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Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by jeromestarks: 11:01pm On Jul 29, 2023
Uchesis:

So the wife must be a virgin, but the husband must be a pussy-banger?
Now who will marry the girls the man has fvckd?
You see say your idea no make sense
As a man, you need to be sexually experienced to keep your wife.
That said, let's talk about who will marry the wh0res .
Idiots will marry the women we banged!
Some men don't care raising another man's child. They don't care if you fvck their wives in front of them. They don't care marrying retired or active olosho. Those are the people who will marry the women we have used.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Thazard(m): 11:01pm On Jul 29, 2023
Shal0mmy:
I tire o.
My boyfriend tried to do this kinda thing to me after giving him my body.
But he stoped after i threatened him with juju grin grin
He now holds me tight grin


cheesygrincheesy

This kind thing no fit work for me Sha!
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Nonywendy(m): 11:05pm On Jul 29, 2023
immortalcrown:
Maybe guys lose interest because she shows her real character immediately after saying yes. This is why it is important for people to be real. When you are real, someone who gets attracted to you will not leave when you accept the person. Bad character pushes away good people who are attracted by fake life.
A bottle of chilled beer for u
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Zhahovic(m): 11:15pm On Jul 29, 2023
After winning election, do you continue campaigning?
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by LINSAR: 11:19pm On Jul 29, 2023
Zhahovic:
After winning election, do you continue campaigning?
Wrong analogy.

Campaigning after election can be likened to wooing after acceptance.
Losing interest after acceptance can be likened to resigning from post after emerging winner.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by DonroxyII: 11:42pm On Jul 29, 2023
Passionate888:

Why do lady's like to be chased?
She needs to Check What & Who is Penetrating Inside Her Body System ...

No be Everybody u go dey allow dey torment inside your Organs.....

Chasing is how she nows you are really interested in her if you can endure & persevere grin ....

Pvssy wey dem offer u for free no go get value na ...

Imagine Make everybody dey pick money for floor... Na to dey use money sh.it clean Nyansh Join na ....

Na small small girl dey play hard to get ... Big Girl go either accept or reject you immediately, no story !
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by DonroxyII: 11:45pm On Jul 29, 2023
Lanre1st:
I think it is female gender that don't get it correctly. Once you say Yes, the game need to change.

What's required to woo a girl is different from what needed to sustain it.

Campaign period always different from administrative responsibilities

Seeking for Job is different from job responsibilities
Baed Boy grin
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Rumundele(m): 11:48pm On Jul 29, 2023
I can only talk about myself, i don't know about other guys.
Your initial present is key or better put as first impression matter, that is the way you present your self to me, is what got you attracted to me, showing attitude that is not familiar to me could put you under watch and loss of interest.

Demanding assistance is never a bad thing, ofcourse is expected and that is essence of the relationship, sex from what i understand is to add spices to the relationship, the most important thing is assist each other grow in life. But when the demand is targeted with ulterior motives ofcourse it will show and that will make me loose interest.
I met a lady that demanded an iPhone that is more than my salary, telling her the truth about my salary her mood changed and reflected in her body language. If you said i loose interest because of my response to get the phone i can afford i don't have options but to move on.

Respect is the most important thing i cherish so much, but some ladies have the orientations of reducing their worth when they respect their guy, well as for me you earned my respect in return. There is way to present your grievances which will extinguish the flames in the guys heart. Insisting on your point all the time will vanish the interest.

Some it just happen just like, there is absolutely no reason for losing interest, it happen to me with one particular lady, after sex i just loose interest immediately, the lady did nothing to me, i don't just know somehow my interest in her just died. My conscience continue to disturb me anytime i remember the poor girl. At this point she will feel i used her and dump her.

There are many reasons but cannot mention all here.
My advice to ladies is that, have a mind of contributing to a guys life, your demand for assistance from any guys is how that assistance could help both of you grow, no guy will see that effort you put in and still lose interest in you.
There are some relationship that are not meant to work, do your bit and leave the rest to God.
Do not insist it will lead to heart break, continue to develop yourself for that is only way out.

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Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Candycrushy(f): 11:49pm On Jul 29, 2023
LastProphet:


Wearing bra on a normal is different from aggressively pulling up the boobs with bra. When you create a very high expectation for those that like standing breast what do you think will happen after they see something different? There are men that don't care for standing bres so why not be yourself or something close to it so you attract your type? And lastly, flat bres from genes is very different from what we saying we
Wetin una really want. Sagged bress still doesn’t mean a wayward lifestyle or any assumption u pple av. Nawa ooo. If na like dat na everybody na ashewo nau

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Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Candycrushy(f): 11:50pm On Jul 29, 2023
1Sharon:


They're stupid. They say any young woman with sagged breasts has slept with alot of men.


There are no sources that confirm this. Nobody says that outside Nigerian circles.
So which source confirm dis one wey u talk so. Nobody is stupid here abeg. If na like dat na everybody na ashewo nau
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Muideen6013(m): 11:54pm On Jul 29, 2023
After eating snails πŸŒβ€¦ you throw away the 🐚 shell..πŸ‘…

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Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Rumundele(m): 11:56pm On Jul 29, 2023
Muideen6013:
After eating snails πŸŒβ€¦ you throw away the 🐚 shell..πŸ‘…
Try and grow up
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by 1Sharon(f): 11:58pm On Jul 29, 2023
Candycrushy:

So which source confirm dis one wey u talk so. Nobody is stupid here abeg. If na like dat na everybody na ashewo nau

I think you need to read my comment again
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by 0neal(m): 1:25am On Jul 30, 2023
NAC1666:

Men like women who stress them. When you accept easily,we take you as been cheap.

That's not entirely true...

Most men will keep and take a woman who's valuable seriously...knows how to cook, cleans the house without being told, good hygiene, industrious, and didn't play hard to get too much.

The ladies stressing son of man, if she doesn't have what it takes to keep a man hooked, after the guy cum, him eye go clear, reason for this thread...

So ladies up your "not easy to forget game", rather than unnecessarily playing hard to get with no tangible value.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by KayCee92(m): 1:35am On Jul 30, 2023
Shal0mmy:
I tire o.
My boyfriend tried to do this kinda thing to me after giving him my body.
But he stoped after i threatened him with juju grin grin
He now holds me tight grin


Didn't he give you his own body to. Why u dey threaten am.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by yeldey: 3:21am On Jul 30, 2023
Do your politicians campaign after winning an election?
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by LastProphet: 4:56am On Jul 30, 2023
Candycrushy:

Wetin una really want. Sagged bress still doesn’t mean a wayward lifestyle or any assumption u pple av. Nawa ooo. If na like dat na everybody na ashewo nau

Just be yourself you won't lose. As for Ashawo all of us na ashawo so no one condemning anyone here. The point is don't create impression for a guy and later he sees you are not that thing or even close to it.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Shal0mmy(f): 5:46am On Jul 30, 2023
sonofthunder:



Lol.... That's why he acted so I guess.

Our generation is alittle bit different from that of our parents and most times, playing hard to get makes a man to lose interest as it's easier to reach out to alternatives and he probably doesn't want to be taken for a ride.

Guys will hold out mostly if they came to conquer or the lady is actually worth it.

Are you guys still together?
lol
I know, but i just want to stress him a little bit. (to confirm if he wants my body or my heart).
As for bieng together, Yep!
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Shal0mmy(f): 5:48am On Jul 30, 2023
Thazard:



cheesygrincheesy

This kind thing no fit work for me Sha!
see you.
Try it with me first and see if i wont unclad my self and swear for you with amadioha grin
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Descholar: 7:05am On Jul 30, 2023
Shal0mmy:
I tire o.
My boyfriend tried to do this kinda thing to me after giving him my body.
But he stoped after i threatened him with juju grin grin
He now holds me tight grin

[color=#990000][/color] I laugh in Chinese madam Juju threator πŸ˜‚

Nah yok you dei yok πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚. That ur man no get liver, better examine him well because nah that kinda man go see danger coming to attack you and instead of defending u will run away just because there's no liver left πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Mountbatten: 1:00pm On Jul 30, 2023
NAC1666:

Men like women who stress them. When you accept easily,we take you as been cheap.
Speak for yourself. It's kids who play these silly games.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Uchesis: 2:46pm On Jul 30, 2023
jeromestarks:

As a man, you need to be sexually experienced to keep your wife.
That said, let's talk about who will marry the wh0res .
Idiots will marry the women we banged!
Some men don't care raising another man's child. They don't care if you fvck their wives in front of them. They don't care marrying retired or active olosho. Those are the people who will marry the women we have used.
Ok. Now if every man out there read this your comment and decided not to be an idiot again, who will now marry the women we have used? grin
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by jeromestarks: 2:49pm On Jul 30, 2023
Uchesis:

Ok. Now if every man out there read this your comment and decided not to be an idiot again, who will now marry the women we have used? grin
Use your brain.
There are over 200M Nigerians.
Less than 3M are on Nairaland. At most 5M will read. So there are more idiots than you thought.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Uchesis: 3:31pm On Jul 30, 2023
jeromestarks:

Use your brain.
There are over 200M Nigerians.
Less than 3M are on Nairaland. At most 5M will read. So there are more idiots than you thought.
Ok. Just pray you don't give birth to a girl child sha. because one wise guy might turn her to one of the whores grin
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by winner37(m): 3:36pm On Jul 30, 2023
I met this girl, her appearance was charming.
She visited me one evening am a kind of person I dislike kissing she asked me to kiss her I couldn't so when I tried to do just to satisfy when I got from her mouth really turned me off from the mode ..

Mouth odor
Unshaved armpit of private part
Body odor and
When I noticed her pussy is wider than normal
Those things really make to lose interest on any lady
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Ten06(m): 4:09pm On Jul 30, 2023
1Sharon:


Why does that loss of interest always come after sex?


When the man is going after sex he will be blinded as a result of infatuation but after the sex he will begin to reason well
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by sonofthunder: 4:00am On Aug 01, 2023
Shal0mmy:
lol
I know, but i just want to stress him a little bit. (to confirm if he wants my body or my heart).
As for bieng together, Yep!


You too don't chop money and run oh. When are you proposing?

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Shalommy(f): 8:37pm On Aug 08, 2023
Shal0mmy:
I tire o.
My boyfriend tried to do this kinda thing to me after giving him my body.
But he stoped after i threatened him with juju grin grin
He now holds me tight grin
Amos goat na better thunder go scatter ur scrotum. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Shalommy(f): 8:41pm On Aug 08, 2023
Shal0mmy:
see you.
Try it with me first and see if i wont unclad my self and swear for you with amadioha grin
cheesy cheesy Amos gaybriel.
Re: Men Why Do You Lose Interest Once A Lady Accepts You by Zhahovic(m): 6:51pm On Aug 22, 2023
grin
LINSAR:

Wrong analogy.

Campaigning after election can be likened to wooing after acceptance.
Losing interest after acceptance can be likened to resigning from post after emerging winner.

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