₦airaland Forum

ednut1:
Can you keep up with the sexual needs of that young woman At 35 most Nigerian men already have high blood pressure, weak erection, diabetes, pot belle etc . If she cheats inside the marriage you will still complain. Marriage is not sustained by youth too. So i can never understand men’s obsession with younger women

I don't understand why people still attach sensibleness and responsibleness to age.

Many supposed mature people will shock you with their characters. I know this.

I believe that it's left for every individual to weigh and judge whoever they're with, with all the info on hand and make a personal decision.

After all, you have been the one spending time with said person..

All these stereotypical suggestions that only matured girls are best is a huge error, IMO.

madone:
If you ask me eh marrying marrying a girl is not about the age but the level of intelligence, spirituality and morals
In the 90s I would have said 18years to 25years girls are good to go. But this 21st century my brother don't marry that age bracket. But if you must do then make sure the lady is well brought up from a good family and also that she has a mind of her own thereby she will not be influenced by pair pressure from all those marine children on IG and tiktok.

it's the best

Omo ehhh I still dey reason ohh when I was in my late 29th I got girl pregnant and my girl is 25 years now.and my son is 3 years now despite I have not been around for couples of years now I do send money for upkeep.looking .in my family we are 5 in number and none of us married.everyone is struggling to survive and God has been faithful to us.since my girl give birth I have not gone to see their parents of the girl since money haven't come and that girl has been there for me even when I'm broke.but right now things are becoming to turn around for good little by little.my girl monther has been sick for a long time and I normally send her money when she was alive.now the woman died last months and I haven't gone to see their people despite not been in country for 2years now.my girl is hard working and my parents love her too.my girl has really suffer.and she been there praying for me.so sometimes she gah me upset and I hardly forgive her until she beg me more😊 so please what could be that problem for me not forgive her on time.is it that I love her too much or I'm the one doing too much shakara

You are 35 years and yet you want to go and marry a girl of 35 too. E be like say you no wan born pikin

correctguy101:
I don't understand why people still attach sensibleness and responsibleness to age.

Many supposed mature people will shock you with their characters. I know this.

I believe that it's left for every individual to weigh and judge whoever they're with, with all the info on hand and make a personal decision.

After all, you have been the one spending time with said person..

All these stereotypical suggestions that only matured girls are best is a huge error, IMO.

thats the point its not by young or old

Fiscus105:
Oga , marriage comes with heavy responsibility, if u loose job unexpectedly and still expect wife to be loyal with you 100%,. It's only a mad woman will do that ok.


Dont use ur own yardstick to justify every other woman.

You dnt want to leave ur kids to hussle........indeed, be expecting manner. it would soon fall ok.

all woman are not thesame, some are good but some are unreasonable.

Holluwhakemmy:
what happened? Why your wife abandoned you with two children?

I no get money again and she can't cope

No idea..
Iyam looking for a seconded wife to marry

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

18-28, no sense. They will be busy with make up and fashion. Many of them dont even have work or trade. Go for 30s and you will enjoy your marriage.

Igbokwechika101:
Omo ehhh I still dey reason ohh when I was in my late 29th I got girl pregnant and my girl is 25 years now.and my son is 3 years now despite I have not been around for couples of years now I do send money for upkeep.looking .in my family we are 5 in number and none of us married.everyone is struggling to survive and God has been faithful to us.since my girl give birth I have not gone to see their parents of the girl since money haven't come and that girl has been there for me even when I'm broke.but right now things are becoming to turn around for good little by little.my girl monther has been sick for a long time and I normally send her money when she was alive.now the woman died last months and I haven't gone to see their people despite not been in country for 2years now.my girl is hard working and my parents love her too.my girl has really suffer.and she been there praying for me.so sometimes she gah me upset and I hardly forgive her until she beg me more😊 so please what could be that problem for me not forgive her on time.is it that I love her too much or I'm the one doing too much shakara

If you want to marry a woman, you must stoop so low or else, you will end up beating ber and that will generate trouble that will lead to separation.

ednut1:
thats the point its not by young or old

Younger ladies will give you mors problems than matured ones who desperately need husband.

You wan marry him?

Holluwhakemmy:
what happened? Why your wife abandoned you with two children?

Box34:
Like what have been said earlier, don't think of settling for any bellow 25. I just married early this year and I was at this junction too trying to make decisions but unfortunately all the girls bellow 25 I met were drama none was marriable or let me say they were not even ready in action and characters still enjoying their prime. I later reconnected with an old lover of mine whose now is my wife and the rest are now history. I am enjoying my home and she is very understanding and quiet to my liking. My brother please check the maturity of the lady and not just only beauty ,because what keep home is understanding and Love .

After sampling different kind of Dvcks.

After sampling different kind of Vagiinas.

But If it's the other way round for you. Take your L in peace.

Because i know Most Nigerian Vagiina People always eat their Cake and have it.

Na Most Nigerian men be LOSERs.

skywalker240:
In this modern generation, an 18 to 24 or even 25 and 26 years old girls are still in their hoe phases, only an idiot would venture into such investment

I married my longtime girlfriend of almost 13 year's when she is already in her 30s

After she took a Long Maternal Leave from the HOEING Industry😂

akinsmail51:
Marrying a younger lady is a plus always. Most especially if you are fortunate to marry a pure one, tear rubber, intact with her followcome.

You'll enjoy her naivety, she'll respect you and admire you a lot as a protector, provider and lifetime companion.

Of course, this depends on the level of good home training she'd and your how responsible you're!

The only cons I observed (because I have actually married one) is that she will always want you to be by her side and you do most of the thinking at home.

You are 100% correct sir.
Pls what's the age gap btw u and ur wife

The only condition which will make me settle for an ENP is if she is Rich/Super Rich, A Prenup will be Signed, Half of her Assets will legally be transferred to me.

Anything apart from this, I will always choose a Young 18 Years Vibrant Girl and deal with all the Headaches involved.

If you are lucky to have tasted these young girls/ladies of 18 Years of Age. You will understand they are very much worth it.

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spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

Oga op....if u are a good man and u know she's a good lady even at that age, go for her....if u are redpilled/doing well urself financially, trust me she'll literally look up to u, honor u, respect u and even love u cause u're more than her in every ramifications.

Note...if she ain't influenced by flashy things, comtempted, knows life can't be always sweet....(even at that age )....not influenced by tick tock and the likes, virgin etc.

Marry her...

I've literally met someone like that...

Someone was saying she's too young...I'm like u don't know nothing.

Imagine someone advising u to go for 27....omoh hmmmm.

I quoted a man up there...he literally said everything.

My brother choose wisely

Evolutionlove:


After sampling different kind of Dvcks.

After sampling different kind of Vagiinas.

But If it's the other way round for you. Take your L in peace.

Because i know Most Nigerian Vagiina People always eat their Cake and have it.

Na Most Nigerian men be LOSERs.

were Do folks like you get this assertion that sampling a lot of dicks has anything to do with a woman age?
you never see a 22yrs old girl with more body count than a woman in her 40s?
your type would have marry the chrisland school girl at 22 and think you hit a jackpot.

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victooman:
were Do folks like you get this assertion that sampling a lot of dicks has anything to do with a woman age?
you never see a 22yrs old girl with more body count than a woman in her 40s?
your type would have marry the chrisland school girl at 22 and think you hit a jackpot.

Oga go siddon one Side.

You think say i be mumu abi.

It's very easy for a Camel to pass through the eye of a Needle than see an Unmarried, Humble, Well-Todo, Good Character, Chaste, Nigerian Ladies Over 30Years Of Age.

If you are reasoning like a Kid, I'm not okay. I have seen more than enough in life. What do you want to tell me about me about a Gender who literally hardly PAY for anything in their Whole Lives. People who get almost everything for FREE.

FYI, I'm surrounded by a lot of Women, Ladies, Gurls In my Family. There Is nothing you want to Tell me about the Vaginarians that i don't know already.

MadeMan01:
Money can be lost and made
A womb once lost cannot be regrown.

Reason with your brain not your anus

And who told you women cannot born without her own womb tru surrogate? , ur brain refuse to reason rationally,

if u re a father and ur daughter bring totally jobless guy for marriage, will you support such union? Selfishness will surely destroy you guys.

maddman:
Very bad analogy. Losing one's job and losing one's womb are not the same thing

Analogy of marry with pure heart, if u love woman you will marry her unconditionally.

You want woman to marry you unconditionally (jobless) but u dnt want to marry her unconditionally (womb)abi?

Ur own analogy is one sided, reek of selfishness

Fiscus105:
Analogy of marry with pure heart, if u love woman you will marry her unconditionally.

You want woman to marry you unconditionally (jobless) but u dnt want to marry her unconditionally (womb)abi?

Ur own analogy is one sided, reek of selfishness

MuuMuu

MadeMan01:
Money can be lost and made
A womb once lost cannot be regrown.

Reason with your brain not your anus

Don't mind the FOOOOL😂

If not for Nigeria Useless Greedy Men at the Corridors of Power who have subjected their Fellow men to series of Hardship in Life. There is no any reason for men to wait into their thirties before getting married except for few exceptions and personal choice.

But i'm boldly saying it that the reason why so many men have refused to get married and while some are marrying very late is due to the Comatose situation of Nigeria.

The best Age to get Married for Men is before 30Years of Age.

The best Age to get Married for Ladies is before 25years.

Gurls/Ladies aren't meant to be left alone roaming around free most especially in their youthful days when they are still Naive.

For Gurls/Ladies, 18Years to 22Years is the best time to mould them into your Taste. Instill good Morals and Discipline into them and they won't depart from it. Same thing applies to Boys/Men too.

But the POVERTY Nigerian men at the helms of power created have destroyed the System.

Evolutionlove:
MuuMuu

Idiot, selfishness will destroy you,.

skywalker240:
In this modern generation, an 18 to 24 or even 25 and 26 years old girls are still in their hoe phases, only an idiot would venture into such investment

I married my longtime girlfriend of almost 13 year's when she is already in her 30s

so you married her after 13 years of her fucking around. Werey

IamPlato:
so you married her after 13 years of her fucking around. Werey

Azin Nigerian men dey Suffer Aje. Most especially the Poor/Average ones.

Ladies/Women irrespective of their Societal Status get Sex and Almost everything for FREE.

So it's such people i will say i want to go and marry at Old Age after having the best times of their Lives.

Believe me, The kind Life many Nigerian Girls/Ladies don Chop for this Life ehn most especially those ones for UNIVERSITY, A lot of Nigeria Average men no fit see half of It Chop in their Lifetime.

I usually Pity Poor/Average men a lot.

spyroet:
As a 35 years old man is it advisable to settle down with a much younger women maybe between 18 to 22 years old what are the advantage and disadvantages.
pls advice needed.

please marry that age, girls that age have not been destroyed, they are easily mouldable into what you want, they would respect you and love you as long as you are not a simp but a real man.


Women who are 30 above the retired bitches.

Go for the young blood, they are most fertile and will not give you challenges as much as 30 year old who has experienced different men

The younger ones will bind with you emotionally because they are free from dicks

ednut1:
Can you keep up with the sexual needs of that young woman At 35 most Nigerian men already have high blood pressure, weak erection, diabetes, pot belle etc . If she cheats inside the marriage you will still complain. Marriage is not sustained by youth too. So i can never understand men’s obsession with younger women

because you have weak erection that 35 doesn't mean all men are like you nigga. Shut up and move

DWJOBScom:
Please do not try it
go for someone within the age of 26 - 30

Communication and relationship is key

wrong advice