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Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Zealag(m): 9:47pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Nigeria as a country is hell on Earth, nobody like suffering in hell |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by nairanaira12: 9:49pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Knowing what you know, I hope you will also applaud your son's wife if she does same to your son. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:49pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Romanoff: Well done to your MIL for her behaviour. We have all helped people that paid us back wrongly. Doing good to people does not guarantee that they will treat us well in return. That why there is evil in this world, because people are capable of hurting people who do them good, both men and women. "If your father being evil can give good gifts", is how the good books describe humans. So nobody knows if the man was kind or not only God knows. The information at hand is that a wife has abandoned her husband, and that is the only variable we can work with for now. Only God can judge the man. Taking a second wife will likely put the man at a worse position. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 9:50pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
nairanaira12:Marriage was never designed as some form of prison sentence for any one's child. So, I am not sure why I should see it differently in that case. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by EndRape2(f): 9:52pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Mumu, sombody went to hustle , only God knows how she hss suffered in Nigeria, before , you are talking about giving a woman trust . uote author=izonborn098 post=125489263]Just like when bringing a woman from village to the city... Madam want to explore uk. There is a saying that'' the woman you think is the best' na the opportunity she never get to abandon u or cheat on you... Baba should still give mama sometime before he should think of taking another wife'' if he is the one woman one man type.... 9month for a marriage with grown up kids'' he can take a side chicken for now... Till further notice... Modified: the worst mistake you will ever make in this life is giving any woman ur 100% trust'' no woman worth that...[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by bonnyhope: 9:53pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Na the normal social media story na |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by nairanaira12: 9:54pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Good. May it also happen to your son in his old age |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by bukatyne(f): 9:55pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Procashtips: You are talking about men's reality, I am telling you about women's reality yet you are talking fairytale. I like your audacity to tell me what women are capable/ not capable of doing when you are not one. The men gain nothing that's why the pastor is lamenting that his wife is AWOL and wants to marry another wife. They gain nothing that's why immediately a man loses his wife (death/divorce/separation/no longer pleased with her), he gets a replacement. 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by EndRape2(f): 9:56pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
If you take care of your wife well she will not run away from you at old age, if the man is taking care of her well, UK will mean nothing to her, all you fools keep talking about marrying second wife, if you like marry 100 wives , if you have a bad character they will all treat you like a rag. 100 wives will not Save your bad character at old age . Old age is karma for all you wicked men. quote author=madridguy post=125489405] You see one of the benefit of having 2 to 3 wives if you can afford to? Many men will not know the true colour of their wife till their old or dying age. Even though the woman returns today, at the slightest opportunity she will run back to the UK and leave the old man to be cooking himself. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 9:57pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
nairanaira12:***Yawn**** 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Procashtips(m): 10:07pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
bukatyne: I'm not telling you what women feel or their reality, it's everywhere. We know who's been marrying men only for their resources everywhere in the world. Most stay in the so called 'abusive and bad marriage' because of the children in their own words and once an opportunity for a richer and well placed 'resourced man' shows up, the japa.. We know the children are used as pension plans for those without such opportunity as described above. It's the reality and everywhere in our society A man can still get all a woman can offer without getting married including children, so those getting married are just following norms. It's everywhere. It's not up for argument. It's late already. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by frozen70(f): 10:10pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
jmoore: Let him go ahead and take a second wife If that will make him happy His wife has found a job and she is happy with that Dont let anyone determine your happiness because you are responsible for what makes you happy |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Paracetamol01: 10:15pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Aonkuuse:I owe you a bottle of beer |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by CJStarz: 10:17pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
You're rightfully entitled to your opinion,KJ. Thanks for engaging.✌️ Kobojunkiee: |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by VULCAN(m): 10:27pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
What a fallacious write up. How can an observant person conclude that All Women are rational beings? Based on what evidence? Obviously, you have very little life experience. What of those girls who leave a new boyfriend who is showing her love and affection and return to the ex who was beating her? You must be living in a cocoon. And to think that you wrote this piece with so much confidence. Lollz Romanoff: |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by izonborn098(m): 10:43pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Must u quote me to show ur uselessness EndRape2: |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by lailo: 10:47pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Romanoff:Ogbeni leave long story. Women love where there is money and comfort. If the woman returns as u said, then just know that the man has money and properties that the woman doesn't want another person who didnt labour with them to inherit. But if the new place is more conducive and nothing really worths it back home, any woman will choose never to return, no matter how the husband has been good to her. Women don't have ability to recorn with yesterday, what they know is now now. Know this and have peace |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by komzy589(m): 10:54pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Mumu! So women will not get old too! Be deceiving yourself. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Salowise: 11:00pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Romanoff:Wetin be "no woman leave a man who treats her well" so my ex wey dey man leg call me say she dey bored na me cause that one, make all these pussey people rest |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Tats(m): 11:16pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
She is now living in the UK illegally and also working illegally. If she returns to Nigeria, she will not be able to come back to the UK. If she had gone back before 6 months, she would have been able to return to the UK in future. She is simply enjoying her life in the UK and happy about the money she is earning and has decided that she will do what she wants. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by NOwazobia: 11:16pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
If there is harmony in the marriage, the man won't make threat of marrying a second wife, especially as a pastor. The love in the home is long gone, and only the house is left. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Beverlyjean(f): 11:47pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: For her daughter to have told her to go back...we women are usually attached to our moms , especially if we grew up seeing her being maltreated... her daughter would never have told her to gk back if that was the case |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 11:48pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Beverlyjean:Let's not jump to conclusions without clear details for Pete's sake. For all you and I know, the daughter may be urging her mother to head back because her own husband is giving her the stinky eye for allowing her mother stay over with them for as long as she has. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 11:49pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
NOwazobia:Very good point there! 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Etimemy: 11:51pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
The man should join her there |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 11:52pm On Aug 31, 2023 |
Etimemy:After supposedly threatening to take a second wife? Ego no let am do that. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by godwon01(m): 12:01am On Sep 01, 2023 |
A lot of them are in the UK now. Coming to see their daughters and refused to return to Nigeria. I rememberd one of my friends had to vacate their apartments for his wife and her mother. The mum was forced to return home when the wife sensed it might end his marriage. A lot of family friends had to intervene before the old woman returned home. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by emmyN(m): 12:56am On Sep 01, 2023 |
She went for omugwo on visit visa and found a care job? Dey play
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Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Romanoff(f): 12:59am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Didi2d: If you think provision is all it takes to be a husband, you're in for a shock. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by ExudeLoveToAll: 1:21am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Romanoff: @bolded you are.100percemt wrong You don't have to treat someone right or wrong in order to be betrayed. Some will be treated wrongly but still remain faithful while others will be treated rightly without remaining faithful and otherwise. It seems you have not not heard of people been treated well , some even go ahead to invest in education, cars, businesses for these women and care for them and in the end you will hear ' what have you done for me that other men haven't done'. You don't need to do anything to get betrayed , you might be on the good side and still get betrayed likewise when you are on the bad side. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Belafonte(m): 1:23am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: You need to work on your reasoning, woman |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by ExudeLoveToAll: 1:23am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Romanoff: What has triggered got to do with you asserting yourself, make your position known and leave frivolities out of discussions. |
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