Procashtips:


Paul was never an authority on the issue of marriage.

Check his epistles.

spencekat:
Check his epistles.

Quote them.

Fountainofyouth:



You should know when to shut the fvck up

Your misconstrued knowledge of the bible is not to be relied on or the gospel truth, in other words, you type nonsense all the time, keep your nonsense to yourself.

As in eh
And he's very loud especially when you mention the scriptures

Trust me, you don't want to waste your time on him..he has no iota of understanding.
his ideologies are all messed up

The only advice a single person should give u is to go and meet with your individual parents, or a marriage psychotherapist. Every other advice is useless.

You that is going to a single person for marital advice is a big immature idiot

TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married people fit give advice to those who don marry...

when you watch football you easily blame and see mistakes, but if you are in that field same or even worse will be done by you.


you can give your quota no doubt but truly experience is a school of its own.

marriage or marital issues requires serious wisdom. many perspectives to this thing I tell you.


lastly Goan marry oga

Experience isn't always the best teacher

spencekat:
Bros, I don't know the angle you are twisting it to, but I won't join you o.

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Avoid and Ignore Kobojunkie if you love your Precious time. Are you new on this Platform ?

TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...

I'm single, and I gave a friend of mine andvise who is been married for 7 years without any child he was planning on leaving his wife
And today his got two lovely boys with the same wife..

TimT:

But to me I feel marital problems are actually psychological and behavioural problems that can be given pointers by someone who understands human behaviour...

Well captured.

No.

Rather, you can seek their opinion. Which is quite different from advice.

Persephone1:
Yes nah

Coaches don't play in matches .

But many are former players na.
Maybe all sef. Men would know better.

LordBillionz:
Experience isn't always the best teacher

Indeed, It isn't. It is more efficient for one to learn from by observing the experience of others.

Yes, because most of them have had the experience in their past lives. Some of them vowed never to marry in their next life. And now they have come back to this present world and be single. It's not bad if you take advice from those who are single. If you believe in reincarnation you will understand me.

Can someone who has never left Nigeria advise a resident of Canada how to live & survive abroad?
Well, maybe he will borrow from the experience of someone who had lived or is living there.

A SINGLE (NEVER MARRIED) PERSON CANNOT ADVICE A MARRIED PERSON

I offer no advice on religion, relationship and matrimony matters again. Let be responsible for our woes and joy by ourselves and not blame someone else..

Why not?
All advice na advice.....

pocohantas:


But many are former players na.
Maybe all sef. Men would know better.

Lol I was joking.

Well thing it depends on situation and who the single person is. For example, on conflict resolution in marriage, I won't advice anyone to ask a single person for directions Most single persons are generally stubborn and may not understand compromise. But when it's about how to spice up marriages or other aspects then single people are good to go.

It's a YES and NO situation.

On who the single person is, if the person has that ability to understand other people's perspective irrespective of prior interactions or not then that single person is a good person to go for advice.

TimT:

But to me I feel marital problems are actually psychological and behavioural problems that can be given pointers by someone who understands human behaviour...

Valid!

Single person gives the best advice.

rightopdeep:
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Avoid and Ignore Kobojunkie if you love your Precious time. Are you new on this Platform ?

Being here since 2015,March!.I don't really have time to notice some of them. Kobo junkie, you have to change for good.

A good advice is always a good advice in respective of the status/qualification of the adviser.

Best people to take advice from as a man are successful single men and divorced men followed by happily married women.

Worst people to take marital advice from:single ladies, unmarried,/single ladies and divorced and sometimes married men

Procashtips:


Paul was never an authority on the issue of marriage.

who was then? Obviously you're not a bible student

Phantom233:
who was then? Obviously you're not a bible student

By bible student, do you mean a follower of your pastors and mogs, and their many narratives which run counter to that in fact written in scripture?

Kobojunkie:
By bible student, do you mean a follower of your pastors and mogs, and their many narratives which run counter to that in fact written in scripture?

I don't have time for your psychosis

TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...

Capital no! Marriage is an illusion to me; the more you see the less you know. It's only when you get there that you can understand the emotional prison called marriage.

Persephone1:


Lol I was joking.

Well thing it depends on situation and who the single person is. For example, on conflict resolution in marriage, I won't advice anyone to ask a single person for directions Most single persons are generally stubborn and may not understand compromise. But when it's about how to spice up marriages or other aspects then single people are good to go.

It's a YES and NO situation.

On who the single person is, if the person has that ability to understand other people's perspective irrespective of prior interactions or not then that single person is a good person to go for advice.

One would think the married people are not the same singles that were mostly fornicating and "spicing" up their relationships.

Or we can also argue that if the singles had to do school run, pack lunch boxes and help with home work everyday, they wouldn't have those plenty ideas in their heads.

Phantom233:
I don't have time for your psychosis

You mean your psychosis, right? I get it. Your particular kind keeps you from seeing what is stated right in that book for all to see and know.

abidem4real:
■ Capital no! Marriage is an illusion to me; the more you see the less you know. It's only when you get there that you can understand the emotional prison called marriage.

EMotional prison people voluntarily sign up for each day?