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Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by joceey(m): 12:51pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
This is not a very big issue.What about the pastor your cousin (the girl )confessed too ?He should be in the position now to tell the family the whole truth period. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by dawnomike(m): 12:54pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke:If every member of the family has abandoned her, the best you can do is to stand by her all the way!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Pythagoras001: 12:57pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
How old was the guy and the girl when this happened? It appears To me the girl was sexually active before the guy and the guy version more plausible |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Forrkke: 1:03pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
DollarSigns: Thanks for this I understand it’s difficult to believe a female in issues such as this. There’s no denying that she messed agreeing to something like that. However, the lies the boy told should not be left unaddressed 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by danthamccoy(m): 1:08pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
superCleanworks:Honestly, you're not making sense. Make your voice loud after consensually participating in incest? The way some of you go off on social media without putting yourself in the other person's shoes 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by superCleanworks(m): 1:17pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
danthamccoy: and you are making sense. we both had sex is entirely different from you turning around to tell the world that I raped you and I am the cause of all your mental torments. Please learn to read correctly and ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND before GOING OFF on the Internet without comprehending. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by DollarSigns(m): 1:21pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke: Uwc To me, I believe it’s just common sense for to anyone mature A simple question as this: Would a teenage girl rape her age mate when she’s a guest? The boy definitely started having urges cos they shared space together The mother of the boy knows this truth She’s at fault Tbh, if I was the girl in question, since they don’t want good, I would deny consensual sex, accuse the boy of rape then join the mother as accomplice That She knowingly and deliberately groomed her (the girl) to be raped by her son at her vulnerable state by insisting that she lives within the same space with the boy Let the mom now swear that her son was good Since they don’t want peace, it’s war mode turned on I have no remorse 🥺 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobicove(m): 1:23pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Na wah. How a person will even get an erection by looking at a close relative is beyond me |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by sisisioge: 1:48pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
16yo gangster! Na wa o. 1. She managed to get pregnant doe an "elderly bf" 2. She noticed a druggie in her room for 6months but had no qualms keeping the info to herself without seeing the danger 3. She slept with her cousin without being raped but with simple conviction. One would have thought she would have learned her lesson from her early mishap. 4. Time for confession came, but she still held back until the other party ratted on her. It is well o my brother. I do not believe your cousin at all....she sounded like one exposed to sex too early but became a predator of sort too. I wish you guys good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by yemmit90: 1:53pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
DollarSigns: When you want to be civil and don't want to insult or abuse anyone on social medias, one useless idiot like you will just provoke hell out of you. Initially, I thought you were the op but later knew you are not. You're a bloody idiot and hypocrites by claiming I was bias but chose to believes what his causin told him without being reasonable about the guy side. I will say it again, any consensual sex between a man and a woman cannot be forceful judge on one side. Unlike men, women determine who have sex with them, they have power to say yes or no. It is quite possible he seduce or even beg the guy to have sex with her since there is no claim of rape or assault in the story. It is common sense, that is why women are considered not capable enough to rape men in the court of law. The question you should ask yourself is that, why did she allow the guy to have his way? Why didn't she accuse the guy of rape? Why didn't she report the case to the guy parents? Alot of these questions need to be answered before we believe that the guy was lying. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by ChybuzzDD(m): 1:58pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
superCleanworks: It won't be easy, bros. What are you going to tell them? That both of you agreed consensually to have sex?? And you're cousins! Even if they accept, she'll still be seen as loose and irresponsible. And with her previous case of out-of-wedlock pregnancy, it will be very difficult for anyone not to find her guilty. She has no solid ground to stand on, as long as it's not rape. I think you should pray not to be in her shoes. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by DollarSigns(m): 2:10pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
yemmit90: To be honest this just confirmed your visible extremely low IQ level anyone can see just at a first glance that I’m not the OP furthermore your questions to ponder only further prove that you’re a local man with inferior Macho man vibes Fly away son I’m no longer giving you free moral lessons Till tomorrow 🥰 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by juman(m): 2:12pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
She should trash it. It's non issue. Let them say. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by superCleanworks(m): 2:15pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
ChybuzzDD: since it has become a game of lies. my lie would be louder and more terrible that they will spend the rest of their lives in apology. I will tell the world that he raped me and his parents turned a blind eye even when I complained. it is a matter of can lie better amd I will not stand and watch while I am being buried alive. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by nnamdiosu(m): 2:16pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
What's her own parents saying |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 2:23pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke:At this point what you can do is find a way to expose the boy for the liar that he is. ● Maybe making a lengthy video of him enjoying activities that depressed individuals would otherwise not be able to would be a good way to start. ● Have your cousin narrate her side of what happened and her reason-- emotional state at that age and all ● Top it off with interviews with those who are aware of his old girlfriends and hookups ● Don't forget to mention the boy's drug habits and dealers Get the whole family to watch the video and then watch them all change from there. Saving your cousin's reputation is possible since what she did, at age 16-- while still a minor herself -- isn't criminal. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by 1Sharon(f): 2:23pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Interesting. A man makes the accusation of being raped and people believe it. A woman does the same and she's called a liar. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Forrkke: 2:35pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
ChybuzzDD: As female, she'd surely be deeemed irresponsible; We agree. However, going to the length of saying she forced it is total damnation. She shouldn't let that slide |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 2:38pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
ghettochild:Confront a druggie? |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 2:38pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
amnesty7:She was 16 at the time. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 2:41pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Mrsoft3:1. The 16-year old gal was culpable while your excuse for the body is he is tormented by a spirit? Do you folks here yourselves speak abeg? 2. If all the family reason as you do, which I suspect, it will take more than one voice of reason to convince them of anything. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 2:41pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
WantsandMore:No be the "elders" OP talk say damn the girl so? |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by WantsandMore: 2:48pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:make person call their attention na. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Cloudflare: 3:05pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke: In conclusion your cousin slept with her male cousin, abi? I don't even understand your write up, who then got the girl pregnant before? |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Cloudflare: 3:07pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
WantsandMore: Dude you better avoid that guy for your complete sanity. Except you're ready for irrelevant silly arguement. That's exactly how that boy behaves on nairaland. He goes around displaying his stupidity everywhere thinking he's smart. Ignore the Werey and starve him of the attention he seeks |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
babythug:Something tells me the embittered parents or the boy who may be dead set on passing their son's failings onto someone else would not let this die so easily. Also, what happened is unjust and needs to be resolved for this lady to be able to move past her past and live without the shackles of her past mistake. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Kobojunkie: 3:11pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
younig59:No be everyone dey fear traditional stuff abeg! They need to pursue more practical by finding evidence against the boy's claims. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Cloudflare: 3:13pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke: Oga your story no clear! Who impregnated her before she was sent to live with her aunt in their hometown? Was it the male cousin or someone else? Because I don't understand your write up!!!!! Who got her pregnant? |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by NoToPile: 3:18pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
1Sharon: I was waiting for someone to say this. And he's making the accusation about 7 years later, let a lady do the same....... Grammer will start. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Microwhy: 3:27pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
RoadMozart:Don't mind him.. what is incest there.. mtswwwww. |
Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by Blakjewelry(m): 3:33pm On Jun 07, 2023 |
Forrkke:Its a simple matter na, just involve the pastor she confessed to since he can testify that she did confess a long time ago that will clear the air. 1 Like |
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