she needs your advice

About 5 years ago when Hilda, a gorgeous, 23 year old polytechnic student decided to break up with her boyfriend chuks, she did so because "he was too jealous of the attention I am receiving from male classmates". What no one told her, was that chuks would soon be the guy she would benchmark and compare every other boyfriend that came after against.

Over a three month period, Hilda's mom begged her to make the relationship work. Her mom couldn't seem to understand the reasons why Hilda wanted to end things with Chuks. After all, he was Igbo, a successful merchant, a devout catholic and a family-oriented man. He came from a responsible family, exceptionally generous and had a good head on his shoulders. Her mom didn't realise that Hilda felt Chuks was too safe. He was too serious, careful about the world and wanted to know everything she was up to.

And Hilda wanted to be free. She broke things off and smiled gleefully as he shed tears, begging her to give their relationship one more chance. Heartbroken, Chuks would go on a year later to marry a young lady that his family arranged from their hometown.

Every week after their break up, Hilda would get invited on dates by random men she bumped into on the streets of Lagos and during the course of events that she catered. Her week was the same: Monday through Friday, instagram, facebook and whatsapp would fill with invitations to go out on a date. Friday evening from 4pm till Sunday Nights, it was one outing after another hosting suitors, visiting them in their homes, attending a night party/event or just enjoying a light bottle of wine together in a cozy hotel room. At the year's end, she'd had over 50 dates.

Four years, 200 dates later, not one guy spoke of marriage. They all enjoyed her company but stopped replying her messages once she hinted at a wedding. One of her dates had even proposed to pay her to be a surrogate-mother/ pregnancy carrier for his babies. No engagement ring.


In this video: the men who got away, Hilda and several other ladies share their regrets about their break ups with men they ought to have married and ask for advice on how they can return.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz8ZVqReCJ0

If you're single and unmarried with regrets over a love that could have been, you're not alone.
Please watch the video, laugh a little, offer hilda your advice.

There's love out there for you. Open your eyes to those right in front of you

There's someone out there for you. He just may not look like your ex, or like all those big boys and men you've rolled with before

And if na you dem break up with like chuks, abeg gather make we laugh.

e don dey red. women dey go podcast dey talk say husband no dey. na wa o

Update

I had a friend who never breaks up with girls but just ghosts them. Why?

Because he was afriad that the girl may become finer and this might regret his breakup. So he always wanted a window of opportunity to be open so of he wanted to return to her, he could

it gets better

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

facts

Zigzagman:


facts

where you find a wife matters. y'all be trying to turn a hoe into a housewife

Wahala 🤣

Baronthecelebri:
Wahala 🤣

Baron the celebrity's on the thread

Because a man said he wanted to marry a woman, doesn't mean he would have.

Actions should follow from what they're saying and not words.

Why do they always love to talk about the plans they had for you after you break up with them?

Interesting

Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️

siofra:
Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️

Okay. Next!

siofra:
Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️

really.??..so how much do u nomaly charge for fuckin & please can I fuk again please...or can I juss fuk on creedit??

These ones are idiots what am I listening to

qtguru:
These ones are idiots what am I listening to

Na the dating pool of women wey dey available today be dat o.

Thank God for social media, we fit begin see as dem craze before we marry den put for house

MechanicMike:


really.??..so how much do u nomaly charge for fuckin & please can I fuk again please...or can I juss fuk on creedit??

Careful make she no carry Hiv dash you

Dimaya:


Careful make she no carry Hiv dash you

1Sharon:
Because a man said he wanted to marry a woman, doesn't mean he would have.

Actions should follow from what they're saying and not words.

Why do they always love to talk about the plans they had for you after you break up with them?

you ehn? One day I will catch you in person

Well, you can't eat your cake and also have it.

siofra:
Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️

Coming from a 50 years old woman 🤣🤣🤣

FRANCISTOWN:

Coming from a 50 years old woman 🤣🤣🤣

these grandmothers sef

siofra:
Na men dey like tell this kain boring stories 😂

Mtchewwww. I will enjoy my youth fucking any guy I like. Thank you very much☺️

old cargo like you

ideamonster:


these grandmothers sef

grandma feeling funky

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

If all the women in Nigeria are prostitutes, then what are you men?! Saint Gabriel and holy Michael?!

Mtchewwww

IbrahimSkiba:




If all the women in Nigeria are prostitutes, then what are you men?! Saint Gabriel and holy Michael?!

Mtchewwww

The dude keeps spouting this shit

Hmmmm...

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

who annoyed you?

superCleanworks:


who annoyed you?

help me ask the guy. the mods should look into him. he keeps spamming all the threads with the same bs

So is chuks still shining the congo?

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

including your sisters abi