job.

Na the reason men dey die early be dis, working like an elephant and they die before 50, looking all tattered.

You dey mind that Wereeeey.

geezyk:
Life hard my people, the minimum rent for a one bedroom apartment in this Lagos is 350k, total package 600k. And if I'm saying minimum, I mean outskirts from Abule egba down to Alakuko, how can someone on a minimum wage afford to live in a comfy place.

Most of us grew up in face to face apartments, and we never wished to have kids there, but you see this naija economy go humble you nah!

If you're privileged to still live in your parents house, stay oo, and save your money towards something profitable, and also settle some bills at home, so dem no go use body hitting kill you.

Many people are just holding on by a thread, it's crazy out here mahn.

Make the Thread no Cut

Edipet:
There is this guy that is very close me. He was still leaving with his parent until their landlord gave them 6months quit notice for renovation. They father rush and roof their uncompleted building that the starter, furnished about 2 room as his money reach, do you know what this boy did? He went and rented a self con of about 170k Furnished it. I confronted him to why I didn't Used that his money to furnish their own personal house. He said he can't live with his dad at his age.(he his about 24yrs) Now his rented house will soon expired while their own house is still not completed.

Body go soon tell am.

But the thing Is, These days, Many of these Young Kids from Poor/Average Homes are into all sort of Crimes and Yahoo.

I know so many of them. I mean they are so littered everywhere.

Adewale1603:
32-39 years still jobless, when there re lot of other options or things he can do to earn a livelihood. Moreover his parents can secure accommodation for him and empower him to start a business, from there he would find his ground and be independent.

Infact no matter how Worst it Is.

It Is not normal at all at all for anybody be it Man/Woman not to Either have a JOB or have Figured Out his/her life by that Age Range.

flokii:


I'm not asking people to live beyond their means.. Just stating the way things should be in the ideal manner. It can be slightly different in actual sense.

I know parents don't usually want their kids to leave especially their favourite ones but then one has to find his/her path in life and taste the real world. You can never compare someone that started out in life as early as 20yrs to someone that got spoonfed by the parents up till 40yrs. The way they see life and manage resources would be different.

The summary of my post is if you have a job and have the means to be on your own at 25yrs, just go and live your life.

For you to be successful, you must be ready to leave your comfort zone and survive in the wild.

The Old Talk of Foools as Usual.

This mentality is what birthed Crimes and all sort of Menace we are experiencing in the society today.

Mumu for your Information. These days, Many people are earning USD In thousands and millions from their Comfort Zone

mannatech:

There's no shame in that after all," shit money no dey smell".

I guess you are now a supervisor in control of boys who do the packing. May God continue to bless the works of your hands.

By God's grace,how many graduate ca do that? Just do somthing

Sixfeetbelle:


I think this discourse is dependent.

Can the 32-39 old afford to rent their own home comfortably? If yes, then living with their parents at that age shouldn't be a thing of worry or shame. It's a choice.

Agreed.

On the other hand, it is worrisome if the man is living with his parents because he has no plan B whatsoever. What will they do if things take a sudden nosedive?

That even makes it better as costs are low while he navigates his way through the crises. No matter how things nosedive or no Plan B insight, he won't have to pay house rent.

After a while of being an adult, living with one's parents shouldn't be because you cannot stand on your own.

While true in some cases, it is not so in other scenarios. So I should rent a property in the same city where my parents have a large house?

chinchum:
i am not of the opinion that young people should stay too long with their parents. An Eagle pushes eaglets out of the nest so they can soar. After graduation from a tertiary institution with job secured or succesful completion of artisanship and established to practice, it is time to set them free with justified occasional support from parent. If care is not taken, many entitled kids will not build gut and perseverance needed for sustainable success in life.

Go and tell that to youths in Japan, Singapore, China, South Korea etc. Some of them who move abroad later return home to stay with their aged parents. So a child working in Tokyo/Singapore/Seoul/Hong Kong should move out to rent an apartment when his/her parents own where they reside?

Evolutionlove:


First and foremost. You must understand Life is not the same for everybody.

Nigeria is Hell if you are from Poor/Average background. Many people from this Background were severally Involved in heavy Crime, Manipulation, Deception just to mention few before they could break the Poverty Cycle. Don't let them deceive you.

Only Few People are an Exceptions. Most Human Beings "Men Exclusively" are Hardened Criminals by default thus making Life very hard for their fellow Men.

90% of Nigerians who were from Poor/Average Backgrounds but are Okay/Rich/Wealthy today will never give you "Full Disclosure" how they truly made their fortune. Me sef no fit tell you the Absolute Truth, Na Whining we go dey Whine ourselves😂

Humans "Nigerians Exclusively" will tell you all useless manners of LIES if they notice you are still Gullible and Ignorant😂

So back to your Question.

1.There is nothing wrong in living with your Parents most especially if they own the House and you have your own Personal Apartment.

2.Make sure you have a job/business/something going on for you.

3.Make sure you are feeding yourself and paying part of the domestic bills in the house.

4.You can get married but Make sure you don't give birth in their House. Personally I don't support this.

5.Last but not the least. Start making Solid preparation to move out of the House before you clock 40year old Max.

Add Ons:The only way I would partially support anyone to stay in their parents house is if The Parents Are Dead. But still as an Achiever, Someone should Strive to build his/her House too.

I personally have guys who are in this situation and they are doing fine. One is even currently building his personal house. One just bought Car early this year.

Anything apart from these things I listed up here. My Hand no dey.

Thank You.

That is why I wrote I understand the economy is not smiling and many cannot afford rent due to unemployment
No reasonable man want to lives with their parents in their thirties

Evolutionlove:


You too get Sense.

You are not like most stupid nigerians who thinks in only one direction.

Landlord report a tenant to us that he destroys his property, like wiring and gate of the apartment and accumulated debts on prepaid meter. We invited them,the tenant said the landlord reported him to police that he was a yahoo boy. The landlord deny the allegations and the tenant refuses to pay damages to the property and move out of the apartment. We trace him and the landlord want to sue him to court for damaging his property. I have to come in to settle it amicably and out of court

Postinor:
hmm, wow

hmm,waw, u can dictate the foods I eat and clothes I wear. But you can't dictate where we live and people I mingle with.

Chidolalar:


U still didn't answer my question. How did u become millionaire in naira?
Tell me so I might follow your path or connect me on how u became a millionaire in naira.
I haven't seen anybody that is ready to connect me till now. That is why am seeking on how u can connect me

Stop wasting your Time.

No Nigerian, I Repeat, No Nigerian will give "Full Disclosure" of how they made their Fortune to people.

To Spoil it all, You as a Stranger is asking someone such question and you expect him to reply you lol

What you need to do is fly into the libraries close to you and pick up some books or you go Online and read thoroughly like you want to die on Human Nature. Inside the Books is where you will find all the Secrets of Life which the Old Legends penned down. Then you Advance to Spiritual Level. Afterall then Proceed into the Streets and do your Things. I promise You will come back here and do Thanksgiving.

Life Is not hard one bit, I repeat again Life is not hard one bit.

Human Beings Are The Ones Making Life So Hard Because Of Their Greed & Insatiable Nature. 90% of the World's Problems & Disaster were Created by Human Beings.

Delightsome2023:
well as for me I will live with my parents and marry a wife that understands while we stay under our parents roof, when God gives me children we will all stay with my parents under their roof till their old age and when God calls them to glory.
Any woman that doesn't accept that should skedaddle (fvck off).
Assuming I had other siblings or relatives I'd have moved on but now my parents have none except me now.
Moreover the bond I have with them is too deep to separated Just exactly as God the Father and Jesus Christ the Son, you can't separate me from them, call me mummy's boy that's your own opinion

Weldone Deight👍

Delightsome2023:
check their phone, na loan apps full am

Seems you sabi most of these Stupid People.

Many of them moved out because of Sinister reason or because of SAPA don choke them for their One Room Face me and Slap you

Most of these Guys are the ones whom you will seen commiting Frauds and all manners of Crimes just to Impress and prove to the Society that they are now a Man.

No be this Nigeria wey we dey. I have Sure Ways of making Quick Money without much stress. But it'do surely affect other Humans negatively seriously. But i choose not to tow those Path because I'm living from the Inside but not the other way round. Even me myself knows i'm more than a Human Being.

How many Nigerians will turn their eyes away from an Opportunity of Crimes and Frauds like this. Most of them just want to make the money by all means to and cost without minding the Consequences.

Some of them are in Hell but they will bottle it up. They just want to impress people who gives no Fvcks about them while dying inside slowly.

1Sharon:


Yikes. I see where the problem is.

You are Just a usvless lady.

You have no Significant Importance to this Forum.

Delightsome2023:
ladies like you hardly marry early.

Marry Ke.

All these Ones are Old and can never stay under the Roof Of A Man.

Them Plenty Boku for this Forum. Evening Newspapers

Evolutionlove:


Make the Thread no Cut

If e cut ehn! Many people go follow am.