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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Shelter100: 2:21pm On Sep 13, 2023

Love800:
How is ghana
I would love to ask u a question.
Concerning food biz

Ghana is good. Please do go ahead with the question

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:21pm On Sep 13, 2023

When I enter into a relationship with you and you tell me you are from one of my red flagged states, I flee. cool

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Wizuman: 2:22pm On Sep 13, 2023

Davinity:
This is actually small compared to what I got... I really don't know what to do with that list

Mind you... It's the same Akwa Ibom state

I wanted to marry their daughter from Ona, for the fact that we're both Christians from same church. They came up with the useless list. This is a school cert holder that I already registered for a ui/ux program in tech academy of my workplace. Let me just stop there.

The father was cooperative initially and very happy with all d plans and moves I was making for her daughter, but one week to d wedding, the family started arriving from village and started making outrageous demands,

Very anyhow people.

Six months later I moved on with my fellow Yoruba. I do see the girl on Facebook selling data and recharge cards. I got to know that she is now doing househelp in Lekki.

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Shelter100: 2:22pm On Sep 13, 2023

bonnyhope:
What's Ghanian doing on Nigerian forum

I apologise. Never knew it's only for Nigerians.

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Shelter100: 2:24pm On Sep 13, 2023

Olatundex22:
work there about 13 years ago, in Accra close to immigration office. In Nigeria embassy, just one year stay but never get time for woman then👍

That's a long time ago. You should visit again

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Nahunger(m): 2:24pm On Sep 13, 2023

WetSmoke:
Who overused it?

Ask Google

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Segzy19: 2:24pm On Sep 13, 2023

Just imagine the nonsense list.
Poverty-ridden people...

What a shame!

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Love800(m): 2:27pm On Sep 13, 2023

Will selling of cooked foods and roasting of meat(what will populary call suya in my hometown) be profitable in ghana?

Shelter100:
Ghana is good. Please do go ahead with the question

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Sniper101(m): 2:27pm On Sep 13, 2023

The Frst list on its own is not bad at all.
The second list? If na me sef I'll go & not return

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Neddstark: 2:27pm On Sep 13, 2023

Kimjongun:
The guy is not serious are we the one that help him to toast her. Meanwhile here is the list I was given. And I will gladly pay with joy, the day of being single is gone

This is Yoruba list. Way better.

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by MrBroke(m): 2:27pm On Sep 13, 2023

For on top sex way na 2 of ona go enjoy and children way go love mama pass you. Ona dey try

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Smartguyboy(m): 2:28pm On Sep 13, 2023

izuch:
Where?

Akwa Ibom

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by FireUpNow(m): 2:29pm On Sep 13, 2023

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by prophetfire: 2:29pm On Sep 13, 2023

BobbieZion:
The family na alcoholics?
Why beer,gin and wine full everywhere like that.....

It's Akwaibom people and their way.
Once I accompanied a friend to pick a wife there, it almost ended in a fight. They hated me because I tackled them ruthlessly on their idiotic and selfish list.
The girl wey no be virgin, wey broke well well, wey no get any better certificate, no better skill, very poor family but the list is as long as the OP's if not longer.

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Smartguyboy(m): 2:29pm On Sep 13, 2023

TemplarLandry:
I'm sure this happened in imbise.

You think mbiase is worse wait till you see Akwa Ibom list or Rivers state.

The list above is Akwa Ibom

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Nobody: 2:30pm On Sep 13, 2023

CJStarz:
They told you you're BLACK and you accepted? Na wa o

are you white?

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Mogajunior(m): 2:30pm On Sep 13, 2023

izonborn098:
For woman u are likely to raise another man's kid... Smh...

Hehe. Of all the things one can think of.

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Atarakpa: 2:31pm On Sep 13, 2023

izuch:
Wherein?

akwa ibom

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by dalass(f): 2:31pm On Sep 13, 2023

BobbieZion:
The family na alcoholics?
Why beer,gin and wine full everywhere like that.....

Ogogoro people grin

Na to write chewing stick, toothbrush and toothpaste remain for that list grin

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by WithFact: 2:32pm On Sep 13, 2023

Marry during Yaradua, u no gree
Marry during Jonathan u no gree
.....

Now wherebarebubrunning to? Every family prepared their list if I mo n

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by prophetfire: 2:32pm On Sep 13, 2023

TemplarLandry:
I'm sure this happened in imbise.

. For you to mention Mbaise here after reading what was written means that the money your father spent as your school fees should have been used to carry olosho.

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by descarado: 2:35pm On Sep 13, 2023

FireUpNow:
FIFA football ke? The father na refree or an old footballer?

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Kimjongun: 2:36pm On Sep 13, 2023

Neddstark:
This is Yoruba list. Way better.

Yes it's just for the tradition.

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Octopusssy(f): 2:36pm On Sep 13, 2023

Davinity:
This is actually small compared to what I got... I really don't know what to do with that list

Mind you... It's the same Akwa Ibom state

My colleague couldn't marry the love of his life from Akwa Ibom because of the very expensive list he was given.

What do they want with a football?? Greed

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by sonofsteven: 2:37pm On Sep 13, 2023

Yankee101:
The list is not too much

Just negotiate

Exactly

Just negotiate

Besides it's not a must to provide all at once

You can bring the ones you can afford, as time goes on, you go dey bring till you finish am

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Angeloihe: 2:38pm On Sep 13, 2023

You shouldn't expect a man to pay all these and want to take trash from her
After the marriage he will see her as his slave not wife. She should not complain that he has changed his character towards her.

Some women don't understanding that this is a tradition during slave trade.
The earlier women speak against bride price as a whole the better for them.
Or else more of the women will remain single

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Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by 43Ronin: 2:38pm On Sep 13, 2023

those list make sense if the woman is a virgin

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by cuffee: 2:38pm On Sep 13, 2023

Mummiesboy:
Oga go and renegotiate and buy the one you can afford
This method work for me. I also believed it will work for you, for your mind now you won use style run

was she a virgin? Don't lie to me. I'm a witchdoctor. I can swear for you and it will come to pass

Re: "I Did Not Come To Buy Human Being" - Groom Ran After Seeing Marriage List!! by Angeloihe: 2:39pm On Sep 13, 2023

That's a lie. When there are issues in the marriage they will say he didn't pay complete.

sonofsteven:
Exactly

Just negotiate

Besides it's not a must to provide all at once

You can bring the ones you can afford, as time goes on, you go dey bring till you finish am

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