Let's say you sent a DM to Davido.

Ofcource, you would you expect him to not respond to your message.

This is because you know his highly attention is valuable.

If he responds, you will be very excited...You’d be like, “Oh my gush! wow! Davido responded to my message!”

You might probably show it to everyone around you, and even post the screenshot online for people to validate you and praise you.

Now, imagine if you message him back and then he message you back immediately... and both of you chat back and forth all day for days or even weeks.

Guess what! That initial excitement you had would diminish drastically.

You’d be like, "He's freely giving me his attention, but I have done nothing special to earn his attention. Wow, Davido isn't has valuable as I thought.”

This is exactly the way a woman feels about you when you freely give her your attention.

She believes that a high value guy and a high priced guy wouldn't have the time to be chatting or calling her all day long, because he's busy working on more important things or he's busy chilling with other women.

Remember, women know that the man want sex, so she keeps him chasing by giving him the impression that, if he puts more effort, he might possibly get the pussy.

As a man, you should be doing the same with your attention.

You should give her the impression that if she puts more effort into pleasing you, she might possibly get access to your full attention or commitment.

Chemistry and true romance can only occur when you’re acting out the masculine role(leading), and she’s acting out the feminine role(following).

If she tries to play the masculine role by making attempt to order or control you, don't hesitate to put her in her place as soon as possible. If don't put her in her place, she'll lose attraction for you

Good day. I would like to get your perspectives on some issues I have been facing lately. I am about to make some key decisions that could either make or mar my future, which is why I'd like to crave your indulgence. This is going to a long write-up because it’s important I provide some background.

Next year, I plan to take a career break (leave of absence) towards pursuing a PhD in the US with the hope of transitioning to a dollar-earning environment. This move is going to come with some huge sacrifice - I may have to give up my job in pursuit of this goal. In other words, no income is anticipated within the duration of the PhD (4 years). Moreover, I do not intend to return to Nigeria as I’d be applying for a green card to enable me work in the state. However, should I not be successful in the pursuit of this venture, I’d would fall back to my job in Nigeria. This is not an easy decision to make but a necessary move I have to make to further my knowledge, skills and ambition and to create a great future for my two kids.

Now, here comes the big issue. Since I notified my wife of this plan, she has been extremely joyful. She’s been making lot of plans. Despite the fact that I still have some reservations, she thinks otherwise. Each time, I bring up the reservations with logical explanations; I can see the sadness on her face. That look like “ I hope you’re not changing your mind’. I really do not care though because women folks are emotional creatures without adequate capacity for logical reasoning. While it is okay to look at all the positives that can be unlocked because of this move, it is wise to consider what could go wrong as well in order to make a more informed decision. I can tell she has not been paying attention to the downsides I have been mentioning such as lifestyle changes, possibility of not getting a job even after the PhD, weird western ideologies my kids will have to face etc). She’s just so fixated on the supposedly “good life” over there.

The second issue is the fact that since I started working on this plan, she has been discussing about pursuing a fast-track nursing program (2 years) concurrently with my Phd program. She has been researching schools and all that and has been coming to tell me about the tuition fee. I have not out rightly rejected this idea, but I have stylishly told her it would not work giving excuse that there is no fund to support that ($30,000 for 2 years). She does not seem to believe me. I do not blame her. She has access to my bank statements and knows how much I have been saving (a mistake I admit). She is also aware that I plan to save my all my upfront pay when it comes next year. She has not given up yet on her plan. Anytime I’m back from work, she will always bring it up again and tell me how she found a cheaper option, and blab la bla. She has given more than 1000 reasons why she should pursue the course. She is fond of saying since it’s a two year course, she can always support the family while I’m still pursuing my PhD. The cheapest option is still around $25k. Whenever this conversation comes up, I just maintain a deafening silence or wave it aside without making her feel bad. First, the money I have been saving is to cushion the impact of zero income for the duration of my PhD (4 years). Second, I got a full funding offer with $2500 monthly stipend. Based on my calculation, we should be able to live on the $2500 with some lifestyle adjustment. However, I am making provision for additional $1000/month to cater for miscellaneous expenses, which will come from my savings. In the same vein, after the doctorate, I’d still need some cash to process my green card or EB2-NIW visa and to stay afloat pending when I get a job in the US. In a nutshell, I’m planning to save at least $50,000. It is from this savings that my wife expects me to fund her nursing program. While it might seem like a great idea to fund the nursing program for two years, she gets a job, can then fund the family pending the completion of my PhD, my redpill instinct kicks in, and makes me feel that this is a very risky route to go. We’ve seen situations where women change the moment they start to cater for the family while their husband is not earning any income. I am currently the provider. I provide everything my wife and kids need. Financially, they are very well okay. This is no longer going to be the same over there should I go ahead and fund the nursing program. After her nursing program, she’s likely going to get a decent job and will be in a good position to support the family. While I am not opposed to this, I also have to safeguard my interests and plan for any eventualities. I have no idea what she is likely going to turn into, also considering the fact that we will be in a country where women’s interests are elevated above any other thing. Women are naturally not providers. Any woman providing will most often than not have resentment for the man. The social media is replete with cases of men sponsoring their wives overseas and their wives turning their back on them. The infamous “What have you done for me sef?” comes to mind. Most often than not, it never ends well.
Just to mention, my wife has been loyal and submissive so far. She has been a good mother to my kids. However, I will not let that cloud my judgment, the actions I take and decisions I make. The loyalty and submissiveness will most likely disappear the moment we leave the shore of Nigeria and the moment she’s done with her nursing program and become exposed to the western influence. I don’t know for sure, but I think it’s risky not to prepare for this.

To the redpillers in the house, I’d like to seek your wise counsel. Are my fears valid or unwarranted? While I’d want her to do something productive within the four years of my PhD, I am not convinced to give up my leverage. Are there any no-regret options that I can explore to ensure she's also productive within that period? I have suggested doing a data analytics course or a course not more than $10k. After critical evaluation, I thought I could still sacrifice $10k (with the hope that I will sell the car I bought for her). If she changes, no regret. Her loss. I will not lose sweat over $10k. I will continue with my life with whatever I have left in my savings. My priority is to have enough safeguards and protect all I have worked for. Moreover I can always return to Nigeria to continue my job if shits hits the fan. She does not seem to fancy my suggestion. She just wants Nursing. I have not given my final verdict yet. I wanted to get inputs from redpillers first but my busy schedule wouldn’t allow me. Now that I have the time, I welcome sound advice and suggestions from the house. The money I have saved and the one I am going to save is to help me withstand the temporary setback that will be caused by my plan.

UppaZakum:
Good day. I would like to get your perspectives on some issues I have been facing lately. I am about to make some key decisions that could either make or mar my future, which is why I'd like to crave your indulgence. This is going to a long write-up because it’s important I provide some background.

Next year, I plan to take a career break (leave of absence) towards pursuing a PhD in the US with the hope of transitioning to a dollar-earning environment. This move is going to come with some huge sacrifice - I may have to give up my job in pursuit of this goal. In other words, no income is anticipated within the duration of the PhD (4 years). Moreover, I do not intend to return to Nigeria as I’d be applying for a green card to enable me work in the state. However, should I not be successful in the pursuit of this venture, I’d would fall back to my job in Nigeria. This is not an easy decision to make but a necessary move I have to make to further my knowledge, skills and ambition and to create a great future for my two kids.

Now, here comes the big issue. Since I notified my wife of this plan, she has been extremely joyful. She’s been making lot of plans. Despite the fact that I still have some reservations, she thinks otherwise. Each time, I bring up the reservations with logical explanations; I can see the sadness on her face. That look like “ I hope you’re not changing your mind’. I really do not care though because women folks are emotional creatures without adequate capacity for logical reasoning. While it is okay to look at all the positives that can be unlocked because of this move, it is wise to consider what could go wrong as well in order to make a more informed decision. I can tell she has not been paying attention to the downsides I have been mentioning such as lifestyle changes, possibility of not getting a job even after the PhD, weird western ideologies my kids will have to face etc). She’s just so fixated on the supposedly “good life” over there.

The second issue is the fact that since I started working on this plan, she has been discussing about pursuing a fast-track nursing program (2 years) concurrently with my Phd program. She has been researching schools and all that and has been coming to tell me about the tuition fee. I have not out rightly rejected this idea, but I have stylishly told her it would not work giving excuse that there is no fund to support that ($30,000 for 2 years). She does not seem to believe me. I do not blame her. She has access to my bank statements and knows how much I have been saving (a mistake I admit). She is also aware that I plan to save my all my upfront pay when it comes next year. She has not given up yet on her plan. Anytime I’m back from work, she will always bring it up again and tell me how she found a cheaper option, and blab la bla. She has given more than 1000 reasons why she should pursue the course. She is fond of saying since it’s a two year course, she can always support the family while I’m still pursuing my PhD. The cheapest option is still around $25k. Whenever this conversation comes up, I just maintain a deafening silence or wave it aside without making her feel bad. First, the money I have been saving is to cushion the impact of zero income for the duration of my PhD (4 years). Second, I got a full funding offer with $2500 monthly stipend. Based on my calculation, we should be able to live on the $2500 with some lifestyle adjustment. However, I am making provision for additional $1000/month to cater for miscellaneous expenses, which will come from my savings. In the same vein, after the doctorate, I’d still need some cash to process my green card or EB2-NIW visa and to stay afloat pending when I get a job in the US. In a nutshell, I’m planning to save at least $50,000. It is from this savings that my wife expects me to fund her nursing program. While it might seem like a great idea to fund the nursing program for two years, she gets a job, can then fund the family pending the completion of my PhD, my redpill instinct kicks in, and makes me feel that this is a very risky route to go. We’ve seen situations where women change the moment they start to cater for the family while their husband is not earning any income. I am currently the provider. I provide everything my wife and kids need. Financially, they are very well okay. This is no longer going to be the same over there should I go ahead and fund the nursing program. After her nursing program, she’s likely going to get a decent job and will be in a good position to support the family. While I am not opposed to this, I also have to safeguard my interests and plan for any eventualities. I have no idea what she is likely going to turn into, also considering the fact that we will be in a country where women’s interests are elevated above any other thing. Women are naturally not providers. Any woman providing will most often than not have resentment for the man. The social media is replete with cases of men sponsoring their wives overseas and their wives turning their back on them. The infamous “What have you done for me sef?” comes to mind. Most often than not, it never ends well.
Just to mention, my wife has been loyal and submissive so far. She has been a good mother to my kids. However, I will not let that cloud my judgment, the actions I take and decisions I make. The loyalty and submissiveness will most likely disappear the moment we leave the shore of Nigeria and the moment she’s done with her nursing program and become exposed to the western influence. I don’t know for sure, but I think it’s risky not to prepare for this.

To the redpillers in the house, I’d like to seek your wise counsel. Are my fears valid or unwarranted? While I’d want her to do something productive within the four years of my PhD, I am not convinced to give up my leverage. Are there any no-regret options that I can explore to ensure she's also productive within that period? I have suggested doing a data analytics course or a course not less than $10k. After critical evaluation, I thought I could still sacrifice $10k (with the hope that I will sell the car I bought for her). If she changes, no regret. Her loss. I will not lose sweat over $10k. I will continue with my life with whatever I have left in my savings. My priority is to have enough safeguards and protect all I have worked for. Moreover I can always return to Nigeria to continue my job if shits hits the fan. She does not seem to fancy my suggestion. She just wants Nursing. I have not given my final verdict yet. I wanted to get inputs from redpillers first but my busy schedule wouldn’t allow me. Now that I have the time, I welcome sound advice and suggestions from the house. The money I have saved and the one I am going to save is to help me withstand the temporary setback that will be caused by my plan.

In all you do, always put yourself and your interests First in your decision

This is a defining moment that is very much capable of screwing you up and leaving you with nothing

Over there in the West, all the odds are against you for simply being a man

So any decision you make on this case onwards should be LOGICAL and devoid of emotions

Your plans are very good and I understand your wife's perspective too. The only problem I have is this;

If you are leaving Nigeria to a Western country on RELOCATION basis then there is really no need to fast track anything. Take things slow, learn the ropes and integrate into the society.

There are jobs in US so she can always keep herself busy, earn some cash while time sort things out.

Your wife plans to SECURE her stay in the US using her nursing degree in case you do not get a job after your PHD or you plan to go back to Nigeria. Whether she will keep you around if you ever depend on her VISA is what I do not know. I see nothing wrong with her decision. She is looking out for herself, you should do that as well.

Kindly read up briffaults law, it is real.

UppaZakum!!!

I understand your story only too well, as well as your reservations.

Here is my take:

1. You are a redpiller so why would ALL your financial statements be known by your wife na? She knows you can afford stuff and that would only make her insist on getting a nursing degree. You guys can have a joint account but her knowing all your finances is a no no for me.

2. She can work in the US and earn legit money even as your spouse. The talk of doing nursing for two years and helping you while you are on PhD is not so tenable to me. There are spouses earning good money from home or working outside while taking care of the kids and you as well.

3. Data Analytics is also a good choice for her. She can work from home and earn money for the house. The downside is will she still be submissive when she starts earning money? I leave that to you. Her obvious eagerness to go to the US + her insistence on nursing school gave me cold chills. She even rejected data analytics as a choice. These combinations are recipes for women to misbehave.

4. All your financial plans to save are very very valid. I would also suggest you hide some assets(money or properties) here in Nigeria. Don't sell off all your assets. That's your failsafe in case things go south in the US. She doesn't need to know about these assets. She MUST NOT KNOW.

5. Finally, Who is your wife? How well do you know her? Now is the time to test her. How? Pretend those plans of yours are rubbish and you are not leaving again(but you are still continuing your visa runs) and see her reactions. Go broke for a while, act like you lost your assets and some bad shiit affected your finances. How you do this is up to you bro. Find a way to become less of a provider and jettison the idea of traveling out and watch what she does. Whatever happens next is your answer.

N.B: While I know some Nigerian women act right when they get to the US, the statistics of crying husbands show that majority of Nigerian women, especially who came to the US and studied Nursing, show their husbands shege and ultimately clean them out, house and children alike.

Lightway:


Don't fall for this lie. These men own private jets and Yatchs. These men have sleep with all kinds of women they want to sleep with and signed NDA to make sure you never hear of it. They look like this for the media because this is what people want to see. if you want to make it in life , you need to be able to manipulate people's emotions just like women make men spend on them even without spreading their legs.

After coming across Robert Green s Law's I began to see many things from a different perspective

Many of the successful people we see and hold in high esteem, if we know what they do undercover

You will now understand that this our world is covered in complete wickedness


Robert Green in one of his laws said that you make a show of blending in, Even being the most zealous advocate of prevailing Orthodoxy

That if you stick to conventional appearance in the public, few will believe who you are in private.
That you put on the mask that is most appropriate for the environment you find yourself

In order words show people what they want to see

In summary Normalize hypocrisy


I discovered that many people especially the successful don't show whom they are

I learnt wisdom after realising this
And if you live like that
You will avoid many mistakes people make in there lifetime, even in relationships

Dannnn:

For your Erectile Dysfunction (ED), there's a simple and effective solution.
Whenever I tell people about it, most often, they disregard it. You can also disregard it if you want.
I'm writing this because of other people who might be suffering in silence.
-Get a big bulb of onion or two medium-sized onions (red/purple onion).
-Slice and put in a pot (including the onion's skin).
-Boil for 10-15mins
-Sieve out a cup
-Add a tablespoon of original honey
-Drink it first thing in the morning (while it's still warm)
-Continue until you are satisfied with the result.
You can make it a habit by drinking it regularly.
Nature has blessed us with everything, we just need the right information.
I wish you well.

All these ones na story

To be strong in bed

Eat healthy
Excercise: make sure you do regorious excercise regimen that you feel in your body

It may be strength training, aerobics, swimming etc
Ensure it's done three to four times in a week
Be consistent and you will testify!!



When I became consistent in Excercising my body weekly

I became a lion in bed!!
My libido is like crazy

UppaZakum

A woman will always stay submissive and respectful as as long as you can lead,protect and provide.

If she finds herself in said gynocentric society, let's be realistic, there's a tendency she'll turn a new leaf(not for the better)

You already know what to do plus guys have dropped some solid points.

Be careful, remember you're responsible for how your wife turns out not her(her actions).

I wish you the very best in your endeavor.

Susily:


In all you do, always put yourself and your interests First in your decision

This is a defining moment that is very much capable of screwing you up and leaving you with nothing

Over there in the West, all the odds are against you for simply being a man

So any decision you make on this case onwards should be LOGICAL and devoid of emotions

Absolutely! Thanks

Mentholated:
Your plans are very good and I understand your wife's perspective too. The only problem I have is this;

If you are leaving Nigeria to a Western country on RELOCATION basis then there is really no need to fast track anything. Take things slow, learn the ropes and integrate into the society.

There are jobs in US so she can always keep herself busy, earn some cash while time sort things out.

Your wife plans to SECURE her stay in the US using her nursing degree in case you do not get a job after your PHD or you plan to go back to Nigeria. Whether she will keep you around if you ever depend on her VISA is what I do not know. I see nothing wrong with her decision. She is looking out for herself, you should do that as well.

Kindly read up briffaults law, it is real.

Thank you for point of view. The F-2 visa doesn't allow spouse to work. However, there are other unofficial ways for her to work eg Uber, restaurants etc . That was the original plan. So she is suggesting enrolling for a course and with that she can change visa status from F-2 to F-1. With F-1, she can work, earn some money. I'm an amenable to that as well but not at my expense or in a way that puts me at a disadvantaged position. Your points are well noted.

luminouz:
UppaZakum!!!

I understand your story only too well, as well as your reservations.

Here is my take:

1. You are a redpiller so why would ALL your financial statements be known by your wife na? She knows you can afford stuff and that would only make her insist on getting a nursing degree. You guys can have a joint account but her knowing all your finances is a no no for me.

2. She can work in the US and earn legit money even as your spouse. The talk of doing nursing for two years and helping you while you are on PhD is not so tenable to me. There are spouses earning good money from home or working outside while taking care of the kids and you as well.

3. Data Analytics is also a good choice for her. She can work from home and earn money for the house. The downside is will she still be submissive when she starts earning money? I leave that to you. Her obvious eagerness to go to the US + her insistence on nursing school gave me cold chills. She even rejected data analytics as a choice. These combinations are recipes for women to misbehave.

4. All your financial plans to save are very very valid. I would also suggest you hide some assets(money or properties) here in Nigeria. Don't sell off all your assets. That's your failsafe in case things go south in the US. She doesn't need to know about these assets. She MUST NOT KNOW.

5. Finally, Who is your wife? How well do you know her? Now is the time to test her. How? Pretend those plans of yours are rubbish and you are not leaving again(but you are still continuing your visa runs) and see her reactions. Go broke for a while, act like you lost your assets and some bad shiit affected your finances. How you do this is up to you bro. Find a way to become less of a provider and jettison the idea of traveling out and watch what she does. Whatever happens next is your answer.

N.B: While I know some Nigerian women act right when they get to the US, the statistics of crying husbands show that majority of Nigerian women, especially who came to the US and studied Nursing, show their husbands shege and ultimately clean them out, house and children alike.

1. I agree I made a mistake in the regard. There are a lot of things I delegated to her to run for me while I'm at work. Eg interfaces with guys working on site, exchange money for me at bureau de change, pays the kids tuition fees and any other school related fees etc. Most time, I do not have the time to do all of these so I delegate the responsibilities to her and she needs to be able to make transfers. But that will be taken care of now.

2. Indeed. That has been my original plan and it appears that will be my final verdict. I have enrolled her in a data analyst training here in Naija to allow her at least keep her brain busy and earn some money while at home. but since that training ended, she has not put it into any good use. She's not even making any effort. This is someone who has a masters degree. Some women just become so lazy when their husband is doing well and taking care of all their needs. Although she's been applying for jobs lately. From what I have discovered so far, she prefers all these white collar jobs.

3. Exactly. I don't understand the obsession with the Nursing degree. It is up to her to remain submissive. Any act of insubordination will be treated the redpill way.

4. Thanks for this suggestion. Will definitely take it into consideration.

5. While I know her to a large extent to be loyal and submissive, it'd be risky to assume same will happen in a different environment and under different circumstances. It's like trusting the loyalty of a broke man without money to fund his temptations. Money reveal peoples' real character especially women.
I have at several times cancelled the plan. She will only get sad and try to talk me out of it. If I insists and say 'No', that's it, she doesn't bother me again. Whenever I bring it up again, she will laugh at me and try to scold me about raising her hope again.
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Your summary says it all. While there are few exceptional women who will stand by their men against all odds, the statistics shows that a vast majority of these women show their husbands shege once they relocate abroad. Apart from our parents, it is hard to tell who really has our best interest at heart. Without the gift of foresight, I'd rather take a risk averse approach and thread with caution.
All lizards lie on their stomachs, but we cannot tell which has a stomach-ache

I think the learnings for me are:
1. it appears I'm on the right track. My concerns are valid and should not be tossed aside.
2. She should explore the work from home options while she takes time to integrate into the new environment.
3. Have enough fail safe options back at home.
If she wants to go ahead with the Nursing, I will not stop her but let her know she's on her own. She can save her own money or work long enough to save money for it.

Thanks Guys.

UppaZakum!!!

Nice take. Just make the necessary adjustments.

Your wife has a master's degree and already completed a data analysis training YET SHE WASN'T EVEN USING THE LATTER? I know many girls using data analytics to make millions!!!

Yet she now wants you to use premium resources for a nursing degree? Take charge bro...God bless you

.

This is someone claiming to be a virgin and only wants to be deflowered on wedding night, always billing, I never paid a dime tho.. Always left on read.. This is just getting too much with girls in this country.. The right woman won’t give this energy tho #trp

I wonder 😆

💯

Karlifate:

"Never put all your trust in püssy."

—Lil Durk - Grandson (ft. Kodak Black)

These rappers are bisexual luciferians and aren't these "gangsta" they portray to be.

It is your duty to get stronger, faster, and richer.

Apply this frame to your life and you ensure a life of adventure and conquering.

Only the strong thrive in this world.



📖::: Andrew Tate

heartofcity12:
This is someone claiming to be a virgin and only wants to be deflowered on wedding night, always billing, I never paid a dime tho.. Always left on read.. This is just getting too much with girls in this country.. The right woman won’t give this energy tho #trp

this kind thing made me stop using whatsapp, and phone calls with girls.
everyday money for this and that. there was a time i called 4different girls and they all asked me for money like i am a fkng atm

abba190:
this kind thing made me stop using whatsapp, and phone calls with girls.
everyday money for this and that. there was a time i called 4different girls and they all asked me for money like i am a fkng atm

Shiit is real

PSYCHOLOGY OF A SIMP


INTRODUCTION

A Simp is what every man should strive to NOT be. Simps are low value males with 0 self worth who rely on women to validate their existence.

This post goes into details of Simp psychology which will enable you to not only Save Yourself, but protect other men from falling for it as well.



WHAT ARE SIMPS?

Simps are the guys that orbit around the girls online, shower them with attention, validation, compliments just hoping that someday she’s gonna realize what a nice guy I am and how I’ve always been there for her and then she’s gonna want me.

Basically,

A man with no game other than ‘Rolling out the Red Carpet’ for every female.

There is another type of simp that is found even more commonly - The Whiteknight of Women

Imagine a social situation where you make a joke about a girl, and she even laughs, but then, there comes this ‘dude’ who goes:

“Yo don’t you ever disrespect a girl like that in front of me, BRO, you better apologize now!!!”

We all know someone who falls into this category.

This guy thinks he’s the protector of women and by doing so, he’ll get laid. Obviously Not. Every man can see straight through this act and understand the hidden incentives. And guess what, so can Women.

These Whiteknights can be ABUNDANTLY found under the comment section of even moderately attractive women on Instagram.

An interesting observation, almost every whiteknight recognizes himself as a ‘Male Feminist.’

If you believe honest Male-Feminists exist, sorry breaking it to you. Male feminists are just Simps in disguise who think that if I give women everything she wants, she’s gonna fall for me. They are weak men scared of their own sexuality.

Simp is male equivalent of feminism, in fact, Simping exists because of feminism.


WHAT CREATES SIMPS?

Modern societies are full of influences that can be blamed for the creation of simp. Major factors include- Declining Testosterone, Social Media, Single Motherhood and defamation of Masculinity.

Now, when I mention single motherhood, I’m not blaming them, nor am I saying they’ve done this intentionally. It is just an acknowledgement that Mothers cannot replace Fathers in every aspect.

Let’s take a deeper look at some of these influences;


1) ABSENCE OF FATHER

Mothers create boundaries, but fathers are the one that actually enforce them.

Example:
When mom says bedtime is 9pm, you can 15-minute your way up till 9:45 with relative ease. But when dad says bedtime is 9pm, guess what the bedtime is.

Fathers make children respect boundaries and develop self-control.

Another important aspect is the activities fathers engage in with a child. Doing consistent physical activity from the very beginning is immensely important for a child. It is even found that children who were engaged in rough activities tend to be less aggressive and have better social skills when they grow up.

This happens because such experiences teach children a very important lesson; that they are NOT Fragile, and have some Confidence in their physical abilities.

It is the basic nature of mothers to protect their child from danger, therefore they’re usually the ones opposing such activities that fathers generally engage in.

Hence in the absence of a father, a child gets ROBBED of all these traits.

What happens when you’re always in your comfort zone, lack self control or social skills?

You’re probably gonna end up lusting for a women on the internet, instead of going out and meeting Actual Women.


2) DECLINING TESTOSTERONE

Here are some statistics:

Sperm count in the west is down by 60% in last 40 years
Testosterone in men has been dropping by over 1% every year since the last 20 years.

Testosterone is a hormone that makes a man, A MAN. And it is on a decline. The biggest reason is the kind of stuff we’re putting into our body right now. Namely, Soy and junk food.

Eating excessive soy lowers testosterone and sperm count due to the presence of phytoestrogen. The point to note is that rise in soy consumption also coincides with increasing trend of vegetarianism, veganism, anti meat, etc.

This is because the same people who want you to eat soy are the ones who’ll benefit the most when you’re weak and feminine.

An interesting fact: After hitting a threshold, fat converts testosterone into estrogen.

What happens when your testosterone drops? You become depressed. You become fat. Then the increased levels of fat tissues in your body further convert testosterone to estrogen further lowering your testosterone creating a vicious cycle.

Low levels of testosterone make you weak, frail, less dominant, submissive, low energy, and overall a dull human.

In short, a SIMP.



THE REAL REASON WHY SIMPS ADVOCATE EQUALITY

Every human has the desire to survive, and turn things into his favor.

A high testosterone man is aware of his capabilities and he knows he can fight his way up in any given situation.

A low testosterone man realizes equal opportunity is not enough for him. His best case scenario will be where even the outcome is equal for everyone.

This is because he recognizes his inability to fight against more competent men in any given domain. He knows he’ll get washed against a High Testosterone Man.

Hence, he desires equality of outcome to survive.

Pathetic. This is also why these feminine men tend to side with the left-wing.

The same analogy applies when it comes to Attracting Women. They can’t compete against strong, high testosterone, competent men.

So what approach do they take?

“Hello ma'am, I have your best interests in my heart and I will provide you with everything you want. AND I believe in equal rights. I’m a feminist actually. Please date me. Pleaaaaseeeeeeee..”



SOCIAL MEDIA SIMPING

Now we’ve got a generation of weak, less confident males and we’ve got a revolutionary piece of technology that enables us to interact with any human at any corner of the planet.

When these males get on this technology called social media and talk to women, a phenomena called simping comes into play which is a combination of all the factors we’ve just discussed.

Simps overcompensate their lack of confidence, drive, capabilities and success, by amplifying this trait called ‘NICENESS’

“I’ll be Nice to her, I’ll provide her validation, attention, instant gratification, money, resources, time everything so that one day, she’ll realize what a nice guy I am, and fall in love with me”

Cringe. Never happens. Here’s the rule of thumb in intergender-dynamics:

MEN LIKE NICE WOMEN, WOMEN DO NOT LIKE NICE MEN

This does not imply women do not like it when guys are nice. They do not like it when guys have only ‘Niceness’ to offer.

The only woman that should ever love you for who you are is your mother. Other than that, women are looking for Strong Men, Strong Husbands, Strong Fathers.

Being a simp means your value and your identity is dependent on a woman. It means your existence is validated by her attention. It is a horrible state to be in.

A Simp mindset is a Scarcity Mindset. “I only talk to you, no one else.” BECAUSE NO ONE WANTS TO TALK TO YOU.

Simply because you’re not valuable enough.



CONCLUSION

Simps are a disgrace to mankind. It is a disease that should be eradicated as soon as possible, along with thot-ery (a topic for another day).



Until next time,
GC



#Reposted

This thread is now surviving on oxygen 😂😂😂😂 redpill is not pilling anymore

I'll soon call Some of you out who secretly got married

Career women are something else


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UppaZakum

You're right. Your wife, as a woman, will only be focused on the "good" parts of your relocation. Most women go through life with various (male) safety nets around them in the form of fathers, boyfriends, husbands, even male strangers and everything in between---so foresight is not exactly their strong point---I'm certain that you see her "safety net" thought process about the situation. It'd probably be a good idea to somehow deny her access to your balances henceforth - your woman having an accurate estimate of your 'worth' (from her pov) isn't a good idea.

Your red pill instinct is right against her supporting you. Here's a comment from a while ago (to keep this one short):
https://www.nairaland.com/7263645/wild-worrisome-ways-women#115381804

This one she's just jubilating about the "fun" aspects, I don't think she'll find the responsibility of providing (for her husband) fun. I also don't know exactly how you perceive your wife but do not lose guard and underestimate a female's nature, especially when the circumstances can be 'right' for her or when you "upgrade" her. And that includes the possibility of her solipsism entering full gear in a gynocentric society so when she has gotten comfortable there she (hopefully) won't start thinking "If I can support myself and my children singlehandedly then..." Please we don't want to see you DM'ing redpill twitter accounts about your issue or recording yourself on social media talking about "I brought my wife abroad and see what see did to me" like many men before and after you.

So yes, your concerns are very valid.

UppaZakum:


1. I agree I made a mistake in the regard. There are a lot of things I delegated to her to run for me while I'm at work. Eg interfaces with guys working on site, exchange money for me at bureau de change, pays the kids tuition fees and any other school related fees etc. Most time, I do not have the time to do all of these so I delegate the responsibilities to her and she needs to be able to make transfers. But that will be taken care of now.

2. Indeed. That has been my original plan and it appears that will be my final verdict. I have enrolled her in a data analyst training here in Naija to allow her at least keep her brain busy and earn some money while at home. but since that training ended, she has not put it into any good use. She's not even making any effort. This is someone who has a masters degree. Some women just become so lazy when their husband is doing well and taking care of all their needs. Although she's been applying for jobs lately. From what I have discovered so far, she prefers all these white collar jobs.

3. Exactly. I don't understand the obsession with the Nursing degree. It is up to her to remain submissive. Any act of insubordination will be treated the redpill way.

4. Thanks for this suggestion. Will definitely take it into consideration.

5. While I know her to a large extent to be loyal and submissive, it'd be risky to assume same will happen in a different environment and under different circumstances. It's like trusting the loyalty of a broke man without money to fund his temptations. Money reveal peoples' real character especially women.
I have at several times cancelled the plan. She will only get sad and try to talk me out of it. If I insists and say 'No', that's it, she doesn't bother me again. Whenever I bring it up again, she will laugh at me and try to scold me about raising her hope again.
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Your summary says it all. While there are few exceptional women who will stand by their men against all odds, the statistics shows that a vast majority of these women show their husbands shege once they relocate abroad. Apart from our parents, it is hard to tell who really has our best interest at heart. Without the gift of foresight, I'd rather take a risk averse approach and thread with caution.
All lizards lie on their stomachs, but we cannot tell which has a stomach-ache

I think the learnings for me are:
1. it appears I'm on the right track. My concerns are valid and should not be tossed aside.
2. She should explore the work from home options while she takes time to integrate into the new environment.
3. Have enough fail safe options back at home.
If she wants to go ahead with the Nursing, I will not stop her but let her know she's on her own. She can save her own money or work long enough to save money for it.

Thanks Guys.

Sadly, your wife doesn't appear resourceful. This should give you concerns. If she has a master's degree and has completed a data analytics training and she's not using any of that, what are the chances she won't get frustrated after two months of nursing training? It seems to me she's only looking at the good side of things and unwilling to labour through the difficult sides. That's disturbing.

When I read your first post, I immediately got the feeling she was one of those who get excited at traveling abroad without realistically understanding that it's a different environment and things can become very challenging. You, on the other hand, are demonstrating a very impressive and logical understanding of the situation. I really admire your outlook. I also quit a job paying me over 3m per month to travel abroad and take a new degree. That's no lie. If you wanna see proof, I can arrange to share that with you. The way you are thinking now was the exact way I thought about it. Your logic reminds me of my approach. I planned and planned and planned. I had money to live my way through for 2 years, in case I didn't get a job. I never stopped planning.

Ultimately, you are the one who knows your wife. You've lived with her a while, so you should know a thing or two to help you make quality decisions. But if I were you, I'd insist that there's simply no funding for the nursing programme. Check out how she takes it. If she starts to throw a fit for a programme she isn't going to pay for with her own money, that's a red flag. And please insist and don't change your mind. Of course, that may not be your ultimate intention as you may be willing to finally fund this for her. But the way she takes it should say a lot. It's not her money, after all, and she should demonstrate no entitlement to it. I think you could hold the card to finally fund it eventually when you guys get to the US, because, let's face it, it could really help your family. But it seems her unenterprising side isn't seeing the full picture just yet.

Finally, I think you should get her to start doing something NOW. Let her start applying for a job with her degrees and her data analytics certificate. If she continues to be lackadaisical about applying for a job and exerting herself now, I don't see how she plans to do with when she gets to the US. That's also a big red flag if she thinks she only needs to wait to get to the US before starting something. Big red flag.

In summary, let her get engaged with something now and see what her attitude is like. Let her start bringing in some money as soon as possible and pay for some stuff in the house. You need to start seeing her provider side and how she'll handle the consequences or nonconsequences of that.

UppaZakum:
Good day. I would like to get your perspectives on some issues I have been facing lately. I am about to make some key decisions that could either make or mar my future, which is why I'd like to crave your indulgence. This is going to a long write-up because it’s important I provide some background.

Next year, I plan to take a career break (leave of absence) towards pursuing a PhD in the US with the hope of transitioning to a dollar-earning environment. This move is going to come with some huge sacrifice - I may have to give up my job in pursuit of this goal. In other words, no income is anticipated within the duration of the PhD (4 years). Moreover, I do not intend to return to Nigeria as I’d be applying for a green card to enable me work in the state. However, should I not be successful in the pursuit of this venture, I’d would fall back to my job in Nigeria. This is not an easy decision to make but a necessary move I have to make to further my knowledge, skills and ambition and to create a great future for my two kids.

Now, here comes the big issue. Since I notified my wife of this plan, she has been extremely joyful. She’s been making lot of plans. Despite the fact that I still have some reservations, she thinks otherwise. Each time, I bring up the reservations with logical explanations; I can see the sadness on her face. That look like “ I hope you’re not changing your mind’. I really do not care though because women folks are emotional creatures without adequate capacity for logical reasoning. While it is okay to look at all the positives that can be unlocked because of this move, it is wise to consider what could go wrong as well in order to make a more informed decision. I can tell she has not been paying attention to the downsides I have been mentioning such as lifestyle changes, possibility of not getting a job even after the PhD, weird western ideologies my kids will have to face etc). She’s just so fixated on the supposedly “good life” over there.

The second issue is the fact that since I started working on this plan, she has been discussing about pursuing a fast-track nursing program (2 years) concurrently with my Phd program. She has been researching schools and all that and has been coming to tell me about the tuition fee. I have not out rightly rejected this idea, but I have stylishly told her it would not work giving excuse that there is no fund to support that ($30,000 for 2 years). She does not seem to believe me. I do not blame her. She has access to my bank statements and knows how much I have been saving (a mistake I admit). She is also aware that I plan to save my all my upfront pay when it comes next year. She has not given up yet on her plan. Anytime I’m back from work, she will always bring it up again and tell me how she found a cheaper option, and blab la bla. She has given more than 1000 reasons why she should pursue the course. She is fond of saying since it’s a two year course, she can always support the family while I’m still pursuing my PhD. The cheapest option is still around $25k. Whenever this conversation comes up, I just maintain a deafening silence or wave it aside without making her feel bad. First, the money I have been saving is to cushion the impact of zero income for the duration of my PhD (4 years). Second, I got a full funding offer with $2500 monthly stipend. Based on my calculation, we should be able to live on the $2500 with some lifestyle adjustment. However, I am making provision for additional $1000/month to cater for miscellaneous expenses, which will come from my savings. In the same vein, after the doctorate, I’d still need some cash to process my green card or EB2-NIW visa and to stay afloat pending when I get a job in the US. In a nutshell, I’m planning to save at least $50,000. It is from this savings that my wife expects me to fund her nursing program. While it might seem like a great idea to fund the nursing program for two years, she gets a job, can then fund the family pending the completion of my PhD, my redpill instinct kicks in, and makes me feel that this is a very risky route to go. We’ve seen situations where women change the moment they start to cater for the family while their husband is not earning any income. I am currently the provider. I provide everything my wife and kids need. Financially, they are very well okay. This is no longer going to be the same over there should I go ahead and fund the nursing program. After her nursing program, she’s likely going to get a decent job and will be in a good position to support the family. While I am not opposed to this, I also have to safeguard my interests and plan for any eventualities. I have no idea what she is likely going to turn into, also considering the fact that we will be in a country where women’s interests are elevated above any other thing. Women are naturally not providers. Any woman providing will most often than not have resentment for the man. The social media is replete with cases of men sponsoring their wives overseas and their wives turning their back on them. The infamous “What have you done for me sef?” comes to mind. Most often than not, it never ends well.
Just to mention, my wife has been loyal and submissive so far. She has been a good mother to my kids. However, I will not let that cloud my judgment, the actions I take and decisions I make. The loyalty and submissiveness will most likely disappear the moment we leave the shore of Nigeria and the moment she’s done with her nursing program and become exposed to the western influence. I don’t know for sure, but I think it’s risky not to prepare for this.

To the redpillers in the house, I’d like to seek your wise counsel. Are my fears valid or unwarranted? While I’d want her to do something productive within the four years of my PhD, I am not convinced to give up my leverage. Are there any no-regret options that I can explore to ensure she's also productive within that period? I have suggested doing a data analytics course or a course not more than $10k. After critical evaluation, I thought I could still sacrifice $10k (with the hope that I will sell the car I bought for her). If she changes, no regret. Her loss. I will not lose sweat over $10k. I will continue with my life with whatever I have left in my savings. My priority is to have enough safeguards and protect all I have worked for. Moreover I can always return to Nigeria to continue my job if shits hits the fan. She does not seem to fancy my suggestion. She just wants Nursing. I have not given my final verdict yet. I wanted to get inputs from redpillers first but my busy schedule wouldn’t allow me. Now that I have the time, I welcome sound advice and suggestions from the house. The money I have saved and the one I am going to save is to help me withstand the temporary setback that will be caused by my plan.

1. The height of stupidity is when a grown man with job, wife and kids comes to table his personal matters on a thread full of chronic masturbators, inexperienced teenagers and jobless lazy youths wey dey vex say women no dey give them toto. Very very stupid.

2. Are you sure you can do well in a PHD with the way you write? You don’t even know how to use paragraphs!

3. Who do you expect to read this very useless long epistle? Na ment?

To konk that your shiny bald head just dey hungry me. I swear!