Just this simple question for you and whatever your answer is do so.

If you were the one that originally gave birth to the kids, will you take them to the orphanage considering the reason(s) you have put forward here.?

adelafe2019:
O.P. is not truthful yet he is asking for our honest advice.O.p. did not disclose her age and occupation which would have helped us in giving advice.

People asked about the children's father(s) but she keep mute and still expects readers to give advice.
It seems the children had no fathers due to promiscuity of her sister and that is why o.p. wrote that she did not want to explain how they were born.

O.p. has made up her mind to drop them at an orphanage and only want your endorsement in order to justify her consent and for future reference.

You are mean

adelafe2019:
O.P. is not truthful yet he is asking for our honest advice.O.p. did not disclose her age and occupation which would have helped us in giving advice.

People asked about the children's father(s) but she keep mute and still expects readers to give advice.
It seems the children had no fathers due to promiscuity of her sister and that is why o.p. wrote that she did not want to explain how they were born.

O.p. has made up her mind to drop them at an orphanage and only want your endorsement in order to justify her consent and for future reference.

You can see

Have you tried gofundme? Reach out as widely as possible and forget pride. Ask for advice. Some will mock. Leave Mata and face survival mode.
Also involve God. I don't mean pastors. There is nothing God cannot do. What will you do for God if He gets you out of this? It's personal. If you are desperate enough, you will promise. If it's something you won't do, don't waste your time.
All the best.

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If they were your own Children, what would you do? Would you still take them to the Orphanage?

shoboy9:
■ Have you tried gofundme? Reach out as widely as possible and forget pride. Ask for advice. Some will mock. Leave Mata and face survival mode.
■ Also involve God. I don't mean pastors. There is nothing God cannot do. What will you do for God if He gets you out of this? It's personal. If you are desperate enough, you will promise. If it's something you won't do, don't waste your time.
All the best.

How does she go about using GoFundMe?

2. Look around you at the millions of children that walk the streets from morning to night time all over Nigeria. God does not have his hands in these things that men do to themselves so it is probably best to leave God out of this.

Rushna27:
As nice as your intentions are towards those kids but sorry to say if they were yours biologically, will you do sameif you will then let your conscience take the proposed action!!!But I'm sure you won't cos a mother is willing to do any type of menial jobs so as to cater for her child.....Pls do unto them as you would for your biological child,not easy though but we all pay sacrifices for what we love...... Shalom!!

op is very heartless.. there’s no justification at all to give those children up.

We are supposed to understand circumstances happens. This world has been programmed already. She wouldn’t know how her life might change for good in the future if she does the right thing. Op might not even know she’s about to lay curse upon herself.

Over my dead body to do same to my late sisters kids. I love those children with my life. Infant I shedded tears when I read the part OP said she will give out the children to orphanage

Loveabove:
I need your say on this please

Hmm, there is nothing much good as taking care of your child/children yourself, they can never have 💯% home/ child training anywhere else particularly orphanage homes where they will be with children with various character, but nature has it's way of turning things against our mind.
Based on your current conditions, you can take them there as that is the only way for you but make sure you are going there to check on them frequently and when you are back on your feet, you can take them back.
I wish you and the children the very best of luck in life.

annford:
i'd like to adopt them. if you cannot take care of them, i would gladly adopt them, but we must sign an agreement. You must visit them at least once every 3 months, always speak with them on the phone and never be to far away from them. Never take those kids to any Orphanage, please.

Please are you a man or a woman?

Wodu89:
Your head and motive are not right. You're thinking about the costs of parenting. What about the returns when they mature?

Your love and loyalty are ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not losing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality, you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they were your kids would you do the same thing?

I share your sentiment, but do you know him? Because You speak as if you know him/ her. How can he/ she think of sending the only surviving relatives to the orphanage? Where will you stay when you are evicted from that house since you can't renew it? Take them with you.

loliapoopy2013:


I share your sentiment, but do you know him? Because You speak as if you know him/ her. How can he/ she think of sending the only surviving relatives to the orphanage? Where will you stay when you are evicted from that house since you can't renew it? Take them with you.

All this point to sincerely answering this question. What would you or I do if we were the parent ?

Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.

When people are not in the situation,they tend to talk rubbish, do you have ideal that bills are killing the living?

Op if taking them that place is the best do it, whenever you are financially capable you'll go and bring them back.

Kobojunkiee:
What is with the storytelling for heaven's sake?

2. You actually think it is better for the 8-year-old to serve as a maid in someone's house rather than being in an orphanage and likely still in school?

3. How many orphanages do you know that do that? Bring names make we report them abeg!

OH never knew they have improved. So what's all these children I see hawking on the streets when they should be in orphanage homes? If Nigerian orphanage homes are doing well, we won't be seeing child beggers on the streets.

NEROSKY:


When people are not in the situation,they tend to talk rubbish, do you have ideal that bills are killing the living?

Op if taking them that place is the best do it, whenever you are financially capable you'll go and bring them back.

I've been actively involved in training over 15 so far. Some not even related to me. I've been in situations where we had just a meal for a day. I never threw them away I rather starved and they ate. Yes, I begged. Yes, I hawked drinks for us to get just a days meal. But loyalty was never betrayed or the thought of disloyalty entertained

occfx:
■ OH never knew they have improved. So what's all these children I see hawking on the streets when they should be in orphanage homes? If Nigerian orphanage homes are doing well, we won't be seeing child beggers on the streets.

How many orphanages are you aware of in that Nigeria sef? Most of the kids you meet on the street are actually homeless — not living in an orphanage at all. So, if you know any orphanage that actually sends kids out to beg and hawk, then please go ahead and let us know so we report them.

Kobojunkiee:
How many orphanages are you aware of in that Nigeria sef? Most of the kids you meet on the street are actually homeless — not living in an orphanage at all. So, if you know any orphanage that actually sends kids out to beg and hawk, then please go ahead and let us know so we report them.

Report to who na...? I thought orphanages are government property. Why do we still see homeless children on the streets when we have a place we call orphanage homes? It tells me that the so called orphanage home is nothing to write home about. I am considering the innocent children who may not end well in the orphanage homes.

occfx:
■ Report to who na...? I thought orphanages are government property.
■ Why do we still see homeless children on the streets when we have a place we call orphanage homes? It tells me that the so called orphanage home is nothing to write home about. I am considering the innocent children who may not end well in the orphanage homes.

1. How can all orphanages be governmental properties? By the way, all the more reason why it is pivotal that the citizens make sure to alert the government when something is not going well in any state-run agency, don't you think?

2. It seems to me that you are desperately trying so hard to be as unreasonable as possible. So, I think it is best to leave you to believe as you choose to. This is 2023, and with google at your fingertips, I see no reason why a grown individual should hold the ideas you do regarding the plight of the homeless children in Nigeria.

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Loveabove:


Please say it here.

Kobojunkiee:
1. How can all orphanages be governmental properties? By the way, all the more reason why it is pivotal that the citizens make sure to alert the government when something is not going well in any state-run agency, don't you think?

2. It seems to me that you are desperately trying so hard to be as unreasonable as possible. So, I think it is best to leave you to believe as you choose to. This is 2023, and with google at your fingertips, I see no reason why a grown individual should hold the ideas you do regarding the plight of the homeless children in Nigeria.

It's OK may be I have been away from the real Nigeria for too long. If you say Nigeria has improved in the orphanage business, that's good news because, nothing works in Nigeria.

Well if your story is genuine, and can still tell the other side of the story regarding the father, I will advice you sacrifice and take them to Brekete in Abuja.. Meet the Ordinary president, he may be able to help u get good meaning Nigerians who can support ur hustle to take care of those bundle of joy. But make sure ur story is genuine. Because them go ask u question tire.

Rushna27:
As nice as your intentions are towards those kids but sorry to say if they were yours biologically, will you do sameif you will then let your conscience take the proposed action!!!But I'm sure you won't cos a mother is willing to do any type of menial jobs so as to cater for her child.....Pls do unto them as you would for your biological child,not easy though but we all pay sacrifices for what we love...... Shalom!!

It is easier said than done.
Can u swear that u can wholeheartedly do what you said in your comment if u were in the op situation.

Loveabove:
I need your say on this please

just one question, if they were your biological children, if na u born them, will you ever think of taking them to an orphanage?

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

I don’t think taking them to orphanage home is a bad idea, but try to exploit all possible alternatives(their dad or dad relative, your extended family help, religion organization assistance) before do so. Because Nigeria is moving fast towards capitalism, nobody care about other except theirselves.

Tony4000:
just one question, if they were your biological children, if na u born them, will you ever think of taking them to an orphanage?

Yes, she won’t but if her prospective husband could not house all of them together, will you tell her not to marry because of her sister children. Moreover, even after she suffer/ sacrifice her happiness to train them their father will now come to claim them for being their biological father. Or the children will be demanding her to show them their father.

If it convenient for her the best is to train them but if it’s not go and give them to any appropriate body that can help and you will not distances to them to check their well-being. Because if she fail to train them right, people will blame her or maybe he husband decides to send her own children to university while her sister children learn handwork they will still blame her

Dropping them at orphanage...I doubt U can get them back easily,U go Waka for adoption process tire.

Chidolalar:


It is easier said than done.
Can u swear that u can wholeheartedly do what you said in your comment if u were in the op situation.

Hello,see every mallam to his kettle..... When things was so bad I went out with less than two months old baby in search of a job and she started day care at that tender age cos I can't watch my kids cry of hunger....hubby couldn't help as at then but tnx to God now.....I only said to do unto the children as she would do for her biological kids...yes truth be told its not easy cos flesh must surely set in....from her tone of the love she has for them it meant she can treat them as hers if she hadn't shown the love I would have jumped at her option....

Rushna27:
■ Hello,see every mallam to his kettle..... When things was so bad I went out with less than two months old baby in search of a job and she started day care at that tender age cos I can't watch my kids cry of hunger....
■ hubby couldn't help as at then but tnx to God now.....I only said to do unto the children as she would do for her biological kids...yes truth be told its not easy cos flesh must surely set in....from her tone of the love she has for them it meant she can treat them as hers if she hadn't shown the love I would have jumped at her option....

So, things were tough but you still had a roof over your head and were able to afford daycare for your baby, abi?

2. You even had a hubby to fall back on even then. Compare what you said and OP's particular situation, and be a bit more honest, please.

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

if you don't mind let me adopt them

Waffarianman:


Yh it's fake and a scammer

You all posting everywhere here that the post is fake, I have no idea how much one can scam here but please this post is 100% real.

Did you see me ask anybody for money? What is the intention to scam then?

Voiceofthestree:


What part of kwara state ?

Rogun in Pategi.

Waffarianman:



Bro E no get anything to prove the Op is a scammer

In your mind? I'm wasting my precious time to reply you.

toprealman:

I know someone that can adopt them

If you are sure the person will give them good care, please reply PM. Thanks