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IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?

Just mind ur business....chikina

IconicR:
Never had the intention but had to when the man's love messages came in while trying to take pictures with her phone. Curiosity got the better part of me because e shock me to my bone marrow

while I condemn the act, I will avoid pple like you.
You have ABSOLUTELY NO BUSINESS exporting her chats.

Obviously u guys are not related in any way...... so it's none of your business

People like you need not to be around other humans.. 'I quickly export the chat to my phone'..do you know you have no single right to do that? Is the Aunty or cousin your wife?
Spoil their family and be happy but I know happiness would be far from you.

Don't waste time take it to National Assembly for discussion.

IconicR:
Her Cousin's husband oooo . So 😢 and the man is a renowned chronic womanizer . This aunty is the last person I expect such from. The thing is really disturbing me because the man's wife doesn't deserve this type of nonsense

You write like someone I know on this forum. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Kajaard:
You write like someone I know on this forum. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I don't think so

[Tell the wife please ,expose th before it will lead to Judy Austin and may issues ,please talk, such a useless man, that can not go out.











quote author=IconicR post=124465970]Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?[/quote]

Anijay1212:


Op my advice is that you use a different sim card and send a text message to the woman warning her not to succumb to the man's wickedness, that you know what is going on and will not hesitate to report her.
Na four forty she go run.
But that man get mind sha,e be like say to die dey hungry am.

That seems like a good idea. Send both of them text and also threaten to expose them. He should make sure his identity is not disclose.

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?

Mind your business, if you destroy that home will you give the woman another man?

IconicR:
I want to confront the aunty that why will she decend so low to fall into the trap of this man. In their conversation the man was telling her that he had loved her right from when he set his eyes on her during the introduction ceremony of his wife. She foolishly gave in after little pressure.

Please expose your own first, let start judgement with your own secrets affairs that are not our business

Spirit of gossiping is in you, why not go to the man's face preach this your righteousness to him about this your gossiping. Looks like you too is secretly flirting the man o.


Madam mind your business before you put yourself in hot soup, free advice to you...

WelcomeToBiafra:
Please expose your own first, let start judgement with your own secrets affairs that are not our business

Spirit of gossiping is in you, why not go to the man's face preach this your righteousness to him about this your gossiping. Looks like you too is secretly flirting the man o.


Madam mind your business before you put yourself in hot soup, free advice to you...

Sometimes minding one's business may lead to disaster, I've taken some advises here and I surely know what to do. That devilish affair must end, it would never stand under my watch. I also believe God made me see that message for impending dangers ahead

its runs in her blood

because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.......

OP, you're funny with this your submission, as long you have blood flowing inside of you I don't expect much from anybody, I fit disappoint too so no nee d banking on me either..

If u have the man's phone number, screenshot the message u exported from the woman and send to him using unknown number or rather buy a new line and use it. In the message tell him to disease from the abomination he is planning to commit or u will expose him. After sending the msg u destroy the line or remove it from phone.

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.
Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex
Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.
Please how do I go about this?

If U are truly Close to her...Talk to her not Confront. You already have seen her Resistance...so handle it in matured Way,Pls. Since She is a Divorcee...he will still break in. Except u think her actions are ungodly against her Confessed Believes...Living in Hypocrisy. Leave her alone to her Conscience.

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?

You are a child in heart that refuses to grow. What nonsense did you just post? You sneaks into people's private life and you still have the enfontry to say you want to expose them? You even said you couldn't sleep for what exaxtly? Your way of reasoning is disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself. Now ask yourself, what will you gain after destroying their life's when you expose them? The highest you will get ions thank you but you will then inherit everlasting hate and bitterness. Someone like you is a dangerous friend to have. Very childish thinking. Spit..

Slurity:
You are a child in heart that refuses to grow. What nonsense did you just post? You sneaks into people's private life and you still have the enfontry to say you want to expose them? You even said you couldn't sleep for what exaxtly? Your way of reasoning is disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself. Now ask yourself, what will you gain after destroying their life's when you expose them? The highest you will get ions thank you but you will then inherit everlasting hate and bitterness. Someone like you is a dangerous friend to have. Very childish thinking. Spit..

Coming from a man ofcourse I won't take you seriously because most of you will come up with the mind your business bullshit. I have gotten a lot of advise here and I surely know what to do. But you see that devilish affair, it's stopping very soon and nobody will be hurt.

TheFreshVanilla:
Why did you export their private conversation? Imagine the gut!! All because you want to know what's happening in their life. People like you are dangerous to keep close.

He is far more dangerous than both of them put together


Cc: IconicR

IconicR:
Coming from a man ofcourse I won't take you seriously because most of you will come up with the mind your business bullshit. I have gotten a lot of advise here and I surely know what to do. But you see that devilish affair, it's stopping very soon and nobody will be hurt.

Who is talking about someone else been hurt, you will remember that one idiot told you to mind your business but you refused because you are yet a learner. You don't get the point, an error can not correct an error. You are very wrong for stealing those messages and send to yourself. How do you approach this without explaining how you got to know? Shame is waiting for you at the end of this if you are not careful. Enjoy your risky adventure.

AntiWailer:
lol..


AMEBO is eating you up.

She is secretly dating her cousin's husband and u also confirmed she has been turning down every attempt to get down.

You have no idea the difficult situation she found her self when she was jobless. If she wanted to fvck him, she would av done so.

Older woman knows how to play this game....She will still f**k him!!!

Op! You even have the gut to export their Private chat to your phone without seeking permission from the aunty, that's thief. Cuz you intruded into her privacy and that's why I hate negative energy around me and you're one of dem... People like you ain't supposed to be trusted

Slurity:
Who is talking about someone else been hurt, you will remember that one idiot told you to mind your business but you refused because you are yet a learner. You don't get the point, an error can not correct an error. You are very wrong for stealing those messages and send to yourself. How do you approach this without explaining how you got to know? Shame is waiting for you at the end of this if you are not careful. Enjoy your risky adventure.

I'll simply tell her how the man's messages popped in when she asked me to take pictures of her, I know how I'll do it without letting anyone hurt. But that affair must end

tuzle:
I was once in a situation like the op but this person is my aunty and we are kind of close. I came across her message one night like this. This was a person that use to form holy, wakes up every night to do vigil. Omo I was just weak. Contemplated sending the chat to my phone but changed my mind. I felt if she has a conscience let it judge her. Her own case is a fling with a married man sha. I told my mom since she is her sister.

Lol, I get your point. S.Us or holy holy people are just like you and me bro. They have fleshy desires too. Once you understand that, then you won't be surprised

IconicR:
I'll simply tell her how the man's messages popped in when she asked me to take pictures of her, I know how I'll do it without letting anyone hurt. But that affair must end

Let me tell you that this is a very foolish move. You might start arguing & in the heat of the moment, you disclose that you sent her messages into her phone. Untimely death has caught up with some.The secrets they knew cost them their life. Not saying they’ll kill you, but trust people to avenge. Don’t forget that they might get you fired & there’s nothing you can do about it. Misery loves company & she’ll not go down alone. This woman is a divorcee & feels the worst has already happened. Some of these have no guilt or shame. She’ll have no remorse damaging your reputation. Forget the divorce thing, there’ll be no divorce since nothing has happened yet. It’s unfortunate that wives are always the last to know. I’d advise you get a new sim. Send a screenshot of their conversation to the wife.Make sure you’ve unsaved their names, so that both of their numbers appear in the text exchange, if possible. If not indicate her husband is pressuring the cousin & she has to stop it before it happens. As for divorce, it’s better sometimes then living with an unfaithful partner who could potentially infect one with a disease. Let her know, then get rid of the sim & act like you know nothing. Evil is evil no matter how much we sugarcoat it. All these claiming amebo would want to know if their spouses were cheating.

Since you are terribly disturbed I suggest you commit suicide unless you are jealous. But if you are a woman I know you want to be in that shoes. RIP

IconicR:
Someone I know is secretly dating her cousin's husband, the said man was responsible for this lady's new job and she works directly under the man , same office and everything.

They all work at the same place but wife works in a different department, the annoying part is that this lady is far older than her cousin, a divorcee who is yet to remarry. I saw all their love messages to each other but they've not had sex because the man was complaining that she claims to love him but they have never made the love. I stumbled on all these when she asked me to take a picture of her with her phone and the love messages of that man came in, I quickly exported all their chats to my phone and I saw everything, I couldn't even sleep that day because this aunty is the last person I ever expect such deadly snaky habits from.

Now whenever I see all of them together I cringe, knowing fully well what's secretly going on. The thing is bordering me and I feel I should exposed them before they commit the abominable act of sex

Though from their chats she has resisted all kinds of moves from the man aside their exchange of love words. Another side is that this aunty and the man travelled together recently and came back the next day but from their conversation it doesn't look like anything happened but I don't know if they slept in different rooms.

Aunty has always told the man that she won't do anything with him that will hurt her cousin but the man keeps pressuring her. So my own is I'm so uncomfortable keeping this secret , I'm so tempted to confront this aunty that I know what she's doing but I'm still holding myself back.

What do I do please because I can't promise of keeping this secret and minding my business, I just can't.

Please how do I go about this?

My own is for you to use your brain before using your emotions.

IconicR:
From their chats she has strongly resisted all form of private meeting or physical romance aside their exchange of love chats, so I think her conscience is still working for now but that man is not backing down, he's hell bent on sleeping with her and the aunty told her that'll never be possible. I don't know when I'll recover from this shock because the aunty is someone I never expected such from.

So in your eye the aunty and not the he-goat of a man, is the culprit? Are you aware her job is in the hands of the he-diot? Instead of you to go and tell your cousin sister that her he-goat of a husband is disturbing your aunty you are here looking for how to blame the woman? The only evil person in this story is the he-goat of a man who is taking advantage of people he had helped because he knows it would be difficult to reject him. I hate such men with my soul

sslcrypt:
That means you can't work in espionage.

You Fail to realize that espionage agent was once ordinary person before they train him/her to that professional

LastProphet:
So in your eye the aunty and not the he-goat of a man, is the culprit? Are you aware her job is in the hands of the he-diot? Instead of you to go and tell your cousin sister that her he-goat of a husband is disturbing your aunty you are here looking for how to blame the woman? The only evil person in this story is the he-goat of a man who is taking advantage of people he had helped because he knows it would be difficult to reject him. I hate such men with my soul

Both of them are wrong, I can't even stand that man

IconicR:
I can't especially if it's against humanity

You're very good Man,I so like you with the steps you take, please never try to call anyone of them to attention to it because is dangerous for you oh, anyone of them can go extra mile to do you Evil, but one thing is that you have to train you mind harder that nothing in human behavior can shake you or move you

talented321:
You go funny well well i swear. The chats just dey burst ur head, take it easy things are bond to happen and we have to accept the reality. U don't know if u confront the aunt and she might get evil plans agains u because
1.she will be afraid whether u will tell her cousin, which will result to everybody hearing the update including their family.
2.she is working under this man so if the news fly it might affect her work.
And u know ur gender anything that will stop their chopings they are ready to die for it. So it is also a very dangerous task for u as well.

You better take this advice of OP,if you take step to inform them about there unusual,you will later blame your self