thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

. This should've been a diary cos it'll get better.

Olajide200:
Guy. Just cool it off and go home. That is what women do. Just get used to it. These are things men just have to live with. I am telling you this from years of experience. Marriage isnt worth the stress. But you are in already. I actually laugh (sometimes aloud) when I hear people getting excited about getting married.

To make marriage work is a lot of stress.
The excitement dies down as the marriage progresses... Enjoy single life before marrying e get why

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Ever heard of post traumatic stress disorder? 1 in 3 women experience this after childbirth. This might just be the case!

thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

Inukwa sacrifice
For the pikin wey Dey her belle, you for no do the sacrifice na make her blood and pikin blood Dey for your hand

You made sacrifice for her by paying for CS
Mtcheeew… see talk

Someone should tell OP that irritability, mood swings, mild depression, crying for no apparent reason are so normal for a woman pre and post natal. You revelled in the fact that you parted with 300K for unplanned CS like you did her a huge favour or some money you gave to olosho. I almost presumed that you parted with 300k for unplanned CS for somebody else's wife giving birth to somebody else's child. Your plight also reeks of arrogance, giving the impression that your WIFE is less than you by claiming that you tamed her.

Treat that woman with utmost care and respect or continue drinking your "sorry" ass away. Ode

Lol. Taming a wife? Is she a beast or dragon that you're taming to prepare for a circus show?

Ndi redpiller.😂😂

pocohantas:


Most men and women do not plan for CS. It is a last and emergency resort for many. Doesn't change the fact that the OP is a brown 🐐🐐.

Brown kini?

thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

Go take a chill pill and realize you filled your head with so much garbage in the past. It is time to come real and be true to yourself, your wife, and your family.

Do not allow the letters you read on the internet destroy your home ooo.

My brother the moment a wife dares her husband and says do your worst.. 2 things are involved
She's tired of the marriage and wants out. She's also set for divorce
Or
She's earning good pay to take care of her needs.

Try and solve this problem. Satisfy her needs and don't always throw it to her face

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

She is experiencing the Postpartum depression. It happens after childbirth. You are a very insensitive and uncaring husband. Just imagine, considering divorce after she just went through a life threatening situation(childbirth).
So because you spent 300k on the birth of your own child, heaven should fall and worship you?

See someone using the word “Tamed” on a human being.
Your wife don marry nonsense. I just pity that woman for what she has gone through in your hands since she married you.

God who raised these men 😓😓

[quote author=thesilentman post=125599029]My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

Please read about post partum depression

cindicandy:


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Keep wasting your time, if you like post biilions of pictures. I told you jt doesn't matter

I have already defeated you

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Your woman didn't change, people hardly change.... If she was a good woman before you married her then there's high chance she's still a good woman. If she was a hoe bro i bet you she's a fucking hoe but i think that's not the case here with your story.


Having established the nature of your problem here, i think your woman is just having post maternal symptoms. Child birth tends to take a toll on some women.


Just play cool with her for now and ignore her most times, it just a phase and it will surely pass⚠️

thesilentman:

You no read wetin i write ni,abi you dey wain me ni?

Oga shut up!
Your write-up did make any sense to provide for a suitable response to your marital challenge. Some of u seem to be clever by half

folake4u:
Lol. Taming a wife? Is she a beast or dragon that you're taming to prepare for a circus show?

Ndi redpiller.😂😂

Nl redpillers won't kill person 😃

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

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thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Baba calm down. Someone's daughter just gave birth to your Son and you're bickering over 300k. Cut her some slack

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

bar man add two more bottles.

Bro that's normal for women who just gave birth

thesilentman:

I hope so.It was a rude shock to me.I had been pondering on the loan i took on her behalf and the least i expected was the attitude she's giving me recently.It's just maddening.Thanks for your suggekstion.

Point of order 'The loan you took was not on her behalf'... Your sounding like you are not schooled on the concept of marriage.
Take responsibility young man, I guess you married your woman not the other way round.
You got your wife pregnant not anyone else.

BlissGod:


You’re just a stupid man, I don’t know you but you Sound like one cocky piece of crap. Your stupid ego will soon scatter your marriage, just 300k that you’re here looking for gratitude a woman that could have lost her life in childbirth or worse.

A woman who has sacrificed her body to give you two kids. You are the problem of your marriage. Imagine using the word taming your wife as if she’s a dog you dey tame. Your wife might be going thru post depression of childbirth. Instead of sorting things out you’re here typing rubbish to talk nonsense about her. So let’s hate her now.

It is their child.

Yes, for the husband to have "tamed" her until this point, I think she must have been a good wife (presumably). . Most likely she could not cope with his controlling and non-appreciative ways any longer.

Also, pls note that she was not forced into marriage and the pregnancy conception, I believe.

Yes, she has gone through a lot for about 9 months, and as you mentioned risking her life in process . . But, it is to give birth to her child and his.

Marriage is for the matured really, for it to properly work out. Our mothers didn't disrespect their husbands after giving birth to several children. .

The man sounds quite immature too. . But he made financial sacrifices, while the lady also made bodily sacrifices too. .

She is supposed to behave properly to her husband irregardless of this situation. . Except she does not love him or has been deeply hurt somewhere or someway.

300k indexed to the mans' current financial situation might be a lot of money. . He is concerned about his marriage and trying to find a solution. . That shows commitment. . Is the woman in same shoes?

Where is all these extreme thoughts coming from nowadays from our ladies & men. . It is very sad.

Paul ogenyi nwa nsukka i dealt with you that’s why you are now running, and I am still dealing with you. You are now down but I will keep beating you like a rat. All your family are now on the cyberspace. Amuche will get the link . You are in trouble

Hahahaha

Enugupikin:

Keep wasting your time, if you like post biilions of pictures. I told you jt doesn't matter mD

I have already defeated you D

There are all manner of crazy folks on NL. So paying for your wife's CS is doing her a favour? You should have let her and your unborn son die nah..werey. You're even talking about it as if you paid for a vacation for her. No be small small yahoo bois they buy iPhone for their gfs.
Tame her? Are you married to a wild gorilla!
Go and sit down joor! Red pill ni, Agbado pill ko..

I paid 1.5m for normal delivery not CS. What exactly is your point

Postpartum period.
It may last a period of weeks to six months.
Depression and hating everything surrounding her.
She may feel like the whole world is against her.
She needs you and you must be patient at this period.
God bless you

She may be going tru postpartum.
Drop the Redpill OT man, be more humane & incline to her feminine emotions.
It may not be the “I-have-arrived” kinda expression most African women have after birthing boy child. Maybe emotional/physiological truma whc she is afraid of internally & can’t express.

Pamper her more
Run errands for her more
Be more inclusive in the family
Sensitive to her emotions

She will voice out wit apology sooner or later

Persephone1:


Nl redpillers won't kill person 😃

Honestly I'm amused oh.

This isn't even the time to be shouting at his beloved wife. She just had his child for goodness sake! And then she might be having post partum depression.

But all he cares about is "taming" her. Eishhhh!

My brother no be only you d tin happen for…I know say it’s a lot for a young guy wey Dey do him best to provide for his young family in Nigeria…just try and be calm my G. My own case was very similar…my wife drop 2 boys (twins) na still d same CS but they were premature I parted with 1.5M unplanned for the delivery, tests, incubator, personal nurse care, I Dey even buy diesel for the hospital as per se na my first fruits and na 2 rugged soldiers wey she give me….not to talk of the expenses from omugwo for the 3 months mother’s from both sides Dey around…No insult or shege wey I no chop in that period, and nothing man pikin go do wey go Dey enough….na to just persevere so what you have to do as a man and if the insult and stress Dey too much during the period just take your time out in the evening and go and take some drinks with pals…eventually tinz go normalize

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Dont you know that she is going through the emotional turmoil that comes with child birth. Do you know she might be depressed? Be there for her jare.
This too shall pass.

Women will always be women.

As far as she is not abusive and aggressive.
Bobo take am like dat wit a pinch of salt.
No let woman matter especially wife matter drive u nut.
Beside she just drop pikin for u recently, it might be stress and stuff she face during those labour time.
And always remember the love and affection a woman get for her husband usually reduce the moment they gave birth.
They usually divert the whole tender care and fun and those goody goody stuff they show to you to the kids.
It only respect and communication they will retain for you.

Sit her down and tell her how u are feeling.
Let her no say she don dey make u feel like quiting.
May be she will adjust.

Remember women will always love to push their men to a certain limit to know how far he can be push.

All the advise are hear just select one or more..

cutecommend:
(1) This is the right time to show her more love.
(2) Hope what you want as submission is not that of a house help.
(3) She may be stressed, emotionally and psychologically drained.
(4) Redpill is not good all the time. If your redpill is toxic, then it is bad, but if your redpill is that of a romantic, mature, available, lively and in charge guy, then it is fine.
(5) Hope you have not been treating her badly, while providing all her needs. Money is not everything!!
(6) Calm her down and thrash things out. Ask her where you failed and why she is acting that way.
(7) Please try not to be selfish. Do nice things that will make her willing to submit, don't force submission.

GO AND GET YOUR MARRIAGE BACK. YOUR MARRIAGE IS THE BEST. MAKE IT WORK!

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Wow! this one of a kind man parted with over 300K unplanned C.S fee for his tamed wife so that she can deliver his newborn safely. Someone please give this plonker a medal