jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Hi did she get a work visa?

Jeon:

That's very silly.
If she do care about the kids, she's going to work harder than returning back.

I know your type. Your type is more of a moneyprovider than a mom. Las las you raise children that are so disconnected from you and each other, and you begin to wonder when it's already too late.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

If na my permission he dey wait to get another wife then permission granted. No waste time otherwise loneliness go finish you for old age.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

Fake story. Which visa type she take waka

Romanoff:
I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

@Boldef typical statement women use to gaslight and justify their monkey branching nature lol

What would now happened to Good women fellowship immediately after service?

Nonsense religious practice in Africa

Kobojunkiee:
She even got a job too? Wow.... the woman must have been happy to get a break from what seems to have been a frustrated existence. I applaud her.

Nazgul:

Marriage can only be blissful if both parties are honest with each other, and not one party trying to outsmart the other. I'm sure they (she and the husband) discussed about her going and how long she would be staying in the UK before coming back to Nigeria.

Therefore it was very wrong of her to go there and refuse to come back to her husband. If she wants a divorce she should come out openly and say so. How can you abandon your husband for 9 months?

The daughter should send her mom back to Nigeria to be with her husband. She shouldn't support that kind of attitude. It's very wrong.

He should marry another wife. Men are polygamous in nature and they can marry 3 women in a day.

pocohantas:
He should marry another wife. Men are polygamous in nature and they can marry 3 women in a day.

Lol who vex you today.

My uncle died from loneliness, depression, abandonment and hunger because his wife travelled to America for Omugwo when their daughter had her first child. She ended staying in America until her daughter gave birth to her third child!
She only came home to bury her husband....after paying the levies imposed on her by the Umuada
She travelled back to America few WEEKS after her husband's burial,which was against the Igbo tradition. Of course,she didn't give a damn,her daughter had the financial muscle to pay any levy imposed on her mother.
Fast forward to 12 years, her son died here in Nigeria.
In dejection and utter grief,she came back to bury her son. This time around, nobody fined her but rather she was publicly mocked by the Umuada. They taunted her to travel again and she never did! She's home now and very lonely.
Talk about what goes around coming around.

1phone:
What would now happened to Good women fellowship immediately after service? Nonsense religious practice in Africa

Good women fellowship? Na cult be that abi wetin?

MEGA4BILLION:
The woman want to hustle for a while. Papa should understand now

Way ray
Don't dish what you won't like others to serve to you.
And you be using your brain before typing.

If you really want her out, you can report her to immigration.

CJStarz:
.Fast forward to 12 years, her son died here in Nigeria.
In dejection and utter grief,she came back to bury her son. This time around, nobody fined her but rather she was publicly mocked by the Umuada. They taunted her to travel again and she never did! She's home now and very lonely. Talk about what goes around coming around.

I said that women are their own worst enemies. So these Umuada or jealous broads took to mocking a woman already deep in grief and depression from the loss of her son? WOW.... such heartlessness! And you call this tradition? She is home and very lonely and this is what tradition wants/desires for a woman who has lost her son? WOW!

Kobojunkiee:
She even got a job too? Wow.... the woman must have been happy to get a break from what seems to have been a frustrated existence. I applaud her.

Or deh
Will you say the same to your father for your mother?

Nazgul:

Lol who vex you today.

Nobody o. Just saying it is easier to get another young wife than to bring mama back. Men age like wine...

Talk true.

Na you be the Pastor.

Jeon:


She's a dullard if she dear come back.

Will you like your mother to abandone your father like this?

Jeon:



The Woman, is happy with her new life and only her knew what was in the Marriage for turning her back against it.

So he can take up to 10th wives, no one cares if the 1st one doesn't give a fuvk anymore.

Or deh
How did you know no one cares?

Or you think the situation applicable to your life is the same as this one?

Kobojunkiee:
Probably so her own husband does not keep harassing her about her mother staying with them.

Is that not a good enough reason for her to go back? Why spoil things for her daughter? The daughter deserves a private life with her husband and child - what is the point of being married?

Jeon:

Lolz maybe those that are still under the traditional type.

I really don't know how you people reason .. SHE IS A MARRIED WOMAN FOR GOODNESS SAKE.... you can't just abandon your partner because you are in a new environment, that's very selfish . Will u say same if her husband travelled to USA for a wedding and decided not to come back and them abandon her back in Nigeria, without a formal agreement between both of them... you need to start becoming intelligent with your output...

chrisj2:
■ Is that not a good enough reason for her to go back? Why spoil things for her daughter? The daughter deserves a private life with her husband and child
■ what is the point of being married?

Nope! As you read, the woman got a job and probably has plans to get her own place too so her daughter will get her private life back.

2. There is no point in being married if you are not happy with it though.

If na me I no go come back o, I support her working there too, ha ba wetin she go come do for Nigeria?
1.With high cost of living?
2. High transport fare,
3. Stolen mandates
4. Hunger e.t.c

Beverlyjean:
■ I really don't know how you people reason .. SHE IS A MARRIED WOMAN FOR GOODNESS SAKE.... you can't just abandon your partner because you are in a new environment, that's very selfish . Will u say same if her husband travelled to USA for a wedding and decided not to come back and them abandon her back in Nigeria, without a formal agreement between both of them... you need to start becoming intelligent with your output...

We don't know enough about the details of the woman's marriage before she left for the trip so let's not try to make assumptions as to the health of the marriage before she supposedly decided it was best to remain where she is now.

Romanoff:
I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

You started with absolute rubbish, continued with rubbish and also ended with rubbish.
You people's main problem and senseless mentality is thinking the world revolves around you and that the mission and vision of a man in life is to make you happy. The funny thing is you people don't even think this for one man, you love having options.

If they ask you what you bring to the table, you'll say that you're the table... If me as a man call myself the table and I have nothing to show for it besides my good looks and bedmatics skills, won't you call me stupìd?


MOST MODERN DAY WOMEN ARE SELFISH AND GREEDY BASTARƊS.
THEY HAVE ABSOLUTE NO LOVE TO GIVE BUT THEY WANT TO BE LOVED AND CARED FOR.
GIVE THEM THE WHOLE WORLD AND IT'LL NEVER STILL BE ENOUGH.
ONLY A VERY FOOLISH MAN GOES FAR LENGTH TO SATISFY A WOMAN...


See Will Smith...
See Bezos
See Steve Harvey
See Elon Musk
See Oyakilome etc

KJ,If you read my writeups unbiased mind, you'd understand WHY the Umuada mocked her in her grief.
For starters, there's nothing like jealousy on the part of the umuadas as some of them are well travelled and exposed. Some of them have gone abroad for Omugwo and come back home soon aftecr to look after their husbands.
This particular aunty abandoned her husband. He was hungry, hypertensive and sick, for crying out loud! All entreaties for her to come home and take care of get husband fell on deaf ears. She called the bluff of anyone who dared ask her to come home!
She paid fines with ease. She didn't accord her husband his due respect even in death.
Unfortunately,she lost her son and that gave room to whatever the Umuadas deemed fit to mete out to her.

Kobojunkiee:
I said that women are their own worst enemies. So these Umuada or jealous broads took to mocking a woman already deep in grief and depression from the loss of her son? WOW.... such heartlessness! And you call this tradition? She is home and very lonely and this is what tradition wants/desires for a woman who has lost her son? WOW!

Kobojunkiee:
Nope! As you read, the woman got a job and probably has plans to get her own place too so her daughter will get her private life back.

2. There is no point in being married if you are not happy with it though.

Nobody has said anything definitely about the woman not being happy... She gets her own place on what? Are you serious?

The woman is an illegal immigrant who is working against the rules. She will get her own place - on part time cleaning job?

She is just being selfish and causing problems for the daughter.

And as a Pastor's wife - it is out of order!

The man will have to look after himself - such is life!

* Nja women appears and sound very bitter - what the hell!

Aonkuuse:
You know nothing..... no woman leaves a man who treats her well?? which part of the world are you from?? very stupid statement.

So you never heard statements like he is too caring, he's weak, bra bra..... One thing i know is, 80% of women are unpredictable, she will prefer a cheater and abuser for extravagant lifestyle to a loving and caring man

Make we leave women matter....people wey dem give the whole garden of Eden, them still dey eye small apple wey dey ontop tree....They are never satisfied and rarely know what they really want.....

Men should just live their lives....when time reach them eye go clear....

MEGA4BILLION:
The woman want to hustle for a while. Papa should understand now

But we need to know has she been sending prayers to papa mailbox?

Ahmed0336:
This story get as e be.
What type of visa did she travelled with?


On the other hand, if na Muslim woman nobody go tell her wetin go follow

Sounds like a story from the stable of WALE ADENUGA PRODUCTION.

Atimes, the story tellers always feel everyone is as foolish as they are.

CJStarz:
■ KJ,If you read my writeups unbiased mind, you'd understand WHY the Umuada mocked her in her grief.
■ For starters, there's nothing like jealousy on the part of the umuadas as some of them are well travelled and exposed. Some of them have gone abroad for Omugwo and come back home soon aftecr to look after their husbands.
■ This particular aunty abandoned her husband. He was hungry, hypertensive and sick, for crying out loud! All entreaties for her to come home and take care of get husband fell on deaf ears. She called the bluff of anyone who dared ask her to come home! She paid fines with ease. She didn't accord her husband his due respect even in death.
■ Unfortunately,she lost her son and that gave room to whatever the Umuadas deemed fit to mete out to her.

1. I read that and found absolutely no valid explanation for why a group of women would resort to mocking their fellow woman in her grief. Absolutely no valid reason.

2. Storyland!

3. Marriage is a union between a man and a woman and whatever happens between the two, it is for those two in the marriage to handle between themselves. For your women to set themselves up as judges and jury over the marriage of those two means something is innately wrong with your traditions. Is marriage some sort of prison for the woman or something?

4. That is bullsheet! People die and it is to be expected. Using the Umuada to bully this woman while she was grieving her son only goes to show just how vicious and vindictive many of your traditions really are.

chrisj2:
■ Nobody has said anything definitely about the woman not being happy... She gets her own place on what? Are you serious? The woman is an illegal immigrant who is working against the rules. She will get her own place - on part time cleaning job? She is just being selfish and causing problems for the daughter. And as a Pastor's wife - it is out of order! The man will have to look after himself - such is life! * Nja women appears and sound very bitter - what the hell!

This one na story you dey tell! There are so many illegal immigrants working even here in the USA and many of them are not homeless, so I am not certain why you think this your tirade go hold water here.