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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Exceed15: 4:01pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:


Hmmm ok
From your comment it seems you can't just go straight and ask except by forming rough play

It it?


She just answered how she asks for it. Women are not direct like men.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Octopusssy(f): 4:04pm On Jul 17, 2023
See question. If e hungry me, I roll over, rip the boxers down and yank out the gbola with alacrity and aggression. It is my conjugal right and hence no time for plenty talk.

No time at all. angry

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by DiamondPant(f): 4:04pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.

Tell your man whenever your 🔥
I do. I'll continue to.
Ain't nothing to be shy about, especially for married folks.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by phemmyflexxy(m): 4:06pm On Jul 17, 2023
You said no orals.... What is 69??
AntiChristian:
As far as Nigerian law, there's no rape after wedding!

Initiate am!
Start your engines!
Put on your sit belts!
Drive and ride on!
Use as much style as you like!
Change gear as you like!

No shyness after Nikah within the confines of our closed doors!!

No Anals and Orals!

All Vag styles permitted!
Missionary, Cowgirl, Cowboy, Doggy, reverse cowgirl, 69, corkscrew, face-off, flatiron, G-whiz, etc

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by achimendy(m): 4:07pm On Jul 17, 2023
EriMma1:
I don't see any reason why I shouldn't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.



Sharp girl



You're on point 💯👍

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by zedegit: 4:07pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.


It's very okay. It means she loves me and find me sexually attractive.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AntiChristian: 4:08pm On Jul 17, 2023
phemmyflexxy:
You said no orals.... What is 69??

Ah! na mistake o! Make i change am to Pretzel Dip!
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by IJEYdiamond(f): 4:13pm On Jul 17, 2023
Wait oooo.... well go and watch Notebook...

Some questions are just too funny... so if i was to make love or more like i am honey... so to talk the matter ,body language sign language no dey? or the shortest wrapper no dey again...??

What i noticed is that this so called oversabi know book things especially professors& those that seek knowledge to out o fspace and universe... Most of them their relationship and marriage na -0 degree... ..

They go to seminars even church self prac·​ti·​cal·​ize. na capital 0%...

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by achimendy(m): 4:13pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:


Hmmm ok
From your comment it seems you can't just go straight and ask except by forming rough play

It it?


And who told you most men normally go direct and ask for it? I've never for tell a girl let's have sex b4 in my life, only my touches will make her respond asap.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Dada4me: 4:15pm On Jul 17, 2023
Me : Wife = 2 : 7

My wife does not care, she asks anywhere anytime, provided there's privacy.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Peterpanny: 4:16pm On Jul 17, 2023
EriMma1:


Why will I and ask? Even men don't ask, they start by touching or playing with sensitive parts of the womans body. In fact, I find it annoying when a man verbally asks for it. So I believe a woman too shouldn't ask but go for it romantically.
day play
I go ask you straight and direct.
For wife wa I marry with my own money na she was I go use scope day ask for sex.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by achimendy(m): 4:17pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.


Please help a couple and other to learn.



No gender has the monopoly of initiating sex, if konji hold anybody make e fire on.
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by advanceDNA: 4:17pm On Jul 17, 2023
CuriousStudent:

If your wife acts Hot around you,will you not be the first to start wondering if you married a retired prostitute?

You all brought it upon yourself.

As usual ...not being responsible for ur action is ur gender's thing...blame the man....

.......prostitutes most of the time dont even get hoŕny before they fvck...money is their trigger, not biological impulse...so u are just capping..

no one thinks his wife is a retired prostitute because she made first move...in fact men are happy when their woman makes first move because it makes them feel their wife desires them rather than just allowing them fvck...

U women dont ask....because u women pretend right from the start of the relationship...some of u claim virgins or lie u have only had sex 4 times since u were born.. grin ...which makes u keep pretending even after marriage because u dont want ur man to know u have phd in hold burglary and snake in the eagle style ... grin

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by abobote: 4:20pm On Jul 17, 2023
My wife doesn't initiate and I'm very ok with that.
Though there are some sexy she wears that usually put me on the mood and she knows

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by achimendy(m): 4:21pm On Jul 17, 2023
Peterpanny:
day play
I go ask you straight and direct.
For wife wa I marry with my own money na she was I go use scope day ask for sex.


Stop talking like those Oshodi garage boys, learn how to be romantic for one's.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by cassyrooy(m): 4:22pm On Jul 17, 2023
EriMma1:
I don't see any reason why I shouldn't as a woman when I feel like it. I mean... We are now married. He's my property and I can use him anyhow and any time I like.

As a woman, if you need your man, just start playing some kind " rough" play with him or touch him in places that will suggest what you want and if he's a sharp guy he'll understand. You don't need to tell him you want it. Just play with him.

The only time you should respect yourself is when you touch him and he says no, Leave him alone and bounce out like you don't care.
😂 😂

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by sterlingD(m): 4:23pm On Jul 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
As far as Nigerian law, there's no rape after wedding!

Initiate am!
Start your engines!
Put on your sit belts!
Drive and ride on!
Use as much style as you like!
Change gear as you like!

No shyness after Nikah within the confines of our closed doors!!

No Anals and Orals!

All Vag styles permitted!
Missionary, Cowgirl, Cowboy, Doggy, reverse cowgirl, Pretzel Dip, corkscrew, face-off, flatiron, G-whiz, cowgirl's helper, Wheel barrow, leap frog, Ballet dancer, etc!

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Karleb(m): 4:23pm On Jul 17, 2023
Honestly, married people don't have problems.

What is this? grin
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Emu4life(m): 4:23pm On Jul 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
As far as Nigerian law, there's no rape after wedding!

Initiate am!
Start your engines!
Put on your sit belts!
Drive and ride on!
Use as much style as you like!
Change gear as you like!

No shyness after Nikah within the confines of our closed doors!!

No Anals and Orals!

All Vag styles permitted!
Missionary, Cowgirl, Cowboy, Doggy, reverse cowgirl, Pretzel Dip, corkscrew, face-off, flatiron, G-whiz, cowgirl's helper, Wheel barrow, leap frog, Ballet dancer, etc!

Alfa
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by EriMma1: 4:26pm On Jul 17, 2023
AlabiKILLER2021:







Toto) dey scratch you



For my husband only tongue

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by EriMma1: 4:28pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:




Ok

That means there is verbal asking
And NON VERBAL ASKING?

And any Sharp guy or woman wio decode

Normal.

Na old school go just come and say, open, I wan do. Ta!

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jul 17, 2023
With all the 23% inflation rate in the country, fuel price hike, subsidy removals, general hardship in the country, Nigeria men still they manage to get erections and talk about conjugation on a busy Monday morning?

Local man cannot understand!

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by AntiChristian: 4:32pm On Jul 17, 2023
Emu4life:


Alfa

When it comes to my halal things no shyness! undecided

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by lexy2014: 4:34pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:
Marriage is indeed a beautiful institute. Some even say it is the. Oldest institution and was ordained by God himself.
It is even more amazing when the union involves two love birds, who have learned to really COMMUNICATE thier feeling, emotions, fears and commit to better thier weakness.

However marriage will be boring when there is a breakdown in communication. Especially in matters about the other room play, finance and third parties like In-laws and exes.

A man has been complaining that his wife doesn't initiate love making. Even if she is in the mood except he does. This has been thier other room complain.

So I want to ask the house
A. Is it only the man that should initiate conjugal play?
B. Is it wrong for a woman to ask for it as a legally married woman
C. What would make a woman shy away


Let's talk or counsel or advice to help somebody.

Please help a couple and other to learn.

Who is the man that has been complaining?

Will you now sample all the opinions and take to the man?

If you say the man has been complaining, for how long has he been complaining?

How come you are the one he is always complaining to?
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by BJanta: 4:36pm On Jul 17, 2023
Why not ask your grandma ?
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by justli: 4:38pm On Jul 17, 2023
All I see is weak ass men inundating the internet with lamentations. As long as whenever you ask for it she does her best to satisfy you, what then is the problem?
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by MyAmericandream(f): 4:41pm On Jul 17, 2023
robosky02:


Hmmm ok
From your comment it seems you can't just go straight and ask except by forming rough play

It it?

Have never seen a man or woman ask for 5ex in marriage. Body language will tell you if your partner wants it. Na only holy holy people dey fix timetable to nack and the location to even nack(bedroom only).

5ex is a spontaneous thing you don’t have to give special announcement for it. There are sensitive places you’ll touch your man he will depicts you really need it.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by rajiedreez: 4:42pm On Jul 17, 2023
No o
Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by chris51(f): 4:43pm On Jul 17, 2023
As a married couple you don't ask for sex. You just play. One thing or the other leads to what you want.

Mere touching by either can spike your moods. Anyone can initiate it. There's nothing formal about it.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by chris51(f): 4:43pm On Jul 17, 2023
chris51:
As a married couple you don't ask for sex. You just play. One thing or the other leads to what you want.

Mere touching by either can spike your moods. Anyone can initiate it. There's nothing formal about it.

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by Kenmatt(m): 4:46pm On Jul 17, 2023
Any woman, girlfriend or wife that can not initiate adult play once in a while is not romantic.

Period!!!

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Re: Is It Wrong For A Woman To Initiate Conjugal Act In Marriage? by jaxxy(m): 4:49pm On Jul 17, 2023
Ask for sex like ure asking jamb questions? We ever needs it should ask bt my advice is know how initiate it without asking.

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