| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by saysoo: 4:05pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
You always lust after your collegue but she has a boyfriend. Get yours amd cure your konji. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by LyfeJennings(m): 4:07pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
Omo Oba, leave that girl ALONE if U no want make God spoil all U ever worked for Somethings are just not worth it 1 Like |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by correctyourself(m): 4:07pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Built2last:
Be careful.
Do not sow what you can't reap in the future
In the eyes of God if both parents have met and agreed to exchange their kids in marriage. That marriage has been concluded.
Every other thing is tradition or church ceremonies which is secondary
It should also disturb you that she gives you that level of attention. After being engaged.
There are 4.5 billion women on earth. Why will i settle with someone who is engaged and someone will be cursing me somewhere.
Some people's wahala is self inflicted Nice input. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Ombudsman1: 4:21pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
WEREY. CHECK VERY WELL NA 100K HIM DEY EARN. INSTEAD OF MAKING MUCH MORE MONEY, AND BECOMING A MAN OF HIGH VALUE AND ATTRACT HIGH VALUE LADIES, YOU'RE CATCHING FUNNY FEELINGS LIKE A LITTLE WORM.
NA LOW SELF ESTEEM AND OBSESSION DEY WORRY YOU. YOU LACK PURPOSE AND DRIVE. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by MrCuteking(m): 4:24pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
No gain in 5 minutes pleasure. You have more to lose when you do have the limited pleasure.
Focus on your job and forget about this promiscuous lady who’s supposed to focus on her man that his willing to pay her bride price. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Olumaeme: 4:27pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Why do you people take every act of kindness as invitation to f*'k? That's why girls don't like been friends with guys because the Jroid must just stand.
She's probably just a good person and maybe you are a good person too and leave it at that.
She has a boyfriend and she has made it very clear to you. Do you want to snatch someone else's girlfriend and you'll now trust her right?
Let her be, enjoy the support and you guys should move on and be good and don't ruin a good friendship.
Shalom. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by BlueAir: 4:27pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Good advice because the last guy that disturbed my babe and even tried to downgrade me without knowing me from anywhere by asking her which job I was doing,and yet the werey dey live for inside face me I face u house and I live in a self contain flat,na squad I use go beat am for him mama shop. A 27years old brainless niqgar. I beat am finish with his blood across tiles and told him to go call police  . Just make money in this life and you'll realize that u can even dare d police sef Farid24224:
I know your situation OP. My advice to you is to try concealing your feeling because you are are to be the other guy, you won't be happy if another guy try to take away your girl.. Just remain as friends till maybe something happens... |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by BlueAir: 4:30pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Probably just a good person abi,and yet she lodged inside hotel with the ostrich while one mumu bf dey somewhere.smh they're both pigs. It's just one pig is claiming innocent and clean. Imagine. Lodged inside hotel, Olumaeme:
Why do you people take every act of kindness as invitation to f*'k? That's why girls don't like been friends with guys because the Jroid must just stand.
She's probably just a good person and maybe you are a good person too and leave it at that.
She has a boyfriend and she has made it very clear to you. Do you want to snatch someone else's girlfriend and you'll now trust her right?
Let her be, enjoy the support and you guys should move on and be good and don't ruin a good friendship.
Shalom. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by alizma: 4:30pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
When you grow mature enough, you will know how to handle issues but for now, you still sounds like a kid. You know why? 1. As a man, when you see what you want and you are ready for it, go for it. 85% of mature ladies are in relationship already, your ability to make reasonable difference made someone's ex girlfriend your wife. 2. You are already shouting betrayal over a relationship that you have not even started, that is childish 3. She never told you she was single neither did she tell you that her likeness and support towards you were for love but you assumed them to be so. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Xkale1996(m): 4:32pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
guy stay away from her Since she has someone who is serious about her |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by benqo01(m): 4:33pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Whatever thought you have in tha your mind just kill it.... bedsides she is fully engaged,common man der re millions of women out there leave her be |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by mukthar2000(m): 4:34pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Op move on with ur life and stop having imagination that can not be achieve, to enable u have ur own future girlfriend, though the lady was using u as her boyfriend in diaspora to satisfy her feelings but can't date u, but don't dull urself waiting thinking she we date u till her weeding come to reality, dont quite her finally she can later in future be a helping friend. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by crossbreedwears(m): 4:35pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
You're the cause of your wahala bro. The moment you knew about her relationship, you should have cut off the feelings(Not easy though). Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
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| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by jackmrandy: 4:35pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
Don't date a colleague at work. Except you are in different stations. Be at a friendship level. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Atlantis585: 4:36pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
You know somebody dey nack am but you still like am? My head e no kwamplete you ! 1 Like |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Xkale1996(m): 4:37pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Freelancerr:
What do you do?
Bleep her that's what she wants from you, no be everything them dey tell person noa  see mumu If na Bleep She for don give am signal Not all girls are loose mumu |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Jokkarm2: 4:39pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
My advise is 1 Corinthians 6:18. flee, run, avoid, from temptation. your source of income is as important as your lively. 1 Like |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Xkale1996(m): 4:39pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
MISTAICEY02288:
Lol.. You're obviously the problem MR. I am a Man too and I will tell you the truth. Since that lady has told you she is in a relationship and she stands by her words, why not let her be and keep it moving? Also, You don't have to be bitter towards her all because she turned down your advances. If you are to be the other guy she is dating and wants to get married to, would you be happy someone, especially your soon to be Wife's Colleague snatches her away from you? Do you know how much the guy has invested in the relationship and how far they've gone together? Leave that lady alone and look for your woman elsewhere! It's not even advisable to get involved in Workplace romance. I find it cringy and believe me, most of such relationships don't end well. How do you have relationship with someone you see at home daily and still see each other at work? Na wah!
Since she has made it clear she doesn't want you, you don't have to be cold to her for her nice gestures towards you. Its fine if you reduce your closeness with her a bit, at least for you to get over whatever you're nursing in your mind towards her, but don't be harsh or cold to her regardless, especially when she still tries to be nice around you. You should balance the situation... guy oil dey ur head 👍👍👍👍👍 nice advice |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by RoadMozart(m): 4:41pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
opicgif:
chief,
in everything you do, be true to yourself
don't lie to yourself
you have been friendzoned. you know it.
deep in your heart, you know she doesnt love you. she was only nice to you and you mistook it for sexual interest.
you couldn't have been close to her, talking morning and night, and didnt know that she has a guy who has met her parents
deep in your heart, you know she said that to keep you away without breaking your heart
stop making excuses for women. did they tell you they love to keep their options open? are you a woman?
she is telling "YOU", if it were another man that she likes romantically, she would go ahead and have sex with him
the problem is "YOU"
STOP!!! stop reemphazing anything. this is how you got friendzoned in the first place!
my brother, you have not moved on. you are pained. And its perfectly alright. so many guys have gone through this. its alright.
don't cut off communication with her. you are colleagues. don't deceive yourself
you are not fucking her, if not you wouldn't have been this pained. you are pained because you have invested time, effort, attention, money,, emotions on her, and YOU ARE NOT GETTING ANYTHING BACK. this is the truth.
in life, you win some, you lose some. its not bad. its not the end of the world
move on, pursue other sexual interests, have more friends, dont show her you are jealous when you see her playing with other guys in the office, join them and laugh and play. play with other girls too, in church, at work, in your neighborhood,
this is the most important: DONT SPEND ANY SINGLE RESOURCE ON HER AGAIN.
not time, effort, attention, money, don't do anything for her!!!
dont gist with her for hours at night, you are not a counsellor
dont escort her anywhere, you are not a bodyguard
dont make her laugh, cheer her up at work, you are not a clown
just do your work, smile with her, as you smile with others
laugh with her as you laugh with others
and go home alone
LIVE your life bro
live
we have all been there before
women make rules for people they don't want (i did not say love), and break rules for people they want (again, i did not say love)
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| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Mayorwer: 4:45pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
EconomistXplain:
simply turn her sexual patner... that's what sh wants not relationship...u are the one needing something very serious..sh can never leave an abroad based man for u...women can kill demselves for abroad based guyz Exactly what I wanted to say,she is engaged and ready to marry. She only wants you as sex partner,not on a serious relationship. She gives you attention,cares for you,man you need to up your game because you are not reading her signal. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by TheGift: 4:56pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
I don't like to give relationship advice like go or no go.
But between the fact that she has a boyfriend (not husband) and the fact that she is your colleague (which may be even worse) I think you should not go.
Except maybe you think She is THE ONE and you want to marry Her, as in life not sex partner. Still don't chase too hard. She needs to confirm you are the one too.
Don't start what you can't finish |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by biggy00000(m): 4:57pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Built2last:
Be careful.
Do not sow what you can't reap in the future
In the eyes of God if both parents have met and agreed to exchange their kids in marriage. That marriage has been concluded.
Every other thing is tradition or church ceremonies which is secondary
It should also disturb you that she gives you that level of attention. After being engaged.
There are 4.5 billion women on earth. Why will i settle with someone who is engaged and someone will be cursing me somewhere.
Some people's wahala is self inflicted Enle ooo. Ass. Jesus abi na SSA to Jesus on marital affairs. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by bonnyhope: 4:59pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
This na normal story |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by grandstar(m): 4:59pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
There is a time to find, and a time to accept as lost (Eccl 3:6) It is best you let her go. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by MrsTwrite(f): 4:59pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Run o... |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by bdon123(m): 5:01pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.
I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.
In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.
After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.
I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.
I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.
So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.
She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.
What do i do?
U are option B to her.jst incase d abroad guy fcks up. |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by TheGift: 5:03pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
opicgif:
chief,
in everything you do, be true to yourself
don't lie to yourself
you have been friendzoned. you know it.
deep in your heart, you know she doesnt love you. she was only nice to you and you mistook it for sexual interest.
you couldn't have been close to her, talking morning and night, and didnt know that she has a guy who has met her parents
deep in your heart, you know she said that to keep you away without breaking your heart
stop making excuses for women. did they tell you they love to keep their options open? are you a woman?
she is telling "YOU", if it were another man that she likes romantically, she would go ahead and have sex with him
the problem is "YOU"
STOP!!! stop reemphazing anything. this is how you got friendzoned in the first place!
my brother, you have not moved on. you are pained. And its perfectly alright. so many guys have gone through this. its alright.
don't cut off communication with her. you are colleagues. don't deceive yourself
you are not fucking her, if not you wouldn't have been this pained. you are pained because you have invested time, effort, attention, money,, emotions on her, and YOU ARE NOT GETTING ANYTHING BACK. this is the truth.
in life, you win some, you lose some. its not bad. its not the end of the world
move on, pursue other sexual interests, have more friends, dont show her you are jealous when you see her playing with other guys in the office, join them and laugh and play. play with other girls too, in church, at work, in your neighborhood,
this is the most important: DONT SPEND ANY SINGLE RESOURCE ON HER AGAIN.
not time, effort, attention, money, don't do anything for her!!!
dont gist with her for hours at night, you are not a counsellor
dont escort her anywhere, you are not a bodyguard
dont make her laugh, cheer her up at work, you are not a clown
just do your work, smile with her, as you smile with others
laugh with her as you laugh with others
and go home alone
LIVE your life bro
live
we have all been there before
women make rules for people they don't want (i did not say love), and break rules for people they want (again, i did not say love)
Very well said, I couldn't have put it better. Thank you for taking your time to respond to the young Man with reality. I appreciate it. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by LORDKing001: 5:07pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
shedy03:
Can't woman be friendly to a man without the man reading wrong meaning to it? Keep quiet sir |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Georgejeez: 5:08pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
BlueAir:
Good advice because the last guy that disturbed my babe and even tried to downgrade me without knowing me from anywhere by asking her which job I was doing,and yet the werey dey live for inside face me I face u house and I live in a self contain flat,na squad I use go beat am for him mama shop. A 27years old brainless niqgar. I beat am finish with his blood across tiles and told him to go call police . Just make money in this life and you'll realize that u can even dare d police sef Then if he or him own crew plan you , light you Kala , fall you down in retaliation ,, you don Lego all because of woman when go still go marry another Man. Na wao . I can't imagine myself fighting over or beating a fellow man because of a babe (not wife). |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by davidadenrele: 5:27pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Brotherly,
I was once in your situation, in fact in the same exact scenario you were into, my immediate manager and colleagues who knew that about how thing played between me and my colleague advised i tricked her to my house and find a way to initiate sex with her in that way she would have either get pregnant or later changed her mind but because of the love i had for her i wouldn't listen to such advised as it would tar mount to rape. After all said and done she got married i attended her wedding she saw me and she was in tears it was a surprised to her that i could still attend her wedding despite the feelings and the good times, we shared make i no lie i cried too, cos what we shared was made in heaven.
I will advised you play along with your colleague it most likely she want to use you as a reserved player on a bench just in-case she got disappointed by his fiance, enjoy the moment while it last but don't let get into your head she belongs to someone else. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by OGHENAOGIE(m): 5:33pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Caspry5:
Comrade except you are still interested in shifting pants, i don't see why this is a bother to you. You can't be sexual with every woman..There are other ways to make her useful what way if I May ask?? |
| Re: I Love My Colleague But She Has A Boyfriend by Thortp(m): 5:36pm On Aug 21, 2023 |
Some people's wahala is self inflicted. Wisdom Built2last:
Be careful.
Do not sow what you can't reap in the future
In the eyes of God if both parents have met and agreed to exchange their kids in marriage. That marriage has been concluded.
Every other thing is tradition or church ceremonies which is secondary
It should also disturb you that she gives you that level of attention. After being engaged.
There are 4.5 billion women on earth. Why will i settle with someone who is engaged and someone will be cursing me somewhere.
Some people's wahala is self inflicted |
