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BigBlackPreek:
i no dey babes oooo, I no get all those energy and plenty money to dey give PH babes, na ashawo house wey dey Victoria street off Lagos bustop I dey always go

blesdman:
All types and sizes abi? Not underaged o.... 😂

BigBlackPreek:
I'm 31 and I know what I'm saying,

extroverts can easily make friends with anyone seemlessly, but it's otherwise for we introverts

where I'm serving I keep to myself and don't talk to anyone

they are afraid of me

I'm not forcing it though

When the time comes for me to marry, it won't go effortlessly, I won't stress myself out to be hunting for women to date, never

sharone21:
Still shaking my head concerning what u wrote.

So, with that chicken change, u hope to get a girl that is medically clean to some extent, abi she won't treat / prevent/ herself from diseases/ stupid pregnancies?

In health circles, the true beauty of a person is in their medical fitness, do u go with kits to ensuring they are safe for u .....And u men as mostly sex addicts/ maniacs despite hungry status will still spread this to other innocent girls or even future fiancee.... God help us all. Must u have sex? U go just carry sickness all in the name of fulfilling your flesh and make woman no chop my money.... Or u don't know that even condom bursts?

Why do mostly men here have disgusting monikers, including those putting ( f) when they are M?

BigBlackPreek:
what I typed up there with your response doesn't correspond

please kindly stay off my mentions,okay

sharone21:
Sorry oooo.... E be like say u no no say even mature woman can get pregnant even up to 55yrs...... Anyway, your life ....your choice..... Help keep Naija sickness free.

Bye

flokii:
Relationships can be draining not to talk of marriage.. go and check stats and see young men and women who never thought of suicide in their lives become suicidal after marriage that they require so many counselling and advice to scale through.
Then there is individuality.. the fear of getting entangled with an unfaithful partner alone is enough reason for young men and women to stay off relationships.. you'll hear things like.. make everybody dey their dey.

The social media fake life, lewd and misleading song lyrics, love for material things etc. are making matters far worse.. that fine girl has expectations from the young man still struggling to survive in the prevailing harsh economy. It is well even inside the well.

IyanuDeb:
now you are talking

ecolime:
It's Southern youths that are not in relationships neither are they getting married.

Despite the economic downturn, our Northern counterparts dey wed from age 15 and they birth 5 to 10 kids.

In the next 50 years, Northerners and Almajiris will overrun the entire country just the way Blacks are gradually overrunning France.

People dey JAPA, youths no gree marry, yet Nigeria's population is doubling. Think about it.

beyep:
U say i love u i want u in my life.
Wrong words, dem start to hungry, money for hair no data no food no money for transport, feeding n taking care of a grown up woman.

Rapmoney:
Don't be fooled by social media. Many young people in Nigeria are not in relationships. This includes both male and female genders. It is even worse for people who are above 30 due to so many financial expectations, commitments, bills over bills, poor economy, terrible hard-hitting economic policies by the government, high level of unemployment and inflation. Young people are becoming more withdrawn. There is a fast decline in our social life; I mean how we interact with one another face to face. It will amaze you to know the number of young people who see their electronic gadgets as their partners.

It is pertinent to note that the above mentioned problems have caused a chain reaction in the society where young women now prefer hookup to dating...sex business aka 'If you give me cash, I'll give you the Bermuda Triangle'. You cannot separate poverty/economic hardship from a socially and culturally warped society.

Which way Nigerian youths?

Anabosee:
My girl tell me say I nor de treat her like queen. Even though I made her cum 3 times.

She still tell me say her ex de give her his atm card to buy anything she like.

The relationship finished

beyep:
U say i love u i want u in my life.
Wrong words, dem start to hungry, money for hair no data no food no money for transport, feeding n taking care of a grown up woman.

PricelessGem1:
Apart from economy hardships, a lot of people enter into a relationship with strange motives. Like a lot of people have said, gold-digging is one key thing that both the female and male gender are guilty of. I was trying to enter into a relationship with someone that could possibly lead to marriage, all the guy was interested in was my money. At 38, he was not even a graduate, all he had was SSCE not even an OND, he had no business or employment, he was living in a one room which he could not even afford the rent. He was constantly weighing me down with his endless problems and needs. To make matters worse, he had bad temper and bad attitude. I quickly ended the relationship before going far with him and also blocked him. A lot of people enter into relationships with the wrong motive.

Anabosee:
My girl tell me say I nor de treat her like queen. Even though I made her cum 3 times.

She still tell me say her ex de give her his atm card to buy anything she like.

The relationship finished

Wodu89:
You're wrong. I discern in my spirit he's your assignment. That's how you ladies misinterpret Heaven's intent. If you form him into the frame he should be, you'll have a loyal partner for life. It's not gold digging. It's washing. Fyi, I never accept money from any female to avoid such kind of talks

maasoap:
Don't ever make that mistake of marrying someone with the notion that you can change them into what you want them to be. People don't change who they are in the long run

CuriousStudent:
Started on a neutral stance then tilted towards painting women in the bad light.


Anyway,in a country in "survival mode",people date for the wrong reasons. A middle class earning man/woman in a developed country will most likely date for attraction

For those that are not interested in dating for the wrong reasons,they rather remain single.

As a man you can't afford relationship,so you stay single.
As a woman,you can't be giving your vagina to struggling guys who can't even marry you in the next 3 years due to hardship in the land. You are left between sleeping with a guy for money(married men,sugar daddy) or remaining single. The virtuous chose the later

That is just it.

Who love help when fuel is 800 naira?

Cc: caveadullam

maasoap:
Why men must be the ones to afford relationship financial wise?
Why must you see women as giving their vaginas to men? Don't both enjoy sex together? Or, is it only men that benefit from sex?

CuriousStudent:
This argument is stale already.i am already tired of saying men and women are judged differently(thanks to patriarchal standards you created).

Surprising how you ricochet from claiming both parties benefit from sex(when you want free sex and to curb hypergamy) to claiming women lose value when they have sex(when it's time to slut sham).
Speaking from both sides of the mouth to achieve different goals.

When you want to slut sham,do you include men to? If both men and women benefit from sex why do you claim that women lose value when they have sex?

Obviously trying to claim "progressive" or "woke" as a means of convincing women to drop their hypergamy and but you are not ready to drop your traditional standards as well.

If you don't like the idea of being the one to invest financially in a relationship,go to the western world were women are independent and they split bills. But mind you, this women will have as much sex experience as you that is a man(which you wouldn't like).

Choose your poison

I believe you know the dynamics of relax but deviously want to cheat your way.

But I will still paste this link for viewers that may be unaware of a man duties

https://www.nairaland.com/6730538/burden-performance-every-man-understands#105382696

There is no need for posting the female equivalent thread link of the above,since I'm this forum we are all reminded on a daily basis what a woman should be and do

handsomeyitayo:
You see she said that , even that one they treat her like queen, Bec he dey give atm card, and she left him for you, girls will never get satisfied... Nah only God go giv us our heart desires

Rapmoney:
Don't be fooled by social media. Many young people in Nigeria are not in relationships. This includes both male and female genders. It is even worse for people who are above 30 due to so many financial expectations, commitments, bills over bills, poor economy, terrible hard-hitting economic policies by the government, high level of unemployment and inflation. Young people are becoming more withdrawn. There is a fast decline in our social life; I mean how we interact with one another face to face. It will amaze you to know the number of young people who see their electronic gadgets as their partners.

It is pertinent to note that the above mentioned problems have caused a chain reaction in the society where young women now prefer hookup to dating...sex business aka 'If you give me cash, I'll give you the Bermuda Triangle'. You cannot separate poverty/economic hardship from a socially and culturally warped society.

Which way Nigerian youths?

Tonytonex:
what is the difference between the bolded?

Gerrard59:
2. Conversely, both men and women in Nigeria are still getting married. ALMOST all my female classmates in the university are married. The same applies to my secondary school. Both those who flirted a lot and the prudish ones. Dem don marry. The male seniors in my department are also married and have children. I can count those who are unmarried. Some don born reach three children. Others don lock up at two children. This also applies to Facebook friends that are mutual of friends. They are married or are in serious relationships. So, check your environment. In fact, as I write, one has proposed to the love of his life. When I see these things and compare them with what I read here, there is a stark difference. If people are not marrying as you say, who uses event centres every Saturday? Why are there naming ceremonies every Sunday (children born out of wedlock don’t get such privilege)?


3. One clown stated that Nigerian women are obviously useless, just like your mother and every female in your household. Foolish men who are after drinking shekpe and smoking colos would access the Internet to start yarning nonsense. He plans to marry an American, Canadian or European. Meanwhile, his counterparts are in the UK, US, Canada, Germany, and Japan and have realised it is better to marry a Nigerian woman. His compatriots in the UK have told others to knack o before moving to the UK. Others in Canada are moving to Nigeria because the team foreign women they thought would embrace them are actually not interested in Nigerian men or marriage at all. One idiot on Twitter was pained when a Mongolian woman told him she cannot marry a black man. Every day, I am told I should marry a Nigerian girl instead of a foreign lady, even when I am open to all cultures or races. Nigerian men thought they were the best thing since sliced bread moved abroad and finally realised that the only black men prized were either home-grown or African Americans. But nincompoops somewhere in Iyana Ipaja are hoping that they can marry young Europeans aka Swiss, Norwegians, Danish etc. The other day, another clown used his filthy hands to type that Swiss girls are doing hookup in Nigeria. Swiss? Idiots! Give a Nigerian man access to the Internet and watch him vomit nonsense. Useless set of animals.

If they are not doing masturbation, they are following small small girls. One travelled from Leeds to Scotland to sleep with an underage girl. The other day, another bastard was caught in Northern Ireland trying to sleep with a 14-year-old. In Kazakhstan, they banned Nigerians because the useless men were caught sleeping with underage girls. Useless, both at home and abroad. Never useful, always useless.

4. Oh! Why are women not commenting? It is pointless because if they do, their opinions are never regarded or they are bullied to be silent. A page I follow on Facebook controlled by a man posted an image from Twitter with content from a man about how women don’t bill richer men like they do with regular dudes. A female posted that a single sum from a rich man surpasses monies from a regular guy. Come and see a barrage of insults and comments from poor men simply because she said her mind. I was shocked reading the comments because her reply was harmless. But rather than face the politicians they voted for, they turned their frustration to the lady. Recalling the incident still stuns me because I don’t understand the frustration. So there you have it on why many females will rather close up than comment. Why respond to cretinous fvcktards whose brains have been affected by trekking like camels? Allow them to whine.

In summary, I implore young Nigerian women to work hard, and if it involves hookup, be very strategic at it. Bill the men very high. Don’t pity them. Charge them very high prices. They love sex more than anything else. Take it as a business. Get a ten-year passport, try to japa LEGALLY. Explore the world, and be open to other nationalities and races. Don’t believe your best catch is a Nigerian man living in Nigeria. There is a lot out there. Information is easily accessible. The Internet is free. Don’t allow comments from idiats and donkeys here to bully you to mediocrity. In other parts of the world, their men ensure things work. If possible, marry those men. It is not your responsibility to make a society function optimally. So, don’t be gaslighted or guilted by these cretins and monkeys that you want the best in life.

PricelessGem1:
Apart from economy hardships, a lot of people enter into a relationship with strange motives. Like a lot of people have said, gold-digging is one key thing that both the female and male gender are guilty of. I was trying to enter into a relationship with someone that could possibly lead to marriage, all the guy was interested in was my money. At 38, he was not even a graduate, all he had was SSCE not even an OND, he had no business or employment, he was living in a one room which he could not even afford the rent. He was constantly weighing me down with his endless problems and needs. To make matters worse, he had bad temper and bad attitude. I quickly ended the relationship before going far with him and also blocked him. A lot of people enter into relationships with the wrong motive.

franchasofficia:
Unemployment means when there is lack of job or no available jobs.



Underemployment means when you are employed but your take home salary is not enough to sustain you or give you a meaningful life, that's underemployment

BigBlackPreek:
at least they better than all these entitled small girls that thinks they are doing one's favor for dating them

and if the 55 year old get pregnant, she will give birth of course, so who cares ?

Sonnobax15:
Who are you please?

Greystone:
I’m not one of those