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Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by eyinjuege: 6:41am On Jul 11, 2023 |
They got the amount they needed. The pastor should make a public announcement in church on the amount raised, the amount given to them and then what the church plans to do with the change, as per helping others in need instead of asking for donations all the time. That should settle it and show some transparency. They need to keep record of how the money was spent 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by kingthreat(m): 7:04am On Jul 11, 2023 |
The pastor did not keep the money for himself. He kept it into the church's account. That family is a very greedy family. Their mentality could be the reason behind their poverty. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Kemadealadire(f): 7:30am On Jul 11, 2023 |
Acidosis:True, Foursquare is very balanced, if you were raised there, it's very hard to go astray. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Nobody: 10:12am On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul:Giving the exact 245k is wrong. Post medical bills and the rest is another thing. The bills in the hospital will be more. Feeding in the hospital is another thing. Also the said person may have been a worker,the time of his admission will means halting means of income that should cater for his dependent. 300k-400k should be have been ideal. While the balance should be reserved for another ill parishioner 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by FalseProphet1(m): 10:53am On Jul 11, 2023 |
Acidosis:That's offering box na 🙄 Jesus saw them giving offering in the offering box, the exact amount wasn't known because it's for the priest. So give your own offering and tithes and collect your blessings. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Nazgul: 10:58am On Jul 11, 2023 |
CuriousStudent:This is why during my schooling days, whenever I'm going back to school, and my dad asks me to calculate my fees, accommodation and other expenses, and give him the total figure. I'll make sure I inflate the total figure possible after all my calculations. This will help cover any cost I forget to add or any emergency fee I'm slammed with in school. I expected the family to have done this. Calculate the total cost along with expenses then inflate the total. If they had done this, they wouldn't have been shamelessly dragging money with the pastor. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by bukatyne(f): 11:30am On Jul 11, 2023 |
The pastor is greedy and an hireling just to profit from the Gospel. The family ungrateful and entitled to what is not theirs. Since they got the amount they requested for, they should have shown gratitude to God, the pastor and the members thereafter treat their child. They did not even have the right to ask the pastor for the balance. In the Bible, when a Church contributed for another needy Church, the whole contribution from the wealthier Church was sent to the Church in need. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by jesmond3945: 11:49am On Jul 11, 2023 |
vdestro:why? He put the money back where it belongs. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by brain54(m): 11:59am On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul:It’s quite a tricky situation as you have stated… I think once the medical bills is sorted out. The pastor should give account of the outstanding balance to the church to decide what it should be used for. The pastor should not keep the money- I would have said those that contributed should be reimbursed but it would be quite difficult to keep track of that. So maybe outstanding balance should be used for other charitable work in the church with the pastor giving full account of how the money is spent. Nothing money cannot destroy. Including pastor’s reputation! 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by lomprico(m): 12:16pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul: They should collect their free 245k and not be as greedy as the pastor. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Omoapena(m): 12:16pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
vdestro: It's not fair to accuse the pastor of being greedy. The family is also being greedy by wanting to keep all the money raised. The pastor did a good thing by raising the funds, and it's not the family's business what the pastor does with the leftover money. It's possible that the pastor kept the money aside for other useful purposes related to the family's needs. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Xammie001(m): 12:17pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Both parties are GREEDY Nazgul: |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Kobicove(m): 12:17pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Since the money was raised using the effort and goodwill of the church I think it deserves to keep some of the money but giving just 245K to the family out of a sum of 760K is quite unfair. The pastor should have given the family at least 75% of the money or at the very worst 50%! |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by lomprico(m): 12:20pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
FalseProphet1: If you say so, Jesus'death was useless na! |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Exceed15: 12:26pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
The family is an Ingrate. The rest of the money should be used for the church project and carry the church along. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by paskal16: 12:50pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Half bread is better than none The family should be greatful they saw money for surgery sef |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Nairastake: 12:53pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul: Some people are been sentimental because Church is involved. To help answer this question, let look at it this way. Someone is sick on nairaland and requested of Seun to help him raise funds from nairalanders... Seun obliged. After donations, N760,000 was realized whereas the guy needs only N245,000. Is it justifiable for Seun to give him just the 245k he needed and keep the rest in "nairaland account?" The answer to this question is the answer to your question. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by greggng: 12:54pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul: The pastor is 100 percent right . The balance he kept can be used to attend to some other persons in future without recouse to donation from members. The entitlement nature of us makes the family feel they ve right tobthst money ...They should be grateful .. However the pastor would ve added a little more for his feeding ..cos he needs to recover properly |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by DrDunamis(m): 12:55pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul: Learn to avoid church matter talk... No be any body papa business... Na God dey 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ run am... |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by OgbanjeProphet: 12:55pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Wicked and greedy pastor. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Dpcommy35: 12:56pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
What I see in the whole scenario is that the pastor didn't take that decision alone. The family of the sick should appreciate the pastor for taking their plea and be grateful to God. There are other needs that needed attention in the church. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by poweredcom(m): 12:57pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Ungrateful family You see why its not good to help some people |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by CaptMarvel(m): 12:57pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul:how much did your needy brother need again? You all are just a greedy Bunch. Imagine they only contributed 100k, will he be asking for change? |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by emmanuelewumi(m): 1:01pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul: The excess fund should be kept in a different account that will be used to assist other sick or poor people in the church . The Pastor should not personalize the money 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Azzik: 1:04pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul:That money belongs to the sick brother all of it and not for the church or pastor period. I think the pastor is just trying to be cunning as he will definitely wanna have his share from the proceeds. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by boborosky(m): 1:05pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Acidosis: How are you a Levite? Are you a member of the Hebrew tribe of Levi? Please educate me.... |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Dproperties: 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
The pastor kept the remaining balance to help those who might need help in the future, by then it will not require holding mic to ask the congregation for money anymore |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by cassyrooy(m): 1:08pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul:Post-treatment will likely have some expenses on it own, that's enough grounds to ask for yet another help but aside that, the remaining amount should be safely kept aside for any other member who may need assistance. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by TenQ: 1:10pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
poshestmina:It is sometimes easy to judge before hearing all sides of the story. 1. The sick people's family should be grateful they asked of N345, 000 and they got exactly what they asked for. 2. Then other part of the equation : a. What normally happens when in such donations the money is not complete : does the church subsidise? If they do, that excess money should go to the Subsidy purse for the next set of families that will need help b. It was a good thing the Pastor put the remainder into the purse of the church rather than his own pockets. This would have made him guilty. This means the pastor didn't act alone. The Board of Deacons must be in know of this action |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Cjayboy: 1:10pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Pastor would have added additional amount to the hospital bill. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Pimine: 1:15pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul:I see you already have a negative view of "most pastors", but let me tell you something: 1. There's something called a welfare account. The excess money derived shouldn't go to the family, but rather should be kept in the welfare account so that in the future, other members can obtain help without tasking the whole church. 2. The pastor didn't hide the total amount generated. He simply gave the member what he asked for. That's a good shepherd. 3. That family is greedy, entitled and ungrateful and will definitely leave the church but if you know them, kindly beg them to leave quietly and not do or say anything that will kindle the anger of God upon them. |
Re: Is This Family Right To Demand For The Whole Money? by Ten06(m): 1:15pm On Jul 11, 2023 |
Nazgul: The Pastor is wrong, church is more or less a charity organization and not a business center. As far as that money is raised as a result of the brethren illness the pastor is suppose to give all to the family. God knows why he made the money raised to that amount |
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