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Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Ge0grapher(m): 6:33pm On Sep 05, 2023
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool undecided ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 6:38pm On Sep 05, 2023
Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool undecided ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!


Ur time go come, na so I been dey feel before too, naija really make me hopeless but now I dey Sweden legally

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Lucasinho(m): 6:48pm On Sep 05, 2023
Astar007:



Ur time go come, na so I been dey feel before too, naija really make me hopeless but now I dey Sweden legally

Congratulations....

Are you there for study?

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 6:53pm On Sep 05, 2023
Lucasinho:


Congratulations....

Are you there for study?

No, came through my white wife

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Iconme(m): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023
Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool undecided ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!
we’re on d same shoes bro 😎

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by JohnQueen(m): 7:54pm On Sep 05, 2023
Hang in there. Keep striving

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Viccur(m): 8:00pm On Sep 05, 2023
I share the same feelings with you bro. Japa threads is on the low lately. Na only Ednut1 dey try few times. Oh Lord of Canadian visa locate me today.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Mummyimbecile(m): 8:09pm On Sep 05, 2023
Bro, the fact that you're happy for others, yours will come.

9ja no be am at all.

I will be traveling from Connecticut to Florida sometime next week, I'll do well to put pictures here.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Minsk24: 9:14pm On Sep 05, 2023
I know how u feel bro, i used to feel that way mehn, omo dy depression is real as it makes u cut off from Nigeria...

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by CLASSMAN: 10:00pm On Sep 05, 2023
Since u need pix to Jinger u

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by CLASSMAN: 10:01pm On Sep 05, 2023
Never have time to create a thread on my visit to British museum and London bridge, once I am less busy will do that

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 10:15pm On Sep 05, 2023
cool

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by shopwiser: 7:50am On Sep 06, 2023
Ge0grapher:
Mehnn guys, I know it's probably only me that feels this way.. I don't consider myself a happy person, I wan commot this country like mad!!
Do you know in the mid night I go on TikTok scrolling through of videos of Nigerians way dey japa (TikTokers in the house would know what I am talking about, when they hear that sound SIKEEE!! Japa japa)

I used to love reading through nairaland Japa threads also but nowadays una way dey commot no dey post am for here again (not cool undecided ).. e get one kan joy way e dey give seeing those pictures of y'all in the plane with your food and sweaters, airports, plane wings, air hostesses, the landing view.. the background.. I don't know if it's weird but I totally love it.

But unfortunately I am coming to terms with reality that I might be stuck in this hell for a long time, cos I no get the facilities to commot at all. In the mean time, Abeg una way dey ball out, try to dey create threads with pictures, make we dey here dey do vivid imagination..
The God way help una go help me too 🙌😀
Japa!!
e go be. No worry

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by DyingFetus: 5:07pm On Sep 06, 2023
Just kys mek you stop to day waste

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by D1eumasav3: 12:36am On Sep 07, 2023
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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by D1eumasav3: 12:37am On Sep 07, 2023
Same here
Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nbv1: 2:10am On Sep 07, 2023
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:13am On Sep 07, 2023
Astar007:



Ur time go come, na so I been dey feel before too, naija really make me hopeless but now I dey Sweden legally

Which city you dey for Sweden? Hope no be Kiruna sha grin

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:17am On Sep 07, 2023
Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

I get you. Canada is one hell of a depressive place. Something is just not right with that country.

I actually planned to migrate there before. I come visit am make I get a feel of the place before deciding, but just a week for Toronto, I changed my flight ticket and left earlier.

I see why they need people there, to come share with the depression. SO expensive, isolated, and so boring. Mehn me I cant to. But the nature is beautiful sha. Canada can easily pass as the most beautiful nature on earth. Too fine.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nbv1: 2:38am On Sep 07, 2023
pansophist:


I get you. Canada is one hell of a depressive place. Something is just not right with that country.

I actually planned to migrate there before. I come visit am make I get a feel of the place before deciding, but just a week for Toronto, I changed my flight ticket and left earlier.

I see why they need people there, to come share with the depression. SO expensive, isolated, and so boring. Mehn me I cant to. But the nature is beautiful sha. Canada can easily pass as the most beautiful nature on earth. Too fine.

Thank God you came visiting and experienced it, if We advice some people they will ask why we haven’t come home yet. They won’t listen. This is why those who truly live here don’t advice people anymore . Only liars who haven’t step their foot abroad will go on saying they have several people doing well so well

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:40am On Sep 07, 2023
pansophist:
If you be fine boy, start a social media career about maybe fitness, and also focus on women's fitness .

Package well o, don't use techno shoot your videos, but clean camera and edit.

No joke, many of your followers go be foreigners. And you go get lots of DM. Survey one wey make sense, if you like am, japa go meet her.

Make I tell you one secret. Many girls abroad, especially black women need good African men wey clean, and na for social media these girls de find them.

If you position yourself as someone wey make sense, many go come your side. Sha try max your appearance make you handsome, because e go make romance easy for you.

Don't break her heart o, choose the one wey you like.

I know a tailor for Accra, him dey sew clothes from expatriates. Na so one of her client marry am, and he dey France right now since last year.

It can be anything, not just fitness. Pick something you fit do, that you command authority in, then put yourself out there. If millions view your video, one suppose to like you. Its just the rule of probability.

It's funny how all the time I was in Naija I no send how I look but as I Japa I don become very conscious. Men for Chile dey rub makeup. Imagine carrying burnt offering face and trying to compete with that grin grin grin

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:42am On Sep 07, 2023
Nbv1:


Thank God you came visiting and experienced it, if We advice some people they will ask why we haven’t come home yet. They won’t listen. This is why those who truly live here don’t advice people anymore . Only liars who haven’t step their foot abroad will go on saying they have several people doing well so well

Na singles i pity for there.

I was watching a video on youtube about African ladies in Canada, A lot of them that came in as singles are still single. Infact if you enter Canada as a single lady, chances are, you wont get married there.

Even a Edo lawyer I know have to come to marry her uni boyfriend for Benin, shoot am enter Canada. I come dey ask myself, the price worth am?

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by pansophist(m): 2:43am On Sep 07, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


It's funny how all the time I was in Naija I no send how I look but as I Japa I don become very conscious. Men for Chile dey rub makeup. Imagine carrying burnt offering face and trying to compete with that grin grin grin

Yes o.

I dont know about Chile, but men for west need to look fine. Not like naija wey a ugly mofo go use money dey catch woman.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:45am On Sep 07, 2023
pansophist:


Yes o.

I dont know about Chile, but men for west need to look fine. Not like naija wey a ugly mofo go use money dey catch woman.

Its same thing here. Women dont date out of money. Theres a very huge fitness culture and their men are handsome and dress very well.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Nbv1: 2:48am On Sep 07, 2023
pansophist:


Na singles i pity for there.

I was watching a video on youtube about African ladies in Canada, A lot of them that came in as singles are still single. Infact if you enter Canada as a single lady, chances are, you wont get married there.

Even a Edo lawyer I know have to come to marry her uni boyfriend for Benin, and bring him to Canada. I come dey ask myself, the price am worth am?

That’s the truth. They are single and miserable and filled with ego even with their 18 cad per hour job they are financing cars worth 30,000 cad just to live fake life thinking that a mugu will sight them one day. This is a capitalist country and men are wise here . If a regular nigeria guy ask them out, they will embarrass him. They are only looking for already established men. You will see them on social media complaining bitterly that their is no husband in canada . They are praying unto God for problems they created. They are over 40years of age still hopeful and stay hopeful.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Pansophism: 2:58am On Sep 07, 2023
Nbv1:


That’s the truth. They are single and miserable and filled with ego even with their 18 cad per hour job they are financing cars worth 30,000 cad just to live fake life thinking that a mugu will sight them one day. This is a capitalist country and men are wise here . If a regular nigeria guy ask them out, they will embarrass him. They are only looking for already established men. You will see them on social media complaining bitterly that their is no husband in canada . They are praying unto God for problems they created. They are over 40years of age still hopeful and stay hopeful.

Just move back home if you have PR. Its the best,

Maybe not home, but find one sweet African country settle down.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Gerrard59(m): 5:06am On Sep 07, 2023
pansophist:


I get you. Canada is one hell of a depressive place. Something is just not right with that country.

I actually planned to migrate there before. I come visit am make I get a feel of the place before deciding, but just a week for Toronto, I changed my flight ticket and left earlier.

I see why they need people there, to come share with the depression. SO expensive, isolated, and so boring. Mehn me I cant to. But the nature is beautiful sha. Canada can easily pass as the most beautiful nature on earth. Too fine.

In my opinion, for a black person with a superior passport, I see Canada as a downgrade to migrate to. If it is not the United States, I remain wey I dey. Well, I am a capitalist. Anything for capitalism. grin

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Gerrard59(m): 5:11am On Sep 07, 2023
Nbv1:


That’s the truth. They are single and miserable and filled with ego even with their 18 cad per hour job they are financing cars worth 30,000 cad just to live fake life thinking that a mugu will sight them one day. This is a capitalist country and men are wise here . If a regular nigeria guy ask them out, they will embarrass him. They are only looking for already established men. You will see them on social media complaining bitterly that their is no husband in canada . They are praying unto God for problems they created. They are over 40years of age still hopeful and stay hopeful.

This man! E be like say Canadian women don show you pepper grin grin

Well, that is female hypergamy for you sha. One of the reasons I don't lampoon men who decide to engage in extramarital affairs. When they had nothing, women no show dem face. When they do, why restrict their right to choose? But let's gist small, are there truly black African women aged 35+ looking for established men in Canada? shocked To be fair though, abroad does not pity people who don't plan their lives financially and it is best suited for both couples to work except the man is very rich. One of the reasons marriage rates have fallen since salaries aren't keeping with inflation. This is a phenomenon across all developed countries. So for black African women in Canada to be careful about who they want to marry, I can understand their decision.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Astar007: 7:04am On Sep 07, 2023
pansophist:


Which city you dey for Sweden? Hope no be Kiruna sha grin


Lol, I'm in Stockholm

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Lungdick: 8:09am On Sep 07, 2023
I'm loving this thread. Thumbs us to Ge0grapher for opening this thread.

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Re: Only JAPA Can Cure My Depression by Sweetvie: 11:53am On Sep 07, 2023
Nbv1:
And who told you people are not depressed abroad. Lots of people here in canada are battling depression. A lot can happen where you are, either their is no much commitment from your end or your time hasn’t just come yet.

I wish I was happier than I thought here in canada , you won’t understand until you come in here.

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