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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by BabaIbo: 6:54am On Jul 06, 2023
Candidlady:




All this long epistle is just a waste of time

You do know you are trying to reason/communicate with goats

Men can never control their sexual urge they were cursed with it...

Bloody rapist


Attention seeker oshi
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Electronics: 7:08am On Jul 06, 2023
Pathfinder2090:
Nice one
But have it in mind that Nigerian girls are useless..all of them.
Direct it to yourself and stop acting stupid.

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by kingriches2005: 7:12am On Jul 06, 2023
cry
anointedlinks:
When a large demographic of men see attractive women, they unconsciously want to lunge at her and are sexually charged at that moment.

This is a natural biological phenomenon but must be tempered or balanced with the use of the logical side of a man's brain

Women naturally are able to analyze the situation for more important things first, before thinking of physical attraction.

As men, practicing doing the same will go a long way in making our world a better place and reducing negative social vices such as unwanted pregnancy, forced marriages, and gender wars.

How this works is by humanizing the situation and the person in front of you.

While some women intentionally expose body parts seductively, others are simply going about their normal human lives daily.

At first sight of a woman, a man should consider multiple factors aside from his physical attraction towards her that could prevent her from being receptive to him;


- She may be in a relationship and not be looking for another man

- She may not be attracted to you

- She may be on her monthly cycle at that time and so romance is not on her mind

- She may be in discomfort from menstrual cramps

- She may be scared of men due to a past traumatic event such as molestation

- She may be stressed because of the weather or a bad event at the office

- She may not be a good fit for you in terms of the difference in type of personality you and her have

- She may be very immature and still be in her unserious stage of life

Most men would counter the above points by mentioning that having money fixes all these...

This is true, but not for the reason most believe.

Rather, this is so because of what a man having money represents.

To a woman, this more often than not, represents that you are in control of the direction your life is going and know how to fend for yourself and can support a family if she has kids with you.

These are reasonable considerations for any sensible person and a good measure of one aspect of a person's ability to navigate life adequately.

For the reasonable ladies, the source of the man's wealth is important in that, for all they know, you could be a criminal and that would represent risk and danger to survival of a family should you be arrested or killed.

Also realise that everyone is an opportunist in one way or the other. Looking for the best deal in life for themselves: men and women alike.


This is why instead of being alert on the hunt for romance when going through your day as a man, it is better to be busy in purpose living your life. If not it is gold diggers one may attract.

Purpose is any activity geared towards making the world a better place.

That is when good things happen organically.. naturally.

Also realise that bringing another person into your life,even as a girlfriend, involves responsibility (time, money, calls, visits etc.)

If she looks very flashy, while you cannot conclude entirely without interacting with her, there may be a tendency that she expects men to react in awe to her looks.

Remember that;


- She also uses the toilet like every normal human being.

- She may not have an ideal character even though she is very pretty

- She could be very ill-mannered, arrogant and or violent

Your first priority should not be how to woo or sleep with her, but to have a conversation with her to get a feel for the type of person she is.

- She may have multiple partners and be an STD risk

- She may be brainwashed by social media to hate men

The opposite of all the above could be true as well, she could be the most amazing lady.

It is a man's job to see past the physical for intangible traits before engaging in that realm.

All this is not easy to take into consideration in the moment as biological drive put in a man by God is very strong in youth to ensure survival of the human race through reproduction.

This is why it is best to use your productive years to succeed quickly (learn how to earn an income and start earning) so that you can settle down and quench these urges safely and legally in a marriage relationship.

The tragedy is when these urges are quenched outside of committed relationships and unwanted children are born or terminated through abortion.

Everything said in this article is subject to a man having a source of income to begin with.

If you aren't working in some form or the other, stay away from eating (romance) for your own good and that of other people.

What have your experiences been like?...

As a man, how do you handle your urges?

As a woman, how do men look at or approach you and how do the different ones make you feel?

Feel free to throw in your 2 cents in the comments section

Nice one

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Nawttiboi007(m): 7:12am On Jul 06, 2023
Are u sure you're not obsessed with her? πŸ‘€ talk true
blazepascal:
Just avoid that girl jennyclay..guys
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by RevenuesBoost(f): 7:36am On Jul 06, 2023
Men really need to know this

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Father4all: 7:42am On Jul 06, 2023
Useless post
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Nawttiboi007(m): 7:58am On Jul 06, 2023
Logically YES... if you're wise you'll see beyond the sentence
pembisco:

So you mean the high cost of fuel, food and living in this country is just 20 percent while the urge for woman carry 80 percent? Abeg tell me more

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by adewale2011(m): 7:59am On Jul 06, 2023
Only your Sister and Mother, mine are wonderful


Pathfinder2090:
Nice one
But have it in mind that Nigerian girls are useless..all of them.
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by shantti(m): 8:02am On Jul 06, 2023
To a woman, this more often than not, represents that you are in control of the direction your life is going and know how to fend for yourself and can support a family if she has kids with you.



So a yahoo guy, a spoilt drug addicted brat who inherited fotunes from his parent is in control of the direction his life is going simply cos he has money

While a teacher or clerk earning 35k each month is not in control of his lifes direction cos he is poor.

It is well with the discrimination. May God bless all guys.

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Alsenora: 8:17am On Jul 06, 2023
We all understand oga. Don't sha misuse it when conscious o. Lols
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
We dey try sha

But na when you dey get erection early in the morning when you wake up from Bed na im you go know say we men dey try

We nor dey Conscious still the thing go stand

Na that kind thing you say make We fit control when we dey conscious ?

He nor easy na
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Deepspirituals: 8:36am On Jul 06, 2023
whippersnapper:
Well with all this bunkum writeup. The dick will still take control and make its own decisions. Anyman that has control over his erection is either broke or impotent.
wetin nyash done cause mouth no fit talk am grin

True
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by kalufelix(m): 8:39am On Jul 06, 2023
anointedlinks:
When a large demographic of men see attractive women, they unconsciously want to lunge at her and are sexually charged at that moment.

This is a natural biological phenomenon but must be tempered or balanced with the use of the logical side of a man's brain

Women naturally are able to analyze the situation for more important things first, before thinking of physical attraction.

As men, practicing doing the same will go a long way in making our world a better place and reducing negative social vices such as unwanted pregnancy, forced marriages, and gender wars.

How this works is by humanizing the situation and the person in front of you.

While some women intentionally expose body parts seductively, others are simply going about their normal human lives daily.

At first sight of a woman, a man should consider multiple factors aside from his physical attraction towards her that could prevent her from being receptive to him;


- She may be in a relationship and not be looking for another man

- She may not be attracted to you

- She may be on her monthly cycle at that time and so romance is not on her mind

- She may be in discomfort from menstrual cramps

- She may be scared of men due to a past traumatic event such as molestation

- She may be stressed because of the weather or a bad event at the office

- She may not be a good fit for you in terms of the difference in type of personality you and her have

- She may be very immature and still be in her unserious stage of life

Most men would counter the above points by mentioning that having money fixes all these...

This is true, but not for the reason most believe.

Rather, this is so because of what a man having money represents.

To a woman, this more often than not, represents that you are in control of the direction your life is going and know how to fend for yourself and can support a family if she has kids with you.

These are reasonable considerations for any sensible person and a good measure of one aspect of a person's ability to navigate life adequately.

For the reasonable ladies, the source of the man's wealth is important in that, for all they know, you could be a criminal and that would represent risk and danger to survival of a family should you be arrested or killed.

Also realise that everyone is an opportunist in one way or the other. Looking for the best deal in life for themselves: men and women alike.


This is why instead of being alert on the hunt for romance when going through your day as a man, it is better to be busy in purpose living your life. If not it is gold diggers one may attract.

Purpose is any activity geared towards making the world a better place.

That is when good things happen organically.. naturally.

Also realise that bringing another person into your life,even as a girlfriend, involves responsibility (time, money, calls, visits etc.)

If she looks very flashy, while you cannot conclude entirely without interacting with her, there may be a tendency that she expects men to react in awe to her looks.

Remember that;


- She also uses the toilet like every normal human being.

- She may not have an ideal character even though she is very pretty

- She could be very ill-mannered, arrogant and or violent

Your first priority should not be how to woo or sleep with her, but to have a conversation with her to get a feel for the type of person she is.

- She may have multiple partners and be an STD risk

- She may be brainwashed by social media to hate men

The opposite of all the above could be true as well, she could be the most amazing lady.

It is a man's job to see past the physical for intangible traits before engaging in that realm.

All this is not easy to take into consideration in the moment as biological drive put in a man by God is very strong in youth to ensure survival of the human race through reproduction.

This is why it is best to use your productive years to succeed quickly (learn how to earn an income and start earning) so that you can settle down and quench these urges safely and legally in a marriage relationship.

The tragedy is when these urges are quenched outside of committed relationships and unwanted children are born or terminated through abortion.

Everything said in this article is subject to a man having a source of income to begin with.

If you aren't working in some form or the other, stay away from eating (romance) for your own good and that of other people.

What have your experiences been like?...

As a man, how do you handle your urges?

As a woman, how do men look at or approach you and how do the different ones make you feel?

Feel free to throw in your 2 cents in the comments section
konji remains the supremo leader...glad you acknowledged that

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by abidem4real: 8:50am On Jul 06, 2023
Pathfinder2090:
Nice one
But have it in mind that Nigerian girls are useless..all of them.
I think you made 95% sense on this one by the virtue of experience πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by olamilarks(m): 8:55am On Jul 06, 2023
Thanks you for this insightful article anointedlinks.

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by abidem4real: 8:58am On Jul 06, 2023
Mko123:
This your article really support men that has money or those with potential of making it.


In other words, broke boys should not toast or woo a lady.


Nice write up though
Nigerian girls in particular are not made for broke guys my dear brother and that is why a reasonable rich guy should always treat them as girls and not queens because they choose to be with you for financial reasons and once you are broke, their real selves will be let loose.

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Tunde835(m): 9:01am On Jul 06, 2023
Candidlady:




All this long epistle is just a waste of time

You do know you are trying to reason/communicate with goats

Men can never control their sexual urge they were cursed with it...

Bloody rapist
What you just quoted was intellect you females are mostly devoid of. The only thing females know is overhyping themselves and hating on men. Tell what was so offensive in his post that you had to render an insult

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by johnaruson(m): 9:09am On Jul 06, 2023
Couldn't control the wife and his mouth

Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Candidlady: 9:45am On Jul 06, 2023
Tunde835:
What you just quoted was intellect you females are mostly devoid of. The only thing females know is overhyping themselves and hating on men. Tell what was so offensive in his post that you had to render an insult

Oga

Can you read undecided

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Tunde835(m): 9:52am On Jul 06, 2023
Candidlady:


Oga

Can you read undecided
Nah I use sign language

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Tundex911: 11:13am On Jul 06, 2023
Abeg kini conclusion??
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by sharpwriter(m): 12:01pm On Jul 06, 2023
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool


2010 way I JAZZ in one ASHAWOO house like dat..


Around 5am in the morning..


As I reach the ASHAWOO house, the place just empty and my PREEK don already stand like STANDING FAN!


As I turn back. NaSo one Fatima just burst out from room..


this ASHAWOO BANI fat well well..

I gat no choice because my PREEK don already stand like STANDING FAN..


NaSo we JAZZ in room. I give her 500h..


As she remove her cloth, NaSo my PREEK just flat like HAUSA plate..


She talk say make I chuk PREEK ooo because she need to go toilet..


chai. NaSo I begin sweat.. I come reason my 500h make e no waste..


NaSo I close EYES come chuk PREEK..


As I de NACK her, her TOTTO de make noise..


IKPAKA IKPAKA IKPAKA IKPAKA IKPAKA!



the next thing way I hear na LOUD MESS from her YANNSH..


my bloda, no be PESIN tell me to carry my boxers for hand run ooo...



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Crazy.... Lol grin cheesy

Welcome back!

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Pootle: 1:08pm On Jul 06, 2023
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool


2010 way I JAZZ in one ASHAWOO house like dat..


Around 5am in the morning..


As I reach the ASHAWOO house, the place just empty and my PREEK don already stand like STANDING FAN!


As I turn back. NaSo one Fatima just burst out from room..


this ASHAWOO BANI fat well well..

I gat no choice because my PREEK don already stand like STANDING FAN..


NaSo we JAZZ in room. I give her 500h..


As she remove her cloth, NaSo my PREEK just flat like HAUSA plate..


She talk say make I chuk PREEK ooo because she need to go toilet..


chai. NaSo I begin sweat.. I come reason my 500h make e no waste..


NaSo I close EYES come chuk PREEK..


As I de NACK her, her TOTTO de make noise..


IKPAKA IKPAKA IKPAKA IKPAKA IKPAKA!



the next thing way I hear na LOUD MESS from her YANNSH..


my bloda, no be PESIN tell me to carry my boxers for hand run ooo...



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!



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my OG wata gaon, jama e don tey ooo...me wan borrow ur kala blast some motherfucker for here o grin

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by blazepascal(m): 1:11pm On Jul 06, 2023
Nawttiboi007:
Are u sure you're not obsessed with her? πŸ‘€ talk true
hell noo
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Kevineleven(m): 1:16pm On Jul 06, 2023
Invalid post.
We will find out if she is not interested after we shoot the shot.
The 9ja rules:
1: Nobody should drink panadol for another's headache.
2: let us learn to mind our business in this country.
3: sex is very important in Nigeria, women need it more for their mental health.

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Tboysalau(m): 1:24pm On Jul 06, 2023
Islam is the solution to all these
Women should cover up
Men should gaze down
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by BrazilianOG(m): 2:40pm On Jul 06, 2023
kokakola:
If you can control your urge in this time of moral decadence as a man, 80% of your problems are solved as a Nigerian.
Omo na true you talk afterall no body go blame you for rape or one kain yeye pregnancy wey no be you give am #FACTS

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by DonroxyII: 4:31pm On Jul 06, 2023
dontrulee:
Just yesterday I was traveling to another state via public transport and I sat down close to a very beautiful girl. I wanted to initiate a conversation with her and yunno see how it goes but I held myself. My life currently has a lot of women swarming around me, maybe close to 20 or more, I've lost count. Adding another to the list didn't appeal to me despite her beauty. I saw the green signs and some loopholes of how to get into her life but I ignored it all.

The mistake many men make, you don't have money, you're chasing women.
You have money you're still chasing women.
I transact a lot and my savings is quite big but then I hardly give women money, it's women that gives me money anyways so I'm enjoying Life.

You may have enough money that spending one or two on women is inconsequential but you're building a background for a downfall.
Put yourself and your family First
You For Run Her Package Just for The Masculinity or to keep the Journey Smooth or Help Her Glow Her Feminine Energies grin ...

Don't Do that Again Bro .... Just Do it For the Culture Anyway shocked

you will Make her Question Her Womanhood grin

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by Shadysen: 6:36pm On Jul 06, 2023
as i no get money my dick don die, blood money on my mind
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by ysgs: 8:54pm On Jul 06, 2023
anointedlinks:
When a large demographic of men see attractive women, they unconsciously want to lunge at her and are sexually charged at that moment.

This is a natural biological phenomenon but must be tempered or balanced with the use of the logical side of a man's brain

Women naturally are able to analyze the situation for more important things first, before thinking of physical attraction.

As men, practicing doing the same will go a long way in making our world a better place and reducing negative social vices such as unwanted pregnancy, forced marriages, and gender wars.

How this works is by humanizing the situation and the person in front of you.

While some women intentionally expose body parts seductively, others are simply going about their normal human lives daily.

At first sight of a woman, a man should consider multiple factors aside from his physical attraction towards her that could prevent her from being receptive to him;


- She may be in a relationship and not be looking for another man

- She may not be attracted to you

- She may be on her monthly cycle at that time and so romance is not on her mind

- She may be in discomfort from menstrual cramps

- She may be scared of men due to a past traumatic event such as molestation

- She may be stressed because of the weather or a bad event at the office

- She may not be a good fit for you in terms of the difference in type of personality you and her have

- She may be very immature and still be in her unserious stage of life

Most men would counter the above points by mentioning that having money fixes all these...

This is true, but not for the reason most believe.

Rather, this is so because of what a man having money represents.

To a woman, this more often than not, represents that you are in control of the direction your life is going and know how to fend for yourself and can support a family if she has kids with you.

These are reasonable considerations for any sensible person and a good measure of one aspect of a person's ability to navigate life adequately.

For the reasonable ladies, the source of the man's wealth is important in that, for all they know, you could be a criminal and that would represent risk and danger to survival of a family should you be arrested or killed.

Also realise that everyone is an opportunist in one way or the other. Looking for the best deal in life for themselves: men and women alike.


This is why instead of being alert on the hunt for romance when going through your day as a man, it is better to be busy in purpose living your life. If not it is gold diggers one may attract.

Purpose is any activity geared towards making the world a better place.

That is when good things happen organically.. naturally.

Also realise that bringing another person into your life,even as a girlfriend, involves responsibility (time, money, calls, visits etc.)

If she looks very flashy, while you cannot conclude entirely without interacting with her, there may be a tendency that she expects men to react in awe to her looks.

Remember that;


- She also uses the toilet like every normal human being.

- She may not have an ideal character even though she is very pretty

- She could be very ill-mannered, arrogant and or violent

Your first priority should not be how to woo or sleep with her, but to have a conversation with her to get a feel for the type of person she is.

- She may have multiple partners and be an STD risk

- She may be brainwashed by social media to hate men

The opposite of all the above could be true as well, she could be the most amazing lady.

It is a man's job to see past the physical for intangible traits before engaging in that realm.

All this is not easy to take into consideration in the moment as biological drive put in a man by God is very strong in youth to ensure survival of the human race through reproduction.

This is why it is best to use your productive years to succeed quickly (learn how to earn an income and start earning) so that you can settle down and quench these urges safely and legally in a marriage relationship.

The tragedy is when these urges are quenched outside of committed relationships and unwanted children are born or terminated through abortion.

Everything said in this article is subject to a man having a source of income to begin with.

If you aren't working in some form or the other, stay away from eating (romance) for your own good and that of other people.

What have your experiences been like?...

As a man, how do you handle your urges?

As a woman, how do men look at or approach you and how do the different ones make you feel?

Feel free to throw in your 2 cents in the comments section
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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by jimcaddy(m): 11:50pm On Jul 06, 2023
whippersnapper:
Well with all this bunkum writeup. The dick will still take control and make its own decisions. Anyman that has control over his erection is either broke or impotent.
wetin nyash done cause mouth no fit talk am grin
hahahahahahahahahahaha. This got me rolling on the floor. Another angle to look at it.
Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by dontrulee: 11:11am On Jul 07, 2023
DonroxyII:
You For Run Her Package Just for The Masculinity or to keep the Journey Smooth or Help Her Glow Her Feminine Energies grin ...

Don't Do that Again Bro .... Just Do it For the Culture Anyway shocked

you will Make her Question Her Womanhood grin

Lol, I don spin plates tire.
Women matter don tire me ajeh. grin cheesy

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Re: How To Control Your Urges As A Man by judedwriter(m): 12:09pm On Jul 07, 2023
post=124238515:
Read Your Bible

And pray everyday πŸ“–πŸ™

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