izonborn098:
Just like when bringing a woman from village to the city... Madam want to explore uk.
There is a saying that'' the woman you think is the best' na the opportunity she never get to abandon u or cheat on you...
Baba should still give mama sometime before he should think of taking another wife'' if he is the one woman one man type....
9month for a marriage with grown up kids'' he can take a side chicken for now... Till further notice...

nairalanders, you people wouldn't kill somebody, with laughter. a pastor to take a side chick ?

UnfairLife7:
Men should better know this and be intentional in raising your children and taking care of your wife. Any man that abandoned his responsibility while he was still young and active will suffer at old age

😂.

Why do you Nigerians always waltz around with this particular impression that the man is mostly going to age faster than the woman, or probably be sickly enough to require attention while the woman and children give it, or probably even die before the wife?

While you people are watching so many Nigerian movies, is reality not showing you how men in their old age are rather the ones taking care of their ailing wives, alongside their kids? Make una dey calm down with these marriage assertions abeg!

LegacyB:

Very correct. When the man marries another wife her eye go open. That is even if she send am in the first place.

She does not care. Let him go and marry another wife.

It is normal things for pastors na.. Abi do you want him to masturbate?

smileyoo:
nairalanders, you people wouldn't kill somebody, with laughter. a pastor to take a side chick ?

Truth of the matter, men will be lonely in old age, especially if they are not wealthy.
When they have kids staying abroad that provide for them, ie sending them sustainance money, the mother going for eg omugwo will enjoy and the urge to come back home to tough life will be hard. Most even see opportunities being nannies, cooks etc. They enjoy the income they make.
My neighbors wife has been gone to Canada for over 2 years now. Baba is there alone.
Which rich man's wife will leave him to go do nanny more than a month? They will likely travel together, he returns, flies back to bring her again.

This topic is funny, mama has use style to japa and abandon epah

If not for the daughter disturbing her mother to return back to suffer head marriage, I would have said it's a perfect situation.

Let mama move on from a man she doesn't love and the old man can go on to marry hot side chick that will be collecting steady nackings from neighborhood riffraffs because arthritis is not allowing papa to nack well.

jayAjoku:
Divorce her , Move all her belongings out of the house and move on with your life it’s that simple . Whenever her head cools down to come back She should know she no longer has a husband or home to return to . 🙂Life no hard Na una like to disturb una self 😌😌😌

What is she returning to? What does the husband do for her that she can’t do by herself?

Aonkuuse:
The man should just be happy that the incident exposed the woman he has been living with for years....... Only God knows the thousand of women who are still living with men because there is no opportunity to leave yet. If it was a man who will refuse to return to his family now everyone will be calling him names

I agree with you

Zooposki:


What is she returning to? What does the husband do for her that she can’t do by herself?

Don't mind them. Nigerian men and their unbelievable arrogance, they really think marriage to them is oxygen women breathe.

He should write to the British High commission via the ministry of foreign affairs requesting for the deportation of his wife from the UK

Especially that @jennyclay and @ICONR.. u no go hear dem talk now... useless genders

Aonkuuse:
The man should just be happy that the incident exposed the woman he has been living with for years....... Only God knows the thousand of women who are still living with men because there is no opportunity to leave yet. If it was a man who will refuse to return to his family now everyone will be calling him names

Zooposki:


What is she returning to? What does the husband do for her that she can’t do by herself?

none of my business why you dey carry the matter for head ? Na your mama? 😂

izonborn098:
Just like when bringing a woman from village to the city... Madam want to explore uk.
There is a saying that'' the woman you think is the best' na the opportunity she never get to abandon u or cheat on you...
Baba should still give mama sometime before he should think of taking another wife'' if he is the one woman one man type....
9month for a marriage with grown up kids'' he can take a side chicken for now... Till further notice...

Side chicken wey go later turn mother hen abi? Lol! Dey play, just the play

The disobedient pastors wife.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Keep cooking like Hilda 😁😂

Lol, Benue guy sent his girlfriend to Abuja to come and hustle

That very girl ended up in my net, is been 3 months of us staying together now.

I love her madly, nothing will make me loose her as my wife.

I'm going to see her people this December by God's grace


I changed all her phone numbers.


Shit happens when you loose guard

My aunt has stayed 7yrs for omugwor in US, she has refused to return to Nigeria. Now the husband is sick and bedridden. Hmmm wetin dem go use her eye see if anything happens to the man eh

Even grandma dey japa!
Renewed Hope Hustle

izonborn098:
One wife is a menace especially the entitled ladies'' just imagine baba want to start toasting women again... He is just starting from zero..

The man is a pastor, an anointed man...

He does not need to "toast" anyone...

Jhus the usual line: " The Lord has revealed that... " and you go see sisters in the Lord falling left and right... Smh

I be yeye pesin, aswia...

Blaze14k:
■ Had similar issue with my inlaws wife. The woman japa up till now. I feel for the man sha cos it's a partial divorce

What about the woman who decided after so long in the marriage to do what what did? You no feel for her and all she must have had to endure until opportunity came knocking?

Pastor should go for second wife, maybe a decent widow in the church, if leaders disagree, he should leave the pulpit and sit at the back row. His personal happiness and comfort without sin should be more important to him.

Honestly, God is not against polygamy. He said to David I gave you your master’s wives and if you told me that they are not enough, I would have give you more 2Samuel 12:8. God only hate divorce and not second wife.

Most women are tired of sex or serving any man from age 50, ( the time man needs her services more than ever) that's why our father applies the wisdom of second and young wife who will benefit from their early age hustling and serve them in return.

Bro John only advised and it's never an instruction from God that Christians or Pastor should marry one wife. Only Bishop .

It took her post-menopause to show her true colors.

nairalanda1:
■ If not that I have not seen two similar stories , no 3 with my own eyes over the years, I would have agreed with you. (One of them, the woman had no issues with her husband, or children, she just got fed up with Nigeria.).

That one even leave call back number?

Lol.

okoroemeka:
■ actually I will be happy at that age to have my wife off my back and on top of it,I will be receiving hard currency from two sources if I be a good boy,why not?I will have the freedom to do what I like ,fvck any pvssy I fancy,misbehave as I like and why will I even think about getting a second trouble called wife?God has answered my prayers if i find myself in such predicament.

The one case I know of, she no dey send back money to the man at all and she dey here for US going on 4 years.

tith and offering does not make a real human proud

I don't know why men still believe women have the ability to love one man till death.

The ability to love one person till death is only found in men, not women.


Majority of women don't love completely even to the so called children they claim to have.

Women put themselves first before anything.

The children they often claim to feed and do everything for (even though most use money they get from men) is to secure their future (old age).

They mostly use this to blackmail and manipulate the children when they're old and need to be taken care of.


It's very rare to see men depend on their children to feed them in old age no matter how much they must have spent raising the children unlike most women.

To a woman, everything is transactional/conditional


All men should know this.

2elliot:
Tell me, was God and Adam maltreating Eve? If no, then why did she go against their admonition? Also, what wrong did Job did to his wife that she betrayed him and did not stand by him in his trying time? Majority of women do not need a reason to act out their true nature. They leave in the present and are control by their emotions.

Rubbish! Leave God's mention out of this your nonsense please!

Your wife may not love you. She may still be married to you because she dreads the responsibility of raising them alone. Her true colours may manifest when the kids are grown and have left the home.

nairalanda1:


If not that I have not seen two similar stories , no 3 with my own eyes over the years, I would have agreed with you. (One of them, the woman had no issues with her husband, or children, she just got fed up with Nigeria.).

yours is different.
But determine the type of visa she use play a vital role!

If you using a tourist visa there is no guarantee you will got a job at uk

Kobojunkiee:
Rubbish! Leave God's mention out of this your nonsense please!

Answer it

Bitter lonely female.