I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

I believe a lady will flirt with the person she truly desire so I'm saying since she's flirting with another guy then let her go and look for a lady that'll flirt with you and give you peace of mind.
You are just a side guy that's demanding too much.
I like reading relationship wahala sha.
Wahala everywhere 😂😂😂

She's infected

IconicR:
I believe a lady will flirt with the person she truly desire so I'm saying since she's flirting with another guy then let her go and look for a lady that'll flirt with you and give you peace of mind.
You are just a side guy that's demanding too much.
I like reading relationship wahala sha.
Wahala everywhere 😂😂😂

Lol it's not just one guy, that means she most desire lots of guys then. And she starts whenever we have a minor issue. Your gender are confused species

Supreme145:

Lol it's not just one guy, that means she most desire lots of guys then. And she starts whenever we have a minor issue. Your gender are confused species

Well, you know what to do

If you think you are overreacting, then you have mental issue. If she cant change breakup and move on. Simple

Supreme145:

Lol it's not just one guy, that means she most desire lots of guys then. And she starts whenever we have a minor issue. Your gender are confused species

i like you
The understanding guy awwn just too caring

Nigha,that banny belongs to 'US' and there's no way you're going to personalize her to be yours

Just imagine

If she doesn't see flirting with other guys as a red flag in relationship,then I wonder why you're still tagging her as your banny?

Move on with your life bro....She ain't for you..

Lifeomann:
If you think you are overreacting, then you have mental issue. If she cant change breakup and move on. Simple

On point...shes trying to guilt trip me that I am threatening her with break up because she goes to work from my place but that's not my concern at the moment, told her to go stay with one of the numroues guys she's flirting with

Supreme145:
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

OP repeat after me;

A is for Apple
B is for Bomboclaat
C is for camel-Toe
D is for Dildoo
E is for Envy
F is for Fool
G is for Goat
H is for Hoe

You deserve 25 strokes of the cane.

Supreme145:

On point...shes trying to guilt trip me that I am threatening her with break up because she goes to work from my place but that's not my concern at the moment, told her to go stay with one of the numroues guys she's flirting with

Right decision. Pls for your mental health

Let her go and put up with those numerous guys she is flirting with.Just ghost her for now and move on ,soon you will come across a more reasonable girl who is ready to settle down.

Supreme145:

On point...shes trying to guilt trip me that I am threatening her with break up because she goes to work from my place but that's not my concern at the moment, told her to go stay with one of the numroues guys she's flirting with

Define your relationship now. If staying under your roof and providing sex is ok with you, let her continue dating others. If not, let her go. You are not UN and your place is not a refugee camp

That woman has tagged herself single, she's staying with you for the benefits. I might be wrong tho.

Omo, she is playing home and away at the same time. Open your eyes, try shine it (in Tinubu's voice) and run!!! Run! Bro, run!! A girl who's involved with another guy while she is still with you is an impending doom, if you are lucky, you will get away with just heartbreak, some guys aren't that lucky, God help us all.

I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.


Person wey you de house tell you this?

You lack sense bro

22o62021:
I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.


Person wey you de house tell you this?

You lack sense bro

She is made for the street bro

Keep voicing out your displeasure while she voices her sweet pleasures on foreign diKz, she's just 1 girl bro, dem plenty for street.

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I cum in peace

Supreme145:
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

how men take these things is what I don’t still understand. The last time I misbehaved like this for woman na when I do my
Nysc and I was still just 21. The moment I notice u r that kinda of person, na to just put u on cruise Dey chop you ooooo, while I Dey find better person. When I find d person I discard u

Supreme145:

On point...shes trying to guilt trip me that I am threatening her with break up because she goes to work from my place but that's not my concern at the moment, told her to go stay with one of the numroues guys she's flirting with

the one wey burst my head na guy go come pick am
From your house, or she Dey go date with boy. Until you throw her out, she wld feel u cnt do without her

Supreme145:

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

Have some respect for yourself.

I don't know why men are becoming so weak these days. Our forefathers were not these weak in their time, why now?

If you want a woman to respect you, you need to learn how to take critical decisions and stay by it. Only then she will know she can't walked over you or trampled on you. If I were you, I will dish her asap.

She doesn't respect you at all that's why. A woman that isn't giving you peace of mind is what you're still harbouring the intention of marrying her? Just know if you do, that will be one of your biggest mistakes you will ever make in life.

Go look for a lady that will respect and value you as a man. All the best!


Supreme145

Supreme145:
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

A narcissist will guilt trip rather than apologizing.

Supreme145:
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.

In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.

She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.

She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.

I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.

It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.

I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.

Do you guys think I am over reacting?

you can't marry her oo. At least not like that with such level of disrespect. First you need to tell her to leave your house. She can't be staying in your house and leaving your house to go meet another man. She already thinks it's normal so it will continue after marriage and you will end up with children of different colors from different ethnic groups

She's still a kid.

Supreme145, you aren't married, yet facing these doesn't make you insecure. It shows and tells that your lady is not stable or trustworthy and you are one of her few or many open options which she may fall back upon when all chips are down.

Take stock of your achievements and failures with her, do your considerations, regain control of your life and sanity, if she's found wanting or doesn't measure up to what you expected of the woman you desire her to be, walk her out of your life.

Dump her so as to avoid HBP.

A lot of responsible and loyal girls are roaming around single

Jesus....

How can I unread this rubbish ..... She goes out on dates from your house?......she chats male friends from your house?.

Why do I feel weird inside..abi is it me..?

When she is done killing you emotionally. I and your family will come to claim whatever remains of you.