JayDaily2:


Don't get me wrong Jakumo, I use the word "blocking" in the basics of a break up, not due to a rejection.

Rejection should be part of a Man's life.

If you're not facing rejections as a man it means you are living in your own island and your options are "tiny". Explore Wisely.

Jakumo:


My point is that all rejections are not created equally. Some apparent rejections are nothing more than a woman's test to evaluate whether the man pursuing her will become bitter and back off like a wimp, or will simply take a breather before coming back with a witty and flirtatious new approach by which to reignite the woman's curiosity in the man who is seeing politely and patiently, to slip into her promised land.

It is said that the more beautiful the woman happens to be, the more likely it is that she will play hard to get, as a means of weeding out the weak men whose egos are easily hurt, and whose motivation is below par, in order to grant access ONLY to men of strong character who know and exploit with impunity those unwritten rules of the mating game.

PoliteActivist:


Point is, you shouldn't be "chasing" a woman in the first place. Leave that to agberoes and construction workers. Have game. Do your homework. Find out what that woman or women in that area want. Have it or present you have it, and they'll be the ones chasing you! You'd have the experience of a woman/women codedly chasing YOU!

Osoboshi:
this the realest game,n why love the work for,others money,others iphone.the game can't be universal

Persephone1:
For a gender that doesn't care about a woman's orgasm, do not benefit from marriage, sees all women as golddiggers y'all ponder and type too much epistles on women

JayDaily2:


It's Ok.

Since you don't get what I mean,

I let you win.

You won!

PoliteActivist:


Go siddon. Pretenders. Women do it worse than men, except not on NL. Women that do nothing but gossip about men relationships all day long. At least men talk about a lot other things too!

Of course they do but not on Nl I guess

Jakumo:


My opinions expressed in online forums have never been for the purpose of "winning" arguments with other writers. I just happen to enjoy sharing ideas with others about the mysterious and often baffling workings of the female psyche, then exploring how such scholarly analysis can facilitate man pikin's timeless quest to partake of the fabled furry clam lurking at the glorious intersection of those silken thighs that invade and dominate our waking dreams with such brazen impunity.

JayDaily2:


I am currently writing a serie in a Telegram about relationships.

Kindly search and join IAJ ONLINE on telegram, I would appreciate your inputs.

Persephone1:
Of course they do but not on Nl I guess

PoliteActivist:



Sooo, how come sales people end up talking people into buying something they initially said they'd absolutely not buy minutes before? They do their homework! They prepare their game well. The customer has no chance!

"Sure, take care" and that's the end of it? Na, not good.
Women that change their minds constantly and are not really sure what they want. A woman may say no to you this minute and regret it the next - and you already out of communication? Not good

Best thing anyway is, never approach girls for date directly. Otherwise you're already a loser. If you must, first build yourself up so much in her imagination and read her so well, she can't possibly say no!
But most people are lazy, no preparation at all, no imagination, just shot in the dark and hope for a miracle!

DaddyFreeze2020:
Women don't reject men that have money.
Ask Davido or Dangote.
Even married women will be happy to date Davido or Dangote.

squash47:
everybody wants to form mancho man for social Media... For real life, Dem dey beg for love..

PoliteActivist:


You should say "Nigerian women". See below. And this was when he was worth 330 billion and Dangote worth 9 billion

Jakumo:


Not all women can be bought with money, as this story you've kindly posted about one of Elon Musk's failed seduction attempts aboard a private jet clearly illustrates.

The EU and USA count among their billionaires many who are tired of renting call girls, yet are so inept at the nuances of sparking female attraction that such men are often LONELY even as they relax amidst the opulent trappings of their eye-watering wealth.

The mother of Elon Musk's child has the appearance of a prepubescent child herself and is no beauty queen by any yardstick, suggesting that Elon Musk, who has described himself as being autistic in some regards, never developed the social skills needed to attract and marry a quality woman of great beauty and intellect commensurate with Mr. Musk's towering social status as one of our planet's richest men.

Another famous billionaire whose bride is no beauty queen is Jeff Beezos of Amazon who recently became engaged to a middle-aged, plastic surgery-disfigured puffy-lipped woman that would never turn any heads at the beach, yet is now positioned to secure a multi-billion dollar divorce settlement just as soon as she can sink in her claws deeply enough. That very odd selection of a plain old pedestrian-looking woman with fish lips and hard plastic fake tits for a bride, suggests that Jeff Beezos, like Elon Musk, is also severely lacking in the seduction skills that are essential to any man seeking a high-quality woman for sex or marriage.

PoliteActivist:


That's what Yahoo boys do They know what those women want and they present they're exactly that, and the women fall in "love" despite the poor grammar and thick accent!
You don't gotta be a Yahoo boy, but at least have some imagination!

Curvinus:
A confident man is man who has worked on and achieved most of his goals or is on the way to achieving them, so is not bothered by little things like rejection. To him, a woman and other things that are not key to his goals are just bonuses. So, if they come, fine, he takes them. And if they don't, no problem.

Confidence to me stems from assured inner peace. If you have your own house, you know of course that no landlord is coming to throw your things out. That's confidence. A handsome guy knows the women will always fall for him so he is confident in that territory. A rich guy knows he can always get most if not all that he wants and is confident about that. A good mathematician knows he'll most likely pass a maths exam. That high value skilled worker who has helped to grow a company from scratch knows he's nearly indispensable.

So, overall, confidence is that feeling of assurance stemming from a place of substance or abundance.

When the ladies say they want a confident man, they are simply referring to a high value man who ticks all the boxes of above average standard.

Khyrvxjzy:


animal, we know your type idiot, you that never received love from your poor parents

bleeding gender?

Pukkalolo:
Years ago, I was watching Asa being interviewed on a show where she was a guest. They asked what are the top qualities she love in a man. Among other qualities, she said she loves a man who is CONFIDENT.

Well....

This is a cliche`. In hundreds of sources, they describe "confidence" has the most attractive trait a woman love in men.

I got curious...

So in particular a private group online, I put out the question, "What does it mean for a man to be confident with women"

In no time, answers flood in.

I got answers like:

"A confident man always go for what he wants..."

"A confident man always says exactly what on his mind and he isn't scared of expressing how he feels"

"A confident man always take action and has the firm believe that he will get what he looks out for."

"A confident man always bla bla bla....."

They are all correct, but I think they miss the point of what true confidence is.

Here's is what makes you confident:

A truly confident man is a man who is "comfortable" with rejection.

Nothing more, nothing less.

He's comfortable with rejection because he's comfortable with people not liking him.

The average man isn't comfortable with rejection, so when he get rejected, he verbally attacks the woman.

A lady recently showed me her chat with a Man she rejected recently.

She: "Sorry .... I'm not interested."

Man: "mtcheew...what is this mumu feeling like self. With your flat ass....bitch."


Lolz

In some occasions, a lady might have some interest in you but will still reject you because rejecting you is a safer option for her at that moment. That's the reason why--- how you respond to a rejection matters more than the rejection itself. Responding in an upset manner like that will be a confirmation to her that you have low self-esteem. She will try her best to avoid you for fear of harassment or fear of being physically attacked.

Again,

When a woman outrightly reject you, do not attempt to try to change her mind.
Unfortunately, that’s exactly what most guys tries to do...

The average man isn't comfortable with rejection, so when he get rejected, he tries to convince her to change her mind.

For example:

She: "Sorry .... I'm not interested."

Man: "Why now? You know I truly care about you... Please accept me."

The more you try to change her mind, the more she’s going to disrespect you. When she perceive that you are not comfortable with getting rejected, she view that as weakness and even try to exploit you and toy with your emotions.

Ok enough talk....

We are just starting...

When you're comfortable with rejection, how do you respond

You say, "Sure, take care."

No comeback response. No argument. No debate. No trying to convince her to change her mind.

Just say, "Sure, take care." And then stop interacting with her immediately.

Remember, chances are that she’s might be expecting you to do one of these things:

- Verbally convincing her to change her mind

- Giving her cash gifts so she can change her mind

- Getting upset at her and calling her negative names.

Doing any of those things would boost her ego and make her feel she's on top of the world...

But when you respond with just, "Sure. Take care," And immediately end the conversation with her.....Her ego will drastically reduce.

She might be inspired to re-initiate a contact with you.

Some women have rejected me initially but later contacted me again because they were caught off guard by how "comfortable" I was towards the rejection.

Getting upset or trying to convince her never work; it only make your value go down in her eyes.

But being comfortable with it and saying “Sure, take care,” makes your value goes up.

Stay blessed.

Jakumo:


By using such an abusive term to describe women, that person using the name Bahamas 95, easily defines himself as an INCEL (Involuntary Celibate) who hates women because he has no idea how to attract them for sex.

Overcome with sexual frustration and bitterness over his failure to connect with women, he will now choose to either patronize hoookers or simply go without any female companionship, as he stews in his own hatred and bile.

Jakumo:


By using such an abusive term to describe women, that person using the name Bahamas 95, easily defines himself as an INCEL (Involuntary Celibate) who hates women because he has no idea how to attract them for sex.

Overcome with sexual frustration and bitterness over his failure to connect with women, he will now choose to either patronize hoookers or simply go without any female companionship, as he stews in his own hatred and bile.

pansophist:

Sweet. This is gold. I agree 100%. Rejections are not hurtful when one is valuable and full of substance.

If we even analyze the person rejecting us, in many cases, it was you who gave them that illusion that they are in any position of strength to reject.

Imagine someone that will disappear when you ask for 5k. A person that is like smoke when it comes to standing up for you, they are only present to collect, not give.

how on earth can rejection by such a person worth anything?

Or a guy placing a girl above him, when in reality, association with her only involves carrying her weight. She has everything to gain yet, thinks she is in a position to reject.

That can only happen when a man has little awareness of his value, and overvalue a woman due to his own insecurities. Many cases of rejections are like this.

But men with value, those one the worked from young to build a life for themselves, those ones are scarce, and they dictate the tunes. Rejecting such men is a woman's loss. Real men are very scarce.

Beautiful ladies are not scarce, especially when the barrier to beauty has been democratized. Makeup and wig can transform even an average chick to a fine girl.

Every girl is born with value. But every man is born without value. Only few men becomes extremely valuable, and those ones are the real prize.

PoliteActivist:


Point is, you shouldn't be "chasing" a woman in the first place. Leave that to agberoes and construction workers. Have game. Do your homework. Find out what that woman or women in that area want. Have it or present you have it, and they'll be the ones chasing you! You'd have the experience of a woman/women codedly chasing YOU!

seguno2:


Oga, please why are you like this, biko?
Why are you sharing bitter facts like kolanuts?
Kindly leave our makeup and wig assisted beauties for us o. We go dey jolly them like that.