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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 12:31pm On Aug 11, 2023
Kipaji:
Thank you for this post Smartb0y. It will allow me to deconstruct one or two reasons why the redpill is bullsh*t. Let's go.




This is a contradiction. Liking a woman means having feelings for her. So, how can you see a woman you like without developing feelings for her?



The emboldened is not a masculine thought. This is the thought of a man overwhelmed by lust. And you can be damn sure many women will weaponize it against you. Protect yourself by fighting your lust. Let women lust after you, women are the real perverts.
It also shows that redpill guys see women as something to ejaculate in and move on which is not righteous. And then when these women become single mothers because guys like you just wanted to "fvck her and move on" you will be the first one to blame feminism for the spread of single motherhood.



This just shows that bad boys are feminine. As a masculine man, you should not behave like women, whether that gets you sex or not. Better be a masculine man with 0 chicks than an effeminate bad boy with an harem.
This write up makes sense.


But remember that ladies wanna have fun.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 12:32pm On Aug 11, 2023
Kipaji:
Thank you for this post Smartb0y. It will allow me to deconstruct one or two reasons why the redpill is bullsh*t. Let's go.




This is a contradiction. Liking a woman means having feelings for her. So, how can you see a woman you like without developing feelings for her?

But remember that ladies wanna have fun.



The emboldened is not a masculine thought. This is the thought of a man overwhelmed by lust. And you can be damn sure many women will weaponize it against you. Protect yourself by fighting your lust. Let women lust after you, women are the real perverts.
It also shows that redpill guys see women as something to ejaculate in and move on which is not righteous. And then when these women become single mothers because guys like you just wanted to "fvck her and move on" you will be the first one to blame feminism for the spread of single motherhood.



This just shows that bad boys are feminine. As a masculine man, you should not behave like women, whether that gets you sex or not. Better be a masculine man with 0 chicks than an effeminate bad boy with an harem.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Haydens: 12:52pm On Aug 11, 2023
Kimcutie:
In a girl-boy chatting scenerio, if you are always starting a convo, know that she isn't into you as much as u are in her, cause women naturally crave attention, why are you the one craving that attention.



Think about it.
💯💯
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Truvelisback(m): 1:56pm On Aug 11, 2023
Labdi69:
Hey Labadi69 aka Tranquility2345 aka Truvelisback how you doing?
I'm good.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 2:38pm On Aug 11, 2023
Truvelisback:
I'm good.
Truvel so you own all these accounts. Hian
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TradingGod: 2:57pm On Aug 11, 2023
Karlifate:
PSYCHOLOGY OF A SIMP


INTRODUCTION

A Simp is what every man should strive to NOT be. Simps are low value males with 0 self worth who rely on women to validate their existence.

This post goes into details of Simp psychology which will enable you to not only Save Yourself, but protect other men from falling for it as well.



WHAT ARE SIMPS?

Simps are the guys that orbit around the girls online, shower them with attention, validation, compliments just hoping that someday she’s gonna realize what a nice guy I am and how I’ve always been there for her and then she’s gonna want me.

Basically,

A man with no game other than ‘Rolling out the Red Carpet’ for every female.

There is another type of simp that is found even more commonly - The Whiteknight of Women

Imagine a social situation where you make a joke about a girl, and she even laughs, but then, there comes this ‘dude’ who goes:

“Yo don’t you ever disrespect a girl like that in front of me, BRO, you better apologize now!!!”

We all know someone who falls into this category.

This guy thinks he’s the protector of women and by doing so, he’ll get laid. Obviously Not. Every man can see straight through this act and understand the hidden incentives. And guess what, so can Women.

These Whiteknights can be ABUNDANTLY found under the comment section of even moderately attractive women on Instagram.

An interesting observation, almost every whiteknight recognizes himself as a ‘Male Feminist.’

If you believe honest Male-Feminists exist, sorry breaking it to you. Male feminists are just Simps in disguise who think that if I give women everything she wants, she’s gonna fall for me. They are weak men scared of their own sexuality.

Simp is male equivalent of feminism, in fact, Simping exists because of feminism.


WHAT CREATES SIMPS?

Modern societies are full of influences that can be blamed for the creation of simp. Major factors include- Declining Testosterone, Social Media, Single Motherhood and defamation of Masculinity.

Now, when I mention single motherhood, I’m not blaming them, nor am I saying they’ve done this intentionally. It is just an acknowledgement that Mothers cannot replace Fathers in every aspect.

Let’s take a deeper look at some of these influences;


1) ABSENCE OF FATHER

Mothers create boundaries, but fathers are the one that actually enforce them.

Example:
When mom says bedtime is 9pm, you can 15-minute your way up till 9:45 with relative ease. But when dad says bedtime is 9pm, guess what the bedtime is.

Fathers make children respect boundaries and develop self-control.

Another important aspect is the activities fathers engage in with a child. Doing consistent physical activity from the very beginning is immensely important for a child. It is even found that children who were engaged in rough activities tend to be less aggressive and have better social skills when they grow up.

This happens because such experiences teach children a very important lesson; that they are NOT Fragile, and have some Confidence in their physical abilities.

It is the basic nature of mothers to protect their child from danger, therefore they’re usually the ones opposing such activities that fathers generally engage in.

Hence in the absence of a father, a child gets ROBBED of all these traits.

What happens when you’re always in your comfort zone, lack self control or social skills?

You’re probably gonna end up lusting for a women on the internet, instead of going out and meeting Actual Women.


2) DECLINING TESTOSTERONE

Here are some statistics:

Sperm count in the west is down by 60% in last 40 years
Testosterone in men has been dropping by over 1% every year since the last 20 years.

Testosterone is a hormone that makes a man, A MAN. And it is on a decline. The biggest reason is the kind of stuff we’re putting into our body right now. Namely, Soy and junk food.

Eating excessive soy lowers testosterone and sperm count due to the presence of phytoestrogen. The point to note is that rise in soy consumption also coincides with increasing trend of vegetarianism, veganism, anti meat, etc.

This is because the same people who want you to eat soy are the ones who’ll benefit the most when you’re weak and feminine.

An interesting fact: After hitting a threshold, fat converts testosterone into estrogen.

What happens when your testosterone drops? You become depressed. You become fat. Then the increased levels of fat tissues in your body further convert testosterone to estrogen further lowering your testosterone creating a vicious cycle.

Low levels of testosterone make you weak, frail, less dominant, submissive, low energy, and overall a dull human.

In short, a SIMP.



THE REAL REASON WHY SIMPS ADVOCATE EQUALITY

Every human has the desire to survive, and turn things into his favor.

A high testosterone man is aware of his capabilities and he knows he can fight his way up in any given situation.

A low testosterone man realizes equal opportunity is not enough for him. His best case scenario will be where even the outcome is equal for everyone.

This is because he recognizes his inability to fight against more competent men in any given domain. He knows he’ll get washed against a High Testosterone Man.

Hence, he desires equality of outcome to survive.

Pathetic. This is also why these feminine men tend to side with the left-wing.

The same analogy applies when it comes to Attracting Women. They can’t compete against strong, high testosterone, competent men.

So what approach do they take?

“Hello ma'am, I have your best interests in my heart and I will provide you with everything you want. AND I believe in equal rights. I’m a feminist actually. Please date me. Pleaaaaseeeeeeee..”



SOCIAL MEDIA SIMPING

Now we’ve got a generation of weak, less confident males and we’ve got a revolutionary piece of technology that enables us to interact with any human at any corner of the planet.

When these males get on this technology called social media and talk to women, a phenomena called simping comes into play which is a combination of all the factors we’ve just discussed.

Simps overcompensate their lack of confidence, drive, capabilities and success, by amplifying this trait called ‘NICENESS’

“I’ll be Nice to her, I’ll provide her validation, attention, instant gratification, money, resources, time everything so that one day, she’ll realize what a nice guy I am, and fall in love with me”

Cringe. Never happens. Here’s the rule of thumb in intergender-dynamics:

MEN LIKE NICE WOMEN, WOMEN DO NOT LIKE NICE MEN

This does not imply women do not like it when guys are nice. They do not like it when guys have only ‘Niceness’ to offer.

The only woman that should ever love you for who you are is your mother. Other than that, women are looking for Strong Men, Strong Husbands, Strong Fathers.

Being a simp means your value and your identity is dependent on a woman. It means your existence is validated by her attention. It is a horrible state to be in.

A Simp mindset is a Scarcity Mindset. “I only talk to you, no one else.” BECAUSE NO ONE WANTS TO TALK TO YOU.

Simply because you’re not valuable enough.



CONCLUSION

Simps are a disgrace to mankind. It is a disease that should be eradicated as soon as possible, along with thot-ery (a topic for another day).



Until next time,
GC




#Reposted
God hates simpiing

Guess who was the first simp in the Bible?

Adam, it was simping that made God to chase Adam away from the garden of Eden?

Imagine A full grown man disobeying God his creator just because his wife told him to disobey God angry angry angry
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 3:18pm On Aug 11, 2023
Haydens:
This write up makes sense.


But remember that ladies wanna have fun.
That is true. Ladies wanna have fun. Most want to go around and take in as many D's as they feel like and then "date with a purpose". But the great thing is that we don't have to deal with those women. Ultimately, we choose which women we allow in our kingdom.
Now, some guys want to be among those guys most women have fun with. But, irrespectively of how much sex that gets you, that is not a masculine position.
As a masculine man, you will naturally attract women. But becoming a man-hoe/player/bad boy would be a feminine move.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:39pm On Aug 11, 2023
Smartb0y:
The problem with most men is that once they see a woman they like ,they instantly start developing feelings and relationship vibes.

Instead of thinking "how will I get to fvck her and move on",
They're thinking "how will I get to date her"

They automatically misconstrue dating for fvxking since it's the only avenue they can get anything close to regular sex.

Meanwhile,women can get sex whether they are in a relationship or not.

Bad boys and players exhibit lotta behaviors synonymous to that of females.

Young man,learn and understand the behavior of the opposite gender.

Society made the average guy so gullible and expendable.

You dare not go outside the norms of society!! grin

You must marry
You must be self sacrificing

Basically feeding your brain with "you must never think for yourself/about yourself.

You must learn to be stupid.

Young Man, wake up!!
Yeah, Young men wake up and start fvcking already.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Orpazpjr: 3:40pm On Aug 11, 2023
Haydens:
How to find out about your girlfriend body counts:
Just pick a qu@rrel with her female best friend and call her Ashawo...
Then buy ur popcorn🍿 andt wait make she yan u all the full details of ur babe past.
No stress.
Bro!
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Karlifate: 4:03pm On Aug 11, 2023
TradingGod:
God hates simpiing

Guess who was the first simp in the Bible?

Adam, it was simping that made God to chase Adam away from the garden of Eden?

Imagine A full grown man disobeying God his creator just because his wife told him to disobey God angry angry angry
cheesy cheesy
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Labdi69: 4:23pm On Aug 11, 2023
Kipaji:
That is true. Ladies wanna have fun. Most want to go around and take in as many D's as they feel like and then "date with a purpose". But the great thing is that we don't have to deal with those women. Ultimately, we choose which women we allow in our kingdom.
Now, some guys want to be among those guys most women have fun with. But, irrespectively of how much sex that gets you, that is not a masculine position.
As a masculine man, you will naturally attract women. But becoming a man-hoe/player/bad boy would be a feminine move.
Where will a masculine man attract women from?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 5:54pm On Aug 11, 2023
Kipaji:
https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneWomen/comments/12ktp1i/i_want_to_be_a_stay_at_home_wife/

This is the last one. I'll stop here as you probably get the point. Women are just people, human beings.
Your reason or plan for posting all these can't work on us okay.
You should posting all these nonsense.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 6:48pm On Aug 11, 2023
luvyaself95:
Your reason or plan for posting all these can't work on us okay.
You should posting all these nonsense.
Seconded.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 1:47am On Aug 12, 2023
When you pay 304s for s.x, no genuine desire, no vibe, no connection or whatsoever ..

Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 8:10am On Aug 12, 2023
FuckYou:
That mental part to me is the most important.

the mental will tell you your weaknesses and how to better improve and you'll learn very fast and face your fears and you'll manage girls/women better.

Mental strength is what I believe in most.

Reading helps, watching serious and realistic movies too helps, listening to understand helps too. Taking time daily to think about your past life decisions helps too.
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The way i value mentality ehn
I even post about on my WhatsApp like two to three in a week.
That is really fuckin importanta
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Truvelisback(m): 9:22am On Aug 12, 2023
IconicR:
Truvel so you own all these accounts. Hian
No.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dexter08(m): 10:31am On Aug 12, 2023
Dear men,

Do not be characterised by weakness. For to be frail in mind, weak in soul and physically sapless are the attributes of children.

To succumb to pain; to fear taking that risk; to be overwhelmed by range of emotions; to fear aloneness; to disregard stoicism; are tinctures depicting a weak man.

It is not in the nature of men to be weak. Look through the good book, the Quran, check through all of history you would see men that bent history; did great inventions; rose from the ashes of obscurity to their names remembered even to this day.

We may not do those great things listed above, but I say unto thee: never be weak. Never give space for fraility.

Go through that pain, address that pressure, find comfort in aloneness, work on your mind, learn new skills, do exercises.

Always choose strength over weakness.

I have tasted from the fruit of weakness and of strength, me will always choose strength.

Dear men, please do not be weak.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish:
"Well, weak people are a problem and I don't mean physically weak. I mean cowardly let's say and deceitful because I'm thinking it more in terms of moral weakness. Well, there's a variety of reasons. If you can't support your own weight then someone else has to do it and that's good. And then if you don't pick a forthright and useful and noble pathway through life, then you'll become bitter, too hurt by the tragedy of existence then you tend to seek your revenge wherever you can get. And that's not good. It's a mistake on all fronts. It's not good for you, it's not good for your family."
- Dr. Jordan Peterson

Have drive. Be upright. Seek purpose. A man without purpose is nothing; to be bereft of purpose for man is, perhaps, a fate worse than death.

He will wander, constantly seeking pleasure for his body or mind wherever there is a supply, to fill the void that should be purpose. Maybe it is the thirst for bliss found at the bottom of a bottle that may destroy him, or maybe it is the hunger of giving in to base desires that perpetuates his problems, or perchance the fear that the foundation of his self-worth or confidence built on the ephemeral likes, compliments and validation of others will disappear. Who knows? Maybe he does but is not yet willing to accept it..

Without a compass he clashes with his willpower and so depends on motivation, and with each failed attempt he grows more frustrated and bitter. Insecurities, getting aggravated at foreign thoughts and opinions, tyranny, an intense focus on things out of his control and striking at the world to change what he struggles to change in himself. He slowly becomes the very things he hates.

The knowledge of the importance of purpose is innate. Women may not seek purpose but they will follow men who have it; man, even if he lacks, will long for it in some shape or form.

Do not wait for the stars to align before you leap no matter how small. Leap forward with boldness and if you err then correct your mistakes with more boldness. Seek purpose in fruitful endeavours and be the change you want to see in the world.

"If you're too big to do small things you'll be too small to do big things."
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luvyaself95(m): 2:52pm On Aug 12, 2023
KingEarnest:
Seconded.
Manipulation at it peak 🤣
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Humbrown23(m): 5:53pm On Aug 12, 2023
Notice how they always try to insult you and call you broke when you tell them that:

- You don’t believe in girlfriend allowance
- You dont want to spend anything on her friends
- You don’t want to date her if she has a child

Any standard or value you put for yourself that does not involve her gaining from you, you are called broke.

Rather be called broke than be actually broke from spending money you don’t want to spend.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 6:39pm On Aug 12, 2023
heartofcity12:
This is someone claiming to be a virgin and only wants to be deflowered on wedding night, always billing, I never paid a dime tho.. Always left on read.. This is just getting too much with girls in this country.. The right woman won’t give this energy tho #trp
More like toba doko wama lole🙂.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Firstorderwizard(m): 7:06pm On Aug 12, 2023
Can we discuss this?



Paygram1:
Hello sir, I right now process schengen visa. I should let you know.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:34pm On Aug 12, 2023
So billing is a norm now 🤦‍♂️. These 304s really mean business, they want your resources so bad. Be guided..

Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:35pm On Aug 12, 2023
Interesting, good to know..

Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 10:49pm On Aug 12, 2023
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 10:56pm On Aug 12, 2023
The masculine way is a lonely one.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fuckboys: 7:49am On Aug 13, 2023
Smartb0y:
The problem with most men is that once they see a woman they like ,they instantly start developing feelings and relationship vibes.

Instead of thinking "how will I get to fvck her and move on",
They're thinking "how will I get to date her"

They automatically misconstrue dating for fvxking since it's the only avenue they can get anything close to regular sex.

Meanwhile,women can get sex whether they are in a relationship or not.

Bad boys and players exhibit lotta behaviors synonymous to that of females.

Young man,learn and understand the behavior of the opposite gender.

Society made the average guy so gullible and expendable.

You dare not go outside the norms of society!! grin

You must marry
You must be self sacrificing

Basically feeding your brain with "you must never think for yourself/about yourself.

You must learn to be stupid.

Young Man, wake up!!
You're so right on this but how do we get to do this?, I just guidelines on how to just get to Bleep girls without asking them for relationship.

Do you just tell her straight up that you want to Bleep her?, Or you ask to pay her for sex? Or you ask for friends with benefits stuffs?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Meedon: 9:35am On Aug 13, 2023
Haydens:
This write up makes sense.


But remember that ladies wanna have fun.
I swear
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Labdi69:
fuckboys:
You're so right on this but how do we get to do this?, I just guidelines on how to just get to Bleep girls without asking them for relationship.

Do you just tell her straight up that you want to Bleep her?, Or you ask to pay her for sex? Or you ask for friends with benefits stuffs?
This is an intelligent question so i’d answer.

The key is attraction and confidence to request for or act on what you want.

1. Make sure she is attracted to you.
2. Go for it.

It’s not about what you say or do, it’s who you are that matters. If you’ve built yourself into the right person, whatever you say will be well received as long as you aint rude.

Also remember that thoughts are things. Our body is just a physical expression of our mind. That’s why you can tell someone is not confident just by their posture.

If you think you aint good enough for her, she will hear those thoughts because it will manifest in ways you dont even know. She will also pick it up in ways she dosent even know. This is a life hack and applies to everything from job interviews, interactions with people, etc.
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