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Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 1:54pm On Aug 08, 2023
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7demons:
Is that the reason why your Ex-Nigerian boyfriend left you for another Big nyash Zulu? 🤡
Now you are crying cheesy
Cos you were an all rounded failure:
Can't cook
Can't clean
Shapeless
Paranoid
Fugly
Always on social media(nairaland for Nigerian big 🥒)
Attention seeking mofo grin embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by ILEMUDA(m): 2:03pm On Aug 08, 2023
You don't like Nigerian men but you're always hovering around Nairaland, why not get your ass back to your SA and be sleeping around with your siblings as they always do over therehuh
Leave us alone here.
Samantha124:
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Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by 7demons: 2:04pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
Honestly speaking, I've got nothing to say to you because your comments are not worth my replies...😒😒😒
Better cos I will dismantle you if you try any rubbish! I don't like you South Africans. Kaffirs
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 2:11pm On Aug 08, 2023
Says a kwerekwere...🤣🤣🤣

Dismantle me with lies?🤣🤣🤣
7demons:
Better cos I will dismantle you if you try any rubbish! I don't like you South Africans. Kaffirs
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 2:12pm On Aug 08, 2023
Where did I say I hate Nigerians? undecided undecided undecided
ILEMUDA:
You don't like Nigerian men but you're always hovering around Nairaland, why not get your ass back to your SA and be sleeping around with your siblings as they always do over therehuh
Leave us alone here.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 2:21pm On Aug 08, 2023
And remember that the word "kaffir" was used by the Dutch to refer to all black Africans, including yourself.. grin grin grin... So you calling me a kaffir doesn't bother me one bit, because in the eyes of those people, we're all kaffirs..🐵🐵🐵

Do your research before uttering something you know nothing about..🤣🤣🤣
7demons:
Better cos I will dismantle you if you try any rubbish! I don't like you South Africans. Kaffirs
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by djon78(m): 2:39pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
When I tell your brothers here that those SA ladies who go for Nigerian men only want their money because you guys are free givers, they think that I'm bashing them.

And I've never been approached by a Nigerian guy before, I only heard stories from other ladies who dated Nigerian men.
Wetin concern one with Nigerian girls overseas?

When I lived overseas I dated 2 Tanzanian babes.

Another of my guy dated Zimbabwe babe

Another guy I know dated Tanzanian babe of which they later got married

Guys overseas either go for oyibo or African babes.
It's rare to see one dating a Nija babe
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by achinu(m): 2:40pm On Aug 08, 2023
I beg to differ that the only reason SA women date Nigerian men are for financial gains. While I personally have never dated a SA lady, I have dated a wide range of women mostly non - Nigerian. One of the things I have been told consistently by non Nigerian ladies, latina, White, West Indian, African American is that you Nigerian men exude a certain level of confidence and self assuredness which they are very attracted to. No cap, I've been invited to parties by some of my east African lady friends and I can tell you from my experience that their east African men always act insecure once they know that I am Nigerian. Guess that Nigerian swagger is just too crispy!! 😋

Nigerian men do not lack in confidence, money or no money, it's just innately in us and women across the world love us for this.
💯

Sure, Nigerian men are all about their business. Good, bad or indifferent, but the non Nigerian ladies love that added security knowing that their Nigerian men handles his business even with all the BS that may come with him.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Danisaint112(m): 2:45pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
When I tell your brothers here that those SA ladies who go for Nigerian men only want their money because you guys are free givers, they think that I'm bashing them.

And I've never been approached by a Nigerian guy before, I only heard stories from other ladies who dated Nigerian men.
Even at that, there are still some who genuinely fall in love with Nigerian men Samantha.

Saying this is like saying; "all SA women who date Nigerian are good diggers" which is false.

I know people who have been happily married to SA women and their story doesn't sound anything like a Chase for money.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 2:46pm On Aug 08, 2023
So while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girlshuh
djon78:
Wetin concern one with Nigerian girls overseas?

When I lived overseas I dated 2 Tanzanian babes.

Another of my guy dated Zimbabwe babe

Another guy I know dated Tanzanian babe of which they later got married

Guys overseas either go for oyibo or African babes.
It's rare to see one dating a Nija babe
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 08, 2023
Maybe there are, but I've never seen or heard of them.

Of course they wouldn't tell you the truth, do you expect them to come and tell you that the reason why they're married to your brothers is because of money? They wouldn't.

But when they're with other SA ladies, they talk.
Danisaint112:
Even at that, there are still some who genuinely fall in love with Nigerian men Samantha.

Saying this is like saying; "all SA women who date Nigerian are good diggers" which is false.

I know people who have been happily married to SA women and their story doesn't sound anything like a Chase for money.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by achimendy(m): 3:40pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't know.
I think there's something fishy about you. Am really seeing something.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by achimendy(m): 3:43pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
So while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girlshuh
Why not just openly say you hate Nigerian guys instead of just beating around the bush.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 3:53pm On Aug 08, 2023
But I don't hate you guys... If I did, I wouldn't be on this forum.
achimendy:
Why not just openly say you hate Nigerian guys instead of just beating around the bush.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 3:53pm On Aug 08, 2023
Okay.
achimendy:
I think there's something fishy about you. Am really seeing something.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by tollyboy5(m): 4:17pm On Aug 08, 2023
lexy2014:
That means what you call your babe is a hungry girl with no values (prostitute).

If an Alaba man can date your babe, then you really need to start doing some self evaluation
Lols what's this one saying. If alaba man decide to date my babe she's not my wife of tied to my kidney.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 08, 2023
I mean just think about it, what will I gain from hating you guys? The people I've never lived with to actually reach a conclusion to say I hate you.

I admit, there are some good Nigerian guys here in SA, but it's unfortunate that the good ones are overshadowed by the bad ones because a lot of your brothers here are engaging in illegal activities, but when South Africans react, you guys complain and say we hate you guys, that we're xenophobic.

That's why some South Africans end up avoiding Nigerians in general.
achimendy:
Why not just openly say you hate Nigerian guys instead of just beating around the bush.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by djon78(m): 4:29pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
So while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girlshuh
Wetin concern Development with living overseas

Do you know how many Nigerians lives overseas?

My drift is Nigerian guys are the most liked by African and oyibo women amongst black guys around the world

At least I have first hand experience

Nigerian Men take care of women more than other Africans guys in general

Many of these African guys can't spend on a woman, even if moderately.
But the average Nigerian guy takes care of his woman.
So most of these overseas women will prefer a Nigerian Man to there own people

That's why you will see South African guys beefing Nigerian guys that they are taking there woman

All these is from observation I did while living overseas.
So when I read on the News that South African guys were angry with Nigerian guys I understood the drift

Naija guys no dey fear any woman from anywhere

Even for US, although African American women also known as akata, those are the ones guys are very careful about

But you will still get good ones though
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Danisaint112(m): 4:29pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
Maybe there are, but I've never seen or heard of them.

Of course they wouldn't tell you the truth, do you expect them to come and tell you that the reason why they're married to your brothers is because of money? They wouldn't.

But when they're with other SA ladies, they talk.
There might be (maybe majority) but I will say this is a just a programmed mindset you attained based on past experience of others.

Saying an SA woman won't bother looking at us when money ain't displayed makes it look like we are the ugliest set of immigrants or tourists in SA. grin

Between true love exist and love can be found anywhere.

Nigeria men especially Igbo men are known for taking care of their women's financial needs if they have the money except for those that don't have.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 5:01pm On Aug 08, 2023
Okay.
Danisaint112:
There might be (maybe majority) but I will say this is a just a programmed mindset you attained based on past experience of others.

Saying an SA woman won't bother looking at us when money ain't displayed makes it look like we are the ugliest set of immigrants or tourists in SA. grin

Between true love exist and love can be found anywhere.

Nigeria men especially Igbo men are known for taking care of their women's financial needs if they have the money except for those that don't have.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by razible5384(m): 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
Truth is growing up I was afraid of Nigerians because I only heard bad stories about them... I never wanted to come across a Nigerian.. grin grin grin.. I only started getting exposed to them in varsity.

Even now I'd hear some bad things that most of the Nigerian men do here in SA... Sure, not all of them do it bad things, but it sounds like majority of them do... And apparently some of them would also use SA ladies for rituals.

And sure, there's crime in SA committed by SA men, but I'd rather stick to the thungs I'm already familiar with than those that I don't know, not that I'm saying most SA men are thugs... But I can relate more with SA men.

There's also a major cultural difference... So I don't think you guys are my cup of tea... I can't imagine myself in the kitchen cooking your native food.. grin grin grin

My family also have this dislike for Nigerian men, that's why I'm here on nairaland to learn about you guys.

Happy now? grin grin grin
you often speak ill an detest Nigerians (though nobody cares) yet you're in a Nigerian forum. You don't like what you hate, so I'll suggest you deactivate already an keep your hate to yourself
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 08, 2023
But I don't hate you guys.

I'm here to learn about you guys so that I can stop having this fear of the unknown about Nigerian guys.

What will I gain from hating you guys?
razible5384:
you often speak ill an detest Nigerians (though nobody cares) yet you're in a Nigerian forum. You don't like what you hate, so I'll suggest you deactivate already an keep your hate to yourself
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by achimendy(m): 6:02pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I mean just think about it, what will I gain from hating you guys? The people I've never lived with to actually reach a conclusion to say I hate you.

I admit, there are some good Nigerian guys here in SA, but it's unfortunate that the good ones are overshadowed by the bad ones because a lot of your brothers here are engaging in illegal activities, but when South Africans react, you guys complain and say we hate you guys, that we're xenophobic.




Are you trying to justify the xenophobia thing right now??

That's why some South Africans end up avoiding Nigerians in general.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by achimendy(m): 6:05pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I mean just think about it, what will I gain from hating you guys? The people I've never lived with to actually reach a conclusion to say I hate you.

I admit, there are some good Nigerian guys here in SA, but it's unfortunate that the good ones are overshadowed by the bad ones because a lot of your brothers here are engaging in illegal activities, but when South Africans react, you guys complain and say we hate you guys, that we're xenophobic.




That's why some South Africans end up avoiding Nigerians in general.
Wtf Are you trying to justify the xenophobia thing?
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by WannaHowzit(m): 6:07pm On Aug 08, 2023
BabaIbo:
LOL, the funny thing is most of those power supply is in the whites part of SA and not in the blacks area.

The thing is, your power supply is not uninterrupted, so take your fu cking advice and swerve it up your bu tt ho le.
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Wow, my mission here is clearly complete. You started off so happy with yourselves coz of this fake news thread and now I've made you bounce off the walls and cuss all over the place 😂😂😂

Ogre, Nigerians wouldnt know electricity even when the lights came back on in your house after 2 years of absence. You'd think it's lightning or witchcraft.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 6:08pm On Aug 08, 2023
I'm just being honest, take it or leave it, it up to you.
achimendy:
Wtf Are you trying to justify the xenophobia thing?
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by lexy2014:
tollyboy5:
Lols what's this one saying.

If alaba man decide to date my babe she's not my wife of tied to my kidney.
This is what I am saying....

That means what you call your babe is a hungry girl with no values (prostitute).

If an Alaba man can date your babe, then you really need to start doing some self evaluation.

If you say that your babe which an Alaba can date is a hungry lady with no values (prostitute), the question is how did you attract such a person into your life?

If that is the kind of ladies you attract into your life, isn't such the type that will end up being your wife?
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by WannaHowzit(m): 6:13pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I'm just being honest, take it or leave it, it up to you.
Don't be apologetic to these ones - Nigerians never take accountability. It's not our duty to teach them to behave in SA or anywhere else - it's their own duty. In SA if you don't behave and brag about it, you get whipped. Finish and klaar. If they don't like it, they should pack up and leave. It's that simple. No one's gonna cry for them.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by lexy2014: 6:14pm On Aug 08, 2023
Samantha124:
So while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girlshuh
How did you come to the conclusion that travelling around the world and dating foreign girls is THE ONLY THING that "you Nigerian guys" can achieve?

When you say "you nigerian guys", what do you mean?

tollyboy5, Samantha124 says that "while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girls".

How true is this? Can you kindly defend her point of view?
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by WannaHowzit(m):
Samantha124:
So while other African guys are busy working on developing their countries so that their women and brothers can get jobs, the only thing you Nigerian guys can achieve is traveling around the world and dating foreign girlshuh
I've seriously never seen Zimbabwean, Mozambican and Somali guys bragging about dating SA girls online. It's only Nigerians. They japa from their country, risk their lives riding on crocodiles in the Limpopo river just to date SA girls. All they have on their minds all day is sex and corrupt money (which they use to lure women). That's why Nigeria population is predicted to reach 500million by 2050 amidst widespread poverty, severe underdevelopment and just 95MW of electricity. They're still gonna be the world champions of japa for the next 100 years.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 6:24pm On Aug 08, 2023
The sooner they get off their high horses, the better...🤦🤦🤦
WannaHowzit:
Don't be apologetic to these ones - Nigerians never take accountability. It's not our duty to teach them to behave in SA or anywhere else - it's their own duty. In SA if you don't behave and brag about it, you get whipped. Finish and klaar. If they don't like it, they should pack up and leave. It's that simple. No one's gonna cry for them.
Re: SA Girl States Why She Is Terribly "In Love" With Nigerian Men (video) by Nobody: 6:37pm On Aug 08, 2023
This got me laughing out loud..🤣🤣🤣

Your comments always make my day..🤣🤣🤣
WannaHowzit:
I've seriously never seen Zimbabwean, Mozambican and Somali guys bragging about dating SA girls online. It's only Nigerians. They japa from their country, risk their lives riding on crocodiles in the Limpopo river just to date SA girls. All they have on their minds all day is sex and corrupt money (which they use to life women). That's why Nigeria population is predicted to reach 500million by 2050 amidst widespread poverty, severe underdevelopment and just 95MW of electricity. They're still gonna be the world champions of japa for the next 100 years.
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