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Curdlebug:
Good day, I hope your day was great, sorry to bother you, pls i just need ur help, pls I am not lazy, certain conditions and circumstances hv made me see financial assistance, pls kindly help me with N1OOO, i just want to get food please, since yesterday I hv had nothing, May you never lack, God bless you, 7O69473889 opay Joseph A.

Joseph the beggar is here again. Check your previous monikers you made use of to beg: ARKLASTECH, affiox, PriNceNova
Stop deceiving people with your plea for help. The other time you appeared on this platform, begging, you wrote the below with a different moniker:
"ARKLASTECH: I need your help please, for some days now, I have not been able to go out for my usual daily hustles because of ill health, I have exhausted all money on me on drugs, I'm battling now to regain my self so as to be able to resume my job, I am not able to buy food or food stuffs... Can you pls help me with a 1000 naira to get food , O13OO63I7O, Gtbank, Joseph A. God bless you."
Go to your church or mosque to beg. Stop being shameless; learn to follow a dignified path of honest enterprise.

Abi1985:
Except a woman has made up her mind that she does not want to have kids. Having children at a fertile age is key. Please do not wait too long to settle down or marry. It is not easy for many women after the age of 35 to 40s to conceive children. It is very possible for a woman to have children in her 40s and even 50s but the chances are not high compared to a woman in her 20s.

Should a woman marry a madman or have a baby with an irresponsible man because one wants to have kids? Definitely no.


Do not fall into the category of a woman who is so focused on her careers or degree that she ignore to date or ignore life after work. That PhD can wait if you already have a Master.

I knew it would be a 'man'. Your mate just created Threads, which will soon be worth billions. And here you are, browbeating women to go into marriage...

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

Honestly I tire for my gender oh.. left for me, I won’t even talk about anything concerning this kind of topic.. I will just be having fun after all a man can have babies anytime he wants even when he is forty.. why my fellow gender will be writing these kind of shit prompting women to pressure us with marriage or babies when we just want to have fun is what I don’t understand with this kind of STUP!d !D!OTS

jeromestarks:
Once a woman is above 23 before you met her, please do not have anything serious to do with her unless you want to use all your hard earned money to treat diseases which you knew nothing about.

Just fvck her and keep fvcking her until you meet a woman within 18 - 23.

oga na rubbish you dey talk what make you think 16 17 18 have no infection or you think educated parent will give out their children to marriage at that age who no b aboki,if you are a father all your girl will marry at 15 16

jeromestarks:
Once a woman is above 23 before you met her, please do not have anything serious to do with her unless you want to use all your hard earned money to treat diseases which you knew nothing about.

Just fvck her and keep fvcking her until you meet a woman within 18 - 23.

oga na rubbish you dey talk what make you think 16 17 18 have no infection or you think educated parent will give out their children to marriage at that age who no b aboki,if you are a father all your girl will marry at 15 16 or your sister marry at that age

Adachizzy:
Let women breathe. It's not like we don't know the best for ourselves, or y'all care about us more than we do.

There are many options to making babies now, at the end of the day, what matters this day is taking care of a child, not bringing it into the world.

As long as it isn't hurting you, a woman’s age should not be your concern.

Women this, women that, haba!!
PS: I'm not 30 or 35, before some bitter people here misread and misyarn.

You are not 30 yet but you somehow think the best response from you was leave the message and attack the messenger, thereby misleading some soon-to-be-30? It is not every time we should see harmless messages as attack on our personality and put up unnecessary defence

jeromestarks:
Once a woman is above 23 before you met her, please do not have anything serious to do with her unless you want to use all your hard earned money to treat diseases which you knew nothing about.

Just fvck her and keep fvcking her until you meet a woman within 18 - 23.

I don't think it is that worse. You play too much

GeneralPula:
If a girl is lucky, it’s good she settle at her young age..
Young girls have high chances of meeting a good guy that can love them forever than when she don grow up old..

Believe it or not, it’s extremely rare for a girl to find a genuine partner when she don near or pass 30! At this stage, 99% of guys she’ll meet just want to knack & pass with many fake promises, 90% of guys she’ll meet won’t be completely single..

Nature already structured us as humans! And I kinda agree to that saying.. * women doesn’t have much time biologically*! My experience with women also made me know girls of 27+ without genuine partner, not a day goes by that such girls won’t think about having partner..

Either she’s saying it or not. Either acting it or not. The truth always remains within the heart!

Honest truth, brutal truth. They're everywhere, desperately searching.
Unless she was already with her potential life partner since when they were in their teens or early twenties

Angelfrost:
This is a very daft post!

Such emotional blackmail, prejudice, and pressure on women is quite stale, and the fact that it's solely echoed within Africa underscores why the continent is where it is today!

Marriage is not a trophy for women...! Childbirth is a beautiful thing but should not be forced upon anyone, neither should any man or woman be age-shamed into these two sacred states!

If singleness and non-parenthood favors anyone, let him or her stay there and thrive there!... If adoption of kids suits you, then follow that path!

That's the point and it was clearly stated too. I don't know what you are fighting here.
You can't say that you are not aware of that facts in the content.

Sandralight:
I tire o like they wont get to that age too even in this modern age there are people still scared to grow old, if you are a lady that is 35 and single, will you kill yourself because of what some guy in internet is going to say lol
Abeg make everybody live their life with what pleases them

It might not pleases some people. But the problem is that they might not be aware of the consequences at the time. And since this has to do with time, it is not reversible and no correction

Etuagievin:
I know of many couples who married early and still had issues with child bearing. Some married got one child and failed to conceive again- secondary infertility. Who also told you those who marry early dont give birth to kids with birth defects. I am not here to water down the benefits of marrying early , no. What am saying is, both cases have their fair share of troubles.

Not at all, you sounded more like you're confused.
If those who married early could have all the problems you enumerated, imagine the possibility of endless issues for those who married late.

maasoap:
That's the point and it was clearly stated too. I don't know what you are fighting here.
You can't say that you are not aware of that facts in the content.

What I'm fighting here is clearly spelled out in my second paragraph sir.

It's not something new... They use such posts and poorly founded theories to make people, especially young women desperate about marriage and childbirth!

Such posts also put intense pressure on married couples battling with infertility!

If you think I'm being overreactive, then you really don't have a clue how subliminal emotional manipulation works!

Angelfrost:
What I'm fighting here is clearly spelled out in my second paragraph sir.

It's not something new... They use such posts and poorly founded theories to make people, especially young women desperate about marriage and childbirth!

Such posts also put intense pressure on married couples battling with infertility!

It is new to some people who are just seeing it for the first time. It is information and not poorly founded at all. It is a basic biology.

If you think I'm being overreactive, then you really don't have a clue how subliminal emotional manipulation works!

I don't see manipulation because the message wasn't directed at a person in particular but gender in general. The information is already out there for everyone, it is left for individual to decide what she wants to do with it.

Shut up ,you lack knowledge, it is not a woman's fault, some are gentic, and most comes from the man, you should be talking to men also, because when a man has some genetic issues in his lineage , or weak sperm as a result of excessive alcohol, infections, ican lead to disability. Go and learn before you come on.media to put blames on only women .






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Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids disorders that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec[/quote]

Mindlog:
Shame someone who is not mentally okay? No, I don't because I also earn an income working with such people.

don't worry
you will learn
the hard way
shebi it's test tube baby you think is easy to have

we are making millions off your type here
invest in chewy guys

isabi2lof:
Abeg you guys should go and sleep , you have problem with a career woman and also with a jobless woman .

You're sounding as if you're doing a lady a favor by getting married to her , as if it's not men that need marriage the most .

Early marriage does not equate giving birth early , just so you know.

Many of our parents were giving birth to children even into their early 40s ,and those children did not come out deformed, it's even usually the first borns that experience this , with their early marriage.

Na good sperm dey produce good pikin , you guys should stop shifting blames

Marriage is not for everyone

Etuagievin:
I know of many couples who married early and still had issues with child bearing. Some married got one child and failed to conceive again- secondary infertility. Who also told you those who marry early dont give birth to kids with birth defects. I am not here to water down the benefits of marrying early , no. What am saying is, both cases have their fair share of troubles.

You are right. All I said it is not easy to conceive after advanced maternity age of 35 if a woman wants to marry or settle down and have a children. If a woman does not want marry and not have children, that is her choice. Her life her choice

Adachizzy:
Let women breathe. It's not like we don't know the best for ourselves, or y'all care about us more than we do.

There are many options to making babies now, at the end of the day, what matters this day is taking care of a child, not bringing it into the world.

As long as it isn't hurting you, a woman’s age should not be your concern.

Women this, women that, haba!!
PS: I'm not 30 or 35, before some bitter people here misread and misyarn.

I think what he's trying to say is that age matters in child bearing. A friend of mine nearly lost his wife 'cos she got pregnant again after 7 years of the first child. That time age is already telling on her. He told me she laboured for several hours. He told me the money he spent. And it's all because of her age. Age matters with women. I believe a man of 60yrs can still impregnate a woman But for a woman of 60 to conceive...Uhmm. Women are mostly on the receiving end and age tells faster on women. I'm very sorry if I've wrong you anywhere with my words. Blessings!!!

Mindlog:
Shame someone who is not mentally okay? No, I don't because I also earn an income working with such people.

eeyaa so you're mentally ill?
Sorry

lolaluv1:
I knew it would be a 'man'. Your mate just created Threads, which will soon be worth billions. And here you are, browbeating women to go into marriage...

I don hear, abi I am lying

movid:
I think what he's trying to say is that age matters in child bearing. A friend of mine nearly lost his wife 'cos she got pregnant again after 7 years of the first child. That time age is already telling on her. He told me she laboured for several hours. He told me the money he spent. And it's all because of her age. Age matters with women. I believe a man of 60yrs can still impregnate a woman But for a woman of 60 to conceive...Uhmm. Women are mostly on the receiving end and age tells faster on women. I'm very sorry if I've wrong you anywhere with my words. Blessings!!!

Thank you Sir for understanding

Cromagnon:
eeyaa so you're mentally ill?
Sorry