I met this my girlfriend few months ago.

what I observed with her is that she doesn't last long in bed. I thought it's only men that suffer from this issue, but i was suprise to have this encounter from her.

within some minutes of sex, let's say that 10-20 minutes. she will signal to me that she's tired.

and I can also attest to that, cos by this time, she won't be wet any longer and her p**sy will automatically squeeze and tight that I won't be able to penetrate in again.
if I try it, it'll result in bruises on my side.

and it'll take her several hours for her to recover again. let's say the first round is in the 12pm, it'll take her around 8pm to recover.

and the worst thing is that she can't last more than 5 minutes this time around before she will signal that she's tired.

in short note, after the first round the next rounds will not last longer than 5 minutes.
and if I applied lube when it's dried, she will tell me that she's tired that she can no longer cope again, that she no longer feel it.,, so I have to back out.

I do have a long pre-intimacy with her, before anything else...

we've had sex many times and I've hardly cum with it.

and the worst of all is that she doesn't even moan at all during sex,,, she only give a deep breathing sound.

And note that she's not that promiscuous type cos she's not the spec that guys chase around.... If it's matter of love, she love me, cos she's even the one that approach me.

The reason I asked this is that, she's the first girl I've had s*x with, so I don't have much experience if that is the way it happens to every other girl out there.

please is it normal like that or the issue is from her... Cos with her, I don't even enjoy sex at all, she makes it look like a boring game to me.

and she's the type that's expecting me not to cheat on her or look out to other girls.

Na church girl and how old
Most church girls are like this

Micheal56:
Na church girl and how old
Most church girls are like this

Not really church girl,, but a modest girl,, she's 22

Damnnn niggar
Hmmmm
This one strong
But first try to check if na orgasm she dey quick reach

Or she just dey carry go dry without reaching orgasm

Give her extensive pre-intimacy...better pre-intimacy

And then change positions....let her be on top
She never get much penetration before
If na orgasm she dey quick reach then that is a good thing because she dey emotionally and romantically involve with you and she loves you

degreee:


Not really church girl,, but a modest girl,, she's 22

Do u met her a virgin
Maybe she Dey new

Micheal56:

Do u met her a virgin
Maybe she Dey new

No, she's not. But she told me I'm the 2nd guy she's met

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Hmmmm
This one strong

But first try to check if na orgasm she dey quick reach

Or she just dey carry go dry without reaching orgasm

Give her extensive pre-intimacy...better pre-intimacy

And then change positions....let her be on top
She never get much penetration before

Yes, she orgasm,, cos her body would be shaky before she bring out her complaint that she's tired

She is not attracted to you.
She's forcing it but you can't cheat nature.

Move on.

She has infection...toilet infection...to be precise...she has vaginal infection or yeast infection...don't panic...its not a std...let her treat it properly and the dry land shall be wet again...Thank me later

CuriousCart:
She is not attracted to you.
She's forcing it but you can't cheat nature.

Move on.

I know that this comment will come up..
But she's the one that approach me,, she do most of the things to sustain the relationship.
If it's love she love me...
But is it possible for a girl to love you and yet not being attracted to you?
Or what do you mean by the attraction?

degreee:


I know that this comment will come up..
But she's the one that approach me,, she do most of the things to sustain the relationship.
If it's love she love me...
But is it possible for a girl to love you and yet not being attracted to you?
Or what do you mean by the attraction?

Yes.
You may be her dream man in the sense that you offer financial stability or have potential to be level-headed and raise a family but you do not arouse her wild side sexually.

Women can make that sacrifice.

CuriousCart:


Yes.
You may be her dream man in the sense that you offer financial stability or have potential to be level-headed and raise a family but you do not arouse her wild side sexually.

Women can make that sacrifice.

This sounds true but funny,,,
How do you expect me to arouse her wild side.
I do give her enough pre-intimacy that she will be moaning that I should "pls come in", though I'll withhold it and continue with the pre-intimacy...
So I don't really understand what you meant
.
If on the fact of financial stability,, you're right with that

nolywe:
She has infection...toilet infection...to be precise...she has vaginal infection or yeast infection...don't panic...its not a std...let her treat it properly and the dry land shall be wet again...Thank me later

Wow, if this turn out to be true, then I'll be glad

degreee:


This sounds true but funny,,,
How do you expect me to arouse her wild side.
I do give her enough pre-intimacy that she will be moaning that I should "pls come in", though I'll withhold it and continue with the pre-intimacy...
So I don't really understand what you meant
.
If on the fact of financial stability,, you're right with that

That will be totally dependent on her.
Different things turn people on. Could be dirty talk, body type, or acts. Maybe she wants you to hit her harder and degrade her but you are still giving her Pastor loving etc.


Simplest I'll advise is that you get her to watch porn with you in your free time and allow her dictate what to watch. It will lend insight to her preferences and you can ask direct questions to deduce her turn ons.

I have the same experience bro. Is she fat?
Mine is getting fatter month by month. She doesn't moan at all. She easily get tired. Though she cum quickly.

I'm not enjoying my sex life the way I used to. Am still here bcus she loves me more and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I don't even know how to discuss this with her bcus she's very sensitive.

The truth is i might cheat on her bcus am sex starved. but then she's good to just let go.

CuriousCart:
She is not attracted to you.
She's forcing it but you can't cheat nature.

Move on.

Op here is your answer

Sucre6:


Op here is your answer

So you mean that if she meets the person she's attracted to. She will last long, be wet and wouldn't orgasm on time??

degreee:


No, she's not. But she told me I'm the 2nd guy she's met

A simpish society, you’ll learn and become wiser

degreee:

So you mean that if she meets the person she's attracted to. She will last long, be wet and wouldn't orgasm on time??

100%
She loves you , but not romantically

obinna58:

A simpish society, you’ll learn and become wiser

I don't care if it's true or not,, all I'm concerned about is why doesn't she stay longer.
And by the way, jeep the simping to your pocket, I'm not in that group

Sucre6:


100%
She loves you , but not romantically

Honestly, this sounds funny,,, I'm hearing this for the first time.

degreee:

Honestly, this sounds funny,,, I'm hearing this for the first time.

funny but it might be true.
You don’t turn her on sexually or maybe you sef just boring.

degreee:

No, she's not. But she told me I'm the 2nd guy she's met

second guy and still counting

degreee:

Honestly, this sounds funny,,, I'm hearing this for the first time.

She sees that u have potential, and she's willing to make it work, but that romance aint there yet. A woman that loves you will get dripping wet upon hearing your voice not to talk of touching her and pre-intimacy

But if her mind isn't there, she won't get wet, no matte how hard u try

Sucre6:


100%
She loves you , but not romantically

Men have yet to grasp this simple fact about women.


A man's love is romantic/emotional that's why he's out once she cheats. A woman's love is logical that's why they can have co-wives and forgive cheating.

Sucre6:


She sees that u have potential, and she's willing to make it work, but that romance aint there yet. A woman that loves you will get dripping wet upon hearing your voice not to talk of touching her and pre-intimacy

But if her mind isn't there, she won't get wet, no matte how hard u try

Now, the question is,, how can I make her romantically attracted to me.,,if it's not possible then I have no option than to DUMP her.
Cos it's her type a person will marry finish and then start weaponizing sex for me

CuriousCart:


Men have yet to grasp this simple fact about women.


A man's love is romantic/emotional that's why he's out once she cheats. A woman's love is logical that's why they can have co-wives and forgive cheating.

But how can I prove that she's not romantically attracted to me? Should I subtly make an enquiry from her?

degreee:


But how can I prove that she's not romantically attracted to me? Should I subtly make an enquiry from her?

At this stage you're obviously just seeking more activity so your thread can trend and make FP.

Bye.

CuriousCart:


At this stage you're obviously just seeking more activity so your thread can trend and make FP.

Bye.

Thanks for your input n bye

CuriousCart:


That will be totally dependent on her.
Different things turn people on. Could be dirty talk, body type, or acts. Maybe she wants you to hit her harder and degrade her but you are still giving her Pastor loving etc.


Simplest I'll advise is that you get her to watch porn with you in your free time and allow her dictate what to watch. It will lend insight to her preferences and you can ask direct questions to deduce her turn ons.

The bold got me laughing 🤣

degreee:

Thanks for your input n bye

Most people don't know sex is a very natural thing and as such there should be no inhibitions whatsoever. Op focus ur attention on all her spots rediscover her body. Sometimes just play with everything from her head to toe nails. Focus on the kuntus don't even penetrate in a rush. It's not about how long u waste on fore.play but on how much u know what ur doing. She's urs. Ask her questions while u touch places, talk dirty if u have to. U gats be very open minded. Hold nothing back and nothing should be forbidden so long as it gives her pleasure. Learn her body. Use ur fingers, lips, tongue even soft breathing on certain places while u talk real dirty can unlock hidden codes in her body 👅 no be to use 2hours doing nothing but uselessly groping about her body parts like say u be meat seller for market. Enjoy her body like it's food... It's actually food tho. Good food 😊

degreee:


Now, the question is,, how can I make her romantically attracted to me.,,if it's not possible then I have no option than to DUMP her.
Cos it's her type a person will marry finish and then start weaponizing sex for me

It's good that you know this part, I broke up with one of my girl early this year, she's good and homely but she tries to regulate sex, this is because she has a very low sex drive, she gets wet and love sex lik mad, but after first round, she's exhausted and can't go fo another round, although she promised to change ones we get married, but of cos that is a big fat lie, it would get worst when we get married, had to let her go because she doest match my sexual strength,

Yes sex isn't everything in marriage but i have a very high libido, I cant tolerate anything less than at least 85% sexual satisfaction