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advanceDNA:
Weda its virginity issue, or age, or not having kids, or wateva....Oga dont enter any marriage blind....
Women are very deceptive...... she's already showing signs that she's lying by creating excuse in ur mind so that when u reach there and its a free slope...she can have an excuse

Hmmm

Wow

Hmm

That hymen matter no be here o, OP.

Las las you might have to check to confirm. Don't just take her word for it, even if she's crying and swearing to you. One of my girls was once crying and swearing that she didn't do something, in that moment I snatched her phone and unlocked her WhatsApp with her fingerprint forcefully because I was sure it was crocodile tears. And voilà, I WAS RIGHT!

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

She wan carry you for hadicap ,4goals ahead.. Don't be decieved .. For her to be asking those silly questions.. Then d matter no clear

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

you can check by Deeping your little finger into her Pu***.

She's not a virgin. She doesn't like you that is why she is using sex after marriage to continue deceiving you.

Scammer

blackgold2018:
I’m not trying to discourage you.

But the part your girl said she doesn’t know if her hymen is intact or not is a very big lie.

It seems you are inexperienced.

Every girl knows if they have lost their hymen. If she can lie on that, meaning she didn’t loose it from masturbation. Believe me in this 100%.

I have dated a very good girl in the past that I disvirgined. Even after our separate ways after graduation., I happened to be friends with her coursemate. He never believed me when I told him she was having sex with me all those well in her school days.

And mind you.. she is a very very good and decent girl.

And you are even concluding it will be masturbation if actually she lost it because you see her as a good girl. You are really inexperienced.

Hmmm! I was actually bewildered when she said she doesn't know too, but the truth about this girl is, she's not exposed, I knew this from our conversation, I'm a psychologist, I can actually tell if she is pretending. Before she got comfortable discussing sex issues with me, it took her time, I had to reorientate her mentality. She's was shy. Trust me on this, no pretence, she was real

Honeybadgerxx:
Lol, so why haven't you got the real men since all this while? Even if a man has a 10 inches rod, it's still going to look like a dot to your likes. Shame on that thing you have in-between your thighs.

What makes you think I haven't gotten a worthy man that you can't ever measure up to? Lamentation of a dot pricked man.

Hmmm

She's a virgin who's just scared that if you find out her hymen is broken after telling you she's a virgin
You'll feel she lied to you.

She probably had that hymen break or blood flow some time ago and the article just made her realize what happened was her hymen breaking.

Right now asking you the question has put it in your subconscious the likelihood of her hymen being broken based on what you explained to her.

If you ever say she's not a virgin when I have sex with her or doubt her virginity, she will refer you back to this conversation you had with her.

harmargedon:
you can check by Deeping your little finger into her Pu***.

She declined

Yes

Honeybadgerxx:
Hmmm! I was actually bewildered when she said she doesn't know too, but the truth about this girl is, she's not exposed, I knew this from our conversation, I'm a psychologist, I can actually tell if she is pretending. Before she got comfortable discussing sex issues with me, it took her time, I had to reorientate her mentality. She's was shy. Trust me on this, no pretence, she was real

Is she up to 23?
Cos most girls who are truly inexperienced in this things and act naive tend to be around this age and from families that they had to be good girls but now trying to exolore

My babe then was even learning things about her body from me.

Ask her genotype

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

Na these ones bad pass... Lol

talented321:
My concern is why do u choose marriage before sex' as OG way u be.
Fine she may be a virgin or not but that is not enough reason to wait till marriage for this present age.
Oga if her claim of virginity is real' then she is masturbating.

I hate the bolded Shaa, why is it that whenever you tell someone that you are a virgin, they will tell you that you are probably masturbating?...and if you insist that you are not masturbating, they will still doubt and ask how you dey take have your own sexual pleasure. Is it a must to have sexual pleasure?? Can't someone be decent for once?

Honeybadgerxx:
There's this church girl I'm currently dating, I love her so much and she loves me too. She claimed to be a virgin and insisted on no sex till marriage, I really do not have a problem with that cos I'm not a virgin and I told her about it and she said she's cool with it.

Now this is where the issue is, suddenly one day she chatted me up and asked if I know about hymen in ladies, I said yes and she popped another question asking if the hymen of a lady can be broken without penetration, I told her yes that sometimes the thickness of the hymen varies amongst ladies, some are very light that too much of heat and stress can make a lady discover a little discharge of blood underneath her thereby breaking the hymen ( I actually learnt this during school days). But the question got me curious and forced me to ask her if hers was still intact, she replied me by saying she doesn't know, that she only saw it online and decided to ask me cos she knew I'm knowledgeable, like how possible is this? Why shouldn't you know? We fought about this for days and she still insist that she's isn't aware, she was nearly crying saying this. Well, I noticed some innocence in her statements and let go of it.

Now my question is, is it possible for a lady not to know if her hymen is still intact or not? Ladies in the house please help me out.

Note: I'm not a simp, I be correct OG but decided to give love a chance and trusted this girl not because she's a church girl, not because she claimed to be a virgin, but because everyone tends to vouch for her including those kiss and tell guys around, none of them fit play her tape like they talk about other ladies around. Even in her uni days, I was opportuned to have a friend in her school hostel area of which he's unknown to her and the comments he gave about her are very impressive.
Even when I stylishly engage her in some sex topics, she tends to ask me the meaning of some erotic words.

She's a good girl, never billed me before, though I do send her funds atimes, she dresses moderately and hates going out.

But considering how ladies pretends and how some good girls turns bad, I still have this doubt within me, what could make her asked me such question?

Please I need answers as I'm planning towards our marriage soon, she's in her mid 20s and now a grad

How old is she?

Dont ever be deceived by all those no sex before marriage crap.

If you are financially OK, I will suggest you put a specific app on the phone, what you will see will not only shock you but make you FEAR the opposite sex.

You will be shocked to realize that she may be sleeping with 5 other guys at the same time.

Don't be so stupid to fall for all that..... she is a manipulator.....

FYI, if you decide to go the app route, you must be super strong to manage the outcome emotionally, trust me it is impossible for you to find anyone clean, it will expose a whole lot of BS

BTW, the app is not on playstore, the best hacker can never detect it. Sms, listen to her surroundings especially when she is being fu-cked by another guy, the names she calls you etc, whatsapp chats etc.

Good luck if you choose to be manipulated

Honeybadgerxx:
Exactly what I'm thinking. But this girl swore with her life that she hasn't even kissed a guy before not to talk of sex, I guess she masturbates.

Now bro, what do you think, let's assume she hasn't been penetrated by anyone before and she lost her virginity to masturbation, should one go on with the wedding plans with such lady? Since the whole reason behind this virginity stuffs is to avoid fornication. I really don't care about her masturbating provided she will stop it after getting married, my problem is her having sex with someone else. Should I go on and marry her, I really love her and she loves me more than I do to her, she's respectful, she's beautiful, she's educated and sensible at least for a lady.

And I also want to know if masturbation is same thing with fornication?

Solofresh2:
The hymen can actually break without sexual intercourse for the first time if the lady in question does regular exercise or if she uses tampon instead of sanitary pads
But you can't really trust these girls these days. She might even be a chronic masturbator

What is tampon?

Op send me her number. I want to check something

blackgold2018:
but for her to lie about her virginity is even more dangerous than the one that has spoilt.

He doesn't know 4 sure if she is lying or not

My question is when did simp turn O.G


O.Gs don't play like this

Please is the girl name in quote Deborah..(Debby)

Honeybadgerxx:
She declined


by IconicR:
What makes you think I haven't gotten a worthy man that you can't ever measure up to? Lamentation of a dot pricked man.

Lol, you can console yourself with your imaginary worthy man. My foot. Loneliness has done a great deal on your ugly self. One can't even visit you and confidently walk up to the fridge to pick up a cucumber 🥒 for consumption. Spit. God forvids

Same dirty mind you have is why you are here creating useless topic over somebody's daughter virginity after distributing your dot prick to brothel old mamas. Your dot prick can't even disvirgin any lady and for your information your type can never come across a virgin, you can only be deceived. Go back to the brothel and pick from the ladies luminouz, dhiqson, karlifate, Martinez39s , ubunja and many others have ran over.

I guess the girl name is Deborah

Honeybadgerxx:
Exactly what I'm thinking. But this girl swore with her life that she hasn't even kissed a guy before not to talk of sex, I guess she masturbates.

Now bro, what do you think, let's assume she hasn't been penetrated by anyone before and she lost her virginity to masturbation, should one go on with the wedding plans with such lady? Since the whole reason behind this virginity stuffs is to avoid fornication. I really don't care about her masturbating provided she will stop it after getting married, my problem is her having sex with someone else. Should I go on and marry her, I really love her and she loves me more than I do to her, she's respectful, she's beautiful, she's educated and sensible at least for a lady.

And I also want to know if masturbation is same thing with fornication?

I know a woman who swore with her life and the lives of her kids that she was not cheating on her husband.

Yet one day, her husband caught her red-handed in a toilet having sex with a blind security man.

This woman I am talking about was my neighbour when I was in secondary school.

blackgold2018:
for her to say she doesn’t know if her hymen is intact or not is a very big lie.

From my experience.. that girl is not a virgin. Every girl knows if their hymen is still there or not.

Infant some ladies even know by mere looking at their fellow lady pussy surface to dictate virginity.

pussy surface with clothes or stack naked?

Dizzyyish:
When you ask a direct question and they start to prevaricate, just know she doesn't want to tell you the truth.

Also, please desist from seeing 'good/church girls' as "angels". It's all social packaging: https://www.nairaland.com/7753241/wahala-chaos-female-nature-volume#124228847

Also also, it's not unheard of for non-virgins to feign naivete about sex stuff or "erotic words" (it complements the "good girl" image).

Also also also, that "good girl" might already be working wonders on you, as you are now insisting on her 'innocence' and 'crying' despite the need to ask people about this. If a woman really wants to move in silence with her exploits then hearsay from people around her might not enough..

Also got me laughing.

My brother always go and verify it your self... Period