poshestmina:


Thank you Dearest.

Geminita:



Yeah, the most important thing is that you tried your best. We win some and We lose some. You are doing well, Baby Jollof

doggedfighter:


bukatyne, thanks. Well noted. No more slacking. I am going all out now

folake4u:
AmazonTopaz Whataguan? Where have you been since?

AmazonTopaz:

I don outgrow nairaland.

I am ok, I just visit the site once in a while and focus on my reality.
Nor vex

folake4u:


Awww. I can imagine.

I'm glad to hear that you're okay.

I nor fit vex for you na.

AmazonTopaz:


Thanks dear

pocohantas:


For a woman as rich as her, it would be quite hard to get a non 50:50 arrangement. But I wouldn't like that to be me. Definitely not with a Nigerian man.

Geminita:
Good morning, everyone.

I saw a thread on Twitter and I think it's nice to bring it here.

What is that one thing you really tried to get, that thing you went all out for but didn't work out for you? Can you share?

PS: You can also tag other females.

folake4u:
Oh okay. I'd look for it then.

Hahahaha. I love wheat bread come rain or sunshine.

Wheat bread and peanut butter is HEAVENLY!

AmazonTopaz:
I don outgrow nairaland.

I am ok, I just visit the site once in a while and focus on my reality.
Nor vex

Eunoiaa:


You may be onto something here.

It seems you just have a nack for discovering little food treasures. It already sounds delicious to me so much I want to try it.

Perhaps it's because I've not tried the bread with something really sweet. Like jam too.

folake4u:
Mango, believe me, it's so delicious. The wheat bread has to be fresh one oh.

I got tired of jam at a point in time sha. But I never got tired of peanut butter.

Maybe I will get jam again.

Eunoiaa:




I felt this.

folake4u:


Mango, believe me, it's so delicious. The wheat bread has to be fresh one oh.

I got tired of jam at a point in time sha. But I never got tired of peanut butter.

Maybe I will get jam again.

bukatyne:


I tried to move to another unit I preferred at work some years back. Love their job and understood it (which everyone knew).

Infact, the Head of the Unit spoke with me about the opening, knew I loved their job (would send requests to them and give them recommendations just for their approval and they follow it) and I was glad.

Took it to the CEO who said preffered a much more senior person for the role. That was how my dream of moving there pafuka'ed.

In hindsight, in addition to wanting a more senior person, the CEO did not want me to leave my unit because I am a strong pillar there.

Interestingly, I would make the same decision so I didn't feel too bad

babythug:
Have a good week y’all 💕

Hello bukatyne. Good morning. Please tag the monickers of the females. Not everyone will see the message.

Klass99:


Buka baby, happy new month to you too. My answers;

1. Embracing my womanhood including the parts I don't like or want. Enjoying the things I love about being a woman, like getting my hair done, a manicure/pedicure. Being as gentle as a dove yet shrewd as a serpent, having to sometimes pretend that I am a damsel in distress to make the opposite gender not feel insecure or emasculated by my strengths and abilities.

2. Oh yes she can.

3. By pretending to be helpless and needing a man when she truly doesn't. And also by not pretending at all but insisting on feminine and masculine roles in her relationship, holding up her end of the bargain while holding her partner accountable to his role.

My thoughts - I am not a pretentious woman, I can't and I don't know how to pretend for long. So I really struggle with down playing my true self in order to be considered feminine enough by certain people.

4. I look very feminine in appearance but I am not when it comes to the usual expectation that a woman will or should take care of others via petting, cooking good food, serving meals at social gatherings, etc.

5. Can I be hospitable? Yes, but mothering people is not my default reaction, I hate hand holding and baby sitting grown ups.....except for aged folks and young children.

Persephone1:


This question/ topic isn't for me . Lemme just read

bukatyne:


Why?

The target audience on IG is actually single ladies.

I'm still taking classes on how to be feminine

bukatyne:
Good morning ladies and happy new month 💋 😘 😗

I saw this Instagram post and decided to bring here for our discussion. What do you think? Especially for the writeup on the body of the post on IG?

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cs6lbidIvki/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Take away questions:
1. What do you understand by a lady being feminine or what I usually call (Queen and Princess state of mind here on NL)

2. Do you think a woman can be a high flyer and still retain her femininity

3. If yes to 2, how?

4. If no to 2, do you believe a woman can have a successful functional relationship without it?

5. Any other thoughts around the topic.


Geminita

bukatyne:
Good evening and happy new month 💋 😘 😗


Take away questions:
1. What do you understand by a lady being feminine or what I usually call (Queen and Princess state of mind here on NL)

2. Do you think a woman can be a high flyer and still retain her femininity

3. If yes to 2, how?

4. If no to 2, do you believe a woman can have a successful functional relationship without it?

5. Any other thoughts around the topic.

having to sometimes pretend that I am a damsel in distress to make the opposite gender not feel insecure or emasculated by my strengths and abilities.