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Should I Tell Him The Truth? by fyzaila: 9:48pm On Jun 15, 2023
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by TemplarLandry: 9:49pm On Jun 15, 2023
Come clean. He'll go through denial, he'll sob, and get over it.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by fyzaila: 9:50pm On Jun 15, 2023
TemplarLandry:
grin

What is the smile for now?

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Openifemy: 9:53pm On Jun 15, 2023
You have laid of foundation of distrust already. He will find it hard to believe other things you tell him wen he eventually finds out the truth cry

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:03pm On Jun 15, 2023
OP, are you a Virgin?

What kind of Coochie will you present to him? πŸ€”πŸ€¨

Dat's the Real Truth you should Tell him.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by advanceDNA: 10:07pm On Jun 15, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.

U lied that u are same birth day and month with him? To what end?? Madam...u do realize this is a principality level of heart and soul manipulation??


Me i go close ur file sharpally....cos only god knows how far u can go

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by samwash(m): 10:38pm On Jun 15, 2023
Let me give you my 25 cent.

Tomorrow morning, locate the nearest customary/ high court close to you & jejely sworn affidavit of the month & date of birth and show it to your boyfriend to support your lie.
He wouldn't get angry again because you already have prove for it.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by phorget(m): 10:58pm On Jun 15, 2023
You both will soon break up so no point telling him about nothing.. undecided

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Oluromantic: 10:59pm On Jun 15, 2023
You kept a lie for a year! Haba. No matter how little it sounds, lying is bad in a growing relationship. How would you feel if you were lied to. Tell him now before it's too late and set your mind free. You've been rolling together for a year which makes it seem like the relationship is growing.

Advice: Work on your self esteem too. You don't have to lie to make a man happy. Men don't need that, it's you ladies that crave it.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Houseofglam7(f): 11:25pm On Jun 15, 2023
That was totally unnecessary.
To what end

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by PerfectStranger(m): 11:27pm On Jun 15, 2023
phorget:
You both will soon break up so no point telling him about nothing.. undecided
Guy no loud am cheesy grin

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by wisdomkid: 11:36pm On Jun 15, 2023
That is a huge dent to his believe, and honestly, may likely affect your relationship. But you can't hide it, except you are willing to swear affidavits

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by emerged01(m): 1:44am On Jun 16, 2023
samwash:
Let me give you my 25 cent.

Tomorrow morning, locate the nearest customary/ high court close to you & jejely sworn affidavit of the month & date of birth and show it to your boyfriend to support your lie.
He wouldn't get angry again because you already have prove for it.
Using lies to cover lies will end one day. It wont last long like a premature diick.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Gadafii: 2:40am On Jun 16, 2023
Breakfast for the two of you in advance πŸ˜’

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by FahBuLous: 3:04am On Jun 16, 2023
See wetin person de worry abt. Go to court and swear affidavit ASAP.. You get mind start relationship with lie.. Ndi ara.. If it was me, immediately you tell me abt it, we are done.. I will have another babe and keep you for fvcking anytime i want, the day you finally find out that i have another babe and you decide to leave, e no go even touch me.. Lying biiitches everywhere.. Ndi ara ndi ara..

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Ofunaofu: 3:12am On Jun 16, 2023
Oluromantic:
You kept a lie for a year! Haba. No matter how little it sounds, lying is bad in a growing relationship. How would you feel if you were lied to. Tell him now before it's too late and set your mind free. You've been rolling together for a year which makes it seem like the relationship is growing.

Advice: Work your self esteem too. You don't have to lie to make a man happy. Men don't need that, it's you ladies that crave it.


a year is even short

her type can take a lie to the grave

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Stevyne: 3:17am On Jun 16, 2023
Na this same line one mumu wan blow for me, I just told her to shussh!!
You don't need to tell lies, you can't be February and be claiming June.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by zedegit: 3:23am On Jun 16, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.


That can't be the only lie because a lie begats more lies. Did you equally tell him you are a virgin?


Otilo

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by imagrg(m): 3:39am On Jun 16, 2023
Did you tell him you are still a virgin too?

If you did, I will tell him the truth on your behalf oh.

Meanwhile, wish me a happy birthday.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by samwash(m): 6:15am On Jun 16, 2023
emerged01:

Using lies to cover lies will end one day. It wont last long like a premature diick.

Nor mind the yeye girl.
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by nokspos: 6:19am On Jun 16, 2023
This is an health issue you need to address, it is called mythomania and pseudologia fantastica. You should google it "pseudologia fantastica disorder" Your case might not be complex, but its an health issue.

Come clean to him , if he can accept you with the fact that there's an underlying health condition. Then fine , if not , move on with your life and tell your next relationship about your health condition before you go far.

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by advanceDNA: 6:26am On Jun 16, 2023
Houseofglam7:
That was totally unnecessary.
To what end

soul and heart Manipulation ...
Likely to manipulate him to thinking their meeting was fate, divine, a special event, a rare occurrence in the time and space.....and perhaps treat her specially and quickly marry her so that he doesnt lose this special astrological arrangement the universe has arranged for him grin

I have heard of virginity lies...
Number of ex lies
body count lies
Womb condition lies...
Existing children lies..
Already married lies...

I never hear this one before.....

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by advanceDNA: 6:32am On Jun 16, 2023
samwash:
Let me give you my 25 cent.

Tomorrow morning, locate the nearest customary/ high court close to you & jejely sworn affidavit of the month & date of birth and show it to your boyfriend to support your lie.
He wouldn't get angry again because you already have prove for it.

What will happen to all her id cards...
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by samwash(m): 6:34am On Jun 16, 2023
advanceDNA:


What will happen to all her id cards...

Your guess is as good as mine.
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Bennysam: 7:35am On Jun 16, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.
What if this relationship leads to marriage?
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Martinsmine(m): 7:50am On Jun 16, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.
achieve first before d truth
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by talented321: 7:55am On Jun 16, 2023
And u believe he will marry u

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Meerahbel: 7:58am On Jun 16, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.
Yes
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Sanguine(f): 8:34am On Jun 16, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.


Are you sure your name is Fyzaila, or Lyarzailair. πŸ€”

Biko wetin consign me sef! πŸ₯±

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Baronthecelebri: 9:03am On Jun 16, 2023
What do you plan on achieving

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Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Nonywendy(m): 9:07am On Jun 16, 2023
fyzaila:
I lied to my guy that we have the same birth day and month and he has been over the moon. Saying I'm his missing rib an all that. This happen during our talking stage which is a year ago.

Should i tell him the truth or just keep cool? Guys please how will you handle such situation?

Note: this is the only lie i have ever told him. I'm very loyal tbh.
When the foundation is built on lies u wil reap lies bountifully. He will never believe u again. Even ur greetings will seems like lies to him
Re: Should I Tell Him The Truth? by Reminderz: 9:26am On Jun 16, 2023
if you can lie on something as simple as your birthday date, only God knows what else you are covering up for him... women will see a sensible man and will take him for a ride, later when they later gets married to the man who doesn't care about them, they open their foul mouths into saying "all men, sorry, all women are scum" and later become frustrated evening newspaper feminists....

it is quite unfortunate...

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