jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

She has gotten a taste of freedom and realized her marriage was a prison. I am happy for her.

Kobojunkiee:
What about the woman who decided after so long in the marriage to do what what did? You no feel for her and all she must have had to endure until opportunity came knocking?

The husband na quiet man buh the wife eye dey chuk.. so see am as opportunity for d woman

They have achieved everything they want in their marriage so, to the woman..there is nothing to lose.

Their kids are grown and the man is now old and can't give much to her.

This is typical women nature - selfishness. So the man shouldn't even reason am. He should move on in his mind.

A woman is never capable of loving you truthfully. It's always a conditional love for them. I don't know why some men still don't know this and end up feeling betrayed when women show their true self. If you are in a relationship or marriage as a man, you should always keep your mind ready for situations like finding out that other men are digging her, or she may possibly leave one day if she see a juicy opportunity elsewhere. Don't be fooled by their love stories cos at the moment, it is that thing you offers that they are inlove with.

Even at old age, that innate nature of a woman remains. In this case, abroad have offered her a comfortable life and environment, so what's the point of going back to a man she have enjoyed his best years?

The moment you start thinking for yourself even as you are taking care of the women in your life..and making fall back plans for situations like this, the better for you. If you think what a woman says is what you will trust and hence lose guard, you will be crying to the world about betrayal when you least expect it

BoldBrainz:
😂.Why do you Nigerians always waltz around with this particular impression that the man is mostly going to age faster than the woman, or probably be sickly enough to require attention while the woman and children give it, or probably even die before the wife?

While you people are watching so many Nigerian movies, is reality not showing you how men in their old age are rather the ones taking care of their ailing wives, alongside their kids? Make una dey calm down with these marriage assertions abeg!

Many men marry brides much younger than them and the mortality rate for average Nigerian Man hovers around 57 still. So it follows that many men will die before their wives do.

Blaze14k:
■ The husband na quiet man buh the wife eye dey chuk.. so see am as opportunity for d woman

Don't be deceived by his public image. Na those dey inside house go tell you wetin dem don see.

So funny when Africans go to USA or Uk to work 10 times they have ever worked in they life in Africa before .

Procashtips:
Answer it. Bitter lonely female.

Look who's talking!

Kobojunkiee:
Many men marry brides much younger than them and the mortality rate for average Nigerian Man hovers around 57 still. So it follows that many men will die before their wives do.

I'm sorry, but where did you get these your statistics from?

Smartguyboy:
So funny when Africans go to USA or Uk to work 10 times they have ever worked in they life in Africa before .

Most every one here does the same and there is something meaningful about doing that. Very fulfilling way of life knowing you are not just laboring for the heck of it.

She should hustle and bring the husband to UK

MEGA4BILLION:
The woman want to hustle for a while. Papa should understand now

there is nothing to understand there

BoldBrainz:


I'm sorry, but where did you get these your statistics from?

you dey mind am. Na so INEC take rig election

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

She got a cleaning job and her daughter also told her to return home. These are contradictory words. Who helped her with the job? The man should better start a new family

pocohantas:
Men do not benefit from marriage and a man can marry at 90yrs. So, I see no issues here. The man would remarry another 20yrs old chartered accountant in 2 weeks. Just watch.

Marriage can only be blissful if both parties are honest with each other, and not one party trying to outsmart the other. I'm sure they (she and the husband) discussed about her going and how long she would be staying in the UK before coming back to Nigeria.

Therefore it was very wrong of her to go there and refuse to come back to her husband. If she wants a divorce she should come out openly and say so. How can you abandon your husband for 9 months?

The daughter should send her mom back to Nigeria to be with her husband. She shouldn't support that kind of attitude. It's very wrong.

In Nigeria, she is just a pastor's wife
surviving on offerings in the church.

In ogbodo oyibo, she is living and eating
correct free food and now has a job that
she is probably earning up to £50 ( over N60k )
daily, which is over N1m monthly and
you want her to come back to the hunger
and Insecurity in APCs Nigeria❗️❗️

Now sef, people nor dey even get money
to enter transport to church, talk less of
giving offering.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Similar thing happened to a man, his wife was in the US for 6 months to take care of the grandchild. Although the Baba get side chicks and was always sending $250 from Nigeria to the wife every month as her allowance.


After 6 months, the man told the wife that he gave her 2 weeks ultimatum to come back to Nigeria immediately or else his side chick will move into the house. E no reach 2 weeks, mama came back to Nigeria

maybe a fake story

shey her visit visa or whatever no go expire?

The same thing happened to my father’s friend. His wife went to USA for same purpose. A white man saw woman that was over 60 and said he wants to marry the man kept disturbing the woman every time. Then phone weren’t rampant meaning only land line. The woman had to come back to Nigeria and the husband gave her approval. My brother that’s how the man made it for life. Even the children too are all big boys now. The man is very proud of it. The woman he married when she was in her 20s another man is marrying her at 60s.

The pastor should move on. How will she come back to a Country with so many challenges?

Man of God go and marry another wife . A white guy is enjoying ur wife already

jmoore:

If no one cares, why is her daughter putting pressure on her to return home? You know the woman more than her daughter?

Son in law supposed start worry ooo, this could be him, years to come. Maybe na Mars the wife go go for omugu.

LandMann:


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The woman has used style to japa

Jeon:


She's a dullard if she dear come back.

.if it's you...will you come back?

Aonkuuse:
The man should just be happy that the incident exposed the woman he has been living with for years....... Only God knows the thousand of women who are still living with men because there is no opportunity to leave yet. If it was a man who will refuse to return to his family now everyone will be calling him names

..the woman just use the opportunity to Japa... nigeria is hard

Romanoff:
I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

You're right

But what about a wife that treats her husband bad and doesn't show respect? Even when the man provides for the family.
Should should the man do

madridguy:


You see one of the benefit of having 2 to 3 wives if you can afford to? Many men will not know the true colour of their wife till their old or dying age.

Even though the woman returns today, at the slightest opportunity she u run back to the UK and leave the old man to be cooking himself.

...the woman used the opportunity to Japa.... nigeria is hard

Didi2d:
You're right.But what about a wife that treats her husband bad and doesn't show respect? Even when the man provides for the family.
Should should the man do

if he doesn't like the marriage, what is he holding on to it for?

Romanoff:
I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

..she used the opportunity to Japa to UK for a better life... nigeria is hard...the economy is hard

Marriage is not easy oooo. There's a lot happening on the inside that we don't know looking from the outside.

However if all was well this woman should have returned to her husband by now.

If she comes back sef, as the husband, watin I wan even follow her talk, she don show her true colours.

This could be a sign she never was into the marriage or the magic has faded.

But if Baba fall die now she go start cry crocodile tears say na the love of her life.

Something is very wrong.

Kai: This thing called marriage