Guess u gas relocate if u want mixed fam sha

flokii:
You do hookups for money despite having a shop.. you're not a responsible person and no serious man will want anything doing with a hookup lady.

The hookup opened the shop for me, so no regrets there

Even the guys that weren't aware, we still broke up very quickly

Postinor:
Ashawo,u are not worth the time and attention,ur only worth is to be bleeped and dumped away

Some ashawo are doing better than you oh

Even non-ashawo ladies get dumped

StPete:
You have to manage your anger issues. If you’re looking to get married, a great deal depends on your attitude. Never be too quick to write off an individual as no one is perfect. BTW, what state are you in?

How exactly do "anger issues" show?
Because, I honestly feel I don't have anger issues
I just don't take nonsense and belittling statements or behaviour from anyone

I'm based in Delta state

Sonnobax15:

This one never ready to surrender at alllllllll.....


One thing every soul must learn before going into any relationship is that understanding is the key......

Once understanding don dey inside relationship, you'd be surprised that such relationship will definitely be surviving different kind of bombs that'd likely end every other relationship...

And it seems this op doesn't only lack understanding but once patience and the tendency to see beyond hook-up-ism..

You're chatting about something trivial with someone, then they start hauling insults at you over something you said

You took the reigns and made a call immediately to find out if it was some kind of joke, and hear "what do you want?"

As a non hookuper, what will be your response?

Epinigirls:

How exactly do "anger issues" show?
Because, I honestly feel I don't have anger issues
I just don't take nonsense and belittling statements or behaviour from anyone

I'm based in Delta state

Tone down on this :


I just don't take nonsense and belittling statements or behaviour from anyone

I'm based in Delta state



Your heightened sense of judgement. Become flexible. Ughelli girl. Reduce expectations in and on people. Accept people's imperfections, reduce reacting in the moment. Sometimes leave some issues to time to resolve and do not act or react with impulsiveness. Work on these things and see how you can make some tweaks and make your life significantly happier

Epinigirls:

The hookup opened the shop for me, so no regrets there

Even the guys that weren't aware, we still broke up very quickly

This statement means you haven't dug dig to understand your situation. You never meet who fit hold you for hand show you your condition spiritually and exponentially so you dig way dig beneath the surface. Ah. My dear you better start the Waka now

Vijuchoco:

Yeah, it happens..
Don't worry, a lasting one will come.
For the hook up, just stop it already, it could be the source of badluck.

I'm going to quit soon

Thanks sis

Wodu89:



This statement means you haven't dug dig to understand your situation. You never meet who fit hold you for hand show you your condition spiritually and exponentially so you dig way dig beneath the surface. Ah. My dear you better start the Waka now

What does show you your condition "exponentially" even mean?

Empty threats!

Wodu89:



Tone down on this :


I just don't take nonsense and belittling statements or behaviour from anyone

I'm based in Delta state



Your heightened sense of judgement. Become flexible. Ughelli girl. Reduce expectations in and on people. Accept people's imperfections, reduce reacting in the moment. Sometimes leave some issues to time to resolve and do not act or react with impulsiveness. Work on these things and see how you can make some tweaks and make your life significantly happier

Thank you very much for the advise, but from my own experience, people tend to continue those annoying traits, even when you complain and respectfully ask them to avoid it

Should I just be cool with rudeness in patience?

Epinigirls:

What does show you your condition "exponentially" even mean?

Empty threats!

Smiles. I didn't threathen you. What you don't know is more than what you know. Things you assume are of the ordinary have roots deeper than you have understood.

Epinigirls:

Some ashawo are doing better than you oh

Even non-ashawo ladies get dumped

so are you saying guys should be dating prostitutes,as she as I am concerned,she should always be bleeped and dumped,her pussy is the only thing of value u can get from a prostitute

Stick to hookup then, if relationship no work

Akinfemmy:
I'll date you . I'm quite good at maintaining relationships


But


I don't have money. oo.

You're good at maintaining relationships, why don't you have one you're maintaining at the moment?

linearity:


Lack of money truly reduces people’s choices, options and appetite.

Imagine my G glamouring to date a confirmed and confessed hookup lady, she never even promise say she go change, you wan jump enter!

Poverty is a baster and I pray the good Lord would bless your huzzle so you can think and see clearly in making life altering decisions…🙏

All the guys that have knowingly married hookup ladies and ashawo are all broke in your mind na

Epinigirls:


All the guys that have knowingly married hookup ladies and ashawo are all broke in your mind na

Can you please, mention one guy that have knowingly married a hookup lady or ashawo.

Just one, after then we can go and compare their net-worth with that of the average citizen.

Epinigirls:

You're good at maintaining relationships, why don't you have one you're maintaining at the moment?

Money 💰

Akinfemmy:


Money 💰

Then you're not good at maintaining them 😕

linearity:


Can you please, mention one guy that have knowingly married a hookup lady or ashawo.

Just one, after then we can go and compare their net-worth with that of the average citizen.

Don't be ignorant oh

Epinigirls:

Then you're not good at maintaining them 😕

Well, i maintain relationships not control people. If they want to leave they're always free. It's a relationship not slavery.

Do this men know you're into hook-up? Having said that.... you're:

You're a nercisist nd rude.
You lack unforgiving spirit
You feel the world revolve around you.

To say but a few.

Akinfemmy:


Well, i maintain relationships not control people. If they want to leave they're always free. It's a relationship not slavery.

So aside money problems, you give up easily too

flokii:


I insist that hookup or ashaw0 profession.. whichever one you choose to call it is by choice. There are ladies roasting corn, some painting houses, etc. who don't sell their bodies for money.

There is something called KARMA and it is very real.. Most of the hookup girls don't end well, most never even settle down atal cos they have lost every form of decorum and sanity it takes to live responsibly among reasonable human beings.
That OP is just a walking disaster waiting to happen to any unfortunate man that ends up with her.

The ladies that didn't go into hookup and still ended up single, Where's their karma from?

Epinigirls:

So aside money problems, you give up easily too

Is that what you deduce from what i wrote?

Well, if that's how you see it. I don't force anything. My life is too simple.

fineberry:
Do this men know you're into hook-up? Having said that.... you're:

You're a nercisist nd rude.
You lack unforgiving spirit
You feel the world revolve around you.

To say but a few.

You didn't read the post

I said "I tell some, I keep it secret from others"

Do you know the meaning of narcissist?

I don't know why I'm wasting my response on you

Akinfemmy:


Is that what you deduce from what i wrote?

Well, if that's how you see it. I don't force anything. My life is too simple.

Your life is too simple, you give up at every hurdle

It's probably why you don't make money

Epinigirls:

Your life is too simple, you give up at every hurdle

It's probably why you don't make money

Okay. I give up on this conversation too. Bye✌🏾

The same reason you can't keep a relationship. We know your type.

Epinigirls:

You didn't read the post

I said "I tell some, I keep it secret from others"

Do you know the meaning of narcissist?

I don't know why I'm wasting my response on you

Akinfemmy:
I'll date you . I'm quite good at maintaining relationships


But


I don't have money. oo.

Lower your ego, are you giving what you require?

Are you worth what you are searching for?

High value men go for high value women, it's weak men that go crazy over everything with breast and ass...what's your value before you form...the greatest undoing of most black women is being poor, coming from poor homes and broke shaming hard working men richer than their fathers and brothers.

Epinigirls:
I'm almost 30
From time to time, I engage in hookups for money
I also have a small shop
I'm a graduate, and I look decent

I'd love to raise a mixed race family

Now, I get into relationships with Nigerian guys every now and then, sometimes I keep what I do for money a secret from them, sometimes I open up to the ones I feel are more mature and understanding

But I've noticed that none of these relationships ever last beyond 8 months, never!
I can get offended and just turn my back on any guy

Most recently, I was chatting with a new lover, after less than 2 months of meeting, discussing something very trivial, I was trying to make a point and hit a nerve for him, he started cussing, I called him immediately to be sure he was joking, his first statement was "what do you want?"

In less than 60 seconds, i ended the call, blocked all his lines and
blocked him on all social media platforms.

New relationship gone!

Sometimes, I console myself that they weren't high quality individuals, sometimes I chastise myself for giving up too early on them.

Is it because I don't see a solid future with these guys bearing in mind I want to have a mixed family?

Or am I supposed to get that feeling that I'm going to have a future with a guy during the relationship

I'm confused honestly

It could be those men don’t see a future in you. For a hookup girl with a small shop, you are very egotistical (a male quality). I think that is why you’re still alone.

You are manly. Learn how to be more feminine and gentle.