Ahmed0336:
What of their father?

Loveabove:


My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing.

Please advise me on what to do.

Loveabove:
■ Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point. My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month. Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me. God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.
House rent has expired and problems everywhere. Since nowhere else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me. Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge. Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing. Please advise me on what to do.

Wodu89:
■ Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature?
Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not losing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality, you have failed Heaven

Kobojunkiee:
Wait a second...OP is about to be homeless. Do you want OP to go homeless with the kids or what?

Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

GboyegaD:
You can take them to the orphanage and try to support the orphanage as much as you can. Let the management know you would appreciate they don't give them up for adoption as you are coming back to pick them once you are in a good place.

adelafe2019:
■ O.P. is not truthful yet he is asking for our honest advice.O.p. did not disclose her age and occupation which would have helped us in giving advice.
■ People asked about the children's father(s) but she keep mute and still expects readers to give advice.
It seems the children had no fathers due to promiscuity of her sister and that is why o.p. wrote that she did not want to explain how they were born.
■ O.p. has made up her mind to drop them at an orphanage and only want your endorsement in order to justify her consent and for future reference.

Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

Visocrate:
Life , some don’t have, some have. But exercise little patience and still make consultations, but if I were you better to learn the hardships and live with it than take them that side pls don’t think of taking them there, it’s traumatizing and the psychological effects may not be ridden off like that think of what to do. If they were your own , you will not think of that I am not saying you haven’t tried o but pls don’t think of it even if it one meal a day with you it’s better for them since they will take it with happiness than taking them to a place where even they eat round the clock they may not be happy, note I am not saying children in the orphanage are not happy o but sister e get why I am taking my time to send this message to you. God bless you all and provide for us all Amen.

online4business:

Sadly beggers can be choosers (they will do what's in the best interest for the kids not what you want)

Op should take the kids to the mans people.

You people insist on holding onto kids that you cannot take care of.

The man has family and probably is still alive but ego and maybe what my sister told me.

Carry pikin go give the man relatives asap

Kobojunkiee:
Does knowing OP's age change OP's statement of not being able to fend for self or pay rent anymore?

2. If this father cared for his kids before now, would he not have shown up upon the death of the woman or what are you thinking? Or are you under some impression that their father would not turn them into house helps under his current wife or something?

3. Since when did it become a crime to drop kids off at an orphanage abeg? Isn't it a lot better than abandoning the children on the streets somewhere which is what many in Nigeria typically resort to when they find themselves helpless? Why are you dead set on making it all seem an evil act when it is far better than a lot of what is considered the norm out there in Nigeria to this day?