Abi1985:
Except a woman has made up her mind that she does not want to have kids. Having children at a fertile age is key. Please do not wait too long to settle down or marry. It is not easy for many women after the age of 35 to 40s to conceive children. It is very possible for a woman to have children in her 40s and even 50s but the chances are not high compared to a woman in her 20s.

Should a woman marry a madman or have a baby with an irresponsible man because one wants to have kids? Definitely no.


Do not fall into the category of a woman who is so focused on her careers or degree that she ignore to date or ignore life after work. That PhD can wait if you already have a Master.

Offpointng:


Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids illness that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec

Adachizzy:
Let women breathe. It's not like we don't know the best for ourselves, or y'all care about us more than we do.

There are many options to making babies now, at the end of the day, what matters this day is taking care of a child, not bringing it into the world.

As long as it isn't hurting you, a woman’s age should not be your concern.

Women this, women that, haba!!
PS: I'm not 30 or 35, before some bitter people here misread and misyarn.

braine:


Anty quickly insert disclaimer.

But in the bid of doing that, you are further stigmatizing women above 30.

Who cares if you are 30 or 35? What should people in that age range do now? Anyone who has any problem with a woman of any age can go blazes.

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

braine:


Anty quickly insert disclaimer.

But in the bid of doing that, you are further stigmatizing women above 30.

Who cares if you are 30 or 35? What should people in that age range do now? Anyone who has any problem with a woman of any age can go blazes.

jeromestarks:
Once a woman is above 23 before you met her, please do not have anything serious to do with her unless you want to use all your hard earned money to treat diseases which you knew nothing about.

Just fvck her and keep fvcking her until you meet a woman within 18 - 23.

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

Abi1985:
Except a woman has made up her mind that she does not want to have kids. Having children at a fertile age is key. Please do not wait too long to settle down or marry. It is not easy for many women after the age of 35 to 40s to conceive children. It is very possible for a woman to have children in her 40s and even 50s but the chances are not high compared to a woman in her 20s.

Should a woman marry a madman or have a baby with an irresponsible man because one wants to have kids? Definitely no.


Do not fall into the category of a woman who is so focused on her careers or degree that she ignore to date or ignore life after work. That PhD can wait if you already have a Master.

Offpointng:


Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids illness that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

Tingotoe:
I have someone I know who's wife gave birth to their first child when she was aged 42 and the poor boy is autistic. It's really hard on them

Sandralight:
Why is it that men are the ones obsessed with when a woman should give birth lol
Abeg let women breath!!!!

Abi1985:
Except a woman has made up her mind that she does not want to have kids. Having children at a fertile age is key. Please do not wait too long to settle down or marry. It is not easy for many women after the age of 35 to 40s to conceive children. It is very possible for a woman to have children in her 40s and even 50s but the chances are not high compared to a woman in her 20s.

Should a woman marry a madman or have a baby with an irresponsible man because one wants to have kids? Definitely no.


Do not fall into the category of a woman who is so focused on her careers or degree that she ignore to date or ignore life after work. That PhD can wait if you already have a Master.

jeromestarks:
Once a woman is above 23 before you met her, please do not have anything serious to do with her unless you want to use all your hard earned money to treat diseases which you knew nothing about.

Just fvck her and keep fvcking her until you meet a woman within 18 - 23.

Klass99:


Valid point but this is a two way street fa - there is nothing stopping you people (men) from getting a vasectomy either when you know for certain that you do not want to be saddled with disabled children in old age and you are done having kids after two or three but at the mention of vasectomy most of you act like you were asked to jump off a cliff. There is also nothing wrong with staying child free for that matter if you see a 35+ year old woman you really like and want to settle down with in your old age as well.

You are the ones who vehemently kick against being childless in marriages for the fear that your manhood will be questioned by others and you are still the ones agitating for the baby mama lifestyle for the sake of children, without wanting the full responsibility of marriage and a proper family unit.

I think having children to prove your manhood and carry on your family names, matters to you people more but somehow it has been turned around to make it seem like children are an obsession of females only, when Naija men are just as crazily obsessed about it.....no matter how often you all claim a man is not loved in old age and children only take care of their mothers.

And Sandralight was absolutely right - men on this forum are particularly obsessed with women affairs and matters. I didn't know Tinubu had appointed new and several online ministers of women's affairs ooo. If only most would channel that energy into productive activities offline they would be fine.

corlin2:


You’re capping bro, there’s no connection between older women and giving birth to autistic child or Down syndrome.
It is not about age.

Kingsleystunner:
Na them know if them like make them dey asks where do you get my number from

GeneralPula:
If a girl is lucky, it’s good she settle at her young age..
Young girls have high chances of meeting a good guy that can love them forever then when she don grow up old..

Believe it or not, it’s extremely rare for a girl to find a genuine partner when she don near or pass 30! At this stage, 99% of guys she’ll meet just want to knack & pass with many fake promises, 90% of guys she’ll meet won’t be completely single..

Nature already structured us as humans! And I kinda agree to that saying.. * women doesn’t have much time biologically*! My experience with women also made me know girls of 27+ without genuine partner, not a day goes by that such girls won’t think about having partner..

Either she’s saying it or not. Either acting it or not. The truth always remains within the heart!

Offpointng:


Cuz we're tired of having kids with Autism, down syndrome and other associated kids disorders that comes from giving birth at an old age. Y'all should have mercy on innocent kids and take your mind off marriage and child bearing once y'all clock 35 abec