I shared my story on here some time ago and everyone were advising me to run away and leave my mom and my siblings to Thier fate, it sounded unbelievable that people would advise me to abandon my birth mother to suffer and beg for food simply because she doesn't have today, I listened to Thier advice and I gave myself some breathing space, time to focus on myself I thought, then It took a toll on me, I felt so bad abandoning the person who was there for me when I was a kid because my dad is a total deadbeat, he limited my naive mom in every way he is the reason she doesn't have anything today, she listened to her husband and obeyed him, she was just 18 when her mum caught her like a chicken and sold him to a devil who is twice her age, she tried schooling this man watched her like a hawk after promising to train her through uni, he didn't train her through uni infact he frustrated her until she dropped out, she tried applying for work with her polytechnic cert but my deadbeat dad said she is looking for an avenue to be one of those wives who work out of state and cheat on Thier husband, every business Idea my mum had he managed to jeopardize it, I won't go more into details the damage this man has done because his attrocities fit full encyclopedia, here I am a dropout because he couldn't afford 7k for me to buy form, I was ignorant and young I had no means to make money, now my mates are graduates and I am here, all the good grades I managed to get in school due to high intellect wasted, his crimes against me are many, and I might harm him mortally before this is over.

Back to the reason for my post, abandoning my mom for a short while gave rise to alot of rebound effects, she fell terribly I'll and tried to reach me several times, I dropped my number na so she couldn't thanks to the nairaland advice, I later found out she was hospitalized so I ran home, went to the hospital and discovered its something serious, she's hypertensive and prone to stroke, and abandoning her has increased the risk because she was thinking alot, she lost alot of weight too, listening to your parents and marrying who they recommend is a bad thing, if she had dated this man she'd have seen the red flags, if she hadn't listened to the so called husband she'd be her own person today, the story is very long, this series of mistakes happened because some naive little girl married a monster twice her age just because she's a good girl who never dated anyone and listened to her parents, live your life and make exploits on your own, following the so called wisdom of elders is thrash, I'm making money today because I dropped out and hit the streets, I earn online even though I'm not doing yahoo I am still able to cater for my mom and I'll not abandon her for any reason again, she almost died, next time I might not be this lucky.

Na money dey cure all.these kind problems. Leave the complain and embark of the journey of manhood. Go and learn a skill. Like Barbing. Twelve months to serve and after a years you have a space you can do sallon and POS and before you know it cubana begins to flow in..chin up and fight and leave complaints

Persephone1:
Kid get lost! I referred to the one who failed to give you home training and culture you. You jumped on my comment with all sorts ignoring my initial post. Again your mother is the pea sized brain love peddler who brought up a mannerless thing like you.

Now get lost! Go clean up your mothers public sewer for her next customers. !

Like mother like daughter, you're even talking about getting married, who in his right senses will get married to such a lousy, rotten, maggot infested LovePeddler like you, jobless idiot jumping from post to post on nl infecting the whole social space with outstanding stupidity, phoolish woman.

Hope you won't be like the Man you dad is/was. And with the experience you witnessed with your mom I, believe you will treat a responsible Woman in a proper way.

Hmm you took advice from nairaland of all the advises you picked the wrong one but it okay at least mumsy is fyn... mothers are our jewel,I just dey pray for blessings to uplift mine too... Good thing u came back,God will do it but for now stop thinking about your dad's life and just focus on yourself and mumsy she needs a lot of attention, your life would be what she doesn't have because all parents want the best for their kids, Goodluck bro God bless you 🙏🙏

Sorry bro

Damn. Sorry bro. It's important that stories like this are shared so people know the importance of independence, money, daring and stubbornness. I hope your mom gets better.