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Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by chiboycue: 7:05pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: It is wise to carry out your investigation after you have done the needful by legally marrying her. It is wiser to let sleeping dogs lie and focus on building your delicate home after marriage. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Kobicove(m): 7:13pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: How long you have dated is irrelevant, you have already started seeing red flags therefore it makes sense for you to end the relationship now 1 Like |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Kobicove(m): 7:14pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
chiboycue: Build home with someone who has a tendency for violence? What are you saying sef? |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by zedegit: 7:15pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Mrbenny001: It may not change her behavior but he's looking for possible excuse to ditch her. He doesn't want to suffer same fate the man 'suffered'. Will he even tell him whole truth. Every party tells story that favours them the most. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by eduson002(m): 7:17pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: You still want to marry with all this wahala already? You are seriously being manipulated. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Didi2d(m): 7:30pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
After reading your first sentence 😊, I don't need to read all through. Bros, call it off now!!! Disrespect show she doesn't love you, I won't say more. Just call it off now |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Didi2d(m): 7:33pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
marlow1962: 😂😂😂😂😂 Funny but true |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by bukatyne(f): 7:36pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: 1. You quarrel a lot 2. She disrespect you which sometimes lead to physical confrontation. Is it that you are a lover of vawlence or your village people are dancing on your matter because I am wondering why you are thinking of proposing instead of: 1. Determining the source of your quarrels/ disagreements and coming to an agreement 2. Determine why she is disrespecting you or if it is your ego playing tricks on you and addressing it 3. Ending the relationship Abi someone told you that marriage changes people? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by chiboycue: 7:38pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Kobicove: The guy still loves her inspite of her shortcoming. He even sees her father as his future father-in- law meaning he still loves her and wants to settle down with her . The tendency for them to quarrel is there because they are two different human beings with different personalities. What is important is how they quickly resolve their difference and build a life together. That is why I am advising that he channels his energy towards working on her and building his home with her. Love and praying together conquers all. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:40pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Why do you want to marry someone you constantly fight with? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Aarenasbaba(m): 7:47pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Arindin |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by DMerciful(m): 7:48pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
The stick you see cannot blind you. A word is enough for the wise! Farthing02: |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 7:53pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: Sir, you admit to having physical confrontations with your girlfriend but feel comfortable enough approaching her father? You say that she disrespects you but haven’t said if you’re disrespecting her or if she has reason to disrespect you—there’s 3 sides to every story. Are you going to tell this man that you’ve put your hands on his daughter? You’re also going to tell this man what you were told about him which is very silly and gossipy. If he neglected his family when your girlfriend was younger then what are you expecting him to do now that she’s an adult? Why do you even want to propose to somebody that you’re obviously not compatible with? You admitted that your confrontations have crossed the line into fighting so you just need to break up and go your separate ways because these things won’t change after marriage. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Uniquewise: 7:56pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
larryking78: Will you return to your studies immediately! Amazing how kids have invaded this space |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by 1stGenAmerican(f): 8:00pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
neutralmind: Sure he needs to know the family history but what makes you think her father is going to be truthful—who takes the word of a stranger after having one interaction with that person over someone he’s been dating long enough to think about marrying? You don’t believe anything else but you believe that this man you don’t really know is happily married so that means that you’re going to believe anything he says to you. You trust this man more than you trust your girlfriend—Both of you should move on and date other people. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by na2016: 8:14pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: Guy don't stress yourself. Don't marry that girl, it will not end well. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by benqo01(m): 8:24pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: KILL THAT INTENTION OF GETTING MARRIED TO HER TRUST ME IT WONT WORK DONT FALL INTO A PIT DO UR SELF A FAVOR AND CALL IT OFF BE WARNED |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by jimter44(m): 9:05pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Let us clap hands for you! You have not married this lady and you guys are fighting like cat and dog. You be mumu and men supposed lie you down and flog you with 20 strokes of cane. I will advise to forget about this girl 1 Like |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Xkale1996(m): 9:19pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02:Go and meet him don't call him on phone ... Before you carry problem come keep for house |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by norastan: 10:10pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
So u feel the father will cast his own daughter my dear blood is not water . What about ur bad sides discuss with her and settle your differences . If u can't cope women are more than men in the world. We muveee |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Biola67: 10:38pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
body go tell you |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Ilekokonit: 10:57pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: You don't know how lucky you are that she is showing you her true colour BEFORE marriage. You don't need to consult anyone 'cos the handwriting is on the wall - both of you are not compatible. Marry her at your own risk. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by PaulH07: 11:21pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Farthing02: "Run oh" is all I have to say |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by prophetfire: 12:05am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Farthing02:It's like you don't want peace in your life. You are seeing the red flags and you are still asking questions. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by deyplay: 12:23am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Great |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Poshioke(m): 12:44am On Jul 18, 2023 |
No try marry any woman the mother is not with the father, not that the man is death, talking from experience, you pay daring for it and never think while you even marry self. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by wisdomkid: 1:18am On Jul 18, 2023 |
MaryAye: Not everything is a gender fight. This is the issue one have with feminists. There's what we call incompatibility in a relationship. He clearly said he wants to marry her after these negative sides he mentioned, which means he is seeing something good in her and don't want a future where they will have issues. Why must everything downplay to gender roles? Consult his fiance? Is the fiance even ready to marry him? I tire oh |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by verygoodbadboi: 6:47am On Jul 18, 2023 |
As a married man myself, na after you marry you go realize say respect is more important than love 1 Like |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Otunski: 7:28am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Guy use your head. You are seeing the red flag yet you still want to go ahead and marry her. Run bro, run . |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Amumaigwe: 8:53am On Jul 18, 2023 |
larryking78: Culled directly from Mills and Boom romance book series. |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by Coolgent(m): 9:11am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Farthing02: Oga leave that Girl alone |
Re: Is It Polite To Secretly Call My Potential Father-In -Law? by larryking78(m): 10:14am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:Sorry, I typed from my head. you can screenshot the culled directly whatever it is from the book for everyone to see. I don't need to read a book before I advice anyone. I am an adult. |
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