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ahnie:
What off'd me was the part where the ex called to congratulate the husband .

It's the Boldness of the ex for me.

I would love to hear their conversation

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

the husband should man up immediately. I don't why some tiny issues that can be handled immediately are left to fester then brought to social media for judgement. He should tell that so called ex that he should cut off all communications with his wife then inform her parents at once

Badgers14:
I would love to hear their conversation

the husband is an idiôt

IconicR:
I don't even blame the ex but the wife that keeps entertaining calls from a so called ex. The husband must be a weak man to have received call from wife's ex, he just sold his manhood to the wife's ex, he's a vegetable and i wholeheartedly donate him to redpillers. Nonsense

you are very wrong on this .. things are not done that way...you can't conclude because you didn't know how they parted ways..

Lol.

ahnie:
Problem everywhere

What are you expecting us to say bag her about,na you know,nor block her if her husband find out,you in trouble,if you like her while you nor marry her

Top 4 banters in nairaland.


Man vs women (gender war).


Ronaldo vs messi ( battle of the GOAT).


Igbo vs Yoruba's. ( tribal war)

Christian vs atheist. ( The God consciousness )

something fisly is about to go down

My ex keeps in contact, to be honest only a disciplined man should keep in touch with ex cause if you don’t want they might want, so just better to stay away . My mother said , “ my son you are dead the day you sleep with another man’s wife”I believe that till this day and will never try that nonsense.

Women are very emotional, only a matured man can guide those emotions to positively. Part of it includes letting her know that her husband is king now, and that whatever she sees in you can be established in her husband.

ahnie:
What off'd me was the part where the ex called to congratulate the husband .

It's the Boldness of the ex for me.

this still didn't make any difference. If you change your wife sim, did you change her brain or did you change the ex number likewise If either side wants still the communication on, you can't prevent it because social media is also there as another open secret channels

Women and ex, most times are inseparable. Especially the ex we de casablanca their kpekus, they will always want to have a deal with such overtime

canalily:
you are very wrong on this .. things are not done that way...you can't conclude because you didn't know how they parted ways..

Carry this comment komot for my front, if how they parted ways is interfering in her marriage then she should go back and be with him, na like this Infidelity Dy start. You irritate me with this comment, and like I wrote earlier if I can pick another man's (toaster or whatever) call in your presence then I'll never marry you because I don't want such weak genes in my future sons.

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ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost

Lol. That won't solve anything. Two adults will go any length to meet each other if they both want to. If you like change her phone, house address, Facebook account, Instagram, Tiktok, etc. Meanwhile never you play with "Okafor's law of congodynamics"

IconicR:
Make una butcher am 😂

Jes sit back and watch the show🍿😀

Any serious woman would change her line after marriage. Especially if numerous bfs has that line.

Anything is possible

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

scoobyblogspot:
Let me even add this UP. Before she got married her ex told her that she will come and beg him. He was attending a cele church but since that didn't work until she got married once a while he calls her. She changed her number but unbelievable he got her number from a friend which lead to calling to congrate her and then kept calling once a while.

Let me tell you fact, the wife still wants to be hearing from ex. Whem she ready to cut tie with him, she knows what to do. It's game that woman knows how to play best.

It's in the hands of husband, if he will force his wife to cut tie or for him and other men to be putting different hands in same pot of soup.

Great point

ahnie:
What off'd me was the part where the ex called to congratulate the husband .

It's the Boldness of the ex for me.

As in ehn,,,

"Congrats for settling for my leftovers. You try sha."

I can't imagine that kind set up.

Fact is probably 40% of ladies keep in touch. From my experience. I tend to quietly drift away but some women nor dey hear word.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

If her husband does not like it, he should be firm about it by telling her ex that her husband does not like him calling.

But then again, things like this should be handled with tact. Until there's proof the ex has sinister motives her being blunt would be unwise.

She could codedly tell him her husband is the jealous type. That she doesn't want wahala, her marriage is new o! This is just to drive him away.

No one knows tomorrow.

ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost

If a man does this, won't y'all call him names like insecure, domineering, making her age 10 years older and all the other petty names that are conjured as per need basis?

Her ex is behaving like a Snake

What is over is over

You sound ridiculous. Changing the sim card won't stop her from getting in touch with her ex if she's hell bent on that. He can as well attach a body cam on her

ahnie:
Is the husband too dumb to change the wife's simcard?
Just asking .

That's the first every sensible husband would do to avoid roaming ghosts from the past aka lord faquard's ghost

Women like them bold. The ex may get what he wants sooner. Looks like the husband is a mumu.

ahnie:
What off'd me was the part where the ex called to congratulate the husband .

It's the Boldness of the ex for me.

They should invite the ex regularly for dinner in their home.
Hope the crazy husband is happy now.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

If The gbola is good 👍u take it multiple times

Not always true.

ahnie:
Not forgetting okafor's law?
Once Deb"Ed by ex,always deb'ed by ex.

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

you should stop picking it ,when u finaly pick, act it in such away that you dont want to tell him before but really,your husband is kinda jealous and would not him to him to use this has a condition to start having issue with your husband, he should stop calling you and respect your marriage

I wonder how and why a diligent person should be expected to totally cut off communication and comradeship in general with a diligent ex of good standing just because of marriage or any other commitments. Balderdash!

how do rubbish like this get to frontpage

One good reason you should only marry a virgin. E clear ba??