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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Rokiat(f): 3:46pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Rokiat abeg show
Lol

@poster what kinda 1920 woman that man married?
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by phemmyfour: 3:47pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
So how do you ask?
Let your eyes n hand do the talk. Touch the right places. A good couple communicate without talking
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by President2001(m): 3:47pm On Jul 17, 2023
80% of woman will never do that so that they won't be tag ashewo no matter how they need it
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by robosky02(op): 3:48pm On Jul 17, 2023
Rokiat:
Lol

@poster what kinda 1920 woman that man married?
Ok watin she for do
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by McStoic(m): 3:48pm On Jul 17, 2023
Chaiii. See question
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by DrAda(f): 3:49pm On Jul 17, 2023
This is an unfortunate question
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by itumafriday(m): 3:50pm On Jul 17, 2023
Women will never ask you for that instead they'll start playing with you then read the handwriting on the wall
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AlabiKILLER2021(m): 3:50pm On Jul 17, 2023
Guys if you know what comes out of a woman's Toto


You will never eat pusssy again

Smelly menstrual blood
Disgusting discharge


The same hole

Person go put him mouth




Spits[sub][/sub]
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by mayor1814: 3:51pm On Jul 17, 2023
It's even sexier wen d woman initiate it most especially by body language. Touching private part and chasing each other. So sweet
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by illicit(m):
It's not bad
Infact I prefer it that way

Candidlady will always initiate it on our matrimonial bed

This I have seen
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by t2luv1: 3:51pm On Jul 17, 2023
EriMma1:
I don't see any reason why I shouldn't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.
Damm I think I am in Love. That line took my breath away.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by LegallyBlunt: 3:52pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
What your advice
My advice is let married couples communicate better, without 3rd parties. That includes discussing sex matters privately between the two of them. From your post, he hasn't discussed with her yet.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by robosky02(op): 3:52pm On Jul 17, 2023
DrAda:
This is an unfortunate question
Dr how do you do your own
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AlabiKILLER2021(m): 3:52pm On Jul 17, 2023
EriMma1:
I don't see any reason why I shouldn't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.
Toto) dey scratch you
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by robosky02(op): 3:54pm On Jul 17, 2023
LegallyBlunt:
My advice is let married couples communicate better, without 3rd parties. That includes discussing sex matters privately between the two of them. From your post, he hasn't discussed with her yet.
How should she initiate chukuma
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Microwhy: 3:54pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.
That man is not sensitive enough. Every woman with her own way and signal of the need for oza room..
My wife can be rigid and reserve but I know when she wants it. Even she might deny it right now when confronted but all na lie...
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by DrAda(f): 3:54pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Dr how do you do your own
And the unfortunate question continues
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by spartachico(m): 3:54pm On Jul 17, 2023
I hope it’s not what I’m thinking cus this one wey relationship and marriage topic Dey make front page on this Monday .... na wa oo
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by advanceDNA: 3:54pm On Jul 17, 2023
pek:
Is it only the man that has sexual needs? So then why must it be a one way traffic.
Women dont ask so they can always make it look like they are doing u a favour when u have sex....and be able to use it as leverage.

....... make no mistake women use sex as a means of exchange even in marriage.....after all, lots of men marry retired and even very active prostitutès
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Lawalemi(m): 3:55pm On Jul 17, 2023
What is Conjugal Act?
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Moniya4Real(m): 3:55pm On Jul 17, 2023
EriMma1:
I
If you get married to a man like me, I won’t and have never said ‘NO’ to sex when initiated by my ex-wife o. I put myself in the mood , even when I am not. Always Hot ni o.

“The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care”





don't see any reason why I shouldn't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by meobizy(m): 3:56pm On Jul 17, 2023
Here we go again.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jul 17, 2023
Una don start ba?

I saw a post on Joro blog were a MARRIED wife was flirty with her husband and it made him start wondering if she was "experienced" before marriage.

Basically there is nothing wrong,but a naija man ego is too fragile . Twerk for your husband and he will read meaning into it. Wear red pant and ideas will come to his mind.

I will gladly seduce my legally married husband if he is not nigerian,because if I shake my nyash for a Nigerian husband he will start questioning my virtue
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by robosky02(op): 3:57pm On Jul 17, 2023
DrAda:
And the unfortunate question continues
Say something
Sometimes what you know others don't
So you can help
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by MVLOX(m):
I even prefer when my wife is the one that asks for it....... There are times I decide not to do anything unless my wife is the one who initiates it..... It makes me feels like I am not a nympho or the only one that enjoys it more. After all the feeling is suppose to be mutual.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by advanceDNA: 3:59pm On Jul 17, 2023
AlabiKILLER2021:
Guys if you know what comes out of a woman's Toto


You will never eat pusssy again

Smelly menstrual blood
Disgusting discharge


The same hole

Person go put him mouth




Spits[sub][/sub]
If a person is possessed by one or two demons...my brother there is no craziness the person cannot do....pple are eating shít in the name of sex ooooo
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jul 17, 2023
advanceDNA:
Women dont ask so they can always make it look like they are doing u a favour when u have sex....and be able to use it as leverage.

....... make no mistake women use sex as a means of exchange even in marriage.....after all, lots of men marry retired and even very active prostitutès
If your wife acts Hot around you,will you not be the first to start wondering if you married a retired prostitute?

You all brought it upon yourself.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by mejai(m): 4:00pm On Jul 17, 2023
Reelmii:
grin grin...it can never be wrong..infact any wife that has never initiated sex with her husband should please start doing so....its boring wen it is only the man initiating it....

Try to initiate wen the man is not expecting
...unplanned sex is sweeter grin
Very boring!!
Most Naija wives are mean in that aspect. Are when u eventually as husband finishes the act with her, she will be happy. Mad people grin
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by ppogba: 4:00pm On Jul 17, 2023
Stupid questions half hour.

It has been a long time we had this on Nairaland.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by HEBEI: 4:00pm On Jul 17, 2023
No!
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