saintkel:
we can't have same mother, but for u a woman to open her mouth n call another woman....same physiology, same morphology.....then there's something wrong with ur head

You are the one that is mentally sick in the head

I made my comment saying "so many evil men walking the streets", you came to my comment to insult me unprovoked, did i mention your moniker when I said evil men? So many of you males here think you can insult female monikers for no reason and go scot free, that is why I sent you back home to your mother, because I am also a mother, since it is obvious you were not properly trained on how to discuss with strangers except through insults,

The next time you see my moniker, run with the speed of light.

WildChild00:
Great video

thank you.

Eriokanmi:
Or they say those who fell victim weren't smart enough. Na so one girl wey I dey groom dey always advise snub me suddenly. She felt i was too protective and always on her neck. For a while, she stopped talking to me and began to sound rude at some point.

Since when she contracted HIV, her body don calm. She's come back to her normal self now but it's too late. Recently she complained that her ARV drug was too harsh on her. I was like, you have to deal with that for the rest of your life. You can't live normal again

wow, people don’t listen.

GloriousGbola:
She grew up on unilag campus. I think maybe her dad was dean of student affairs at one time. Visit the girl 10 times, she no go return the visit. I think she had seen a lot of shit growing up on campus. And she knew what guys can be capable of. She even said once that a lot of guys just lose their sense because of peer pressure. (she had one or two brothers)

And when you sometimes talk to some guys unfiltered you can see why.

So You have to be PARANOID. sad but often true.

^^^
The words in bold font significantly reduce the risks for young females. Doesn't eliminate them but it does reduce them.

Some young boys/men simply don't think of the consequences. I remember a case of two families that had been friends for years - parents and children were all like one big extended family rather than just friends. Only for son from family A to try to rape daughter from family B one day in his parents house when they were home alone. I can't remember all the details but that whole mess ruined the relationship between both families. They are not on speaking terms to this day. You would think that the closeness of the relationship between the 2 families would guarantee the safety of the young female in question - but obviously this wasn't the case.

Today's fathers have their work cut out for them. It is up to fathers to warn their daughters that this sort of stuff happens - and to let them know that young girls have no business visiting boys/guys unless her whole family and their cats, dogs and sheep are coming along for the trip to forestall any monkey business.

I have saved some of these threads (along with some of the stuff I can remember from my school/university days) so that I make it as clear as possible to my daughter when the time comes: only you can look out for yourself - avoid unnecessary, unsupervised contact with young males because far too many of them are not quite right in the head.

Fujiyama:


^^^
The words in bold font significantly reduce the risks for young females. Doesn't eliminate them but it does reduce them.

Some young boys/men simply don't think of the consequences. I remember a case of two families that had been friends for years - parents and children were all like one big extended family rather than just friends. Only for son from family A to try to rape daughter from family B one day in his parents house. I can't remember all the details but that whole mess ruined the relationship between both families. They are not on speaking terms to this day.

Today's fathers have their work cut out for them. It is up to fathers to warn their daughters that this sort of stuff happens - and to let them know that young girls have no business visiting boys/guys unless her whole family and their cats, dogs and sheep are coming along for the trip to forestall any monkey business.

I have saved some of these threads (along with some of the stuff I can remember from my school/university days) so that I make it as clear as possible to my daughter when the time comes: only you can look out for yourself - avoid unnecessary, unsupervised contact with young males because far too many of them are not quite right in the head.

I recently had a version of this EXACT convo with my daughter. I showed her an article on Nairaland about a girl who was raped by 4 guys and I told her you cannot be alone with even guys you were friends with growing up because you cannot know what is in their heads.

My annoyance is she never properly took on the taekwaondo lessons, unlike her brother.

It is also worse now than 5hen because the foolish boys who do this are likely to video and share the whole sordid mess

Sniper101:


I remember not too long ago, one morning i just woke up and picked up my phone to check for overnight messages and i ended up starting to chat a girl up for the first time from a Telegram group around 7am.
Before 11am Babe was in my house for the first time and few hours later we were already doing the do, raw 🤦

She doesn't even know my name till date.

Na so them dey!

But at bold gat me

U get mind ooo

GloriousGbola:


I recently had a version of this EXACT convo with my daughter. I showed her an article on Nairaland about a girl who was raped by 4 guys and I told her you cannot be alone with even guys you were friends with growing up because you cannot know what is in their heads.

My annoyance is she never properly took on the taekwaondo lessons, unlike her brother.

Nice! You're doing a great job.

Don't worry, that taekwando classes you think she's not following properly will be activated when she sights danger.

Hezzyluv:


Na so them dey!

But at bold gat me

U get mind ooo

Omó, Me sef fear myself sometimes, bro 🤦

Jovialjune1:



You are the one that is mentally sick in the head

I made my comment saying "so many evil men walking the streets", you came to my comment to insult me unprovoked, did i mention your moniker when I said evil men? So many of you males here think you can insult female monikers for no reason and go scot free, that is why I sent you back home to your mother, because I am also a mother, since it is obvious you were not properly trained on how to discuss with strangers except through insults,

The next time you see my moniker, run with the speed of light.

not really....you should be d one seeing a mental doctor now cos what u have up dia is no longer a brain but a dead box.....

Eriokanmi:
Or they say those who fell victim weren't smart enough. Na so one girl wey I dey groom dey always advise snub me suddenly. She felt i was too protective and always on her neck. For a while, she stopped talking to me and began to sound rude at some point.

Since when she contracted HIV, her body don calm. She's come back to her normal self now but it's too late. Recently she complained that her ARV drug was too harsh on her. I was like, you have to deal with that for the rest of your life. You can't live normal again

Who gave her the virus?

ahnie:
Saw some coming back home this morning by 3.am dressing almost naked.

They were coming back from night vigil...

Them get fish brain
Them no go still hear.

Sniper101:


I remember not too long ago, one morning i just woke up and picked up my phone to check for overnight messages and i ended up starting to chat a girl up for the first time from a Telegram group around 7am.
Before 11am Babe was in my house for the first time and few hours later we were already doing the do, raw 🤦

She doesn't even know my name till date.

And you are proud to say this

Men are the ones that press and insist on meeting a new lady friend in their homes even when she is also a stranger to them. They insist, claiming the woman can trust them. If the woman refuses, and states reasons, they would claim she is paranoid, she is having a very bad negative look on them, she is a hypocrite, judgemental. A good number of men, even the good ones, will drop a lady simply because she refuses to meet up at the man's house. Many women are pressured into it through manipulations, they don't just go there like that.

But the truth is this, they wouldn't easily do this to a woman whom they have good intentions for, who they respect, who they believe has standards. So, as a lady, choose more of those who are not eager to pull you into such situations.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Them dey hear word
Female children are very difficult to control and raise
I laugh when people say male children is very difficult to control probably they haven't been around female kids or they didn't grow in place filled with females

The funny part of it all is that once they start seeing thier period and having boobs that is when they become so difficult to advice

They are Dramatic, manipulative, money conscious, attention seeking, clingy, jealous spirit, emotional, possesive and stubborn....their stubbornness comes in a romantic way

Exactly

purples25:
Men are the ones that press and insist on meeting a new lady friend in their homes even when she is also a stranger to them. They insist, claiming the woman can trust them. If the woman refuses, and states reasons, they would claim she is paranoid, she is having a very bad negative look on them, she is a hypocrite, judgemental. A good number of men, even the good ones, will drop a lady simply because she refuses to meet up at the man's house. Many women are pressured into it through manipulations, they don't just go there like that.

But the truth is this, they wouldn't easily do this to a woman whom they have good intentions for, who they respect, who they believe has standards. So, as a lady, choose more of those who are not eager to pull you into such situations.

Story story, women are carried away with what they see, when they see a guy doing very well from his pictures, fresh, clean and handsome they drop all their moral compass down. A woman can date a guy for 1 year and he wouldn't see her pant, but she can have sex with another guy she meets the same day. Is all about attraction (whatever the reason is)

Fredfr33zy:


Story story, women are carried away with what they see, when they see a guy doing very well from his pictures, fresh, clean and handsome they drop all their moral compass down. A woman can date a guy for 1 year and he wouldn't see her pant, but she can have sex with another guy she meets the same day. Is all about attraction (whatever the reason is)

True, but I'm still right.

purples25:


True, but I'm still right.

If everyone is jumping off a high cliff will you do it, because everyone is doing it?
It can be likened to a Yahoo boy blaming the government for his act.

Fredfr33zy:


If everyone is jumping off a high cliff will you do it, because everyone is doing it?
It can be likened to a Yahoo boy blaming the government for his act.

Yes, but my perspective is also true and also relevant.

Dshocker:


Who gave her the virus?

His neigbour who lived in Philippines. He came back home and slept with her unprotected. Pror to that time, she had not met any guy in a very long time. Her sister also confirmed this. They both know the guy as they grew up together before he travelled. Barely 3 months after they both met, she began seeing lymph nodes coming out of her body with strange rashes.

Eriokanmi:
His neigbour who libed in Philippines. He came back home and slept with her unprotected. Pror to that time, she had not met any guy in a very long time. Her sister also confirmed this. They both know the guy as they grew up together before he travelled. Barely 3 months after they both met, she began seeing lymph nodes coming out of her body with strange rashes.

Chaiii, it is terrible.

She can't enjoy her life anymore, just the way her age mate are enjoying their lives.

But they should have sued the wicked guy.

What about her family, particularly her parents, what did they do about it?

Dshocker:


Chaiii, it is terrible.

She can't enjoy her life anymore, just the way her age mate are enjoying their lives.

But they should have sued the wicked guy.

What about her family, particularly her parents, what did they do about it?

Only her sister is aware. I doubt they've told their parents till now. The guy travelled back. The sister at some point wanted to summon the courage and expose the guy but then, she was afraid he may deny it and call her sister names because according to both sisters, they know the type of person he has always been and cos they grew up together, he could tell the entire family and deny everything. The girl is so beautiful, so sad. It would be difficult to drag him to the lab for a test cos he's left the country already.

Eriokanmi:
Only her sister is aware. I doubt they've told their parents till now. The guy travelled back. The sister at some point wanted to summon the courage and expose the guy but then, she was afraid he may deny it and call her sister names because according to both sisters, they know the type of person he has always been and cos they grew up together, he could tell the entire family and deny everything. The girl is so beautiful, so sad. It would be difficult to drag him to the lab for a test cos he's left the country already.

That was the mistake they made, because keeping quiet makes no sense, since the deed has been done.

You on the other hand should have advised them to have reported the matter to their parents, so they can take it from there.

What tribe is she from, and what tribe is the guy from?

Dshocker:


That was the mistake they made, because keeping quiet makes no sense, since the deed has been done.

You on the other hand should have advised them to have reported the matter to their parents, so they can take it from there.

What tribe is she from, and what tribe is the guy from?

I encouraged exposing the guy but the poor girl was trying to avoid stigmatisation. She doesn't even go to any hospital nearby to collect her ARVs. She travels to another state. She doesn't look sick cos she takes them regularly. I believe there's nothing God can't do. It's a lesson for everyone. I don't want to mention tribe here. The walls have ears. You're not the only one reading this post

Dshocker:


And you are proud to say this

That's how Stars do
That's what singles do

Mind your business
Mind your marriage

Eriokanmi:
I encouraged exposing the guy but the poor girl was trying to avoid stigmatisation. She doesn't even go to any hospital nearby to collect her ARVs. She travels to another state. She doesn't look sick cos she takes them regularly. I believe there's nothing God can't do. It's a lesson for everyone. I don't want to mention tribe here. The walls have ears. You're not the only one reading this post

Lol, even the smallest of tribes in Nigeria, has more than 100,000 population, so stating tribe don't reveal anything, you should have told me this if i asked for her name.

Well, the reason why i asked for their tribes, was to know if both of them came from the same tribe, hence he would be forced to marry her, without any excuse.

The guy is a wicked and terrible human being, despite the fact he knew that he was a carrier, he still went ahead to lay with her, which is crime under the law.

That guy has to pay for the consequences he brought upon that girl, or he marries her period.

They can both birth a child without any issues of affecting the baby.

And whats up with her now, is she into another relationship?

Dshocker:


Lol, even the smallest of tribes in Nigeria, has more than 100,000 population, so stating tribe don't reveal anything, you should have told me this if i asked for her name.

Well, the reason why i asked for their tribes, was to know if both of them came from the same tribe, hence he would be forced to marry her, without any excuse.

The guy is a wicked and terrible human being, despite the fact he knew that he was a carrier, he still went ahead to lay with her, which is crime under the law.

That guy has to pay for the consequences he brought upon that girl, or he marries her period.

They can both birth a child without any issues of affecting the baby.

And whats up with her now, is she into another relationship?

I understand you. They're of same tribe. Only God can pay him back in his coin. People are terribly wicked. I'm not sure she's in any relationship now. She doesn't tell me anything than greetings anymore.

Noted

Eriokanmi:
I understand you. They're of same tribe. Only God can pay him back in his coin. People are terribly wicked. I'm not sure she's in any relationship now. She doesn't tell me anything than greetings anymore.

I hope she doesn't go on a revenge mission, by distributing it to guys, and if she wants to go into another relationship, she has to let the guy know her status, rather than infecting him.

Truth is that, she has less than 3% chances of getting a non-carrier to date her, at such, she has to look for another carrier, so there won't be discrimination and other negative reactions that comes with it.

Dshocker:


I hope she doesn't go on a revenge mission, by distributing it to guys, and if she wants to go into another relationship, she has to let the guy know her status, rather than infecting him.

Truth is that, she has less than 3% chances of getting a non-carrier to date her, at such, she has to look for another carrier, so there won't be discrimination and other negative reactions that comes with it.

I pity her

Eriokanmi:
I pity her

How old...

Dshocker:


How old...

23 now