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I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:14pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me. 637 Likes 35 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by YoungLionken(m): 6:14pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
It's a good start.. Try again next time... 1455 Likes 58 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by chatinent: 6:17pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
If you aren't ready to settle down, save yourself the stress, bro. Time will tell. 451 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Humanoid01(m): 6:17pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
If you don't 267 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:19pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Humanoid01:Wow it really exposed how weak I was with women 58 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:19pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
chatinent:Na for you people o. 6 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:20pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
YoungLionken:I will try sha 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Blackmoran(m): 6:22pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
welcome to the game, well done am proud of you, you don't have anything to be ashamed of first of all you have express yourself instead of you keeping mute and later on your bed your turn to imaginary screen writer.. secondly don't see it as a lost but rather the other way round. .. thirdly you will get more confidence by approaching girls, but let me warn you let say in a day you are to approach 10 girls the likelihood that 8 to 9 will turn you down is normal, when you asking a girl out don't be emotional about it just see it has having fun 458 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Kalatium(m): 6:26pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Bro. I will advice you to read HARDDON's dating drills on this platform. 84 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:26pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: This is good... The lesson from this is that there is no danger at all. Nothing will happen if a girl rejects you. If you look at it logically, you were not intimidated by the girl, but your brain "panicked". So you need to condition your brain to not see it as a big deal. And you can do this by approaching many girls and showing your brain that you will not die. Then it'll calm down. 223 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:27pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
BuddhaPalm:Mmmm that's a good start 21 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Sage161(m): 6:28pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Don't let your mind hold you back. Be positive and confident. Let me give you a hint - when next you converse with her, assume she likes you. It would automatically boost your confidence. Moreover don't think too much nor pretend. Just be yourself and be positive. But this your lady seem not to have regard sha. If she doesn't agree, move on. Don't try forcing her to accept you and don't pretend to get her. About all you can do in life is be who you are. Some people will love you for you. Most will love you for what you can do for them, and some won't like you at all. P. S - IF YOU JUST WANT TO BLEEP HER, ABEG DON'T EVEN READ MY ADVICE. . I DON'T ADVICE FUCKBOYS 43 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:29pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Kalatium:I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man 92 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by JOACHINpedro: 6:29pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Nice one bro. We move! 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:31pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Blackmoran:Wow bro. That your last sentence really made me feel better 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Kalatium(m): 6:34pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:Then you have no choice. Use this night and start reading. You won’t regret it. https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:34pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Kalatium:Thanks alot bro |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by HomerTimpson: 6:41pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
You try pass me o 4 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by SocialJustice: 6:51pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:Too early to quit. Next time greet a girl and politely ask for her number. Then chat with her on WhatsApp for days to familiarise yourself. Take it up from there. 8 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:52pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
SocialJustice:Thanks man 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 6:53pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
HomerTimpson:Hahaha you no mean am |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by shawnfamous(m): 6:59pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Bro u even try pass me.. I no even get guts to approach women for road.. Something must connect us before I go say I wan even follow person wey I nor know dey yarn 81 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by HomerTimpson: 7:11pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:i dey tell you bro |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 7:15pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
shawnfamous:I swear naso me sef be but loneliness wan kill me na why I determine 15 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Creeza(m): 7:25pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
No green light no approach. A basic rule which you failed. anyways, next time dont stop ladies on the road. Go somewhere cool, maybe a spa, an eatery or a get together with friends. Dont rush, stop thinking about the game and become the fu*king trophy! Sooner or later, a lady will spot you(green lights) and you dont want to look depressed or out of place when she does. Now you may choose to approach. Work on you. become comfortable in your own skin. And if you must stop a lady on the road, dont do it the first time you see her. One, it will create awkwardness, two, make you no go carry mami water enter house. If na konji dae hold you, then a relationship is definately not what you want, try the ALLEN AVENUE girls. Your hood babes will be difficult to smash except you can assure them you wont "kiss and tell" But mind you, they will tell their female friends if you prove reliable in keeping your little secret. Learn this and ladies will flock to you from all corners. And may GOD have mercy on your sceptic soul. justli:Very vital and overlooked by many. I know some guys who actually get dates right off the streets but dude, you better be in a ride or strolling with guys who are all brushed up and clean for a stranger on the road to even give you a second of her time. For personal reasons I prefer to call those who do it alone regularly as the sigma male( The compliment of Alpha) Heard stories of successful pick ups like these but they are very skilled in the craft. They are pros and the conversation is usually a brief one to just get contacts for follow up later. 121 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by PrinceOfEast(m): 7:30pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
When i start naso i dey fear woman..until i start to mingle with gees and go outings na there i start to get liver take talk to girls based on say my gees dey give me ot and moral.... bro, no fear any vagina...them no fit slap u (abi them dey mahd!) package urself, dey free around ladies and no dare make them realise say you dey fear! talk to them like say u dey talk to ur fellow man but put sugar for ur talk, just dey whine d babe and make her smile but if her head strong..abobi disembark.... 102 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by PrinceOfEast(m): 7:33pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Creeza:Taaah!! Stop to dey yarn dust!....u fit run ur package anywhere and anytime....i don run babe for church and browse 4 her wifi d nxt day....na OT u need. 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Creeza(m): 7:42pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
PrinceOfEast:Not on the road and you probably better at the game than him. He is still not comfortable and less confident. and dont quote me again. Your statement is stupid because you failed to understand the context of my post 74 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Creeza(m): 7:45pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
PrinceOfEast: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by PrinceOfEast(m): 7:45pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Creeza:you just display your lack of home training. it's a shame u'v parents. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by careytommy37(m): 7:46pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Congratulations. You have taken a very crucial first step 3 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by PrinceOfEast(m): 7:47pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
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