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My second thread today.
Just wanted to write this down.

Don't mind my typos. I didn't proofread.

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Adulthood is not what I expected it to be. I'm utterly disappointed. Let me explain.

When I was little, I use to imagine adulthood being an interesting stage of life, the age of responsibilities where people have figured their lives out. I used to imagine that adults have money, but they're just hiding it. I imagined that they have plans for the future, even though they might not be happy, but at least, they are independent and living an adventurous life.

I didn't really desire to be an adult because I saw it as a stressful stage of life where you are on your own, away from your parents and struggling to make money. But at the same time, I found it interesting.

But I really was disappointed when I became an adult. I realized that the adults around me really haven't figured any sh*t out. They aren't happy with their lives, don't have money, their lives aren't interesting! Both male and female! Young and old, their wives don't respect them, women don't value them. And the list continues. It was not the age of responsibilities as I imagined, but the age of confusion filled with why's and how's.

I found out that most adults, 99% of them are lazy, and enslaved by the government. Do 9-5 jobs, got paid nothing . Can't even buy a super car, don't even have control of their lives. The government decides when they wake up and go to work. The bank is in control of their money. The bank doesn't really save your money, they use it for investment, to make money for the government. The bank don't even save their money in their bank. But that's a topic for another day. So, they're living sad lives and haven't figured any sh*t out. They are following the same circle that made their fathers poor and they don't even care!

Then I realized that they need people that have figured it out by their side. They need someone they will tell them that they are fvcked up! Someone that will tell them to 'piss off', 'no one really cares', and who will tell them how lazy they are.

People wake up wondering if they are happy or not. If you are happy, good for you. If you're sad, who cares? You just have to be disciplined enough to get up and do what you have to do. If you don't, you're lazy and deserves to be broke. I think everyone is exactly where they deserve to be, whether they're poor or Rich.

Fact is that nobody really cares, the government doesn't care! If you die today, your boss will replace you immediately, he will forbid that even your death should ruin his business.

People should wake up to the reality! No one cares, stop going around the same circle that fvcked your fathers up. Break out of the circle. Stop being lazy. Develope skills. Stop giving a f*ck about your emotions. Work every waking hour. What's the worse that can happen? You can't die from working, you're just lazy and disappointing and that's why nobody will remember your name when you're gone. Work like never before, you have all the time you need to rest when you die.

I earn nicely for the past four years minimum so I don't know what you're talking about.

Manchi live is not funny, especially when you are broke.

DeeBaDan:
I earn nicely for the past four years minimum so I don't know what you're talking about.

If you're okay with your earning, good for you.
I don't know how much you're earning, but do you know that if you earn 250k a month for the next 80 years without spending a dime out of it, it will amount to N240M, and you won't even be able to afford a Nigerian used Bugatti.
And I know a person on the internet that have 30 Bugatti and isn't even 40 years old yet.
If that doesn't change your mindset towards money, then nothing will.

op, you've truly woken up... that's just the harsh reality... sometimes when I see about people talking about their dream job or working for some company, I shake my head that these people don't even know what are really asking for... all what you are asking for is to continuing being a slave for other people... you don't want to break free from this cycle of modern slavery and get your freedom... it's all slavery, the method used is the only thing that differs...

you shouldn't even have a dream job, you should strive to be your own boss, think outside the box, have multiple sources of income, not working for a man or government who makes you slave away your previous time and energy for them and when you now get old, you realise the things you feel you saved were taken away by bills and you have close to nothing left while still living on rent... you get old and depressed.... most people don't know how they are being controlled remotely... because where they work, they are given the illusions of big salary or some benefits, they don't realise that the bigger the salary, the bigger the mental cage they've locked themselves... this is not a physical prison, but it has the same effect... only few would be able to break out of this cage till death comes for them... most get old depending on pensions which is never guaranteed until they finally die of sickness or depression... it's the loop the system has designed for the average man...

your freedom is the most important thing to you, unfortunately it will not be given for you freely, it's what you have to fight for.. you have to stop doing what the average Joe does, stop consuming what the average Joe does, refused to be brainwashed, and refuse to be average.. you have to fight like you're really fighting for your survival.. think outside the box and be exceptional else you'll continue being an average or below average person.. you have to say no that you can't continue waking up your company sets for you, only go to break when your company says so, and only rests when your company says so.. for how long do you want to be doing all this? is this what you wanna do to get rich? lol you're on a long thing because you'll never be rich or wealthy.. watch free city to understand the concept the system has designed for you...

I laugh when I see broke people say that "money can't buy happiness", lol what can poverty buy? after being in a good health, what can't money do? have you seen a rich man gave all his money away? lol fvck NO! it's the same man that will tell you money can't buy happiness, lmao...

the second thing is that, this reality is even more harsh for men... men have to struggle their whole lives... no one gives a fvck about them or how they feel, they just have to keep adapting and adapting... some eventually end up depressed, some commits suicide, and some end up broke and invisible to the society... it's a harsh world for men.. despite all the challenges life has already thrown at them, they are still expected to protect and provide against all means... it's a sad world for men... coupled with all these struggles, the fastest way a man can die is to end up with a bad woman.. his death is certain...

Xenry:
If you're okay with your earning, good for you.
I don't know how much you're earning, but do you know that if you earn 250k a month for the next 40 years without spending a dime out of it, it will amount to N120M, and you won't even be able to afford a Nigeria used Bugatti.
And I know a person on the internet that have 30 Bugatti and isn't even 40 years old yet.

Smiles. I'll keep my identity, projects and abilities to myself, but this sum is nothing to me. Even the entire thirty


What's most.important is that I don't need all of this to be happy. I only need myself to be happy. So I've mastered myself

Reminderz:
op, you've truly woken up... that's just the harsh reality... sometimes when I see about people talking about their dream job or working for some company, I shake my head that these people don't even know what are really asking for... all what you are asking for is to continuing being a slave for other people... you don't want to break free from this cycle of modern slavery and get your freedom... it's all slavery, the method used is the only thing that differs...

you shouldn't even have a dream job, you should strive to be your own boss, think outside the box, have multiple sources of income, not working for a man or government who makes you slave away your previous time and energy for them and when you now get old, you realise the things you feel you saved were taken away by bills and you have close to nothing left while still living on rent... you get old and depressed.... most people don't know how they are being controlled remotely... because where they work, they are given the illusions of big salary or some benefits, they don't realise that the bigger the salary, the bigger the mental cage they've locked themselves... this is not a physical prison, but it has the same effect... only few would be able to break out of this cage till death comes for them... most get old depending on pensions which is never guaranteed until they finally die of sickness or depression... it's the loop the system has designed for the average man...

your freedom is the most important thing to you, unfortunately it will not be given for you freely, it's what you have to fight for.. you have to stop doing what the average Joe does, stop consuming what the average Joe does, refused to be brainwashed, and refuse to be average.. you have to fight like you're really fighting for your survival.. think outside the box and be exceptional else you'll continue being an average or below average person.. you have to say no that you can't continue waking up your company sets for you, only go to break when your company says so, and only rests when your company says so.. for how long do you want to be doing all this? is this what you wanna do to get rich? lol you're on a long thing because you'll never be rich or wealthy.. watch free city to understand the concept the system has designed for you...

I laugh when I see broke people say that "money can't buy happiness", lol what can poverty buy? after being in a good health, what can't money do? have you seen a rich man gave all his money away? lol fvck NO! it's the same man that will tell you money can't buy happiness, lmao...

the second thing is that, this reality is even more harsh for men... men have to struggle their whole lives... no one gives a fvck about them or how they feel, they just have to keep adapting and adapting... some eventually end up depressed, some commits suicide, and some end up broke and invisible to the society... it's a harsh world for men.. despite all the challenges life has already thrown at them, they are still expected to protect and provide against all means... it's a sad world for men... coupled with all these struggles, the fastest way a man can die is to end up with a bad woman.. his death is certain...

WOW! You are on point! I really enjoyed reading your comment.

And when a man adds the struggles of life with a bad wife. Even the devil will leave him alone

Some foolish people will post and still comment on their post why can’t we allow us to correct u first ..me I’m a government worker earning 500k a months and still have a seven houses I collect rent from ..I can still travel any where in the world so what else did I need